I got a ton of matches on all the dating apps I use. My profile is on point. My issue is getting from the match to meeting up. I get that a lot of the girls on dating apps are on there for validation BUT on apps like CMB you can tell when a girl is actually on there to meet guys. The Key Indicator is: to what degree has their profile been filled out. Time invested in filling out their entire profile means they’re probably seriously trying to meet someone.

Anyways, after I match with someone, I don’t spend much time thinking of clever opener. I let my natural wit take over and start firing off whatever comes to mind. I get a bunch of responses and phone numbers. But can’t get to many meet ups especially with the 8s-10s.

What are some things you do to bolster the chances of a meet up?