Cannot seem to shake my Physiological Anxeity Disorder(Shy Bladder), and I feel it's a natural Beta Trait I cannot fix.

dazed111 · 2014-03-26T11:02:39+00:00

so whats the big deal exactly? you cant pee in front of others, so what. I believe tyler durden in fight club had the same problem

mikelovesvegas · 2014-03-26T18:43:58+00:00

I don't see the problem as long as your fetish isn't giving golden showers.

[deleted] · 2014-03-26T10:34:25+00:00

I kinda have the same thing, but only in pissoirs. I don't see a real reason for it. My dick isn't tiny, and I'm not ashamed of pissing in front of others, yet I just can't fucking piss. No idea why.

While it's not awesome, it doesn't bother me that much. I don't really know why your problem seems to be way worse than mine.

drqxx · 2014-03-26T13:03:05+00:00

Pad is Nbd. I am 6'2" and athetic i fucking hate urinals. I use the stall. dont worry man.

aaron_the_just · 2014-03-26T13:46:44+00:00

If you really want to overcome this, find a therapist who is licenced like an LPCC or LISW, or a psychologist, and they can help you work on overcoming this.

This is a psychiatric disorder, not something where you just need to learn a new behaviour which is what TRP is mostly about.

nechoha · 2014-03-26T14:41:41+00:00

If this helps, when I have to use a urinal with other guys around I whisper to myself dramatically, "Kamehameha" to start pissing. It is the stupidest thing but it works.

heist_of_saint_graft · 2014-03-26T21:00:11+00:00

I used to have this when I was a teenager. Read a trick in a book once: if someone else is in the room, picture turning to them and pissing ON them. Can't explain to you why this works, but it dissolved any anxiety I used to have.

AfterC · 2014-03-27T02:17:31+00:00

Try this. Do multiplication in your head while standing at the urinal. It should trigger a pathway that makes you urinate.

RedPilkington · 2014-03-27T02:47:47+00:00

A lot of people are telling you to simply not worry about it, but I get why its an issue for you. Its both a quality of life and confidence thing, I know, I was in a similar spot. It is psychological which means you can over come it. What worked for me was being drunk.

Seriously. The issue is anxiety, and being drunk helps alleviate that and make you have to piss like no one's business. Drink beer. Drink lots of beer. There is just no way you can stand there at the stall and not piss at some point. Once you've gotten over that hump it get easier every time.

It feels good man. Having the confidence to whip it out and piss anywhere you like is actually pretty good to have. Road trips used to be hell for me too.

Title	Cannot seem to shake my Physiological Anxeity Disorder(Shy Bladder), and I feel it's a natural Beta Trait I cannot fix.
Author	KingTesla
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	March 26, 2014 5:47 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/21e6h6/cannot_seem_to_shake_my_physiological_anxeity/
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