Dangling the carrot I use a variant of the talk "I thought we had a nice thing going here... we like each other, we enjoy spending time together" And sometimes mix in Heartistes "I though you were different and would understand because right now is xxx time for me"

Ive even recently used the advice I read here of a user telling his plates "I'll marry the girl he fucks a thousand times"

For a returning plate theyll seem to want commitment since they think theyre starting at xyz instead of 0. How do I mention that them returning is like starting at 0. For a returning plate, do I say "lets start from scratch who knows what the future holds, we enjoy spending time together etc etc"

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Edit: Yes I realised I made a spelling mistake in the title.