Hey guys,

I'm 18 Y/O and a uni student. Diagnosed with Aspergers, and I've worked damn hard to improve my social skills and talk to women. I can cold approach with relative ease now, and get dates from it, but every time I've brought a girl back to my place (excellent logistics, students halls) and tried to sexually escalate one of two things has always happened:

I. We start making out, maybe after 10 minutes of a movie or something. It gets quite intense, and then she will in one way or another say 'We shouldn't be doing this' or 'This is too soon' or a variation thereof.

II. She'll turn it down for whatever reason straight away. Later on I might be able to get to the above, but then that takes place.

Occurrence I takes place by far the most often, and for a guy trying to create abundance and spin plates it's getting irritating. Any help and advice would be awesome. Thanks.