Note:Am 19 male

I don't know but I feel like if I cheat in a relationship it makes the "pain" of her cheating on me less bad. So when I found out her cheating, the breakup is generally easier since you basically did the same thing.

The reason for this mindset is, that due to all the social media every girl that is atleast a 7 plus(which are basically my target women for relationships) has a very easy time finding a man to cheat with. If not from her friends circle then in clubs which almost every girl I know goes to with her gfs. Almost any good looking guy that is there to pick up chicks(Pretty much most guys in clubs) has 0 problems going for a 7/8 and if a girl is even a little drunk things can happen.

Apart from working on yourself and making life easier when you are in your 30s(and women hit the wall) is it okay to cheat now (or maybe even encouraged)on your gf?