I'm sure I'm just doubting myself due to my insecurities.

I hung out with this girl and ended up having sex with her about 2 and a half weeks ago. She is social circle, one of my friends friends. I last texted her a little over a week ago. I asked her out and she gave me an answer I felt was kind of wishy washy. Instead of trying to text game her I just didn't respond and neither of us has texted since.

I do plan on throwing a bit of text game her way in a day or two. I am worried I am being too much of a cold fish or being to indifferent. In the back of my mind I feel like she will "forget" About me. She is very attractive and is asked out all the time at work.

I'm trying to play things cool... I have texted too much and been clingy in the past with other women, but one of my buddies thinks I'm being too cold. I have trouble finding that sweet spot on contact. I do need to get better at text game instead of just ghosting, I'm worried I'd say something stupid