Lately Ive been using [What kind of a guy are you looking for?] and then telling her [Give me your number] after she responds.

However, upon the blindsiding realization that Men are leaders and Women are followers [hence why they're so horrendously boring] and a woman should work for a mans respect, I now feel like a massive pussy using that method. Oh the cringe.

Would [Why would you make a good girlfriend?] or something similar be better utilized and less humiliating?

Edit:Also

How do you respond to [why did you want my number?] after she gives it to you? She is obviously a validation hound if she asks that.

If we live in two towns about an hour and a half apart is it reasonable for us to meet in the middle? I don't want to be a gas-cuck.