Good evening lads, i (26) divorced from ex 7 months ago. Have had one plate since, but I wasnt really interested enough, so i have let her almost drop. I currently have 2 dates (Tinder) set up. One tomorrow and one on tuesday. That is all room that I have next week for dates. As extra information - I have quite high standards - few days ago a girl drove 3 hours (also Tinder match) to see me, but I wasnt attracted so told her I have stuff to do after lunch. She planned to stay the night.

First date seems super nice and innocent, but I am developing a oneitis before even seeing her (retarded I know). She is super cute, has cool but a bit nerdy hobbies and is fun to chat to.. My question on this one - how to take her off the pedestal and not fuck it up. I am into different sports and I ask all my dates on a bike ride or to come running with me. Our date tomorrow is running and cake in a cafe after that.

Second date is not into sports, but seems even more fun and agreed to a wine drinking date. She asked my close friend (female) abouth who I am and etc. so probably taking this seriously enough. My question with this one - I can be the life of the party at some days but the others - i am worried that I might come off as too boring (she is 20, likes having fun etc). Any quick tips?

I am quite well off for my country, have cool masculine hobbies and have decent success with women if i am not over invested or have too little interest.

My biggest question is this - I have a 5 yo. kid, when would you think is the best time to bring this information into play with dates? I am not looking for a LTR but I dont feel like hiding anything from anyone, just doesn´t feel like me.