Cold approach examples

319Skew · 2021-04-14T04:09:12+00:00

I mean you could do that and play the numbers game. You'll close depending on your charm and looks but you'll probably be shot down a lot.

It's better than nothing and kudos for approaching but I think he'd have more closing if he's going for women that are giving IOIs.

Regardless, better to get rejected than to live with the regret of not knowing. So go out there and try.

That said, clips like these don't show the whole picture. He could have approached 100 women and they only used these clips. We also don't know how many women would actually go out after giving out those numbers.

vanillanibba · 2021-04-14T11:55:13+00:00

this dude's style is super aggressive, he literally ran after a girl and approached from behind. I would NOT do this. it bring way too much outside attention into the set.

I take a totally different style to cold approaching. I don't masquerade as this too confident to be true dude, I just smile, try to make them laugh, and have a normal conversation. This guy probably closes 10x more numbers than me, but they most likely lead nowhere since he pushes very hard for it (they give it to him so he goes away). Notice how a lot of the girls hesitate to give out their #, even one girl saying "ummm maybe". Some of the girls straight up look uncomfortable. A number close is NOT a success if it leads nowhere.

Have fun out there and find your own style. If you just copy some guy off youtube (like this guy), you'll come off as sleazy and not genuine.

midgetpooooo · 2021-04-14T13:48:17+00:00

This guy is also really tall and attractive. Try this is as an average looking dude lol. You'd have to roll back your cold approach to something more casual rather as aggressive as this dude. Also it's a college campus, way different than real life.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-04-14T14:51:56+00:00

It's bold. And this video doesn't show all the rejections he got.

nexther · 2021-04-14T14:01:52+00:00

Love this guy. To be fair he does have game, however he has a girlfriend too, so he has the confidence of chatting up girls knowing that if he fails he’s still okay, he’s not actually trying to get numbers.

liltbrockie · 2021-04-14T10:09:55+00:00

Hey, it worked for him....

rocacu · 2021-04-14T15:37:11+00:00

Never thought I'd see Juan in here

AppearanceAccording6 · 2021-04-14T20:30:18+00:00

Ah yes, Thatwasepic. Classic inspiration for me

Title	Cold approach examples
Author	throwawaymylifeeie
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	April 14, 2021 3:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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