Cheating on my gf - reasonable?

TRPanon1389 · 2020-01-17T00:25:36+00:00

Let this instance be a lesson to you all with Oneitis (including me) - no matter how much you’re head over heels for a girl and you think she’s a 10/10 in your mind and can see yourself with her forever - sooner or later you’re gonna get bored of her and her pussy and look for any reason to find that feeling again elsewhere.

Anyway, good luck bro, I’ve been there before. Up to you.

PimPedOutGeese · 2020-01-17T01:26:35+00:00

Cheating on my gf - reasonable?

Only you can answer this. If you decide to know that you will not get any judgment from me nor should you from anyone on this sub.

In a 2yr LTR, this are mostly fine but she's not that good/kinky in bed.

Let’s look at the real issue here. It’s you sir. Getting another girl, or another LTR, isn’t going to change it.

What do you mean?

Glad you asked. You need to show her what you want and how to act when fucking. Stop being a fuckin pussy. Dominate her ass inside and outside the bedroom. You want her suckin your dick tell her to suck your dick. Slap her ass. Choke her. Bite her. Want her dressing up like a whore? Buy her the slut clothes she needs. Want her naked and waiting for you? Tell her. And show her.

And don’t just tell her. DEMAND IT!

The number of times I told bitches “I’ll be over as soon as I get out of work. When I walk through the door I want you naked on the bed with your legs open waiting for a cock. Your ass better be waiting for me.”

True shit.

This is why men should not just rush into relationships. That shit is just like concrete. When you pour the foundation it’s easy to mold it to your will. Once it sets it’s a straight pain in the dick to remove in order to fix your mistakes and lay down new shit.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-01-17T00:46:01+00:00

Straight up: Quit being a pussy.

Own your life and your choices. Guilt is a useless BP emotion. You know exactly what you want to do. So go fucking do it, one way or the other.

The flip side to that is you also have to own your actions when/if confronted about them. Do you have to tell her before hand? IDK that's up to you. But don't be a faggot and try to hide it if you do do it (or get caught).

mksu911 · 2020-01-17T03:37:57+00:00

A lot of people use Tinder, it's not too far fetched that someone she knows might use it. You also might be seen with these girls. If you live in a big city it's less risky, but still.

What you do is use Tinder web on PC and use Chrome settings so you can fix your location's coordinates to the ones of a nearby city.

The1ndex · 2020-01-17T04:34:06+00:00

If your girl isn’t kinky, it’s your fault, since you as the man need to dominate the sexuality.

Go out to dinner, and tell her to take off her panties and slide them to you under the table.

Go buy remote control vibrating balls, put them in her, and then take her to the mall. Go to Victoria Secret to look at underwear with her. Turn the vibrator on with the remote, and whisper dirty things to her. Lead her to the family bathroom and fuck her.

Tell her to be waiting wet and naked in bed when you arrive. Walk in wearing a mask, and ravage her.

The list goes on.

Perhaps you’re bored, because you’re boring.

Just offering a different perspective, friend.

bionix90 · 2020-01-17T01:24:46+00:00

Stop trying to justify bad behavior. TRP isn't a license to be a fuckboi. A real man owns his shit. If you want to be in a monogamous relationship like your LTR partner does, do it. If you want to sleep around, do that. Make a choice and be prepared for the consequences. Don't be dishonest, don't cheat, and certainly don't come here and try to get is to validate your choice to do so.

Massap24 · 2020-01-17T00:29:46+00:00

I don’t know is it? Only you can answer this question it really comes down to how much value your LTR/Morals.

Pelikahn · 2020-01-17T00:58:24+00:00

I never liked the sneaking around and worrying about being caught. Tell your LTR how you feel. If she isn’t willing to find a solution with you then simply move on to your new pussy then

IXseed · 2020-01-17T03:25:25+00:00

You need to put your needs first. If your sexual needs aren't getting met and you can't get her to meet them for you first, then it's time to look outside for the relationship. Even if she's not "cool" with it your needs/wants are MORE important than hers. Get a side bitch. Bring another girl into the bedroom. You should only cheat if it comes to a point where she's knowingly NOT meeting you sexual needs. Also, are you really "risking" anything if the worst case scenario is she finds out and leaves and you end up without a girl that doesn't satisfy you?

I feel you've already made up your mind tho...so meh.

Alpha_Fucks · 2020-01-17T04:47:59+00:00

My girlfriend is bi and we plan to find a third girl. We are competitive and she thinks she can duck girls better than I can. She knows I fuck around but I hide it well. At some point I will probably get caught. She will share me if she has to because she is addicted to me. She used to share me with my ex wife. Wife didn't like sharing but I always lied to her face too. Even when I came home at 4am or didn't come home. Or when she found condoms in my suv. I just deny and walk away. She would have shared me if I was a bit more discrete. I just stopped caring once I knew I wanted out. She knew I would fuck other people because I told her I would if I wasn't happy.

Betas get rules and alphas get exceptions. Do whatever the fuck you want. It's just a bitch and she could just as easily suck somone else's dick. It's the reality of life. You guys both use each other like symbiosis. As long as she provides value and you keep being awesome, go fuck some bitches.

Just don't make pussy the mission or you will pedestalize it and dry up all the pussy in a 10 mile radius. In addition you will suffer as a man because you lack purpose and mission.

Good luck.

Title	Cheating on my gf - reasonable?
Author	stokacanec2
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Date	January 17, 2020 12:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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