I went to this party where my ex was and also a girl (I didn't know her before) that hates her. So this girl obviously wanted to affect my ex (which I don't give a shit) and hit on me really hard.

Making sure our friends were watching she reached out to me and said "you just arrived, so you didn't kiss anyone...yet" and kissed me. Ok, I enjoyed it and moved on.

After a while we were kissing again and I took her to the bar to have a drink. There, as none of our friends were around, she seemed to lose all interest on me and only said things like "your ex must be really mad right now". She wanted to keep me close, but as it was very clear to me that it probably wasn't going anywhere, I left her and proceeded to hit on someone else (she became upset, I could tell).

Anyway, what I mean is that I didn't feel alpha at all as things weren't going my way and I was not on the lead. I had the option to keep hanging with her, ignoring the bullshit and hoping she'd fuck me later, but my pride didn't let me, it just didn't feel right at all.

I have no doubts that I acted the right way, have you guys ever gone through something like that? I just wonder if I could've done something different when she hit on me, because she just had me easily and ppl saw it (frame? I let her use me. well, she is a solid 9). It was cheap.