So about 2 months back, I decided to finally start following Monseigneur Le Pook's advice - though to be fair, I feel like I've been following it in one form or another my whole life. Anyways, he was right and is still right, especially the bit about how nature abhors a vacuum so it will offer up women. It's happening to an extent. But it's been offering disqualified women: coworkers and neighbours. Both of which any sane man knows are off-limits. I'm at work to work on my career, not fuck, and while I can take rejection I don't want to live next to a woman who did. But I digress.

Lately there's been something puzzling me I'm hoping you can help with. It's a conundrum I haven't quite solved yet:

You get a woman's attention by ignoring her. So since we chase that which retreats from us, she starts to like you. But the minute you start paying attention to her she stops liking you. So you have to ignore her. But at some point you have to make a move or move on, which involves showing a level of interest back. But if she knows you're attracted, she loses interest. So to get interest you have to ignore. But if you ignore then you'll never make a move. But if you never make a move then you're a friend. But if.... OWWWWWW.

See where I'm going with this? It's like the ultimate cockblock-22.

Can anybody explain a way out of this please?