chad got chadded?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-07-30T06:36:35+00:00

Pretty People Problems.

Look, girls will sometimes peremptorily reject guys who are higher SMV relative to them, because they don’t want to be just a pump and dump, and that’s what they realize they be.

So yeah, if this is your biggest problem in life, you don’t really have very many problems.

PB0034 · 2018-07-30T06:37:49+00:00

"So I'm a bit high/drunk"

just look back at this shit tomorrow dude

FeralRed · 2018-07-30T13:15:08+00:00

You're not Chad.

You have zero frame, zero game, you didn't entertain.

Sure, maybe you're pretty... that's what got your foot in the door.

1-Sliding into DM's is not alpha behavior...it just shows you are caught up in the feminine validation seeking virtual reality shitshow that is social media. I bet you are very proud of how many followers you have. What exactly is the benefit of having many followers again?

2- Waited a week after getting her number. Why? Too long, how many guys do you think slid into her DM's in that week?

3- Asked her to get drinks... You tell her when you're free and tell her she's coming to see you.

4- Actually accepted her offer of coming out with her friends... automatically a "put me in the friendzone" move. How did you expect to get her away from the group to build some one on one attraction? Like you said, third wheel. It also shows you don't value your own time (so why should she?) and shows a touch of needy/scarcity.

5- The "you're out of my league" thing was a try to get you talking, see if you're a dick or actually have a personality. Did you A+A? Do you even know what that means? It was a simple shit test. You failed.

6- You intruded on a double date. You had no chance from the start. She set you up for a safe platonic meet and greet to see if you had any substance. You didn't.

7- "I have high SMV on Instagram". WTF? OK, I'm a rock star in Japan. Aside from being an oxymoron and impossible, it's completely irrelevant.

8- You broke frame even more when you confronted her at the bar with your little temper tantrum. "I'm bored as fuck"? Why is that her fault? Why didn't you just take control over your own actions and leave then? Shows lack of conviction and reliance on others. Not pretty.

9- Did you try befriend/AMOG the guys? Chubby guy seems like easy prey for a guy like you. Did you demonstrate higher value (DHV) in any way?

10- Think of it like this, flip the script. You're out with your friends and a couple of girls you know who you may or may not be fucking. You're out with them because you are entertained when with them. A hot chick texts you, so, fuck it maybe you aren't fucking either girl and want to take a look to see if hot chick might be fun. She arrives, mopes in the corner, adds no value to the event, and ends the night with "I'm so bored". What a fucking little bitch, right?

Good thing you're pretty, because you're fucking up all the other aspects of SMV. You need to do some reading here, get the fuck off social media and get some experience in the real world.

Bruchibre · 2018-07-30T07:05:49+00:00

I've read somewhere "No guy ever trains for a six-pack for only one girl" so maybe she chose the provider instead :)

Kabuki431 · 2018-07-30T07:34:44+00:00

Dafuq is an instragram model ?

CocaineOnYourClit · 2018-07-30T06:40:57+00:00

Are you sure the manlet chubby dude was beta? Did you observe his interactions with her and other guys? Looks are decieving

sanicthehedgefund · 2018-07-30T09:23:29+00:00

This is to be expected when arranging meetings via instagram.

You are an uncanny Chad. Many roasties would find it unrealistic to be with you but you are still 100 times better off than the average guy.

thearmchairwarrior · 2018-07-30T06:56:11+00:00

You might look good in Instagram, but you sure the other guy wasn't a millionaire = 6" taller, a 6+ to his looks. Everything looks better on a rich guy!!

Everyone becomes a dud next to a rich guy. Girls want rich chad more than anything.

You ever notice ugly guys with great looking girls. Most of the time its the rich guys.

Money > everything else.

COORDOORS · 2018-07-30T07:48:25+00:00

don’t drink and drive

lampshade2818 · 2018-07-30T10:38:08+00:00

They just weren't into you. People sometimes like other people for reasons beyond looks. Looks are a great place to start, but there is more to bring to the table. Also- no man over the age of 16 should be using the phase, "Instagram model."

[deleted] · 2018-07-30T18:08:09+00:00

Sometimes some people are flat out crazy. Don't blame yourself. She just seems stupid to be honest.

Palikan27 · 2018-07-30T08:53:56+00:00

I don’t know where you live but I experienced same thing many times so here me out. Women have inferior complex, when flirting and Ltr is on the table, very high SMV scare them af. I know it feels bad but there are women that I know, as my sis friends as we talk about it, beautiful woman looking for comfort with imperfect psychology innitially choose man that have deficiency in a some manner. So next time consider this, give impression accordingly and don’t be upset.

abudun79 · 2018-07-30T12:02:39+00:00

Never listen to what they say, watch what they do. But I think I expect too much from someone using Instragram and doing drugs.

she was kinda all over this little 5'8 chubby dude

tells me I'm out her league

tells me [...] I'm like an instagram model that has girls all over me

she and her friend get into the car with the 2 dudes and leave.

She pretty much admitted to me I'm a chad

I'm better than her

yet left me for a dude

What did she say, what did she do? Any more explanation necessary, Chad McChump?

Morphs_ · 2018-07-30T12:33:31+00:00

Despite the entirely unfavourable situation with other people present, you could have tried DLVing yourself. By displaying lower value, you take yourself off the pedestal she put you on. Be a bit clumsy, talk about your emotions, compliment her madly, etc

Yoshiiiiiiiiii10 · 2018-07-30T13:33:35+00:00

The same person who used steroids according to previous post history now complains about being chad.... It was probably your face bro. Based on your brogress pictures.

nietzschethegreat · 2018-07-30T06:34:59+00:00

> looks like he eats doughnuts for a living

Should've said that to his face.

harland45 · 2018-07-30T20:19:35+00:00

her and her friend are playing pool with 2 beta ass dudes and I'm pretty much just a third wheel.

If you're a third wheel then you're the beta.

Title	chad got chadded?
Author	Temptationn
Upvotes	11
Comments	38
Date	July 30, 2018 6:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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