just curious about this. i always see different solutions, which i believe is going to be situation based. but i see a lot of posts in here along the lines of "my girl is giving me shit" (or something similar) and then you have the advice:

'just walk away' 'dont put up with that' 'leave the room' 'soft next' (which is basically not wanting to communicate, right? ie the man shutting down)

recently, someone posted about an LTR shutting the phone off... ie, shes not wanting to communicate and shutting down. all the advice posts in there are basically 'fuck that, i hate when people dont communicate' 'i hate when people ignore' 'its immature not to communicate'...

whats the deal? i wanted to assume this was the difference in handling situations between dating phase/plates and LTRs. but i have seen responses all over the place for both types of relationships. i can't be the only one that seems to be a little confused by this. is it because feminine energy is about bonding/emotions/talking, so if they shut down, its not alright since they are out of polarity?