This girl Ive been dating asked me to be her BF.. I accepted. Ive layed down boundries, Never stopped her from hanging with friends or family. Ive spotted the slutty friend and made myself clear about that friend, turns out she recently got a BF and is quite serious with him. Other than that all her other friends are good girls, Btw she does have daddy issues. Its taken time but we have gone through a rough patch she has kind off distant. I told her that I want to see her on thursday, now being sunday. She said she has plans to hang out with friends. I asked which friend and she got really defensive. She said I dont feel comfortable telling you because you might judge so Im not telling you. I said thats fine. Im not bothered cause I trust you. Im not sure what has gotten over her tho. Ever since that she has been distant, I called her the days following and it turns into an argument so I just back off and ignore. We spoke today and I explained that Im not bothered by what she has said in the heated argumnets even if it may seem hurtful so dont worry about it because you seem stressed out and she seemed better after that. She is seeing her friend tommorrow and I called suggesting to see her after, she says she will confirm hopefully later. I told her ill call her later from work for a confirmation. Ive decided not to call her. Ill call her after work instead. that will keep me on her mind. but in the meantime

Is she over shit testing me? Is she perhaps looking to break up with me? Im finding her distant behaviour and always turning it into an argument draining. If I can understand it then Hopefully I can counter it.

Any help would be gratefuly appreciated!

an hour after this post I was lsitening to my spotify and she created a new playlist, all the songs were pointed at getting over someone. lol wtf is wrong.