I have been getting shit tested since my gf caught up with her friend recently. I feel like she is being aggressive and keeps hinting me by comparing me with her friend's boyfriend.

For example, she mentioned:

  1. Her friend's boyfriends calls him all the time while I only prefer shorter text based communication via phone.
  2. Her friend's boyfriend makes extra effort to pick and drop her to places.

How do I properly response to this? My response was just a short, "good for them" and then I changed the topic.

Is this a shit test?