Basically I've been seeing this girl for a while. We've been on 3 'dates' total and yesterday she invited me over. There has been sexual tension between us during this time but I didn't expect to hit it this fast. So I jerk off before I leave and go to her place.

I get to her place, we chill and talk about stuff, cuddle and shit. So we start making out and I take my shirt off and to my surprise she's into it. So we undress and I start fingering and teasing her pussy but I notice that I'm not getting hard. I think to myself okay, it's probably just that I need touching to get hard but the dick just won't grow.

So I tell her to take it in her mouth and she starts blowing me. I get it like 75% hard but that's nearly not enough since I also have to put on a condom. Anyways, I can't get it hard and just tell her along the lines 'today is just not my day' and laugh it off. She says it's fine and we basically make out and I eat her out and finger her. After long time of trying I decide to give up and we put our clothes on.

She asks me if I want to eat and we eat and chat like nothing happened. 30 minutes pass and I leave thinking to myself that I probably fucked this up. I arrive home and she snapchats me that 'If it was on your mind, it's okay that you couldn't get it hard today and that it doesn't change my perception of you'. I just answer that 'Yeah today was not just my day. Tbh I jerked off before I came to your place and wasn't just feeling it that much and that got in to my head. You're sweet for understanding'. (Some of you might call me beta for sending that kind of shit but I felt like it)

She replies 'it's okay <3'.

So basically am I fucked or not? This is the first time I couldn't fuck a girl since I couldn't get hard. It's not even that she's not hot, she's easily the hottest girl I've been with, which is probably part reason why I couldn't get it hard.

How do I proceed? Chat and act like nothing happened and invite her over in a few days?

Yeah slight oneitis over here.