Hey lads.

Bit of background info (M24)

I have about average experience with women. I have had 3 relatively long term relationships and a few one night stand / fwb here and there when I have been single. Could have probably been more but I am pretty selective and not particularly forward usually waiting for girls to come to me. I think my pickyness actually works against me as not pursuing average girls means that I don't have as much of an abundance mentality.

Anyway I have never really had that much success on dating apps. I occasionally match a worldie but they literally never respond or just ghost after a few matches- nature of the app I think£ rather than a reflection of my profile.

However I matched this one girl last weekend and she sent me the first message and was super keen and also very good looking, smart everything. Moved to Instagram and have agreed to go for a walk as Covid lockdown rules prevent any other meetup. (Although she said I could come over for dinner too)

On all other dates Ive been on I thiink I have done quite well as they have all suggested a second but I decided not to pursue as I wasn't that attracted to them and logistics were hard given I live at home with my parents plus I have had bad experiences breaking hearts of girls I don't want a long term thing with.

One thing I notice is that the harder I have tried on the dates, the less interest I received and vice versa. So it ends up being the ones I care the least about show me the most interest post date ( could be just larger SMV gap causing my disinterest though)

Anyway whilst I can tell killer stories and give off a good vibe, what I suck at is ESCALATION. conversation very rarely involves innuendos and making conversation sexual and touching always feels like something I have to constantly think about rather than just coming naturally.

Has anyone got any tips on how to escalate on a first date, without it feeling a bit awkward initially? Or does it just always feel this way.

Despite hating the ideology I have fucked feminists before who love to be submissive and dominated and supposed good girls who go wild so my current strategy is to just think about that and assume all the nice innocent first date is just an act.

I'd love to be able to fuck her on the first date. Read on here that sometimes it's just best to say sexual things and when she acts shocked just act surprised that she is shocked.

Any other tips would be appreciated. Sorry if all a bit muddled, the content on TRP is vast and hard to take it all in.