Before i was with my gf she had a ons with chad (dude was tall, ripped, good looking). They were friends from work but he quite. Now the messed up part is that he was 17 and she was 20. About a month later i come in and now im wondering does the date down apply to ons? This dudes smv is a lot higher then mine so why is she with me? He even wanted to commit to her but she refused(at least thats what she told me).