I don't think there's much I can do and I'm not asking for sympathy and a cookie, but reassurance would be nice or help on how to prevent things like this from happening in the future.

I'm a freshman in college and I've had sex with my girlfriend frequently the past few weeks. After the first day she had fears she was pregnant (she was a virgin and thought sex=automatic pregnancy) but I assured her she wasn't.

I used a condom ALL times and checked them for holes afterward. Everything was fine. She's told me she's been having symptoms for the past 3 weeks (first time we fucked) such as frequent urination, white discharge in urination, headaches, and stomach pains.

I'm 99% sure she isn't pregnant since I went through all safety precautions (I even pulled out before I ejaculated all but once WITH the condom on). Her period is next week on my birthday (yay me) and if she has it, she't not pregnant. If she misses it I'm going to buy a pregnancy test then see if she's pregnant. If she is we plan on an abortion pill.

Is there anything I can do to calm myself as the day approaches? I would like to believe she's being paranoid and as a result her body is giving her those symptoms (like a kid who gets himself sick to miss school) but I could end up as a statistic.