I'm a twenty year old college student. For the past few months premature ejaculation has become an issue for me, and it's totally wrecking my confidence. It's horrible. Sometimes I'll blow made load almost immediately after sticking my dick in. I don't think it's a mental/performance anxiety issue because it even happens when jerking off. For some reason it isn't an issue when I'm extremely drunk, but I don't see getting totally wasted every time I want to hook up with a girl as an option. This was never a problem before and I have no clue what's causing it. But that's not what I'm asking about. I've started doing kegels, doing more cardio in addition to lifting weights, and eating healthier in an attempt to resolve the issue. If none of this helps after a couple months I'll probably go see a doctor about it. But obviously in the meantime this leaves me unable to have fulfilling sex until I'm able to resolve the issue. I'd still like to be able to hook up with girls whether that entails making out, fingering, going down on them, or getting head (for some reason I can last a decent amount longer getting blowjobs). The problem is that if I'm doing any of that with a chick she'll often ask for sex. I've just been bullshitting and telling them I just got out of a relationship and I'm not ready to have sex yet. But I feel like that makes me look unattractive and weak and leaves the girl frustrated. Is there anything I can do to avoid having sex with a girl in this situation while still maintaining frame?