Confidence

StrifePrevails · 2018-08-28T20:17:49+00:00

You have to do shit and succeed. I'm confident I can get girls because I've gotten girls. I'm confident I can rock climb because I've climbed rocks. Before you actually do these things, any confidence you have will be baseless and easily dispelled.

Go out and do

oytrp · 2018-08-28T20:59:31+00:00

Build real confidence.

Get the physique you want by lifting

Get the success you want by putting in the time and effort.

Gruss_p · 2018-08-29T03:09:42+00:00

Confidence is not isolated thing, it comes from particular experience. If you want to be confident in chess matchs, play chess a lot. If you want to be confident in front of girls, guess what...

bulletzdz · 2018-08-28T20:41:21+00:00

Yes. Confidence comes from high self esteem. Only way to build self esteem is to accomplish shit. Notice I didn't say Do, I said accomplish. Anyone can lift weights, but few can excel and achieve the body image they want. Person who does achieve that has higher self esteem than the ones who don't. Find what you are not confident about, and work towards destroying that insecurity. If you lack frame, find men who have solid frame, and do everything you can to surround yourself with those guys to learn from them.

Title	Confidence
Author	itsathrowawaybro808
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	August 28, 2018 8:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9b29b6/confidence/
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