hey guys,i'm a newbie and i have just taken the redpill, the problem i'm facing is when i talk with women or people in general,my bluepill self is coming out,how do i change my mindset and mannerism on a really deep level where my redpill self comes out naturally,like being redpill on autopilot?

it would be awesome if you guys can share your experience on how you changed your mindset permanently.thanks.