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Conversation is too techincal

brideboy · 2016-12-07T20:27:25+00:00

How do i stop conversation from getting too technical?...

brideboy

December 7, 2016

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Title	Conversation is too techincal
Author	brideboy
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	December 7, 2016 8:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5h2ali/conversation_is_too_techincal/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/conversation-is-too-techincal.78749 https://theredarchive.com/post/78749

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[–]Harry_Fraud8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]brideboy -5 points-5 points-5 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

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[–]brideboy 2 points2 points2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger14 points15 points16 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

First, you see a therapist and work on social behaviors for that autism.

Then, you walk up and talk to ten people a day. Complete strangers. Men and women. Old and young. Doesn't matter. You're not trying to make friends or get a date. You're just chatting with people you'll never see again about whatever comes to mind. Just 30 seconds, then go on with your day. Do this every day, ten people, for a few months, and you'll have talked to a thousand people.

Then, you won't be a bumbling weirdo who doesn't know how to talk to people any more. And you won't be petrified of rejection or embarrassment. You'll recognize that other people are as afraid of this as you are, if not moreso. And you'll just talk to people in a more natural manner.

After that, you just try conversing with women like anybody else. Googling "how to have a conversation" is stupid. That won't help you. Talking to people and getting a feel for the ebb and flow of conversation will. Just fucking say "Hi" to a woman. If you're the least bit good looking, she'll say hi back. Then, you tell her your name, ask a question, share an observation, and have sex with her on top of the nearest table. Or something like that. My grasp of social interactions is a little shaky.

[–]brideboy 0 points0 points0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

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