Cutting ties

Whitefarmer · 2019-10-22T03:42:56+00:00

Stick to 3-5 real men and kick ass

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-22T04:56:53+00:00

Note that if you can grow and change, so too can other people. Point is, don't burn bridges out of arrogance.

Simply spend more time with new people, and let any futile relationships dissolve naturally.

In terms of going forward, set goals for things you want to accomplish, and find people that will facilitate your ambitions. Offer them value, and ask for help.

JazzyHustlah · 2019-10-22T05:50:16+00:00

Careful not to isolate yourself too much. Cutting most your social group at once is quite an adjustment—been there

MrBreitling · 2019-10-22T06:12:01+00:00

You are the average of the 5-6 people closest to you.

Ultimately as time goes on your friendship circles should change, it's highly unlikely you remain friends with people long term. I can think of maybe 3 guys that I've known for 10 years+ and they're all top of the pile.

Even doing something simple like going to the gym, or earning more money - might tip you out of favour with some people. It just do be like that.

Don't worry too much, just always look forward and keep moving forward. If you're attractive, and ontop of your game you will attract new, more likely minded people.

TheBunk_TB · 2019-10-22T12:17:31+00:00

Get involved with other activities. I lost just about all of the people from "TB 1.0". It happens. But for you to recognize that people are toxic and/or not in a healthy, growth mindset is not a bad thing.

Title	Cutting ties
Author	kennycrab12
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	October 22, 2019 3:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dlc49l/cutting_ties/
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