Been talking on and off with a girl for 2 years now and those whole time she’s been very vocal about how much she is in love with me to her friends (heard through friends) I got her flowers for her bday during quarantine and she got them presses or whatever/ saved for the future. So i went out with her after quarantine, we went for a nighttime walk and hung out in my car and all seemed to go really really well on Tuesday of last week.

She was good and normal for about 2-3 days after the date, but over the end of last week and weekend she’s been a little distant/cold. We used to Snapchat a lot more like 8-12 times a day and conversation was easy. Now it’s like 2-3 times a day and it’s always her starting it off with a random picture of the sky or pool etc (nothing of value to continue conversation) so naturally I RBomb them because if I try and carry convos it seems useless. (we have a 200 day streak). I just find it weird that although she’s being a little cold, she’s still trying to reach out??!

I asked her on another date and she said she was busy this week going to cottage, studying for exam and getting hair done. (Flaky - Its covid like how busy could she be!?) She never used to make excuses. So now I’m just wondering how I could proceed

  1. how do I mentally deal with her going slightly cold?
  2. how should I deal with her shitty generic Snapchat pics?
  3. should I cut communication except for setting a date?
  4. am I overthinking this and she’s not actually being cold?

Thanks so much I appreciate all replies despite how harsh they can be