So Redpill peeps, I finally found a girl who I want to be with. The catch: she is in Europe over the summer, and then is moving to the States in September (we're Canadian). She will be here for only two weeks in August, and I'm planning on joining her down there in January.

Don't tell me she's going to fuck other guys. Whether or not that's true, it's irrelevant to my issue. I don't think she will. I could go into why she fits into a Red Pill worldview, but all I really need to say is she's very traditional and loyal. I told her she could sleep with other people if she wants to. Yes, that's right, I offered her an open relationship and she shot it down so hard. The truth of it is, I couldn't imagine not having sex for the 4+ months we're apart. Our relationship is otherwise stable and supportive and pretty much all I want out of a girlfriend. So I don't want to let it go. What do you think is the right thing to do? Should I just have sex when it comes my way and not tell her? Should I break up with her? Should I keep pushing for an open relationship? I like being an honest and ethical person but I have to live my life my way. What would you Redpillers do? Thanks!