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As someone who is struggling with traits that fall under "DT" I think it's shit. It's also crazy to think you can teach guys how to be like that. I can see how some of the traits would attract women but the reality is, someone who is DT is not in control of their life. It is the complete opposite of being a confident man. It actually pisses me the fuck off when I see it discussed over there. I agree with almost everything else TRP says (to a degree) except that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 12:44 PM
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It depends on the age and woman. That being said, your job or degree doesn't dictate the amount or quality of pussy you attract. You do. Do what you want and enjoy doing. Don't plan your life, career or education around pussy. Ever!
/r/askTRP03/10/14 12:24 PM
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On my phone I copy and paste it.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 01:44 AM
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I saved this to share for future questions regarding confidence. Too many people think confidence is only a state of mind and never get that it's the result of accomplishments. The bigger or more challenging an accomplishment the greater gains in confidence you'll get. It's a byproduct. ♂ let's see if ole bot is working.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:01 PM
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Don't fuck her over meaning if you live together and split bills then don't leave her with a mess to clean up. Edit: just wanted to add that I think you're making the right decision. It's hard but don't stay with someone out of guilt or fear. You'll hate yourself and her in the long run. Making both of your lives miserable.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:51 PM
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Have a plan before you end it. Do you have a place to live? Do you have to put bills in your name in hers before you move? Don't pack and say "I'm out" then have no where to go or fuck her over in the process.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:26 PM
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Too many young middleclass women, raised far from the urban streets, seem to expect adult life to be an extension of their comfortable, overprotected homes. But the world remains a wilderness. The price of women’s modern freedoms is personal responsibility for vigilance and self-defense. I agree with this. I think young people in general are being raised to believe that protecting and preventing themselves from being a victim isn't their responsibility. My daughter was watching the news and when…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 04:08 PM
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Yeah, she sounds like a great prospect for an LTR. I wouldn't be surprised if someone thinks this is true.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:08 PM
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Tell them it's getting old or start taking jabs back. If they call you short then tell them "your mother wasn't complaining about it last night." I don't know your friends but mine know after a while, gloves come off. If these are your bros then either call them out or start looking for new friends. Some guys don't grow up. Keep them around for hanging out or playing ball (or whatever you guys do) but they don't have to be your only friends.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:02 PM
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That's the thing about plates. Either one of you can drop the other when shit isn't what you want. If she starts pressuring you then distance yourself from her. Go from seeing her twice a week to once. If you don't want a LTR then don't agree to one. You doing that means you're afraid of losing them. This is bad because you're giving her control and you wind up making her less attracted. Never do something you don't want out of fear of losing pussy.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 01:52 PM
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I look at it like this, my grandfather didn't have female friends and my dad doesn't have female friends so I don't have female friends. I have female co workers and the wives of my friends who I'm friendly with but I have no need nor desire to be friends with women. Facebook friends is as close as I get. I'm not calling them to chat and I'm sure as fuck not meeting up with them to do girl shit so I don't see the point. Every woman I know who is friends with a guy is because that guy serves a pu…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 01:26 PM
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Here's some brutal honesty. Your OP could've been written by my wife's "best friend" 15+ yrs ago. She broke up with an ex, hung out with her "best friend," made out with him and felt bad. Gave him some line similar to what you posted. That door never opened for him. She got back with her ex and a few years later I came in and ended that shit. So when I tell you close the door it's because I've seen it before. My wife's best friend has been in your spot since the 7th grade. She's over 30 and he's…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:11 PM
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I hooked up with a friend that I really like girl I have oneitis for, but she isn't emotionally ready for more that attracted. She's left the door open for something when she's ready finished riding the cock carousel but how do I make sure she comes through that door when she is? FTFY. Close the door on her and any thoughts of her. You've already been cast in the role as orbiter.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 02:54 PM
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This is not about the fighting, but about how the individual in question was addressed and how other similar individuals are talked about. No it wasn't. This entire thread was about an angry transgender person who doesn't like TRP. You didn't debate anyone and had your friends come in to downvote everyone and up vote you. They even up voted your comparison of blacks to transgendered. Proving that not only are they delusional hypocrites but they're insensitive to others. Down vote me all you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 02:36 AM
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So far I've had someone reply to me with sarcasm (I'm guessing) and a reply from the OP disregarding my argument and trying to throw racism into the mix. How the hell is this a debate?? This is some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 12:07 AM
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I've lowered my standards and gone out with fat girls and former party girls and I still get this bullshit. Bullshit meaning they treat you like an ATM? What else? Because people treat you the way you let them. As far as types go, I wasn't referring to looks. We all have our preference. I meant type as in personality and attitude. The more social a girl is the more shit they seem to throw. I could always tell which girl in a group was the party girl aka attention whore and which one had class. Y…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 08:23 PM
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Please tell me there was serious money lost because if she's throwing a fit over a game without any real loss then she's cookoo. Tell G to point out how silly S is being and then change the topic.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 06:40 PM
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I don't know if others will agree but have you thought about reevaluating the types of girls you're dating? When you keep having the same results and the only thing in common is you then either you're not as on point as you think or you're choosing poorly.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 05:56 PM
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Not if they think the guy is out of their league and is going to reject them. Older women and aggressive women will approach but not all.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 04:21 PM
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Best thing you can do is befriend M and be an example.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 03:50 PM
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Are there any other aspects you think I should work on attitude/behaviour wise? Right now learning to relax is important. One step at a time man. Keep things simple.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 03:47 PM
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Then definitely school.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 02:47 AM
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I don't know your MOS but I barely had time to sleep or eat during deployments. Working out was the only thing I did when I got the chance. Some guys do school but those are fobbits. If you're one of those then take online courses.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 02:24 AM
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Some positions are actually "civilian" jobs. Some jobs are done on rotation or officers put on desk duty due to injury. The civilian jobs don't require Physical tests. Edit: when I said experience I was referring to detectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 12:59 AM
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Not off the top of my head, but there may be some reasoning behind this I'm unaware of. The benefit is Experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 12:44 AM
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I believe that lowering the physical standards to include more women would overall be a positive thing for the police force. What about the women who can pass the physical tests? Those women lose respect when you lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 12:26 AM
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Lowering standards for females is the opposite of gender equality. Having separate gender-based physical requirements threatens both equality and safety. If a person (any person) can't meet the physical requirements then they shouldn't get the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 11:43 PM
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Ahhh. I thought it was the reason you wanted to make sure you weren't being an ass-like. When in doubt don't reply. Works for me. You can't be an ass if you don't say anything.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:28 PM
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I was saying that because in your OP you hinted that you didn't want to ruin this "situation" but she has just as much at stake as you do. She could be a bitch and stop paying but you could take the car back. Make sense?
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:21 PM
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In the US it's considered a "straw loan."
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:15 PM
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If I had to choose only one, cardio or lifting, for the rest of my life I'd choose lifting. That's how important it is. The more muscle you have the easier it will be to lose weight.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:12 PM
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"That's right" "You know it" "Don't forget it" "You are a lucky girl"
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:08 PM
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I'm not certain but I don't think he can do those things without admitting he committed fraud. Legally you aren't supposed to finance a car for someone else unless they're a minor. Like I said I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:00 PM
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So it's YOUR car then. You can take it back whenever you want.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 10:33 PM
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For the benefit of myself, and all aspiring alphas, how does one snuff out the needy and crippling desire for maternal love? It's not a need. Personally, I think this "maternal love" notion is bullshit. You think you need it because society says you do. It gives everyone a false sense of entitlement and an unhealthy need for validation. No one needs a mother's love. Don't be dependent on others for your own wants. This includes your parents.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 09:37 PM
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Fortunately for me, my SO isn't a complete fucktard. So I do expect her to solve most of her own problems. This is important. I've learned here that not everyone has the same type of wife. So my wife sounds like yours but OPs wife may be more sensitive.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:05 PM
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Nah. I don't think all men need TRP. In fact I didn't know what it was until a good friend put me on to it. He said to take a look and give a "natural's point of view." I couldn't believe how many dudes struggle with sex and girls until I started lurking. I always thought this shit was basic common sense. Apparently it ain't. I do think more "naturals" would probably benefit the sub though. Getting advice on women from other guys who need advice on getting women themselves ain't too smart IMO bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 07:49 PM
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It seems like a lot of things have been out of your control. Most of them being unfortunate trying circumstances and those were big enough that what you could control you didn't. Completely understandable with a baby in the hospital and both of you losing jobs at some point and a pay cut. Where you did have some control and let it go was having another kid and giving up your leadership. You need to start working on YOU. Right now. Start increasing your SMV and implementing dread. No more foot ru…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 07:15 PM
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Say "Hey, get dressed/change clothes. We're going to the gym."
/r/askTRP26/09/14 06:30 PM
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Do you even have a gf?
/r/askTRP26/09/14 06:15 PM
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Each time I was escalating the make out to more -grabbing her ass, moving my hands towards her tits etc. - she would then disengage. Well that explains it. I thought she was disengaging while kissing not when you were trying to escalate.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:45 PM
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I know that game but OP wasn't escalating. It sounded like she was putting the brakes on just kissing. Unless I missed something. She doesn't even sound like she's into it. Usually girls play that game when shit looks like it leading to sex. That's the only time I've experienced it.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:06 PM
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You had her attraction level up already using dread when you started hitting the gym 5x a week. You having less time with her and taking away attention on top of that was overkill. Reward good behavior. She starts fucking you daily then taking her out is called for, not keeping away.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:57 PM
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I mean, seriously... You took her on a long, romantic walk in the park while holding hands. You put yourself in the boyfriend category. You didn't set her expectations for a fb/plate arrangement. I see your point but how does him being placed in the "bf" role explain her disengaging? I don't see it.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:52 PM
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Now i decided to repeat this experiment (since this happened a month ago) + applying a little dread. What extra dread did you apply?
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:47 PM
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I don't know man. Only time I've stopped kissing a girl is when I didn't like the way she kisses. This girl might be shy or she's just not feeling you. She doesn't sound attracted when it comes to the physical intimacy. It sounds like she likes you, if she didn't she wouldn't hang out, but she probably doesn't feel it when you guys get physical. Girls like making out so this is odd.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:31 PM
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We start making out but she wasn’t being very aggressive/into it as other girls usually are. We made out again for a while and I tried to push it to more but she would disengage each time Describe how she disengaged? Did she say anything?
/r/askTRP26/09/14 03:06 PM
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she liked me in the 1st grade, but I didn't know how to handle things back then, so nothing happened. This killed me. Me too. That shit was hilarious. This kid is a comedian.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:59 PM
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And how exactly do I 'try and verify' in this situation? Ask her.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:55 PM
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Things get fucked up, when my girl bestfriend This best friend doesn't sound like a friend at all. She's jealous. Either because she has a crush on you or because you're giving attention to someone else. Would you let one of your boys call your (kinda) girl a bitch? If you wouldn't then why do you let this chick do it? How did your "best friend" find out about plans to see the ex? Now you have 2 girls you have to try and verify shit about.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:23 PM
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So what they may have seen as dis-interest before making me mildly attractive turns into disgust because they see me for the unconfident and beta person I am. You're being hard on yourself. You're confusing a woman being cautious for disgust. She showed interest, you didn't reciprocate and she could be weary. Not disgusted. What you are dealing with sounds like a habit. A bad one when it comes to women but it's only a habit. Habits can be broken. You can break the habit by starting to keep eye c…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:15 PM
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More info would help. How long have you guys been together? Has she lost weight recently? Is anything else different? Is she doing this for you or for attention? I could be completely off the mark but I think her intentions are what determines if it's a red flag or not. My woman dresses sexy when we're together but when she's out to dinner with her friends she doesn't sex it up.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:01 PM
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Even if she isn't cheating, the relationship will eventually fade. LDRs have a shelf life. If you're apart more than together and it's not a temporary situation then the reality is she's just a girl you hook up with when she's/you're in town.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 08:12 PM
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Holy shit. If I misunderstood you then you should've called me out and corrected me. Instead, again, you come back with some sarcastic shit. I have no patience for these butthurt girlie responses from you. You're too sensitive. I've got no more words for you.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:47 PM
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Yeah. If you look at a woman as your equal then that's blue pill to me. I'm not the same as my woman. She takes care of me in certain ways and I take care of her in other ways. I'm the protector she's the nurturer. It works for us.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:33 PM
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I'm not gonna insult you or down vote you. In fact you're right. You could say I consider my woman my property. I don't look at her as an object. I like that she has a mind of her own and challenges me but I definitely view her as "mine." Ain't no shame in my game. I wasn't raised with gender equality and feminism. Now that you've explained how you see it your answer makes sense. It's not on par with TRP. In fact it's as bluepill as you can get (IMO) but I get what you're saying. Edit: you do re…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:08 PM
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Youre right bra. You should whip out your piece and pop some caps in the guy I gave you constructive criticism and you come back with dramatic sarcasm? C'mon, that's weak.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 05:29 PM
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I agree. My wife didn't tell the guy to fuck off because she looked like she wanted to cry. It wasn't a loud sports bar with lots of people. It was bar/pub. I know my size is an advantage that not everyone has but I would've at least gotten her away from the situation. Mate guarding doesn't only require fighting and shouldn't be about jealousy. If your woman is being approached and it's unwanted or a guy is using your girl to disrespect you then that to me is when mate guarding is ok.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 03:29 PM
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Having your girl confront her assailant That's embarrassing. Especially if the guy knows she's with you. He sexually assaults her AND does it in front of you. That makes it a direct hit to you. He should've just spit in your face. Letting your girl handle that is like handing over your nuts to the other guy. If you can't win then at least get her out of there and try to comfort her. Don't leave that shit for her to clean up.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 03:20 PM
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Hahaha. I know it doesn't put dude in his place but at least your girl will think you're capable. Like I said before. Stuff like this rarely happens. That I've seen. I'm sure the guy who grabbed my wife didn't know she was with me. And Football player or not, that guy was crazy to pull that shit. He doesn't know you. What if you had a gun and waited for him? It wouldn't matter how big he is. Dumb move on his part.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 03:08 PM
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Porn is to men what Disney is to women. Unrealistic expectations on both sides are as much to blame as feminism for where we are as a society when it comes to sex and relationships. A fantasy is being sold to men and women. The ones who see it for what it is, a fantasy, will have a better chance at succeeding. Your example of The Wire is spot on. Coming from that background (NY not Baltimore though) I can say that shit was so damn accurate it was scary. It could've been a documentary. Having tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:52 PM
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Don't make her wifey yet but I wouldn't next her. If her excuses were all because she was worried about her age then things should be easy now. If she still acts funny then something else is up. Continue to see her but keep things casual. And cut that "think the world of you" bullshit out. You got away with that shit because you're above her SMV but if you keep it up it'll turn her off.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 08:25 PM
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Now that I think about it. You could've did what I did and sent your girl home. Played it off like you were gonna handle shit and then not do a damn thing. The reason I sent my wife away was to avoid her getting caught in anything, but I never told her what I did. I only told her I spoke to the guy and he apologized.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:55 PM
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If you're gonna feel bad then end it. Don't do something because people online would or wouldn't. It's not our conscience it's gonna weigh on it's yours.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:04 PM
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Back to my point, once you have a kid, no job, no boss can prevent you from being there for your kid. Back to my original point, I have kids but if I'm in another country I can't be there. OP may be in the same predicament. That was my only point. He could have a badass job for all we know. I get what you're saying but stop and try to see it from someone else's perspective. He said twice he can't leave so I'm guessing, he really can't leave. Telling him he can isn't helpful if he can't.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:46 PM
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You know nothing about me. You really think you saying my job isn't "alpha" means something? It's just a fucking word. Who I am isn't dependent on my job. One job isn't more "alpha" than another. That shit doesn't even make sense. You can lift, make millions, have a prestigious job and read every book on game but none of that shit matters if you're a weak, scared bitch at heart. As for my ego. It's fucking huge, but it's not wrapped up in my profession. I couldn't give a fuck about my profession…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:25 PM
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What do you want to do?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:00 PM
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At 6'5" you need some long ass legs and a lot of room to pull that off. I wouldn't be able to kick someone in the head. Maybe a midget. I could trip a guy by sticking my foot out. Maybe OP should've done that. Hey OP, trip the fucker the next time. Then run.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:32 PM
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Ahh. Yeah, Context is important. I'm over 6', 250+ and I was fighting at the time so... But size doesn't always matter. I know some nasty brawlers that come up to my shoulders. Maybe someone else has been in this situation and will share because I've got nothing. Sorry.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:15 PM
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Been there. At a bar, wife (gf at the time) comes out of the bathroom and while coming towards me some guy grabs her ass. She came to me and dude saw me and turned around. I guess he was going to try and deny it if I approached. I called one of my friends and had him come meet me at the bar with his gf. Sent my wife home with her. Then I approached the guy. Walked right up and punched him in the face. Fighting isn't always the answer but some shit can't be handled any other way without you looki…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 04:55 PM
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You are just a cog, a very powerful cog but still something controlable by a superior Everyone answers to somebody. Seeing as I'm one of those altruist cogs and not someone looking in from the outside, like you, it shouldn't come as a surprise when I tell you I think you're fucking wrong. Appreciate you clarifying your views though.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 04:32 PM
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She's your gf so go.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:59 PM
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How you figure that? An "alpha" is an "alpha" no matter what job but the more aggressive a job the more likely the guy has "alpha" traits. Those jobs already require a man to be physically fit and strong.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:58 PM
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A small list that I keep sharing. Adjust it for you and your scenario. I think you also need to read the sidebar again. No more texting her Start going out after work Stop doing any favors for her Take the word "sorry" out of your vocabulary Start hitting the gym Start dressing better Don't ask her to go with you to anywhere. State your plans and that's it. Stop explaining shit to her. Less words more action. Start flirting with other women when you're not with her and be friendly to women when …
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:48 PM
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Reading about it has done dick for me. You name the book and over the past 7 years I've probably read it. I hate to say it but you're right. Only thing that develops these traits is overcoming shit. Dealing with adversity (real adversity) or a challenge and beating the shit out of it. That's the way.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:42 PM
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Dread.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:34 PM
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I know, but that is the thing, jobs, especially western employment is desingned so you can't leave, so you are for at least 40 hours a week nothing but a cog, you are not father, you are not human you are not alpha. I can name a few "alpha" jobs that you really can't leave when you want or need to. Firemen, Police, Military, certain security firms.... there are a lot of jobs and if OP has one of those jobs then he can't leave.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:33 PM
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You care. Don't act like you don't. You posting 3x about this shit says you care a fucking lot. That's not a bad thing but own it.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:20 PM
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So lay down the law. I never understood how a guy isn't afraid to stick his dick in a girl but is afraid to be straight with her. If you think adding this guy to your list is a weak move then you need to start using some dread. When she hangs out with him, you do too. None of this "he's my friend" bullshit. You living with her is fucking up your game. You're acting like you need her when all you need is her house. Are you working yet? How long before you living with her is no longer a necessity?…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:17 PM
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The bluepill sub is satire. They don't "believe" in anything. Some of them hide their hate behind the facade of satire and some of them just like to be funny. They aren't giving any advice. The term "Bluepill" when used here is to describe men who have been doing things based on lies society says works to only fail when it comes to women and sex. That's not the exact definition. The exact definition is on the sidebar. You should check it out.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:06 PM
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Dude this changes everything. You need to post your situation with as much detail as possible. Start from scratch. You giving us crumbs here and there only gets you crumbs back.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:51 PM
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I suggest you continue with being direct. It works for you. if I want to meet her I'll have to wait and be spontaneous. I'm tempted to tell you to reply to her with your words "no pussy is worth the wait" but I don't know you or her and that may be pushing it. I'd tell her that you thought more of her and didn't realize she's into games. She can get back to you when she's serious about getting to know you. Then see how she plays it. I read your other post and you mentioned not having a high SMV.…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:48 PM
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How the fuck is your reply being down voted? That's a rhetorical question. I know the answer.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:29 PM
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Give it up man. You're lying to yourself. You have it so bad for this girl you can't even see clearly. You need to end it. I can't even recommend demoting her to a plate because I doubt you could handle it with her.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:13 PM
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I told her I'll not sit at home texting her a damn thing. I want to get to know her by meeting up, that's what meeting up with a friend is for. I like your style kid. Those were shit tests and I think you did good. You were being direct with her. Was that authentic or some technique you tried like the "nervous guy game" you pulled with the other girl?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:57 PM
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If you drive 11 hours to see some chick you aren't conducting a RP experiment. You want to try a real experiment, get her to drive 11 hours to come see you. Other than that, forget this chick. Go find one within a 20 mile radius of where you live. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:24 AM
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WTF? That's some crazy shit Jim pulled. That kid doesn't sound right in the head. Kick his ass to the curb.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 11:25 PM
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Yeah you dipped in it already once but don't continuously shit where you eat. She's got a guy too. That's double the headache.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:26 PM
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If it makes you feel like an asshole then don't do it. Not all of us approach women the same. Don't try to be something you're not or do something you're uncomfortable with.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:24 PM
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Girls consistently give sex after you've made them a gf? Yeah. If you choose right you can have a girl fuck you consistently after you marry them too. C'mon this can't be shocking. Some of us do have women that are attracted to us even after we're in a relationship. And if you are just going to next her the first time she doesn't put out, I don't think you understand what a long term relationship is. You know, I never thought about it until I came here but, my wife has never denied me sex. If sh…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:16 PM
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Do what you want. One benefit is consistent sex.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:51 PM
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I thought about your question and deleted my last reply. So you valued getting some pussy over your own integrity and fail to see where the big deal is? FTFY. I did this when I was single. Past tense. It's not that I valued getting pussy over my integrity, it's that I didn't value the pussy enough to care if I lied or not.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:41 PM
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Sounds like she wants more than a ONS. Be careful how you play this. If you reject her then she might retaliate. I'd continue being nice but tone down the playful flirting. Unless you're thinking of making her a fuck buddy. Which I don't suggest.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:24 PM
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What are the outcomes of saying yes vs. no are what I am asking. Is there necessarily a better response than "no" in your opinion? If you say no then she drops the topic. If you say yes then you risk her not wanting to hook up. I have a bad habit of asking "why" when asked a question so if I was asked this question I would've asked why and depending on her answer I would've addressed it. If she said "just curious" I would've replied "are you nosey?" And then switched the focus to her. Or I would…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:08 PM
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So you lied. I don't see what the big deal is. It's really none of her business. As long as you aren't telling her she's your girlfriend then I say fuck it. I lied to plates all the time when I was single. If they were my gf then I was honest but to some chick I just met? Hell no.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:53 PM
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I see your point when it comes to not responding but she didn't ask OP how he's doing or if he still wanted to meet up. She sent a bs apology a week after she was rude and didn't follow up with anything else. Honestly, sounds like she was bored to me and sent out an orbiter signal to see if he'd respond. That's just my opinion. OP can play it how he wants. He's got nothing to lose. Maybe OP should give us the text exchange so we can see what her exact words were.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:07 PM
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The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. That quote is from the sidebar. "Getting a job and increasing my SMV" Other than those 7 words, how does your OP relate to sexual strategy? I'm genuinely curious because I don't see it. Honestly man, your butt hurt, bitch reply is telling. You ask a question that has nothing to do with sexual strategy, you get a reply with suggestions and you respond with a sarcastic, defensive rant. I am doing all the work in a house left to disrepair for over 5 years and …
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:17 PM
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I don't feel as if I've behaved in that manner, maybe I have misjudged. You played everything right. That doesn't mean she isn't going to try to get you to stick around.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 11:46 AM
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OP didn't say and I don't want to assume, that's why I asked. If she has a kid and a dude I doubt she stayed overnight with OP. Her being married with a baby is important info he left out. If I had to guess I'd say OP wasn't as hammered as he said and is afraid he took advantage, but being worried doesn't mean he did something bad. Now he's getting strange vibes from the girl, she has a dude and kid and he doesn't want to get thrown under the bus if shit hits the fan. But OP hasn't clarified so …
/r/askTRP23/09/14 11:42 AM
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The Red Pill on cleaning Dude, this isn't good house keeping or a mommy sub. I swear my wife was just reading a book on how to get everyone else to help around the house and that's what your question is asking. First off you're moving in with them so don't plan on going in there and laying down the law. You are choosing to clean up the house so don't be upset when others don't get excited or help. My suggestion is after you work on the house see if everyone is willing to contribute a little for …
/r/askTRP23/09/14 11:30 AM
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Don't respond. If she texts you again with more than an apology then reply. Now she sounds like she's fishing for attention. It took a week for her to apologize. She's isn't sorry for being rude, she's sorry she lost an orbiter.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 10:41 AM
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OP claims to have been too hammered to remember WTF happened, but not too hammered to drive and remember a conversation? Something isn't adding up.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 10:04 AM
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Only if he's American. If he's British then OP is correct.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:30 AM
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Reply back "I don't know when I'll be back. Don't wait up. Good Night." Edit: Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:03 AM
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If the both of you agreed and she is set to move this weekend then you don't need to go home to talk. Go home when you're ready. Your title implies urgency and I don't see what's so urgent.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:48 AM
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Yes I do, she said shes moving out this weekend so it was already planed, I think she got the point and be out by tomorrow. If the break up is amicable, then there's no reason to talk, right?
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:31 AM
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You have to go back home at some point Bob. What's your plan? Why did you break up? Right now Betty is looking like the cool headed one in this scenario. We need more information.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:19 AM
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You live with her?
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:02 AM
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She said her night's not that exciting and she is watching TV. She chose watching TV over you. The end. You didn't say how often you spoke to her but I got the impression you gave her more attention then you should've. She wanted to get to know you but you didn't put limits on that. She could text you for 6 months and you could be crazy so it doesn't make sense. If she isn't comfortable then why is she on Tinder? If a girl doesn't want to meet soon after exchanging numbers then she's full of shi…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 12:51 AM
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she was invited to a party at a mutual friends and they were gonna go together. Why aren't you going?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:16 PM
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You know what, I was acting like whatever but on the drive back I apologized because she seemed like she was upset since she just had a kid and has been with her dude for a few years. She said it was ok but I saw the change in her mood. This drive back was when you were both hammered?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:11 PM
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Why is he still your agent?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:01 PM
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You are officially single. Go out and meet new girls and go no contact with this one.....permanently. It's over. She's now in the past. Edit: read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 10:07 PM
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If you want to know if a guy is a sucker, punch him. If he punches you back then you know he's cool. Nah, I'm kidding. Don't do that shit. Seriously man, why do you care what your friends think about women? Unless they're messing with your game when you're out, it shouldn't matter. Surround yourself with guys that make you better and will have your back, not guys who know how to get girls.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:48 PM
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Old broads want young dick. They couldn't care less if it comes wrapped in purple pants. They'll take young dick any way they can get it. Besides, beggars can't be choosy.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:38 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. Red pill is a concept, not a group. And yes, the concept is about being a man and being able to recognize women's BS. I'm going to try to explain. The things that are said here, I already knew. The only difference is I didn't have names for them. An example, what I consider a woman bitching is called "shit tests" here. That's not a new concept to me. So Red pill is a concept for you but for me it's the way things have always been since I was a kid. Don't marry a whore…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:09 PM
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You're asking about religious traditions that are important to you. Anything that important, should be discussed before marriage. If both people are aware of the other's expectations or needs before marriage there is less of a chance it will be an issue after.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:36 PM
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Those tight pants kids are wearing now pisses me off. I tell them too. I've already warned my kids that if their friends come to our door dressed like that I'm slamming the door in their face. I don't understand why boys choose to crush their nuts into tight purple pants.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:49 PM
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Hang out with some old men. Find a social club. No offense to the OP, or anyone else, but doesn't being "red pill" basically mean being a man? A man who doesn't put women on a pedestal or live with the fear of being rejected? You either are or you aren't. I didn't think this was something you could belong to. Maybe I'm wrong. If I am, please correct me.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:28 PM
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Have any of you ever been in a fight and what are your views on it? First fight was in the third grade. Kid was "bullying" me, went home crying, told my mom and she walked me right back to the school yard and told me to stand up for myself. My mom's kind of hardcore. After that fight I was never bullied again. Through out my teens the people I associated with were involved in crazy shit and fights were the norm. By the time I was 18 I was over 6ft and 240lbs and started boxing. I never lost a fi…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 03:05 AM
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Here's a small dread list for dummies. Some of it may not apply to you because it's my reply (tweaked) from another discussion. If you want more advice you should start a discussion. No more texting her Start going out after work Stop doing any favors for her Take the word "sorry" out of your vocabulary Start hitting the gym Start dressing better Don't ask her to go with you to anywhere. State your plans and that's it. Stop explaining shit to her. Less words more action. Start flirting with othe…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 01:10 AM
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How do you trust anyone? Trust yourself, trust your judgement, don't take things personally and don't let others control you.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 09:42 PM
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Your wife is manipulative, crazy, promiscuous, dangerous and a liar. You mentioned fire arms, alcohol, cleaning you out, sexting (and who knows what else) with other guys, getting plowed by multiple guys the year you were apart and you don't know what to do? Come on man, you've already got a good thing going with some other girl and life is only going to get better if you get on with your life. Stop delaying. She's using you to get what she wants. Don't be her bitch. Cut off all contact with her…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 09:06 PM
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Dudes that do this shit are like girls. Jealous and petty. Makes sense though. If girls are becoming more masculine that guys would become more feminine. Treat these guys like a girl/child. Ignore them. Unless they become confrontational they're just bitches.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 06:28 PM
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It's not common here but it's common. Even players and naturals get shit tests. If you have looks and everything else already at play girls assume you're swimming in pussy. Even if you aren't.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:28 PM
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This isn't a problem I've seen brought up here a lot, but you're right. Having this rep isn't always a good thing. Agree and Amplify can work if you do it right. Girl: "yea you say this to any other girl right?" You: "Nah, I say this to every girl. The old ladies love it." Or you can be evasive and flip the conversation back to her. Girl: "yea you say this to any other girl right?" You: "What do you think, I have bunch of lines I use? Hmm Maybe you do that so you think I do too." In my experienc…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:13 PM
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Can you give an example of how you think you might hurt a girl? I think you're a little confused on what's said here. You've been raised to believe it's wrong to put yourself ahead of girls and that's probably why you're worried and feel guilty. You aren't turning into a bad person. Honestly, you're learning to being truthful not bad. Society says "Just be yourself" TRP is saying "Be your best self and don't give a fuck what others think." Stop living for validation. You'll never be satisfied.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 02:48 PM
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One thing that I also respect about her is she is not selfish If she knows sex is important to you and you have a dead bedroom then I'd call that selfish. Work on increasing your SMV and continue to read the information on the sidebar. Not for the sake of your relationship but for you. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 12:38 PM
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I'd joked around with her before, but now I'd say more sexual things like how my female coworkers keep harassing me, etc. You could tone this down. Telling her about female coworkers isn't necessary. When it comes to dread her witnessing you receive attention from other females or you increasing your SMV is important. Actions, not words. She's always been a good wife and a good mother to my kids - sometimes I feel it's not fair to do that to her. Note, though, that she brought up my "girlfriend.…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:22 AM
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I agree. It's not that serious. Women are like buses, if you miss one there will be another one coming.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 02:36 AM
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Have any of the changes you made become second nature yet? I'm curious if this will always require a conscious effort on your part.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 02:11 AM
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Unless this is something you've dealt with before I'm gonna say you're good. I can't see a woman starting a scene, in a restaurant, on a date the way you described. If she does then she's crazy and you need to walk away.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 09:41 PM
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You're going on vacation. You shouldn't even be thinking about hooking up with this girl. Instead look forward to all the women you're going to meet and hookup with while you're traveling.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:57 PM
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There are too many things wrong here. First off the type of women you're dealing with. Are these hoodrats? If you're asking a woman out then make sure you pick a place that you can cover the charge for both of you in case she refuses to pay or she starts some shit. A way to avoid this is ask for seperate checks before you order. That way she knows where shit stands. Try to get out of the habit of asking women out to places that makes shit like this confusing. Invite them over to your place or go…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:49 PM
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Your feelings are either hurt or you don't know what you're talking about. What the OP described is something that is unique with Black American women. In fact once he said "Black American Women" I knew exactly what behavior he was referring to. In the context of this discussion race was helpful in getting his point across. Not everything is fucking racist so stop trying to make it into something it isn't. If you don't like generalizations then GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 08:29 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:16 PM
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Did you talk to her the next night? If a girl sucks you off to completion and you want to keep her around then you need to acknowledge her. You can't go no contact and expect her to feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:10 PM
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DNA testing for who?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:04 PM
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You can only act confident for so long. You need to start doing things you fear and that challenge you. If talking to women scares you then do it more. Go sky diving. Take yourself out of your comfort zone. The more fearless you become the more confident you'll be. Bravery and confidence go hand in hand.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 07:33 PM
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Wedding rings or engagement rings? What about them are you asking?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 07:16 PM
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Did you call or text her after she spent the night?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:52 PM
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I know of 5 and that's not me guessing. I know for a fact that the kids have different dads. My cousin found out that he wasn't the father of a girl he thought was his. That shit gutted him. He has never gotten over it. He met another woman and they have a son and I was so happy that boy was the spitting image of him because if he wasn't I'm sure he'd always wonder. He doesn't let that boy out of his sight though. You can see he's worried that he'll lose him too. It's fucked up.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:24 PM
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That article was on point. My wife was reading an article, not too long ago, regarding feminism and the negative impact it's had on the black community and black women. We have a diverse group of friends and the majority of her black female friends are single and a few have become bitter. It's gotten so extreme that a few are resentful towards my wife. A group of girls went out to dinner and one of her black friends got upset that my wife had 2 black men hit on her, even though she was wearing a…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 06:14 PM
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I dont really wanna cancel on her. First because I was the one telling her yesterday that it has been some days now and that we had to meet so she agreed to meet later today. And second I really wanna know what is going to happen and I want to tell her how I feel. Your situation doesn't require a meeting and discussion. This could be taken care of on the phone before meeting up. If you meet her to talk then you're agreeing this is important and it's not. Call her and let her know you're willing …
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:45 PM
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I'm American but never used it. I don't know if my culture (Latino) or where I grew up (NYC) is the reason though. Growing up we were either fucking a girl or we weren't. Getting to a certain "base" wasn't anything to discuss. Only kids I hear using it now are middle school boys (10yr - 14yr) but I'm not in the city anymore.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:14 PM
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DO NOT meet up to talk about it. In fact I'd cancel on her. I wouldn't be surprised if she's jealous. She probably felt some dread and now she's feeling insecure and shit testing you. Stand your ground. You're young so practice this shit now. Never budge if you aren't being unreasonable and you aren't. She's trying to control you. Don't let her. For the future keep your drinking under control when you're out. Being drunk isn't a good look. No woman wants to feel like she's babysitting her drunk …
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:04 PM
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Don't talk to him. If he's controlling shit in that relationship then he can pull off shit that someone else can't. Leave it alone. He could be fucking up his game or he could be rewarding her because she's doing right by him. If his SMV is higher than her's and you describe him as "Alpha" then I don't see the problem. What you can do is make sure he doesn't start blowing off his friends to be up his girl's ass. If you see him slipping later on, then let him know if he changes she'll lose attrac…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:32 PM
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It's a dream. It's not real. My wife has had dreams like this and I know I'm not cheating, so they aren't some premonition. I don't know if it fucks with her head the same way it's messing with yours but I would let it go. Maybe you're stressed or worried about some other shit and it's playing out in your head this way. Do you work out? On days I work out hard or spend a lot of time outdoors I sleep hard.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:22 PM
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I think this applies to certain locations. In NYC it didn't matter. The only reason it wasn't bad for me was because I was in a position of authority at my office. People won't go too far if they know they can lose their job. OP didn't specify where he works. Maybe he needs to consider moving up. Huge difference a position makes.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:37 AM
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I've gone through this. I would play along with the women who did this. I would tell them shit that made them happy like "you're too much woman for me" or stupid compliments. They'd eat that shit up. I'm Hispanic and look it but my wife is a natural blonde (even though she's Puerto Rican) so they would make comments about me picking a white woman with curves instead of someone my color. They even thought my wife had her ass done. Once I told them she was Hispanic they dropped it. They also backe…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:11 AM
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That's cool man. I get it. Your tactic worked that "one time." Is your plan to use that same tactic every time? Different scenarios require different tactics. I'm gonna be honest, and I could be wrong, but I think you were scared. I think this girl came on strong and threw you off your game. You described her as a "hot alpha female." She sounds very sexual, social and aggressive. That can make a guy nervous.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 10:24 PM
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Marriage wasn't on my mind until I met someone I wanted to marry. I also had a lot of other girls before meeting my wife. Dating and hooking up was already getting old for me and I wasn't even 30. Every fantasy I had, I fulfilled so I don't feel like I missed out on anything. If you ever change your mind just make sure the girl is above and beyond what you want and need or else that shit will go bad. Never settle.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:38 PM
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After getting more info from the OP (on his thread in askTRP) I think it was a troll.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:28 PM
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I pussed out and did the nice guy thing of escorting her home, maybe thinking she'd want me more if I played innocent. This is what he said. Since when does innocence make a girl wet?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:26 PM
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If it's not for you then no reason given will be good enough. Spinning plates isn't for everyone. It gets old. For every one old man that is doing ok, there are 1,000 that are alone and lonely. Some people like tradition and don't see only the negatives to marriage. Actually the only negative I ever see here is divorce. That's not a good enough reason for some of us to not get married. Shit can always go bad, with anything.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:22 PM
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So why are you nexting her? Unless this chick is ugly I don't see why you are quick to dismiss. If anything it's good practice.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:09 PM
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If she was on his lap with another chick and he didn't start touching her and kissing her then .......what do you expect? Maybe it's just me but when opportunity is knocking I answer. No way in hell my date is going to be sitting on my dick with a naked chick on her lap and I'm gonna let that opportunity pass. That's just me. To each his own.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:59 PM
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She gave him the friend line after 2 dates, a lap dance and 0 initiation from the OP. Is she suppose to make the first move? She did everything but grab him and kiss him. If guys are waiting for girls to jump them then they'll be waiting forever.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:36 PM
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She didn't reject him. OP didn't initiate.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:25 PM
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She was begging for it. It's alright. You still have a shot but you need to up your game and be aggressive. Make plans but you need to get physical within the first minute the next time you see her.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:58 PM
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One maybe our second "date", she took me to a full-frontal strip club. She requested a private lap-dance from a girl and insisted she sit on top of me while she got it. Great boner-inducing lesbo show that was. Then what? She was ready to go that night and nothing happened? She practically initiated foreplay with that lap dance. She gets the dance but you can touch her while she's on you. You didn't kiss her or fuck her after that?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:42 PM
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The diagnosis isn't DT. That's why I said "diagnosed as showing or having DT traits " My traits/symptoms or whatever they're called, are those that describe DT. This is fairly new to me so I'm still learning about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:28 PM
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Man why do you keep asking the same shit? It's not like I went to webmd and typed in symptoms "I want to beat the shit out of people" and "I don't give a fuck" then it said I have aggression issues, lack empathy and other shit. How does one get diagnosed? You go to a fuckin doctor. Then that doctor refers you to another, they evaluate you, ask a million questions and BAM they diagnose you.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:18 PM
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No. I didn't diagnose myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:04 PM
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I do indirectly do things to cause mild trauma and just overwhelming negativity to her life You need to give examples because how she is reacting to what you say and do doesn't mean you are abusive. You might not be doing or saying anything unreasonable at all.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 01:19 PM
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What is it that you want to know? Are you asking if I diagnosed myself?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:13 PM
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So how do you think you're abusive? I used the word in my other reply but you didn't really list anything abusive in your post. Throwing a vase isn't abusive. Unless you threw it at her. Being an asshole isn't abuse.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 12:54 PM
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There is a positive to this. If you're aware of what you struggle with then you can work on it. The way you're going now sounds exhausting. You can't keep up this facade forever. How old are you?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 12:39 PM
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I'm not a sociopath or a dark triad I assure you. I just think I'm an emotionally abusive bf backed with a deep understanding of RP and pua strategy that I use to put her down for my own amusement or sense of worth to keep her attached. You don't have a "deep understanding of RP." You are a fake. Your motivation is fear and insecurity. Stop worrying about what you can't control and start getting your shit together. If you were working out, focusing on your career or education and improving yours…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 12:08 PM
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I gotta be honest, as someone who has been diagnosed as showing or having DT traits your post comes off like a troll. I would've never been able to list all the things I do and how they hurt my wife without having it pointed out to me. Lack of empathy makes it hard to do that. I also never did things for fear of looking "beta." I do them because I don't give a shit. I'm not afraid to admit that I might have some underlying psychological need for being abusive and in power If your post is honest …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:52 AM
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I gotta be honest, as someone who has been diagnosed as showing or having DT traits your post comes off like a troll. I would've never been able to list all the things I do and how they hurt my wife without having it pointed out to me. Lack of empathy makes it hard to do that. I also never did things for fear of looking "beta." I do them because I don't give a shit. I'm not afraid to admit that I might have some underlying psychological need for being abusive and in power If your post is honest …
/r/askTRP19/09/14 11:20 AM
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I don't know how old your man is but if he isn't trying to fuck you then you've either shut that shit down and you didn't realize you were doing it or he isn't that attracted to you. Also, why are you asking a bunch of guys online how to get your man to fuck you? You're a girl, all you have to do is be sweet and tell him you want sex. But how the fuck can we do that in our situation? Heads up, if you approach things with him with the same language as your post then that could be your problem. Yo…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 11:07 AM
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Your friends sound weak. I don't know your age but as you get older you'll learn who your true friends are and who are just some guys you hang with. It helps if you can take yourself out of the equation, step back, and take a good look at these guys. You'd be surprised how easily their weaknesses become clear. You'll be able to see who is naturally loud and who is desperate for attention. It'll change your perspective. Don't allow others to control your frame. This goes for anyone. Friends, fami…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:52 AM
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non replaceable Your friend needs to read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:23 AM
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He either waits until they fade to see them or he owns up to it if they ask. He doesn't even have to answer if he doesn't want to. It is what it is. He's not exclusive with them so what's the problem? They either deal or leave. They're only plates. If he's worried then he should've stopped the bitch from marking him up. Never let some girl leave hickeys on you. That's like a dog marking it's territory.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:54 AM
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If she likes football she'll enjoy herself. So you're good. Tell her you're into boxing. It's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 12:56 AM
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Football is on Saturdays (college) and Sundays and Mondays...... But how does knowing this shit help you if you don't watch football? Does she think you're a football player? Tell her you don't watch football. "I was going to fuck him but he doesn't watch football" said no woman ever.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 12:41 AM
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She has said that she wants me to date other women and have multiple girlfriends But her reaction to you getting nudes says otherwise. If this is what you want then tell her you are considering dating other women. Don't bring it up during sex. Come out and say it. You can't try to slide this shit past her. This requires setting up boundaries and knowing what she's comfortable with. If she was a plate you could just bring another girl into the picture and try but with your wife you need to come t…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 07:14 PM
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You are aware that this is like opening Pandora's box, right? It's your marriage. You still have to work on your wife because she doesn't seem to open to this being more than a fantasy. Do you want the both of you to be with this other woman or do you want her to watch?
/r/askTRP18/09/14 06:58 PM
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It's not crazy but I wouldn't call your idea brilliant. A single parent is a single parent. Your children will still be missing out on a mother. Do you have sisters that will help you? The same way a mother can never be a father a father can never be a mother. This is just my opinion. If you want it then go for it. I have children but the thing about kids is you never know what you're going to get. It's a crapshoot. You may wind up with a kid who is a handful and you won't have help.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 06:27 PM
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I don't think being married has anything to do with it. You're a dad so they shouldn't feel scared. If you're some random dude without a kid and at a PTA meeting then they should be scared. Women like attention from men so when you're the only man they fight to be noticed. I'm over 6' and I weigh 275 and those women aren't scared. Shit they scare me. You'll be good. You have nothing to be worried about.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:40 PM
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Don't drink and get to the fucking festivities earlier. Tell her to come over wearing nothing but her coat. I can always catch up on sleep, so losing some for sex is a sacrifice I'm willing to make.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:29 PM
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I deleted my original advice since you shared more information. If your girlfriend didn't make this an issue until your ex's friend looked her up then that's a different story. She's feeling insecure because that girl looked her up and it seems like you didn't take her side on it. I don't know if you have to delete anyone but you should remind her that you chose to be with her and not them. If these other women continue this you may need to decide then what you want to do. Right now it seems you…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:15 PM
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Why are friends of your ex looking up your girl?
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:02 PM
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Saw your edit. this happened shortly after, for the first time, she posted photos of the two of us in an obviously "couply" position. Shortly after, she asked who a female friend of mine was, who had just looked her up on linkedin. Then the crap started. One of your exes looked up your girl?
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:58 PM
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Agreed. The FB shit is already dread. Adding more is overkill.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:55 PM
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This really depends on the kid's age. A baby is guaranteed easy mode but there are certain ages where kids can hurt you. They don't shut the fuck up and they could ruin your game. Trying to talk to someone when your kid is being a pain in the ass sucks. It makes you look like a chump.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:36 PM
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How old are the both of you? Not insulting but curious. Would you care if she has exes on her list?
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:33 PM
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Yeah man. Play dates, kid parties, PTAs are full of women. Not just married women either. Teachers, older sisters, aunts.....it's all women. Every time I show up to one of those things I'm treated like royalty. All of them say "It's so nice to see a dad here" or "could you help us carry something heavy? We never have any men here to help." Then my wife gets phone calls about how lucky she is to have a man like me. It's awesome. Coaching is good too. If your daughter plays sports you can voluntee…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:22 PM
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Well in that case, yeah, ignore her. Forget her too. She's acting like she's a prize and at her age......she ain't no prize. She should also know better. She has no consideration and at her age she has no excuse. Next.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:12 PM
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You said you work full time so I'm assuming it's M-F 9-5 (or similar). If you feel bad about asking your sister then offer to take her kids once a month on a Sat or Sun. You'll be giving her a break and you won't feel so bad. I don't know how old your daughter is but look into babysitters. There are always teens looking to make extra $. If your daughter is in school then start hitting up PTA meetings. Not only could there be single moms but the more parents you meet the more sleepovers and babys…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:06 PM
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I never got the appeal of Asian women. I thought Lucy Liu was hot at one point but it was her bitch attitude I found hot, not her ethnicity. In my experience they either act like every other entitled bitch or they put up a front and once they get their green card they become entitled bitches. All the Asian dudes I know don't even want Asian women. I'm not a fan of prepubescent looking bodies either and very few have ass and tits. Maybe it's just me but no thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:53 PM
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Need more info. You never said what she did to piss you off. You called her a bitch but didn't say why.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 02:39 PM
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Do you have family close by or babysitters? You need to get out more and have your own time without your daughter. You have to be a priority too. Keep in mind when you have kids, you want to avoid having women come in and out of their lives. You're setting the bar for her future relationships. How she sees you with women is how she'll be expect to be treated.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 02:33 PM
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Read the sidebar and all the material listed. Then visit the links on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:16 PM
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Why do you want them to be exclusive? Right now you're both using each other. She's giving you sex but you're giving her attention and affection. You're the in between guy. She's fucking you until she finds a guy who will give her attention, affection and commitment. If you can't handle that then own up to it. Spinning plates isn't for everyone. It doesn't make you less of a man if it's not your thing but lying to yourself does.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 02:15 PM
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Your story reminded me of myself when I first got married. When my wife was working I noticed she needed to decompress when she got home. I stopped greeting her and waited until she would approach. Much better results. I never had issues with women and my marriage is pretty tight. I was already doing the things mentioned here naturally. If anything this sub has humbled me a bit. I'm practicing empathy so even if the information isn't relevant to me, learning about other's struggles still helps. …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:53 PM
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I have been feeling less confident and as a result I have been making her feel bad about herself as a way to keep her value lower than mine. So this guy comes along and starts saying all this super sweet beta "you're so beautiful marry me" crap and she eats it up cause she is hungry for it. I've been here (for different reasons) and after reading your post and all your replies, are you sure you want to put her on notice to leave or fix this. If you guys were married with kids then I'd say defini…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 12:06 PM
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When I was single, $0.00. I never took them out. I'd meet them, exchange numbers, call, invite them over or invite myself over to their place and that's it.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 02:20 AM
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Don't assume he's some poor sap. That's just a text. Without knowing what this man looks like and how he approached her he may not be a sucker. He's not losing anything by trying and he's flirting but keeping it playful. He's making his intent known and if he knows she's taken then he's bold. I know plenty of guys who spit game like this. They make girls feel special meanwhile they're saying the same lines to 10 other girls. Don't forget it's ACTIONS not words. His actions are clearly saying he'…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 02:05 AM
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I don't know how you handle sex in your marriage but in mine it's important. We don't deny each other when it comes to sex. Ever. So while this was definitely a shit test I would've played with it instead of shutting her down. I would've told her "I'll be collecting my $45 back in pussy payments and BJs." Technically you passed the shit test but you also rejected her. Your wife sounds like a professional shit tester. She's got you cornered, Lol! I feel for you man.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:33 PM
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I'm not leaving the decisions in other people's hands. I just haven't decided if I want to dump my gf or not. When you said "I'm in relationship purgatory, waiting to find out if my gf wants to try with her husband, break it off with him and try to be in a relationship with me, or if she is just going to wash her hands of the whole thing" I thought you meant it. My mistake.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:07 PM
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After reading your post all I got was you're leaving your life in the hands of others to decide. Cut your shit and fucking make a move. You chose a shit wife. Then added a shitty girlfriend and now you're life is shit. Get divorced, dump the gf, go on vacation (if you can), regroup and start working on you and what you want. You're lost but you've got the map in your hands. I hope there aren't kids in this mix.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 09:45 PM
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Some of those women are aggressive and come on strong. My wife has this one friend and the shit she says to my wife (on social media) would earn her a chat from me if she was a man.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 09:35 PM
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You place the blame on your mother but the reality is your parents aren't special. They're just people. You can choose to be angry or you can just move on. You've been on your own for a decade. Your parents didn't make you into a "Beta" society did. If your mom fed you, put clothes on your back, provided you with shelter and tried to make sure you were healthy than she did her job. This idea that parents were better back in the day is garbage. Years ago people had kids so they had help working t…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 09:25 PM
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What's the difference between fuck-up-at-life neediness (where a woman really has to drop everything to nurse this man in some primal way), and the classical beta nice guy neediness. I've seen examples where the same woman will be attracted to one and repelled by the other. One doesn't give a fuck and only worries about his needs being met while the other worries he isn't good enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:35 PM
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What about the rest? Have you gone out with your friends? Are you coming home late? You're in a LTR for years have you fallen into a rut? Are you and your girl doing things together? A woman doesn't wake up one day and think "I'd like some pussy today." Something's been going on before it got to this point. That's if she's even actually looking for women.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 02:56 PM
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Caribbean? You'll have culture, partying and women (local and tourists). Something about being on an Island where it's laid back and the women are relaxed makes socializing easier.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 02:24 PM
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Apparently, a blowjob makes her sick on an empty stomach. Give the girl a snack. Have some snickers bars in a drawer by your bed. If she only says this when she hasn't eaten then it could be true. That's an odd excuse to come up with if it isn't. Unless she's trying to hint that she'd like you to offer her some food or take her out to eat.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 02:06 PM
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That's how I understood it too. What I'm confused on is how he thinks this is rape. BTW threw her into a room and fucked her. OP did not say that his friend fucked her. The two of them could've passed out for all we know.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:54 PM
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Most guys, even those who are good looking, tend to be pretty beta, maybe a little alpha at best. These women are so use to beta losers that any wiff of an Alpha gets them dripping wet. But, that's just my mind set and my observations I agree. It's why you see so many guys who aren't financially well off get with attractive women all the time. A childhood friend of mine lives in the projects but his gf is a model. This man is traveling all over the world with her and he probably only makes $10,0…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:21 PM
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It sounds like you took it too far with your jokes. Tone it down a little. When you mentioned her friend being attractive her feelings were hurt. That's why she started her little feminist rant. AWALT. You shouldn't be upset about her tantrum, this is a good thing. Where you went wrong was you let it get to you and ignored her. Next time continue like she didn't say anything crazy. It's her actions that are important. She was bitching but she was still talking to you. You ignoring her doesn't he…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 12:42 PM
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I genuinely want to see the belly dance show since I love belly dancers. This should be what your looking forward to. Making girls jealous or wanting to impress others is a guaranteed way for the night to turn to shit. Girls shouldn't be your objective. Hanging out and meeting new people should. The second this becomes about them is the second you've made their opinions more important than you. Stop searching for validation from others, especially from those who do not have a significant impact …
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:52 AM
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Look at what you're doing. You're checking the lesbian want ads, creating fake email accounts and contacting dykes online all because your girl is being distant for a couple of days. She's probably losing attraction. When you think she's pulling back that's when you start pulling back. Go hang out with your friends. Stop being available to her. Start using dread. You've completely lost frame. You're letting emotions dictate your actions.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:59 AM
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Your story is confusing. First she was escalating hard then she wasn't trying on you, then she asked you to take her to bed, then a friend grabbed her. WTF? This isn't rape but something must've gone down that you didn't feel comfortable with if you're questioning it. When shit starts to seem off then go with your gut and do what's right not what's easy. Here's advice I tell my soldiers. If you're gonna go out and drink, never get to the point where you are no longer in control. Save getting shi…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:40 AM
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Can't comment on LA but I was born and raised in NYC. Never had a problem with women. EVER. Never dated ugly either. It's a different game. It's beautiful. It's like being at a buffet. You can have Italian on Monday, Asian on Tuesday.... You get the idea. As far as competition....it goes both ways. There are more men but there are more women too. It's ridiculous. You could meet 10 women on ONE block. That's how many there are to choose from. This isn't even including Brooklyn and the other borou…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:29 AM
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Conversation is becoming pointless because you don't want to take any responsibility. You're defiant and I don't have the patience for this shit. If you were my kid I would've shut that shit down when you were young. But I'm not your Dad and I'm not into coddling people. Don't do it with my kids and I sure as hell ain't gonna baby a 25 year old grown man who refuses to change. Good luck kid. You're gonna need it.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 10:25 PM
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Delete this and repost without your personal information. Read the rules while you're at it.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:42 PM
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How long were you with your ex?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:42 PM
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Man that's not fair and you know it. You could've made your same point without trying to guilt someone by mentioning your thoughts of suicide. Your OP is vague and if you've lurked here then getting hit with harsh words shouldn't be a surprise. We aren't psychic. You need to give us more information. Edit: If you still are feeling hopeless then get medical help. Handle that first then work on sexual strategy. If you're passed that, then great. Time to get real about shit.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 08:08 PM
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I do think the kino aspect of my game is probably the weakest. It is just ingrained in me to see physical contact like that as creepy, unwanted, and automatically something that just should not be done. I now consciously know the opposite, but it takes work to retrain your brain to see the right situations and act accordingly. I saw that you said this in one of your replies and I think what tombreck2 suggested is probably a better fit for you. What I suggest is aggressive and worked because in m…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 08:02 PM
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Honestly I don't remember. It had to have happened early on because she was asking my intentions. Are you wanting to be honest with girls immediately (when you meet them) or when they ask?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:44 PM
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Those must have been some phenomenal blow jobs dude. Because it sounds like she sucked the common sense right out of you. You never go full beta. Seriously though, what compels you to do something like that? I love my wife but I am struggling when it comes to displaying any beta traits so I am genuinely curious. I can't bring myself to do it and seeing as you have that shit on lock I figured I ask.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:53 PM
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I think ole bot went on vacation. That shit has been broken for awhile now.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:32 PM
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If a girl straight up asks me what my intentions are I will give a sarcastic over the top response, but should I just tell them straight out I want to fuck them? I have. With a straight face too. My wife asked me what were my intentions and I told her "I intend to bend you over and fuck you hard." (I'm loosely quoting myself. I don't remember the exact words) She was shocked I said it. She called me nasty or something but she clearly liked it because I haven't been able to get rid of her ass. I …
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:26 PM
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Hey man glad you think I was of some help but those weren't rhetorical questions I asked you. What you posted has me thinking you don't have a grasp on this.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:36 PM
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Why are you comparing yourself to her old boyfriends? How do you know about these gifts? How do I change her mind-set on this? You said you're already dating her so what mind-set are you talking about? The way you're viewing/describing this is the only problem I see.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:20 PM
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That's cool. Just checking. It helps when giving advice to know if there is a backstory. One thing she could grab is a cute and sexy apron for her to wear while she bakes in my kitchen. Text her this. If you want you can even ask her to text you back some preview picks. Mostly generally speaking, how does one in an alpha way handle/accept request from her to please me? With what frame? Be polite. Use your manners and say "thanks" or "I'd like that" when she offers something. If she does somethin…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:57 PM
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Log the fuck off This isn't real life. Limit your online activity. You need real, human interaction. Get a dog if you can. Go hug your mom, sibling or any other relative close to you. You may think I'm joking but I'm being serious. Lack of human affection, and I don't mean sexual, can negatively impact a person emotionally and mentally.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:14 PM
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She is going to a baking fair/convention Is this the "fat" (Your words, not mine. Although I agree.) girl you were asking about in your other thread?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:05 PM
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I ask. I'm a firm believer in keeping shit simple. It works. If you're direct with people they learn to be the same way with you. My wife has become one of the most direct people I know because of this. It's weird too because I'm still not use to her being this way. Most women are passive aggressive and I've become accustomed to it. I constantly have to remind myself that my wife actually means what she says.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 01:37 PM
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Nope, never been married. No disrespect taken. Cool. it's all about frame Agreed! Frame is extremely important because if a woman (even an attractive woman) is feeling neglected it can backfire. Insults linger. Honestly I'd call her out. My wife rarely does this. Don't know if it's because she doesn't need much validation or because she's oblivious when she's being hit on. But, the last time she shared I didn't ignore, punish or use A&A. Instead I was blunt and honest. I asked her "so some dude …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 01:02 PM
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Are you married? No disrespect intended, genuinely curious. I would only say that to a nasty bitch. If OP's wife is a nasty bitch then, fuck it. He can say it if he wants but if she isn't then that's some hurtful, spiteful shit to say. Not only that but you insult yourself by implying you're pathetic enough to be a guy that "will marry anything."
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:51 AM
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I agree with this too. We don't know much about OPs situation though. I know that I do not praise, validate or show much affection to my wife. (This is on me. She's sexy and an awesome person. I have issues with being empathetic and showing emotion) So to cover all bases and give OP options I think giving him different opinions to think about is beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:33 AM
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Agreed. She's not feeling wanted at home and is trying to show OP she still has it. I know this because my problem is I haven't learned how to validate or give my wife much positive reinforcement. I suck when it comes to comfort. OP get a little more aggressive in bed. Make her feel wanted. If she doesn't feel validated at home she'll start soaking it up from the first guy who gives it to her.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:18 AM
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I never thought about marriage. Wasn't looking for anyone. I was perfectly ok hooking up and having girlfriends here and there. Met my wife, liked how she was, really liked how she looked, chemistry (or whatever it's called) was off the charts and that was it. After a few years I enlisted and I'm glad I was married beforehand. New marriages and deployments are a recipe for divorce. Most of my brothers have one wife saying farewell and a new one welcoming them home. This shit is crazy. I have no …
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:41 AM
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If 6-7 knows then definitely do what I suggested and put her on time out. As for the other two and you not being sure if you should tell them, that's your call.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:20 AM
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I wouldn't consider this humiliating and try not to get caught up on what "could've" or didn't happen. Just work on changing it. Do you remember what was going through your mind at those moments? FWIW you should feel good knowing that attracting girls, approaching and socializing with girls hasn't been a problem. That's not easy for a lot of guys.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:12 AM
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Well I'm just gonna continue to enjoy this marriage thing I've got going then. I don't have any complaints. I know my wife had a low number for when we met but shit, she'd be considered virgin-like now. I lucked out. After reading this I'm tempted to lock my daughter up.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:50 AM
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The girl who's done this 6-7x needs to get a time out. Cancel plans with her next time. Stop texting her as often as you do. If it's twice a day drop it to once a day. With the girl whose done this 2x, next time she's over, make out, get her naked but do not let her orgasm. Keep her on edge. She wants to stop or do something else then turn her down and leave or show her the door. Third girl just met you so you won't know her game until next time. I think these girls are looking for LTR and are t…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:34 AM
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Hold up. These were basically first dates/first time hanging out?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:08 AM
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Do not reply "okay that's fine, I'm starting a new job now anyway so I'll be busy too." That sounds weak. Just say "no problem." No need to add extra words. What's with trying to get the truth? What are you the FBI? Her flaking is the issue not the reason why. Her excuse was half ass as it is. You got canceled for errands. That's bad enough.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:04 AM
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For 18?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 12:35 AM
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I guess I'm old because oral used to require some serious commitment. I would not go down on a plate. I wouldn't even kiss all of them. I've fucked a few girls and never kissed them.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 12:23 AM
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I'm not a doctor and I have 0 experience with STDs so.... I also never heard of a doctor giving half ass info like the OP described. If a doctor told me something like that and didn't elaborate, I would've lost my shit in the office.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 11:53 PM
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I can't see how these chicks are naked, letting you finger them, giving you a blow job but won't let you get in there. What is their excuse? You aren't trying to get in without protection, are you?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 11:26 PM
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What exactly does she think it is? She had to say more than "sex related."
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:18 PM
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Some (Really Sexy) Bimbos I know I really don't like but I really really want to fuck them only. Go for it. Some women (king of sexy) I know are fun and I enjoy their feminine energy and I want to hang out and fuck them. Again, go for it. I don't get where your concern about validation comes in. You aren't trying to validate women you're trying to hook up with them.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:15 PM
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You're not marrying her, right? If she's not infected and you're using condoms then what's the problem?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:09 PM
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Are you getting anywhere with them? Are they staying fully clothed and just sucking you off? More details could help. Are you in a bed or in a car? What's happening before this?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:05 PM
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I think there's a difference between a spanking on the hand and beating with welts, bruises and scars. Your post makes it seem as if we all just beat our kids things would be great. Contrary to popular belief not all kids got a beating back in the day. My great grandmother raised 11 kids, mostly boys, and never laid a hand on them. I heard she didn't even raise her voice. My great grandfather didn't hit them either. By the time he came home they were all sleeping and kids were the woman's job ba…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:54 PM
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Everything posted on TRP says women are really shitty at these things Where does it say this? You sound like a troll. Your last post too had a troll vibe. What does this and your other post have to do with sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:34 PM
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You act as if we don't have a say because they do. If this means something to you then get out there and get involved with getting more men to vote.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:24 PM
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It's cool you're trying to help your friend but only he can decide how he allows this chick to treat him. If he wants to keep doing shit because he's too afraid to put himself first then that's on him. She dumped him then goes crazy because he refuses to give her money?? Then she has her mommy call? I'm a little embarrassed for him. He's 20 not 5.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:57 PM
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Look at what you're asking us. is it possible to not have a specific set of hours, and instead just be assigned a starting time, not knowing when you'll finish working that night? Call Applebee's and ask them what the shifts are. I suggest you start working on yourself instead of worrying about some girl's work hours. Hit the gym and brush up on your English. Find a hobby. Continue your education maybe? This shouldn't be what your settling for.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:46 PM
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Oh shit! Her Mom called. Hahahaha. How old is your friend? Every country's laws are different but here (US) they would be wasting money on legal fees if they took "legal action." Tell your friend to ignore those crazy women.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:39 PM
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You're doing good. Relax. She's just a girl.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:51 PM
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Forget that other guy. You have your own shit to handle right now. You're just now realizing that what happened with Miss Tainted Twat happened because you allowed it to. His dick is not your burden to carry. He's a grown man. Work on yourself. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:48 PM
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This shit we face needs to be reigned in or we're going to be doomed. I think doomed is a bit dramatic. Shit is not ideal but we're not facing the Middle Ages. Things are changing already. Not too long I read an article stating there's been a rise in women choosing to stay at home instead of having careers. If you're a parent you can see it with kids too. There's backlash to having so much political correctness being forced down our throats. And we're already dealing with the negative impact of …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:24 PM
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You're golden. Stay calm and don't fuck it up. Next time you're with her, escalate. Keep things casual. Don't start blowing up this girl's phone with texts and calls and don't start spending every free moment with her either. Always put yourself and your interests first. Most importantly, read the sidebar and keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:07 PM
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I agree. I've noticed without real adversity, people will create problems and view things negatively. I'm older so I had a different experience then some of the single guys but it seems that lack of confidence (due to fear) is the biggest hurdle for guys here. I think it's because they haven't had much adversity in their lives. Nothing builds confidence like overcoming a challenge. The harder the challenge the more confident and fearless you become. It changes your entire perspective. Technology…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:14 PM
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All you can do is see if she continues to come to you then. In the meantime go on with your day. If you see her and she acknowledges you then smile. She could be shy or something else. You can't be doing too bad if this girl came and sat next to you and didn't walk away. Sooner or later you'll know what's up with her.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:41 PM
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Awwww damn. Come on man. You haven't learned your lesson? This bitch is poison. False rape claims and leaves you with a fucked up parting gift. Please, FFS, learn from this shit. Don't allow tits and ass to lead you. If you try and put her in her place that means she's still got something on you. Don't give her that power.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:27 PM
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OP needs to be celebrating the fact he was able to walk away safe. I would stay far, far away. Last thing you'd want to do is poke this evil monster. Her response could land a guy in jail. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:13 PM
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Stick with no contact. You're fooling yourself if you think "giving it to her" will make you magically feel better. The bitch lied about being raped. She's a soulless, heartless, cunt. Words won't hurt her.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:04 PM
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Yeah man. I don't get this at all. I have a teen in my house and this isn't normal behavior. Girls either want to be close to get attention or they try to avoid a person. Either we're missing info or this girl is special.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:50 PM
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she sat down next to me, didn't even bother looking at me, I went alpha and said "hey, how are you this morning?" She said nothing. Awkward silence. Aside from your "I went Alpha" remark this seems all good. Does this girl have friends? Does she ride to school on the "special" bus? What do you know about this girl? Don't take her actions as a failure on your part yet. If she has social issues than this would explain her weird behavior.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:46 PM
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Learn to move on. I struggle with anger. Not the same way you described. I have little to no patience and it makes me go from 0 to 1,000 in seconds. What you described sounds more like you're angry with yourself about shit you can't change. Shit is over. Learn from it and carry on. Learning to not take shit personally and not take myself so seriously has helped. Being physically active has helped me the most though. Sports, the gym and even sex, to a point, are my salvation.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:32 PM
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You sound pissed. I get it but if you've read the sidebar then you shouldn't be surprised. Fatty McSlutty treats your boy like her bitch because he acts like her bitch. I want to call her out on her behavior, shame her and tell her that she doesn't worth a friend as great as my beta friend whom I consider a little brother. If you do this then you'll be as bad as McSlutty. You'd be disrespecting your boy by putting a spotlight on his shit choices. Dude doesn't respect himself already the last thi…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:46 PM
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Agreed with that entire list. I (personally) would add attraction and a sense of humor to it.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:02 PM
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(I never claimed to be in a relationship with her) But did you make it clear that you weren't interested in a relationship? Upcoming party in two weeks, how do I do "damage control" make sure she doesn't cock block me, make sure she's not a huge bitch? If the both of you share friends then try "damage control" ahead of time. Call her or pull her aside and be honest. Tell her you're not interested and she looks like an ass when she starts her crazy shit. -Side note, any advice on being more discr…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:45 PM
2

Hey Bubba, you're here. You haven't been deleted. What is it you want support with?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:48 AM
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Your girl says she needs to leave at 10pm for an emergency and you don't ask what the emergency is or offer to go with her? It's not possessive if you show concern and are adamant about accompanying her.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:38 AM
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The reason I broke things off was because I started liking one of her friends and didn't want to lead my ex on anymore. So the friend and I have been talking and she said that she wants to hookup but my ex is really sad so she wants to wait before doing anything. Does this friend know why you cut things off with your ex? If she does then you done fucked up. She's got you following your dick with some bullshit about hooking up when she's ready and you're just letting her. She's either DTF or she …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:54 AM
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So your theory is we're not that different because a pretty woman is the equivalent of a good looking, charming, successful, millionaire? That is what makes us different. The fucking bar is so low for women and it gets higher and higher for men. Not to mention that fat, sloppy looking bitches think they're entitled to, what you describe as, "Alphas" just like the "beautiful women." You answered your own question in the text portion of your post OP.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:26 AM
3

I had my wife ship me a vacuum while I was deployed because a SGM said there was too much dust. We were in what could be considered a hut, in the desert, without running water, trying to avoid fire but the dust was the fucking issue.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:46 AM
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Don't be an asshole. Without you giving an example it's hard to say more. Who said you're an asshole? What did you do that made them say it?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:39 AM
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Also, as a Sailor, I love discovering that the USN used to put out stuff like this. These days, I'd shorten it to: "Put on your dress uniform, go to a bar". These days they can't put out stuff like this because we're being briefed on sexual harassment. If the Military tried putting this out now the lawsuits the gov't would be hit with would be crazy.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:25 AM
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Early 30s. We've been together over 10 yrs. Why do you ask?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:31 PM
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hate themselves for it Guy's job makes him miserable = He's disgusted with himself Girl's job makes her miserable = She's disgusted with her man
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:19 PM
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The difference is even if a man is miserable with his job he won't be too tired to have sex with his wife or gf. He won't resent her because she isn't making more money than him. He won't be tempted to look for another woman who is more successful than his current woman. When women feel pressured into a career it impacts everything. Including their relationships and sex life. Men are better at compartmentalizing shit. Work is work. Sex is sex. Women connect and interconnect everything. If they h…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:05 PM
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Your girl sounds like she's either an alcoholic or immature and doesn't know how to hold her liquor. I don't know what kind of wedding you were at but I'd want my woman to be the classiest one there. Not the embarrassing drunk.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:06 PM
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They're spoon fed this garbage then we get stuck dealing with the controlling, miserable person they become. Best thing I did for my marriage was get a job that required us relocating, forcing my wife to give up her career. Every time we go back home and visit you can see the difference between us and our friends. The wives are angry and harsh looking. Meanwhile the men look pathetic. Every once in a blue I'll think maybe two incomes would be a nice perk. Then I remind myself how fucking great i…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:53 PM
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If you aren't interested in this girl then..... whatever. I gotta be honest, I don't get the point of your "little experiment." You don't get anything out of it. All you're doing is ignoring her and talking bullshit. A good experiment would be texting her "be here in an hour" and see if she comes.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 07:14 PM
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I don't agree and amplify at all. The times I have it's happened because her brother was around to witness her "bitchfit" and he agreed and amplified and I went along. It does work. I'll even admit that my wife uses a version of it with me. I have a short temper and aggression issues, so making light of it helps. Which is why I rarely use it. I don't have the patience. When my wife starts some shit I respond/react in one of two ways. I either find that shit sexy as fuck and let her continue beca…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 05:48 PM
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"Feminism dictates if guys can sleep around" ??? That doesn't even make sense. Feminism doesn't dictate if men can sleep around. You handled it fine. There is no way to answer or respond to crazy talk. I just found out she's a strong feminist last night, and it was a little turn off for me. That's just a "feeling" and the right guy (you) will make her get over that feeling.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 05:31 PM
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I'm not the one who said it. I do agree with it though. Porn chicks are mostly ugly (average or cute at best) I don't disagree but enthusiasm, lack of a gag reflex and easy access to view these chicks having cum blasted all over their face seems to override the shit ton of makeup they're wearing. If looks mattered then the roast beef hanging between most those bitches' legs alone would impact porn's popularity. and you can bang girls who look like them for a few hundred bucks (or for free if the…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:42 PM
1

That was a fucking joke? WTF? I thought OP was serious. Joking about shit like that is the equivalent of shooting yourself in the foot. The second I call a guy gay or bi, jokingly or not, my wife automatically views him as a potential friend to shop with. Once that thought is placed in their head it's hard to remove.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:26 PM
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Her: it sounds like: She was asexual and didnt want threesome with black girl I'm guessing there was a lot more to this discussion then you shared. If it was a shit test or just her being curious I don't know. I do know you failed. It reads like an interrogation and you willingly answered every question and got no information about her in return. What's up with you having a boyfriend? I don't know how being openly bi helps your game if the girl is straight.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:12 PM
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I am sure that tons of porn and fantasies about girls made you build up huge standards A-fucking-men brother!! This shit is rarely mentioned here. OP says I have been denied it by every girl I've ever been interested in but this is not the same thing as being denied by every girl. I swear it's like a baby wanting to run without learning to crawl first. Same way girls are being fed some Disney bullshit, guys are being fed bullshit with some of this porn that's so easily accessible. Shit ain't rea…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:01 PM
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Last weekend my LTR of 6 months went on a girls trip to the beach, about 3 hours away. This is where shit went south. The texting and exchanging of numbers was inevitable. Unless she had this trip planned before you guys were together then the fact she went away, with only girls, to a place that requires the least amount of clothing is a HUGE red flag. my inclination is to just drop the relationship, with this as the final straw. Your inclination is right. I wouldn't mention this incident either…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:47 PM
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There's more to this situation than what I've written here, but this is the main gist. It's probably some of the "more" that is causing her reaction. Does "R" know about your plates? she is "uncomfortable with this whole 'undefined' thing we have going on" She might like you but if she has certain standards and isn't too experienced then she's not going to be ok with something casual. Nothing wrong with that. A girl knowing her limits is a good thing IMO. I think she left the ball in your court.…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:36 PM
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Let your guard down or be real? Two different things. You described being real and you should always be true to yourself. Maybe I read this TRP shit differently but the goal shouldn't be you putting on an act for the rest of your life. I would be going crazy and feeling like a restless, nervous, caged animal if I always had my guard up. I know my limits, I know what I'm willing to put up with and I know what I need. If zoning out for a day or two is my way of decompressing then that's what I do.…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:05 PM
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She came back and I gave her stuff back, she thanked me, shy me didn't say a word and I just rushed to class after that. I'm going to disagree with others and say it may not have been a shit test. I have a teenage girl at home and I notice when her friends come over or someone she likes is around she runs to the bathroom or nearest mirror to fix her hair or whatever. She could've been doing that but you rushed away when she came back. If you see her on Monday don't walk away. Talk to her.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 09:04 PM
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Most definitely. She can be shy or it can be a nervous reaction. She could also be afraid of rejection.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:25 PM
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Other than a baby or small child who is completely dependent on you for all their needs this doesn't seem healthy or realistic.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:15 PM
2

Outstanding outlook. I don't even know you and I'm proud of you. Keep that attitude and let that be your frame. If you do that you'll always be ahead of the game.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:38 AM
2

It could be the height difference. Is this is an ex or a current gf/plate? I'm confused.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:57 AM
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He is being friendzoned by his gf. She's discussing other guys with him and dude is worried about being paranoid. Sucks to be him.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:36 AM
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"Buttermilk biscuits" is the first thing I think of when I see these dudes. I think I've seen almost all their videos but never this one.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:51 PM
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Can you give a few examples of the type of shit tests?
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:07 PM
2

Only time I've felt close to what you described was when I no longer cared about a chick. I know it's possible to have both because I have it now but I don't know if you can get that urge back if it's lost.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:20 PM
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Varying sex positions is important. It's a different sensation. Some women will orgasm faster in different positions and some can only orgasm in certain ones. What's the height difference between the two of you? If it's a big difference or you have long legs, you may want to try standing while she's bent over.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 09:49 PM
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Hey man, if this is your thing then great. Just know that she's asking if she can experiment physically with other people. This time it's girls but what else hasn't she tried that she's going to want to "experiment" with? If she has some wild oats she needs to sow then be prepared to have her want to try more things with others later on.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 09:32 PM
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"Thanks" "So I've been told" "I get that a lot" Or wink in reply. Come on man. Read the sidebar. Not every comment or question has a "RP" answer. You can't live life asking yourself "what's the RP response" for every comment or question. When in doubt respond the way you would if a guy or a girl you weren't interested in said it or asked it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:25 PM
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I'm older than you. Way older than you and I think "learning about girls" was a bit easier because my generation interacted with each other more than your's seems to do. We had no choice. Yeah, there were video games and the internet was around (I'm not prehistoric) but social media wasn't (ok, maybe a little prehistoric). I might sound like an old person when I say this but the best thing you can do for your social life, emotional health, mental health and physical health is get out more. You m…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 05:50 PM
1

I get how DT traits can be used for attraction but .....then what? As someone who has been diagnosed as showing or having DT traits I know there is the flip side to it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:13 PM
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There's advice about how to mitigate this risk (by careful partner-selection and proper maintenance of your LTR) but mitigation will never be elimination of risk. I gotta say that this answer is as honest and as helpful as it gets. You've stated the facts and did it without adding a biased, personal view. It is what is. It's a risk. First time I'm awarding a point so the bot better pull through. ♂
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:44 PM
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You touched on exactly what I was going to say. Once you lose that initial "high" OP mentioned it's because it's become a natural routine and your body adjusts. It's not until you stop that you notice how bad you feel without it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:24 PM
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Only people I know who use online dating sites are white or Asian. If any of my Latino or Black friends are using it they're not talking about it. In fact the majority of them frown upon it. Especially Latinas. My wife (Latina) thinks it's dangerous and only for promiscuous women.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:35 AM
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If you don't like "get over yourself" then "shut the fuck up" and/or "go fuck yourself" works too. I do have a heavy Brooklyn accent so maybe it works when I say it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:15 AM
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Next. I'd avoid all contact too. It's only been 16 weeks and she's thrown shit tests your way, insulted your age and she's already fucked around. She's not only a member of the Bat shit crazy club, she's the President.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:26 AM
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No problem.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:14 AM
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Do you know how old these women are? I do. Get the fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:58 PM
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You told her you don't want kids and don't plan on marrying so I don't see what the problem is. Why break up with her? You've got a good thing going on. If you want, remind her so she knows where you're at. You're both still young so I wouldn't worry too much about it at this point.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 08:27 PM
3

I'm telling you to do whatever you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:49 PM
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If you're feeling generous and want to allow them the chance to be a plate then go ahead. It doesn't hurt to have a few girls on standby.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:37 PM
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I don't think I've ever had sex with a woman I thought was really hot. How do you make the jump to actually sleeping with attractive girls? They pretty much 100% ignore me right now, or at best my polite conversation. Not one jot of flirting or interest. Sometimes I can't tell if some of you guys are just attracted to bitches. No offense but what you described, a girl who ignores you when you're being polite, is a bitch and would be a fucking turn off to me. Yet you (and countless other guys) wa…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 03:38 PM
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You know what's the best response to someone who says "Don't judge me"? My go to response is "get over yourself."
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:28 PM
4

It's your frame of mind and relates to framing effect. When you "hold frame" or "maintain your frame" you are not allowing outside situations or others to control/impact your emotions or reactions. Edit: If what you are looking for isn't on the sidebar or links listed on the sidebar then you can also use the search bar. 99.9999% of the time your question has been asked and answered.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 01:56 PM
2

Having your own set of moral codes is necessary. You decide what those codes are though. If doing something to get ahead is going to eat at me then doing it just to do it isn't worth it. As far as that chick goes, you made a smart decision. You didn't know those people and shit could've gotten ugly. That's got nothing to do with morals.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:27 PM
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Scenario 1 being in a club with loud music is hard. I also can't picture how you're dancing and she just stops and walks away without some kind of heads up. That shit's weird. Scenario 2 Right after they said hello to each other I would've held out my hand and introduced myself then excused myself once they started talking. In a club, the craziness doesn't make walking away look bad. When you're one on one it can come off as being butt hurt. You display confidence by introducing yourself and by …
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:19 PM
1

How happy I am she's in my life, NO. That I care about her, I guess. We say "I love you" often and I come home every day after work. That says a lot right there. When I say sappy shit I usually say it while playing around. Or I mention her physical attributes. I'll say "Have I told you how happy you having a fat ass and big tits makes me?"
/r/askTRP09/09/14 10:22 PM
2

It's a shit test. You could've replied: "I can wait for you to grab your bag first before making the sandwich. That's not a problem." For the future don't ask her to make a sandwich just tell her to. Then compliment the sandwich after she makes it.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 10:14 PM
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If you aren't insanely attracted to a girl don't consider her for marriage. Ever. I happen to prefer really curvy women (small waist, full hips and big tits) so I clicked on the pic.....NO! That picture is beyond fat. That's morbidly obese. She may even have trouble getting pregnant because of her weight.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 12:33 PM
3

Increased hostility So girls were unfriendly before and now they're becoming malicious? Examples please. How are girls being spiteful?
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:23 AM
2

Thanks but nah man, your response was top notch.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:45 AM
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Dude, we've answered you already with this screen name. Also when you used karambit99 and whatever other names you've used. Changing your screen name isn't going to make some new advice magically appear.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:41 AM
1

Girls aren't likely to bring up sex talks. Same way they're less likely to ask the guy out. If you think it's because she's not attracted then, go ahead, next her. But if you're nexting her to avoid an uncomfortable conversation then that's dumb. Asking "what's up with the cold vibe lately?" Shouldn't be hard to ask. You live at home so unless all your potential plates have their own place you might find yourself in the same predicament with other girls who aren't excited about having sex in a c…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 12:47 AM
2

I had a good laugh. He suggested that you to keep your mouth shut and just observe. Like this info is just magically appearing online by itself.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:12 PM
3

Have you read the sidebar? It's like you have no idea who you're replying to.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:58 PM
8

Your mother's the one woman that will ever love you I disagree. Some women are so fucked up they don't know the first damn thing about love. She has your best interests at heart Not if she has her best interests at heart first. Down vote away but this isn't true. She put herself before her kid. She married, got divorced, married again and sounds like hopped on the cock carousel in front of this guy since he was a kid. That is the complete opposite of having his best interests at heart. Sorry but…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:10 PM
-1

I honestly believe that no man is immune to girl game when it is applied correctly and even the most hate filled anger phase guy here would still fall prey to it. Never hit an anger phase, I've been RP my whole life without knowing it. Still, I've had a bad temper and aggression problems my whole life and this applies to me too. My wife has an uncanny way of relaxing and easing it. Sex is only one aspect of it. She's never tried to lead me. What she has done is consistently be selfless and patie…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:14 PM
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I agree. I don't know about the next 5 years but as a father I am noticing a change with my kids and their friends. There is backlash towards feminism and political correctness. I'd say in the next 10 years. The pendulum is swinging back, so to speak. Just how far back it's going to swing I'm not sure of.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:54 PM
2

If she isn't bothered by it when you do it then it's not disrespectful to her. It's when she wouldn't like it but does it to you that it's a problem and likely a shit test. My wife was trying to get back at me for something. Her point was made but I still shut it down so it wouldn't happen again.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:28 PM
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This is a shit test. My wife tried this once, years ago (I may have deserved it but it's not the point). She said some actor was hot and I said "Have you seen who he's fucking? You think he'd be down to trade?" I know she finds other men attractive the same way she knows I find other women attractive. We're married not dead, but there's a level of respect shown. It's different for people though. Does your wife get upset if you're looking at porn or you make comments about women?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:05 PM
7

We all have shit that can make us feel bad if we let it. I'll share something I struggled with. I'm on the larger size. When I used to wear condoms Magnum condoms were too small. Yeah, this sounds great but after 10+ years of marriage I still struggle with not blowing my load within seconds of seeing my wife's body. What used to eat at me was knowing about this ex she had who could last for hours. Meanwhile I'm lucky if I can go 15 mins without alcohol in my system. So you can worry about how bi…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:35 PM
1

Asking seems weird, No, you shouldn't ask for sex. You should ask her what's up with her blocking your hand though. Now I know I'll probably get down voted but some shit needs to actually be verbalized. You aren't psychic and neither is she. If she is not down with car sex then you're just putting yourself out there to be rejected. Making you feel like shit and her probably feeling pressured. You didn't mention it but has she said anything?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:05 PM
2

I am wondering if I can actually get a wife/girlfriend who craves to have sex with me every night.. It's possible. It comes down to respect/attraction and her sex drive. From how you described your current gf she doesn't seem too attracted to you.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:51 PM
1

being big deters a lot of fights This is true but what good is being big if you can't back it up? It's like wearing expensive shit but riding the bus because you can't afford a car.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:06 PM
2

Yeah, if you say so. The next time you go to the gym take a look at some of those dudes. They're screaming like women in labor and they aren't even lifting heavy. Then go to a boxing gym.... a real one and look at what those dudes look like. Not all of them are big or cut up but they can knock a motherfucker out.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:58 PM
2

Lifting will not help you in an actual fight. Fact!
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:27 PM
3

It's only bad if you feel like you walked away because you were scared. Never do shit out of fear. If you walk away it's because you feel like it not because you're scared. It's got nothing to do with how you'll look to others. Edit: I just noticed your username.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:07 PM
5

Where to from here? At this point you handle shit however you want. If avoiding the bitch and finding another spot is what you feel like doing then do that. If standing your ground is what you want to do, then do that. I think what you're struggling with is the fact that you lost your frame to this bitch and think your physical appearance is weak. You think if you were bigger or ripped this wouldn't have happened. News flash, a bitch is a bitch and she'll be a bitch, no matter what you look like…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:51 PM
1

There are deeply seeded biological/evolutionary desires for specific alpha traits. This is why I say it's relative. How one views these traits, and which traits are important, varies from person to person. Take physical size as an example. A woman wants a man who makes her feel protected. That doesn't mean she's looking for the biggest guy she's just looking for one who fits this ideal for her. Most of my friends think I'm lucky because of my height and size or because they think I have a "don't…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:35 PM
15

Me: "I'm sorry That's where this shit when downhill. Never apologize. Ever. But especially when you aren't in the wrong. You could've told her "I'd gladly move but some drunk chick vomited over there. If you want to go have some words with her then be my guest."
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:17 PM
1

there are few that are always trying to spend time with me and they've been doing all my chores and stuff that I don't want to do (laundry, make my bed, take out the trash, make me coffee, you name it.) WTF? So you have a few girls who are basically offering you pussy and you're busy looking at Miss Greece instead? What's wrong with occupying some of your time with one of the other girls? BTW, if you see yourself as a 6-7 then you have more work to do.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:07 PM
1

Unless you get this way after meeting all people (i.e. guys, old people, ugly women) then it's probably because you still put women on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:55 PM
3

Would you want her to set up a meet and greet with you and her ex? If you and this ex share friends then it's inevitable. However, I wouldn't set something up so my current girl and my ex could meet. You shouldn't need that to fall back on as "social proof."
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:47 PM
2

Everything is relative. One person's idea of "beta" could be another person's idea of "alpha." Without every detail about a relationship and the girl, there is no way of answering this question. A guy who appears "beta" could be dominant at home or in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:25 PM
1

Be busy on weekends and she won't have a choice....... if she wants to see you. Whatever you do, don't marry this woman. Shit is bad and it shouldn't be.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 08:38 PM
2

You said it was instinctive. I could see slapping her hand, but damn, you slapped her face? I admit, I laughed reading this though. I don't know what I would do but I'm big and a former boxer so if I slapped a woman she'd likely go down. I probably would've told her to "get the fuck out of my face." If anything she'll now think twice about being a cunt to others.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 08:07 PM
2

I look at those women like kids who believe in Santa Clause. You ever see kids on Christmas Eve? They swear they see a sleigh flying in the sky or hear bells outside on the roof. Only to find out years later it's all bullshit and they've been lied to. Some of those women will get old and realize it's all bullshit. Some will meet a man that makes them change their views. And some will never catch on and live miserable lives. I really don't care though. I'm not married to one of them so let them b…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 07:09 PM
4

Treating someone like a child isn't the same as being a father. How would you react to some stranger's kid throwing a tantrum?
/r/askTRP06/09/14 06:54 PM
1

If my mother asked me that I'd grin and tell her "my mother didn't raise me to be the type of man who talks about my private affairs." If anyone else asked I'd be evasive or straight up tell them to mind their business.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:23 AM
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I don't know if others will agree, but I find your answer "It's seriously sexual" outstanding. What was her reaction/response? Edit: I would've probably said something like "Let's not talk about her. She has nothing to do with us."
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:38 PM
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Explain ignore. Did you call/text her and she's ignoring you?
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:46 PM
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Foreplay is pre fuck.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:33 PM
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Ejaculate repository.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:32 PM
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The term "slut" is offensive. My PC handbook says "sexually extroverted" is the correct term. /s
/r/askTRP05/09/14 03:34 PM
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It's funny you say that because it was my mother who would say "just be yourself" and my father would hear her then yell out "and don't give a shit what others think." He took some bullshit feel good line and made it relevant.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:20 PM
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Dread. No more texting her Start going out after work Stop doing any favors for her Take the word "sorry" out of your vocabulary Don't ask her to go with you to your family's or anywhere else. State your plans and that's it. Stop explaining shit to her. Less words more action. Start flirting with other women when you're not with her and be friendly to women when you're with her. Or you can next her. Do what you want just don't make your decision based on fear. Staying with someone because you're…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:33 PM
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Be fearless. That's my (extremely) brief summary. It's pretty much what I've been told my whole life and what I tell my kids. Society says "just be yourself" (shitty and incomplete beta advice) but I was brought up being told "just be yourself and don't give a shit what others think."
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 02:05 PM
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No one is forcing these guys to marry these women. They're choosing to. If dude is at work all day and the only thing he wants is to see a hot piece of ass when he gets home, so what? If you want more then don't settle for that shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:37 PM
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Don't call yourself "saddest of saps." Get those thoughts out of your head. Being military myself I gotta say I'm impressed you've been able to meet girls that aren't whores. Where are you meeting these girls? Every post and base has barrack rats. I swear it's like these bitches are issued with our uniforms. Start there. If the idea of spinning one of the cum dumpsters that services your entire BN isn't your thing then the next level up would be hitting the bars and clubs outside post. These gir…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:58 PM
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Read this. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22qnmk/newbies_read_this_the_definitive_guide_to_shit/ When in doubt about something refer to the sidebar or use the search bar. 99.99999% of the time a topic has been discussed or a question answered in detail.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 12:39 PM
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When a girl cancels (by text) wait at least 30 mins to reply and respond with "Real busy (or with someone or doing something) at the moment but got your text and no problem. Ttyl." Then delete her from your contacts. Having said that you need to work on your game. This is after a week or sometimes a lot more of texting and emailing to get to know each other. Cut this "getting to know you" shit. If you are texting and emailing them too much then you're already showing them you've got nothing else…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:19 AM
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I would respond with something like "completely understand and you being real is appreciated." This way you come across as easy and when you see her in class there isn't any hard feelings or awkwardness. How you handle being shot down is important. Especially when it's a girl you'll see again. Girls talk and the last thing you want to do is come across as sensitive or easily butt hurt because that shit will get around. It also leaves the chance to hook up at another time as an option.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 12:39 AM
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Is Ice Cube type shit normally on the playlist?
/r/askTRP05/09/14 12:15 AM
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She said we barely knew each other so she didn't want to let me take off her shirt but we could keep making out, so I left instead. She was trying to slow it down. She could be inexperienced or was giving you a version of the "I'm not that type of girl" excuse. You should've stayed and continued with the making out.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:46 PM
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How old is this girl?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:27 PM
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Sounds like you have a thing for this girl. Worrying if you're nice, sweet or BP wouldn't be a concern if you had no interest. If she was a dude, or looked like Oprah, would you give a shit?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:17 PM
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She's a roommate not a plate throwing shit tests at you. She shouldn't have any impact on your "masculine frame." BTW, what is masculine frame?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 10:56 PM
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Reply: "I got an invite to go somewhere else so figure out what you're gonna do and let me know."
/r/askTRP04/09/14 09:21 PM
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Your height is the least of your problems.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 08:12 PM
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but she told me she did and she said she wouldnt be with me if she didnt. Unless she's saying this while you're balls deep in her then sorry bubba but she isn't feeling you. Read the sidebar and hit the gym.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 08:04 PM
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This is Priceless! FYI so is a mars symbol.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:59 PM
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Respect and attraction go hand in hand. Girls won't fuck a guy they don't respect.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:57 PM
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Where do I go from here, You kick her ass out. Cut ties. Have your family do the same. They should cut her off but if they don't then make it clear to them she is not to be around when you are. They don't talk to her about you and she's dead as far as you're concerned. I don't have oneitis, Yeah you do. First step is admitting it. I also don't want to gI've up on the person I want to be with because of something so petty. Petty? This girl, the one you don't want to give up on, kissed your cousin…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:47 PM
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automated teller machine That's what comes to my mind every time I see it. Embarrassing but for a while I thought it was being used to describe a gold digging bitch. It never made sense in the sentence and my dumb ass finally caught on.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:12 PM
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Do you lift? How's your diet? You also never answerd if you've had your T levels checked?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 06:36 PM
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My point is, all sentences that starts with "Women does this" or "Men does that" are always false. Speaking in generalizations works within the context of this sub. If you know of women or men that are different from described here then take that into consideration when drawing your own conclusions on what's said. So, my question is do you really believe that Men and Women are that different? Or am I missing something here? Men and women are different. This isn't a belief, it's a fact. If you be…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:34 PM
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Sad shit indeed... I've seen this pattern before... So cliché... I've seen it before too. However TRP has been an eye opener because it's allowed me to view it from the inside. I've seen friends put up with shit and never got what was going through their head. Reading this sub and other sites, forums, blogs has answered that question for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:56 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. I understood the scenario in the OP how you described. There are still aspects of TRP that, while I can sympathize with, I find hard imagining how guys settle for this in a marriage. Being married myself I can't see why a guy would stay married to a woman who makes their life miserable.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:53 PM
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Missing the old days is one thing but you do control your life now, right? I look at what I have, then come here and thank my former self for doing right and picking a woman that makes life easy. If you feel empty then you should work on that.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:48 PM
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2 year anniversary? To his wife or TRP? This is some sad shit to read. I don't get the point, no offense. I'm sure this resonates for some but this is not something I would be ok with.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:38 PM
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Wtf is up today with guys wanting to check their gf's phones?? I read your other posts. Why are you with this girl when there are so many others out there? Come on man, you don't see how fucked up this is? You don't trust her and rather than cutting her off you're looking for shit. Why? You have nothing to lose if you next her so I don't get this. Actually, I do. You're insecure. Rather than work on your shit you want to work on hers. Read the material in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:26 PM
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Get a life. Seriously. Keep your time and mind occupied. I've said it before and I'll keep saying it. It's like a drug. You're getting your fix when you stalk her online. You probably feel like shit after doing it too. Block, delete, ignore and stay strong. It's hard now but there will come a time where she'll be "some bitch I used to like" and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:18 PM
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If you're going to respond don't wait days. You'll look butt hurt. As far as her being a no show that means she isn't that interested. Who the fuck forgets meeting up with someone they're excited about? No one.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:11 PM
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Maybe I'm misreading this but are you staying because of a lease or because you're able to bank money while you are living together? Who is the lease under?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:05 PM
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Keeping tabs is keeping your finger on the pulse of your relationship (i.e. is she suddenly hanging out with a group of single girls, is she taking longer to reply to your texts). You're already going above that by going through her phone. Keep in mind what's suggested here is dependent on the situation. A married guy, with kids, who is suspicious about his wife's late night texts is going to be given advice that suggests he dig a little deeper. Not the same thing as tracking your gf's phone bec…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:00 PM
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Don't do this to yourself. What good can come of this? Really? You'll turn into an obsessive freak. Worry about yourself and being your own idea of a badass and forget this possessive shit. If she's up to no good you'll find out sooner or later and then you'll next her ass. Going to these lengths reeks of insecurity.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:47 PM
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Not joking when I say this but for quick basic info look into "Idiot's guide" books. I hate reading about shit that doesn't interest me and these books come in handy. Now if you are wanting more than the basics then take a class. My brother in law took real estate classes. Not because he wanted to be an agent but because he wanted to buy property. He took an accounting class so he could handle his finances. This kid has taken so many fucking classes and it's paid off. He owned (and still does) p…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:01 PM
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Let it go. You haven't gotten over her so you aren't viewing this objectively. It's been 9 months and she's still in your system. Cut all ties and full on NO CONTACT. She's like a drug to you.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:30 PM
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Aren't we as dudes supposed to basically want to fuck everything with a hole? No. Don't believe the hype. Shit isn't the same for all of us and contrary to popular belief we aren't all horny bastards that can't control ourselves in the presence of pussy. Some of us don't get off on pumping and dumping as many girls as we can either. In fact your problem could be viewed as an advantage. You're less likely to make fucked decisions or have girls use sex as a way of controlling you. You're less like…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:14 PM
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Man you're answering your own question. You drank, which probably helped with you overthinking shit and it was spontaneous, not giving you the chance to overthink shit. Her being more your type physically could also be a reason if the chicks you're trying to get with now aren't doing it for you.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:00 PM
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Ok. Then that "if you don't use it you'll lose it" mentality might help in your case. Masturbate more. What about the rest of the shit I asked about?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:50 PM
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Only one of which I was able to get it up the first time Time to start retracing your dick's responses. What was different with that one chick? Did you drink before you fucked her? What are you focused on when you're fucking these girls. You said you only masturbate occasionally. Is that a choice or is it because you're low drive. Also, have you had your T levels checked?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:39 PM
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What should I have done differently? Everything after getting their numbers. Maybe even what you did prior to that too but you didn't include it so I can't say. You're coming off desperate. Women can smell that shit. Have you read everything in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:32 PM
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Is this shit all a mental problem or a physical one? I'd say more mental then anything else because you mentioned The only chick I'm able to consistently get it up for is my ex gf the first few times we tried having sex I couldn't get it up either Have you fucked any girls since your ex?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:24 PM
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If shit is good in your LTR then tell her "Babe go to the bedroom, take off your clothes and wait for me there" Or "Right now I'd like to see you on your knees with those sexy lips of yours sucking" If I'm in the mood for a blowjob I either initiate sex and lead to it during or just tell my wife "I'd really like to ram my dick down your throat right now." Me having needs and urges isn't a new or unacceptable concept. Sometimes she handles business without asking for anything in return and someti…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:01 PM
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Thinking back I don't recall ever asking. I'd either say what I want or what I'd like to try but I never asked. If the woman is comfortable (with you) and enjoys sex (again, with you) then there isn't or shouldn't be a problem with getting her to do almost anything. At the very least she should be willing to try. Keep in mind I'm talking about more common sexual acts/tastes. If your thing is threesomes with midgets and whips then you may be looking at a hard no. What is it that you're trying to …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 11:33 AM
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You say your 19 but when do you turn 20? You're both teens so you're in the clear. Thing is why would you fuck around with a high school chick when you've got pussy all around you in college that doesn't come with any risks?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:30 AM
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Dude all your posts are complaints about your new girlfriend. Why are you with her?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:17 AM
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I dress like a college kid Ironically you referred to yourself as a kid. I'm not saying dress like an old man but if this is a concern then you might have to consider dressing differently if you want to be viewed as older than 16 or deal. Other than lifting and your wardrobe there isn't much else you can do at the moment. You said facial hair ain't happening so...
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:49 PM
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At 6'2 you can't be too young looking..... unless you're dressing like a 12 year old. Besides lifting, work on how you dress, carry yourself and act. If you're wearing a cartoon t shirt and playing minecraft all day then you're gonna come across younger than what you are.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:14 PM
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Your observation is wrong. I'm just letting you know that it's genetic not an indication of stress, but hey, if it implies bad things for you then ... whatever. It's not a red flag. It's a preference. I never found gray hair attractive on a woman anyway. I don't need to rationalize why.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:02 PM
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It causes it to fall out and makes gray hair more pronounced. Dude I've deployed 3x and with guys who've done 5 deployments. If what you say was true my brothers and I would all be gray.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 09:30 PM
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Is this a good thing? I'm not sure if "intimidating" is great. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 09:27 PM
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She has these issues because her last 2 relationships ended very violently I'm willing to bet she either instigated the "abuse" or she's exaggerating. She could've also made shitty past choices when it came to guys and knew they were "abusive" beforehand and contributed to her own "abuse." Edit: Read the sidebar some more. You open your question claiming to be RP but you're excusing her shit. Not something you'd be doing if you had options.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 09:09 PM
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Stress doesn't cause gray hair. Read up on it.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 07:59 PM
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I didn't introduce her, a mutual friend mentioned TRP because of something my wife said. While she agrees with most of TRP she doesn't care for the RPW sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 07:43 PM
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I agree with your point about LTR game being different but not for this specific situation. Op's gf is trying to control him. I think him trying to quell her insecurities will have a negative impact later on. She hasn't displayed any actions on her part that are worthy of reward. If she had voiced her concerns or fears about not feeling good enough for him then that's one thing but she becomes a dramatic bitch to get her way.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:47 PM
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I feel like she knows my SMV is too high and is scared or something. Don't believe that for one second my man. If she thought your SMV was too high she wouldn't be trying to blatantly control you nor would she nag you. She's worried alright. She's worried you will leave her if she doesn't make you her bitch. And if she does you can kiss that relationship goodbye. Like my wife said "if anything being RP can help." Don't lose your frame and don't get bamboozled into thinking she's helpless because…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:34 PM
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What you described sounds like you were nervous. Chill out. If you go out again, pace your responses when talking to her. Think about what you're going to say before talking. Even if this means you say less. Saying less is probably best for you for the time being.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:05 PM
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How's sex? I'm not being a wise ass. When my wife says shit like this it usually means she isn't feeling wanted sexually. She may be feeling dread. If sex is good then it's a shit test. If sex has been routine then add some aggression/dominance.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 10:03 PM
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I'm angry at my so called friends for letting me down, angry at my family for not being there How do your friends let you down? What do you mean by "my family not being there?" Without some examples there's no way of knowing if you're depending on others too much and/or have unrealistic expectations. Or if you have real reason to be angry.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 09:54 PM
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You're at a standstill because you aren't doing anything new. You've become comfortable and aren't challenging yourself. Start lifting. That time excuse is just that. An excuse. 30 mins lifting isn't going to interfere with career progression or anything else. Without listing your goals it's hard to suggest anything else. What is it that you want?
/r/askTRP24/08/14 07:09 PM
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I guess wanting to plate her is just a consequence of my (hope ending) oneitis. NO CONTACT is the cure to oneitis. Any suggestions if she comes back ? I assume the correct approach would be sex and let her on her way..if she catches on and "you use me only for sex. I'm not your breathing fleshlight" it's just next. Correct ? Correct. This is why I'm not a fan of plating an ex. Ideas about sexting or using snapchat/skype for fun ? Why bother? Unless sexting will result in me getting some later on…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:29 PM
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You were a c*** I don't know what "c***" stands for. If you're gonna call me out then say it, don't hold back. That's what this place is for. I can handle it. Shit I'd probably think of it as a compliment. Glad you loled. That's the point.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:21 PM
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Just wondering what you opinion is on tactical manipulation of photos via social media No opinion because I don't get on that shit like a girl. A couple of guys I know, one in particular, are always sticking up pictures of themselves with kids , fishing for likes. One guy completely milks it, and recently has been going out of his way to play the adorable kid loving uncle. WTF? How do you know that is why he is doing this and why do you give a shit? Do you condone this behaviour, and practise an…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:57 PM
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Is this even possible ? Of course it's possible. Just keep fucking her and drop all other aspects of the relationship. No more dates, hanging out and stop calling or texting unless it's to set up when you're meeting up to have sex. I suggest finding new plates though. An ex is best left in the past. Too much history and baggage can ruin it and make something that should be easy into a pain in the ass. Not worth the effort if you ask me.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:45 PM
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You like what you like. My wife has 2 small tattoos, I like them even though it could be a red flag. Some guys like athletic lean body types and some of us like Kardashian curves. To each his own. TRP is just laying out what are potential red flags but that doesn't mean you have to live by every theory for every girl.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 12:10 AM
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Another person replied having your girl make the move. In this scenario I think it's best. Heads up though, your ex seems like she's looking for more with you. Don't know what your situation with your gf is or how serious you are but this may not end well. It may be great just be aware.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 06:37 PM
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2) Don't avoid it. If you say you aren't talking about it then that's it. Either flip the question back to her or shut it down. You said you answered her already so I don't get why she's still asking. 3) Then don't text. Text to make/confirm plans. That's it.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 06:28 PM
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Questions like this come across as troll bait or debate topics.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:20 PM
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I really want to know your opinion on this, honest question. Why do you want our opinions? How will this help you? As for this question: Moreover, if they are our SO, how does that leave the relationship? Would it influence us negatively? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 03:33 PM
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1) Ignore 2) Answer "I don't like talking about the past." If she asks again then flip the question and ask her how many guys she's been with but NEVER give out your info. Especially to a plate. If you must give an answer say you can't remember or give a crazy answer like 10,000. 3) Answer "I haven't decided if I want to sleep with you yet." FYI If she's saying "If you're doing this solely to sleep with me, stop wasting my time, and don't talk to me again" then something you're saying or doing i…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:42 PM
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You answered your own question Bubba. My only rationalization of this phenomenon is that women automatically categorize doctors as beta providers that should be saved for 10 years down the line once they're done "having their fun" Somewhere between you dominating and you revealing your goals you lose attraction. You need to be the one they want to have their fun with. Why are you even mentioning becoming a doctor? I highly doubt that you completely dominate the classroom and display alpha behavi…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:25 PM
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A lot of women find it flattering and empowering when they can make you bust a nut quick as fuck. I agree. I'd also add that when a woman feels that way during sex you can get them to try any freaky thing you want. If they think you find them that attractive they let go of their inhibitions.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 11:46 AM
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it isn't an issue when I'm extremely drunk getting head (for some reason I can last a decent amount longer getting blowjobs). These two comments lead me to believe it's in your head. When you're getting head your focus is off of her and solely on you. When you're fucking her you're thinking too much. See a doctor to rule out anything else but in the meantime stop watching porn and jerking off. Slow the fuck down in bed too. Pay attention to yourself and not her for a while. Not trying to push a …
/r/askTRP20/08/14 11:37 AM
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He is her orbiter because she's only using him for validation. If he can't escalate it then he's an orbiter. He doesn't have oneitis for her if he has plates. If he can't close with the married woman then tell him to next her. He's wasting his time. The longer he's in that role the less chance he has. Who knows, no contact might work for him with her.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 11:18 AM
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I leave with her handcuffed to the bed Does she have a way to get out or is there a chick somewhere right now stuck to a bed?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 11:02 AM
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The operative word being "real." My wife gave up a high paying career to do the housewife/mom thing and every so often she mentions how much easier having a career was.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:54 AM
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Hard truth: Your wife has absolutely no respect for you and that's your fault. You have allowed her to treat you like shit because you don't respect yourself. I have no where to go. Her father owns the house we live in What the fuck?? Does her father own every damn property in the town? You would get your own place if you leave her. You're thinking like a victim. Stop that shit. Good news: You're young, you make more $ than her and you have one kid over 18 and another who is old enough that you …
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:20 AM
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You passed. Should I start hitting up plates if this dude comes back in orbit and doesnt leave her alone? Hit up plates if you want but orbiters will always be around. The hotter the woman the more likely there will be orbiters (plural). Not a real reason to throw in the towel. How she handles them is what's important.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:57 PM
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That's not the gist, more like a fragment, if you broke down TRP into pieces.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:41 PM
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I would normally just say I am sorry Remove "I'm sorry" from your vocabulary. Even when you're wrong. Maybe later on you can add it back but you are a long ways from that point. I personally never say it. Unless you are discussing plans then you no longer need to explain yourself to her. You handled this shit test fine. It's your frame of mind that's going to be the hardest. Easiest way to do this is to view her as a child.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:29 PM
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I owe two promotions to my wife. First one was simply because I was married and my seniors were married too. They felt a married man would be a better leader. Second promotion was because at an event my wife and another one of my senior's wife hit it off so well that her husband looked up my info and pushed through a promotion that would've taken a year longer to get. There are other perks that have nothing to do with taxes, insurance or health benefits that come from being married. Promotions a…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:45 PM
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That's cool.... for you. I enjoy family, comfort, starting my own traditions, coming home to a sexy woman who lights up when I walk through the door. Having home cooked dinner with her and the little people I help create and watching them grow up. Being surrounded by laughter and love. I haven't even gotten to the sex. In house and on demand sex is awesome. Even the challenging days end in great sex. Could a marriage end in divorce? Yes. The reality is bad things can happen all the time. I don't…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:36 PM
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She dodged your offer to go back to your house but didn't ignore you. It's easier to persuade a girl in person.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:07 PM
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I've been married over 10 years and it's great. No need to knock something because it's not for you. Report back in 30 years and let us know how spinning plates is going.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:03 PM
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Depends how old she is. If she started losing weight late teens/early 20s then she should be good. That's the age you stop eating like a kid. If she's older and she's kept it off for a few years (3+) that's a positive. If she just lost it a year or less ago the potential for her to gain it back is still there.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 12:54 PM
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What's high interest? You're the one who flakes out on plans. Am I missing something?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 11:49 PM
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Apologies, I deleted that reply before seeing yours. It was meant for the OP so I posted it again to him in the thread.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:25 PM
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In reply to your edit I have a solid SMV, I train MMA, but I don't have the tats and prison history of a real DT. I'm gonna let you in on something about DT traits. After a few deployments I've been labeled as having or "showing traits similar to" DT and it's fucked up. I can see how it attracts women and can be beneficial with PUA but for LTR it's not healthy. So don't consider your SMV lower than his if he was a real DT.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:21 PM
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At least he didn't ask me for prices like the hotel kid did.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:31 PM
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I think I've answered my own question. I figured you would. I just don't have the SMV of her last BF. This insecure shit needs to go. You might be dominant or she might be submissive which makes you think you're dominant. You need to work on your self esteem and confidence. Saying your SMV is lower than a drug dealing cheater is not a good look and not how you should see yourself. Work on that and if in a few months she isn't verbalizing her feelings you may want to try and get it out of her dur…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 08:24 PM
3

All her actions point to her being in love with me I gotta ask man, what does this mean?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 08:02 PM
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I'm at XYZ bar "you should come" ETC.... Or "Come out to XYZ bar tonight, I'll be there" She's asking you to meet up with her and you aren't going?? WTF dude? Even if you don't want a LTR you still need to actually be in her prescence to make her a plate. I'm not falling for the going to hangout with her at bars and shit because it won't get me in her pants and I know that. Uh yeah it can get you in her pants. Go hang out, have fun, let her get comfortable with you then she'll be more likely to …
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:52 PM
1

How close are you with this dude?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:22 PM
3

my wife breathlessly asks me "Would you do that for me?" How would you respond? I'd say "That wasn't good enough for you my precious cupcake." You gotta go with it and laugh at shit sometimes. Things like this aren't serious. It's a TV show. Not everything is a test or has some bigger meaning. Asking her if she'd do the same for you made a lighthearted question into an ugly petty moment.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:11 PM
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Why are you afraid that a woman would leave you? What's the worse thing that can happens if a woman dumps you?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:21 PM
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Great reply. I hope OP reads it and realizes the important points you made. ♂ However this statement: The porn argument is nonsense. A woman bitching about porn use is a woman who isn't getting fucked hard or often enough. And a satisfied, devoted partner shouldn't bring it up at all. This situation comes up in LTRs all the time - if you were satisfying her then she wouldn't give a flying fuck how insatiable your appetite for Kristina Rose gangbang videos was. She feels ignored and insecure. is …
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:05 PM
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You sound insecure. What are you doing to work on it?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:53 PM
1

Focus on the negative when it comes to her and the positives of why not being with her is better for you. You dodged a lifetime of hell.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 11:50 AM
1

If you want Brooklyn then go to the promenade. Get ice cream on Montague St. Or the Aquarium. Lots of exhibits are dark. Manhattan you can do South St. Seaport or get ice cream by Chelsea Piers. The Museum is cool too and Planetarium.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 11:30 AM
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Mind your business. If he isn't asking you for advice then don't give any. She may be exactly as you described or not. Only people who know what's going on in their relationship is them. I've seen guys with girls who look like bitches but take care of them like kings and I've seen friends get fucked over by women everyone thought were sweet.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:24 PM
1

I'm in a situation now where I am finding it extremely difficult to feel truly excited about any woman I went through a phase like this. Without knowing what RP was. I know I even went a while without having sex. Wasn't motivated or interested. It passes. I'm married and it's out-fucking-standing. Love her more now than I did in the beginning. Attraction is still strong.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:26 PM
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100% agree. If you're not sharing a bed then you're roommates and not lovers. Not only should you sleep together but couples should sleep together naked as much as possible and go to bed at the same time. People have a bunch of excuses but then wonder why their relationships don't work. Sleep is important but I enjoy knowing I have a hot piece of ass, naked, in bed that I can flip over and be inside of at any moment. Anyone who doesn't want that must not be attracted to whoever is in bed with th…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:45 PM
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Race, wealth, ethnicity, education, family.... My group of friends consist of everything from street thugs to CEOs. Some are wealthy, some middle class and some dirt poor. Some are educated and some are drops outs. Other than growing up in the same neighborhood there isn't really anything else we have in common. Yet we all managed to pull in girls. Even the types of girls weren't that different. Majority of them were 7+ I don't know if it matters but I grew up in a huge city. 2.5 million people …
/r/askTRP13/08/14 01:57 AM
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Good on you! Thanks for keeping us updated. Only thing I would've done differently is this she said nothing… so, I asked her about it. I wouldn't have asked. It worked out only because you had control of the conversation but I find less talking always works best. Dude if you compare this post with your last one the changes are significant and it's only been a few days. You say it's hard but I think you have this shit down. Keep it up. It gets easier.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 01:32 AM
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I don't know. I have a diverse group of friends and all of them have been successful with getting laid since our teens.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:51 PM
1

First off I'm admitting I haven't read much about this claim so grain of salt and all that. How I understood it is that 80% of women want 20% of men. Not that only 20% of men get 80% of the women (sex) but that only 20% are what women consider attractive or ideal. I'm with you OP when it comes to my friends. By the time I was 20 not one of my friends had less than 10+ partners. The ones who had less than 10 were in LTR since their late teens but even most of them had 5+.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:44 PM
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Call?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:08 PM
1

If you go then you'll be giving it to her. I would call her and tell her you won't be going because you're going away. Give her some corny well wishes blah blah and forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:00 PM
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'Cause you sound like you're 12?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:55 PM
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Not enough information. What gossip was said? What was your solution?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:53 PM
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I'm wondering if trp thinks that this girl might be worth keeping around She can't even text you without including a narcissistic, woe is me comment. Stay the fuck away from her.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:49 PM
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Maybe you can try here.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:46 PM
3

Does she have a spiral horn on her head?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:40 PM
2

She's not your best friend. She's a chick you had oneitis for and you fucked a few times over the years. You didn't even get a real invitation, you got a phone call. Why would you go to her wedding?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:45 PM
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Do you think this is a cheating risk? Every day there's a chance she can cheat. Get over it. You can't live life worrying about shit you can't control. If she cheats then next her. It's not the end of the world. You can't surgically install a gps in her twat with a camera on her head so you can view her activities all day. It's a risk you take when you're in a LTR. If you trust her so far then have some damn faith in your own ability to judge others. You chose her right? Then chill the fuck out.…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:35 PM
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It wasn't one thing. It was a combination of little things. After we had sex a few times I started buying her things to wear to bed. Lingerie, fishnets, thongs..... I would also tell her I wanted to sleep naked. One night I asked her if she trusted me and after she said "yes" I told her then she should trust how I think she looks. At times I'd tell her to take off whatever she had on and walk to me. We were both young but I had more experience than her so I would pick out porn for us to watch or…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 02:08 AM
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Cock ring helps too. I'm married but wifey is hot and I swear sometimes I'm like a 14 year old virgin who's never had sex before. Not my finest moments but fuck it. It happens.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:16 PM
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Calm your tits with the "you're fucked." OP hasn't said anything other than his girl is shy and possibly a bit insecure. He'll figure out soon if her insecurities are huge red flags or if they're petty. He says sex is good and pleasing him is important to her. She's also hot. His issue is leading to get her to be more open and comfortable with him. This isn't a plate. Not every guy here wants to spin plates. Try to keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:00 PM
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Now you know why you have these fears but you're also old enough to work on it. There was a lot of shit I had wished my mom and dad did differently but once I was 18 the blame went from them to me. It was either waste time from my life and use their fuck ups as an excuse to not be better or I could work on what I needed to. I chose the latter. That's what you sound like you want to do. There's no easy way. You need to start doing those things that scare you and you'll notice with each try, fail …
/r/askTRP11/08/14 10:49 PM
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Her insecurities (mostly due to her being young and naive at the time) created a few problems early in the marriage but he handled them in a very RP way This happened after we were living together. Your relationship seems like it's still new. There are some similarities between your GF and my wife when we first got together. She was shy as hell about being naked. During sex or when she was really turned on I could get her to do anything but if we weren't in the middle of a fuck fest she would go…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 10:34 PM
2

You should've fucked ExBFF too. You did the "right thing" for the wrong girls.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 07:33 PM
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Does that sound like a girl that is interested? Not trying to be a wise ass here but look at what you listed as her reasons. Read the sidebar and the links.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 05:02 PM
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Choose wisely. Look at her family and their marriages. Make sure she's interesting to you. Look at how she was raised. What values did her family instill in her. What do the women in her family look like? Are they frumpy or do they all look like they make an effort with their appearance. And for fuck's sake make sure sex is outstanding for the both of you. That she enjoys it a lot and it's important to her. People underestimate the importance of sex in a marriage, but good frequent sex has a hug…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:34 PM
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Not sure what is wrong with me. You're scared. You're letting your fears prevent you from trying to go after what you want. You'll never get anything in life if you don't get over your fears and try. Rejection is inevitable. Don't take it personally because acceptance is also inevitable. You just have to get out there and try.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 03:53 PM
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All my life I've been a control freak That's fear. I'm going to tell you what I told my (6 yr old) son. "To feel good about yourself (confidence) and to become brave you have to do the things that scare you. Don't let fear dictate how you live." I won't define the word "dictate" for you like I did for him, because you're not 6. The reality is you can't control everything in life and trying to will make you sick. It's not healthy. What is it that you're afraid of? Getting hurt? Getting rejected? …
/r/askTRP11/08/14 03:42 PM
2

She hasn't been available to hangout What were her reasons?
/r/askTRP11/08/14 03:18 PM
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That being said, I should mention I'm happily married to a wonderful woman. Sweet, kind, and a heart of gold. I wouldn't trade her for the world. FWIW, she shares my opinion on the weirdness that passes as "Feminism" today, and it probably doesn't hurt that we were both raised by our respective grandparents, as opposed to our Boomer Parents. If this is how you were raised then a lot of what's said here will be common sense for you. That said, what people seem to find offensive about the RP is th…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:34 PM
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I'm guessing you're being down voted because you mentioned "LTR" but I think your suggestion was good. Not everyone enjoy's spinning plates. I did it when I was young but it wasn't the goal. The goal was finding someone I clicked with. I just hooked up with girls until I did.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:13 PM
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You're young so you probably like this new girl and the others are starting to lose their appeal. If this is the case then jamieoneal82's suggestion might be good. You also might be bored overall. If you're meeting the same kind of girls it's because you aren't leaving your comfort zone. Being hot doesn't make the high quality. Get out and try new things and meet new types of girls.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:10 PM
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If you mention it play it off as you giving him a heads up because you weren't sure he knew and no hard feelings. If he doesn't lay off then keep your eye on it because he could turn into a spiteful bitch.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:16 AM
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Are you and this girl exclusive yet and does he know? In my scenario I knew the guy but he wasn't a close friend. I didn't care if he never spoke to me again and I went after his girl. In your situation you might be able to make it known he needs to back off because she wasn't his to begin with.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:06 AM
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Him backing off has got to come from her. Unless she complains about it to you you're shit out of luck. It's not your place. Especially with the relationship being new and how you met her. I was in a similar scenario. If you confront him he will definitely run to her with it, if you mention it to her you'll look/sound like an insecure girl. He will either get the hint or she will (should) start pushing him away. If she doesn't then you may want to rethink how "awesome" this girl really is.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 01:31 AM
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My wife has a friend. When we met she considered him her "best friend." Later on I found out he had a crush on her since she was in the 7th grade. She told him years before we met that nothing would ever come of it. She was brutally honest. Yet, he still stuck around. Through her ex boyfriends, our marriage and kids this poor schlub stood around. Thing is, he probably felt the same way you do right now at some point and settled for that. It's been 20+ years and this guy still has oneitis. He eve…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:17 AM
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Ha! She doesn't have a kid or do drugs. Stop speed reading. I agree with the rest.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:01 AM
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It's a sensual dance but never really leaves the 'game play' stage. This should be a mantra for married men. Once you lose sight of this and stop looking at your woman as a plate everything turns to shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:21 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP10/08/14 09:05 PM
2

I think he's bored ......or lazy. Maybe OP is plating low quality women.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 09:05 PM
2

Deal breakers are different depending on your tastes. My wife shows cleavage. She's got it, I enjoy looking at it and she doesn't do it in a low class way. There is a huge difference between a woman dressing feminine and dressing like a hooker. The times my wife does show more skin it's because I've asked her to wear something while she's with me. As for pictures on Facebook, she gets complimented all the time on her pics by both of our friends. Sometimes I'll comment on them too with a "You'll …
/r/askTRP10/08/14 08:29 PM
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Exactly. He isn't being "cleaned out." I think these stories do more harm then good. They take shit out of perspective for both men and women. Men see the $ amount and get angry while women see it and feel entitled.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:55 PM
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Condolences. You move on one moment at a time. I recommend keeping your friends and family close. Even if you aren't up to it. Don't shut down. Get involved in a sport or find some new interests. Make sure you keep yourself physically healthy or start if you aren't already working out regularly. Get counseling. Preferably with a counselor that specializes in bereavement. It's not only the person you lose but who you were with them that you lose. It takes time but it'll get easier.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 03:55 PM
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Dude it's a gossip magazine about the rich and famous for old ladies. He's not hurting. He probably didn't even contest it. Celebrities do crazy shit. I wouldn't be surprised if some of these settlements were big because they were attached with a non disclosure agreement.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 03:32 PM
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I fell for that closure bullshit once when I was a teen. It was an interrogation/evaluation. Her asking me a bunch of questions and then listing a bunch of shit she "felt" I did wrong. After that whenever a girl mentioned "closure" I told her to read a fucking book if she wants closure. Nothing a guy says will make them feel better so it's pointless. It's a trap.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 03:17 PM
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I see your point. I wouldn't have suggested physical violence being his first course of action. I would've warned dude first. I would've told him "you've been drinking so I let slide where you were going with this conversation, but shut that memory lane shit down now or we'll have problems." OP didn't even do that. That kills man. Reading another guy having those things said and standing there and taking it. That moment could've been a defining moment to make a change. He had the urge too and pu…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 03:10 PM
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Cleaned out? Doubt it. Shit like this doesn't bother me because he's got the money. They both do. And they're paying for crap most people don't even think about (i.e. housekeepers, assistants, nanny, private tutors, dog trainers, and a bunch of other bullshit). It's average guys who have to live in poverty because some bitch is taking all his money and not even spending it on their kids that bothers me. The women who falsely claimed abuse and use their kids as a weapon. Those guys, that are bein…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:55 PM
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Indeed, the urge to punch him is natural, I can understand it and even imagine me doing it, but I think this comes from a weak place. Sounds like something society shames men for. Fuck that! Anger isn't weak. Standing up for yourself isn't weak. Having strong sexual urges isn't weak. Being dominant isn't weak. These things being labeled "weak" or wrong is what little boys and men are taught now. Then they come here lost because it's not true. Weak would be if he punched him without reason. If he…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:34 PM
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Unfortunately he didn't post one here, where he would've gotten the right guidance and tools. Poor schmuck is probably making appointments with a marriage counselor at this very moment when he should be making an appointment at his local gym for a membership and a consultation with an attorney.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:01 PM
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Facts or not what Doug pretty much said was "You know that woman you chose to spend the rest of your life with? The mother of your kids that you provide for? The woman who you shared vows with? I slaughtered her ass. I rammed my dick in her face and ass and she loved it. She was my dirty whore and you now get the pleasure of going back home and having that visual of me with her when you go to sleep every night." Did he have sex with his wife, yes but the OP in the story probably knew she wasn't …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:44 PM
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This is exactly right. I always denied it. Women know, but they get off on thinking they're going to be the one who's different and can get you to change. If she was genuinely concerned she wouldn't even ask. She'd ignore any advances.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:16 PM
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I think that she's probably trying to find a beta now that she's been burned by alphas. You are 100% correct. Don't meet up. That "closure" line is bullshit. It doesn't even make sense. I'm sure a woman made that up as an excuse to drag some guy into a useless conversation about feelings. You already closed the door with her, don't reopen it. With her or her friends.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 01:10 PM
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I would get the "you're a player" comment when I was single. I usually replied with "don't believe everything you hear" or I would turn it on them and say "I didn't think you were one to gossip about others."
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:06 AM
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Nah. He should stand there, take the verbal blows, get mad at his wife because she's not attracted to his bitch ass, then go home and cry about it on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:23 AM
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Punching the guy is the intellectual equivalent of plugging your ears and going "LALALALAL I CANT HEAR YOU! Knocking him the fuck out has nothing to do with her ...per se. He is disrespecting him to his face. Any man that stands there while another man says the shit Doug said has no one to blame but himself for having a wife who doesn't give him blowjobs. I bet you if he knocked him out he would've gotten the best fucking blow job of his life in the car before even making it home. If he had even…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:34 PM
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No. Just no.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 10:13 PM
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There are things that she will do for you that she wouldn't do for that guy. Like start a family, get married, cosign a loan. As if dude wasn't feeling bad enough people are also implying he needs his wife because his credit is shit. Another reason he isn't getting any head.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:04 PM
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Dude stood there and allowed "Doug" to describe what a freak his wife is and didn't confront him or knock him the fuck out ....... but he doesn't know why his wife isn't a freak for him. His lack of self respect is sad. His wife knows it too. She probably avoided the talk because she didn't want to hurt his fragile feelings.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 09:45 PM
2

If they're plates how do you normally make plans?
/r/askTRP09/08/14 06:51 PM
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I have no contact with these people aside from this issue and they don't even live in the same town as I do. This doesn't make any sense. People you have no contact with in another town are starting a harassment campaign against you and are cock blocking you?? Either repost or edit this because you sound nutty there dude. Are you alright?
/r/askTRP09/08/14 06:50 PM
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So your wife told another woman that you're fat and she won't cheat? Does she know these people IRL? Is she bored? I don't know how this makes you want to "put her ass out on the curb and serve her papers." Is there more to this story? Edit: read the sidebar
/r/askTRP09/08/14 01:00 AM
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Your first comment was deleted.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 12:36 AM
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But not every guy likes the same thing. So if a lot of those partners were ONS she isn't really learning anything. an average number of partners (30 - 50, Holy fuck! 30-50 is an average number for a woman? That's crazy. I am happy as hell I got married when I did.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 12:12 AM
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Personally, I want a woman who knows what the fuck she's doing when she grabs my cock. And I also want her to be honest. Usually if she is a great lay and says she has had <10 partners, she's not being honest. A lot of partners does not = a great lay. Only one woman who had more partners than me was a good lay and it was probably because she was 35 and I was 19. All the others that had high partner counts were the shittiest fucks ever.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 11:18 PM
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Not uncommon at all. Best sex I've ever had is with my wife and it's gotten a helluva lot better with time.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 09:36 PM
2

Not to promote smoking but this is true. When I drink I smoke and it never fails, when I go outside to smoke, within seconds I'm talking to the other smokers.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 09:01 PM
1

Politicians are awesome at this shit. There are videos on YouTube of people showing how it's done. Even though this isn't really how it's done this question made me think of this http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uAguP-zY2AA
/r/askTRP08/08/14 08:52 PM
1

From the information I've learned I've found out she had a fair share of one night stands between relationships Didn't you know that those don't count? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 08:37 PM
2

What specifically are you having trouble internalizing?
/r/askTRP08/08/14 06:00 PM
2

I doubt he would think that. I've met Clinton, G.W. and Obama, not all at once, and I wouldn't be shocked if they're all close IRL. It's surprising how hard it is to not like them or show them respect in person even if you disagree with them politically. Then again, I'm older so respecting whoever holds that title and my elders was instilled in me as a kid.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 05:45 PM
2

Lmfao. I showed this to my wife and she cringed. She avoids women like this. Which means she has only 1 female friend. If I didn't know her since she was 19 I'd swear she was a dude at one point.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 05:31 PM
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Depends on the woman really. When my wife and I go out with friends she becomes the "wingman" for the single guys. She's social and good at reading people so she points out which women they can get with with minimal effort. Women are also more likely to join the group when another woman suggests it. She compliments their shoes, bag or whatever and before you know it they're like best friends and the women come sit at our table.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:21 PM
1

Nice. Professional & gracious are great traits.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 01:03 AM
1

Don't tell him shit. You want to dead the friendship then stop taking his calls and don't hang out. You're making this into a soap opera. This feeds into your depression. You making your issue into a huge production about him, his girlskank and your friends makes things worse than they need to be. Shit seems bad now but give it time, it gets better. It's just a feeling, you'll get over it.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 12:59 AM
1

TRP isn't about benefiting others, its about benefiting yourself. TRP is whatever I want it to be to me. BTW I don't know why you replied to me about "some girls feelings." I never said a thing about a girl's feelings.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 12:02 AM
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But OP is bitching about a woman who buzzed him in and had a shit attitude. Not the CEO's secretary who's a close friend of the family and is in charge of HR. This is some cry baby shit my kids would complain about. "She didn't buzz me in and then she was mean to me."
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:47 PM
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Ha! WTF kind of example was that? I think I get your point.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:29 PM
1

Aww shucks is self depreciating to me.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:25 PM
1

Sometime last year she told me she's been wanting to get married but it took her until a month ago to even blurt that out to her boyfriend because she really doesn't want to be pushy and always got nervous whenever she tried. This doesn't sound like a woman who knows her value. She's wasting time and not even sharing what she wants with him. Is she ready to walk if he doesn't want to get married? Does dude even want to get married?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:22 PM
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People who are in positions of great power (be it physical, political, fame, wealth) try to make others feel comfortable. They do that by toning down that power. I'm a big man and yes, there are advantages, but I can come across as intimidating to those who don't know me. I'm aware of this so I try to make others feel comfortable by speaking softly or toning down my aggressive side. I try not to stand close to people if I sense they're nervous. So imagine someone like Clinton. He's not a small m…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:58 PM
2

The point is to be positive when receiving compliments. I agree.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:35 PM
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Clinton's like the MacDaddy of Alpha though. When you're the former President you have a hell of an advantage. That "aw shucks" Cub Scout play isn't going to work the same for Harry in the IT dept. I did enjoy the story. Fucking cool as hell.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:22 PM
4

They think you're "special" because you're their friend. All their friends are special. The problem is they don't want to fuck their friends.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:02 PM
5

Dude you're being dramatic. If she didn't let you in you could've just called someone and given them a heads up. It's not that serious.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 05:40 PM
5

Get her number and make your own plans. Why are you having another guy control your date?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:39 PM
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Is she really in a position of power? She pressed a buzzer. Isn't that a receptionist's job? This really comes down to you learning to not let people control your frame. Ignore petty shit and carry on. She tried being funny and instead looked like a bitch. Smirk and forget about it. Shit like this shouldn't phase you. If a 5 year old did this would you care?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:14 PM
1

You got tit pics. You're not the loser in this scenario.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 01:44 AM
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Ahhh. I have a look don't touch rule. If it's something she does with and for you and not something she did before then I don't see how it makes her a lower quality. My wife only wears certain slutty outfits when she's with me because she knows I like to see her wearing them. It's not something she would do/wear on her own or with her friends. It keeps me in a dominant role. I don't know if there is an actual stance when it comes to fetishes that TRP advises. Everyone's sexual tastes are differe…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 01:06 AM
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I enjoy having guys look at my wife. I get off on knowing I have something others want. She's social so some guys think she's flirting. I don't know if this is what you're try to describe though. Explain what you mean by her "tease guys."
/r/askTRP07/08/14 12:47 AM
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Try asking the mods.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 12:24 AM
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Don't get the presidential room or honeymoon package. Ask her to split the costs. The hotel is for you too so it's not like you're spending money on her alone.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 07:07 PM
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It's like a rite of passage.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 06:58 PM
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Come on man, this isn't Travelocity. Call around, go online and price check. Some places won't charge your card if you tell them you want to pay in cash.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 06:55 PM
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Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn ...
/r/askTRP06/08/14 06:43 PM
1

A little advice, never talk politics or religion with those you work with or aren't close to. It never ends well.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:14 PM
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I don't care how good the pussy is. The few mins it takes to bust a nut is not worth a lifetime of hell or a life.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:57 PM
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My brother in law was shot execution style in the head because a guy thought he was fucking his wife. So yeah, those are consequences that I always suggest guys should avoid. You fucking her with her kid in the house shows your side chick is crazy as fuck. I'd run so fast and pray she doesn't turn psycho at work and fuck up that job you love so much. As for divorce, that's on you. If your wife started stepping up her game when she felt dread then that means you dropped the ball on your marriage …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:47 PM
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She doesn't want to be tied down Could you clarify this? She said this before she was a plate or after you mentioned wanting more?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:31 PM
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I'm going to lie to her and say I want to be her boyfriend Complete opposite of what I suggested. Why did you bother asking this question?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:25 PM
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There's always that one guy who's a dick. I don't see how him being a dick impacts you in any way unless you take things personally. If he isn't coming at you personally with insults then ignore him. Who gives a shit if he gets butthurt if people don't go to his show? If the guy is as pathetic as you describe him then treat him like a kid.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:11 PM
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If he hasn't asked you anything or brought it up then fuck it. Right now this sounds like a bunch of "he said she said" garbage. If he or anyone else mentions it then tell the truth. You asked she obliged and that's it.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:00 PM
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If it's a moral dilemma then that's on you to figure out what you're comfortable with. Be honest about your intentions. If you aren't looking for a LTR then don't say you are. Her being quiet and nerdy doesn't mean she's not capable of making decisions. Do you foresee problems if you plate her? If she's DTF then I don't see this being an issue.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:12 PM
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I'm not a Leo but I can empathize a bit. I'm struggling with craving validation myself but it's not from my wife. Never needed it from women. For me it's a high I would get from sports or deployments. Admiration and adrenaline. I'm working on it. You sure you need validation or do you just enjoy the fuck out of it?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:01 PM
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Good. It would suck if your hard work is overshadowed because people have a negative opinion of you personally.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:30 AM
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Carry yourself as if you were the head of your company. Treat customers as if they're valuable. Have pride in your job and how you do that job. Be better than others at what you do. Be an example. Make sense?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:21 AM
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How can I practice being tactful? This is actually a good thing to learn/practice. Being diplomatic and sensitive or aware. Hanging with the fellas isn't the same as talking with coworkers. Having a job where you deal with customers is a great way to practice your social skills. Fatty could have a hot friend or a rich dad who owns a company you want to work for. People = opportunities. You never know who you'll meet. When I was a kid my grandfather would always say "You're always working for som…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:08 AM
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You need to practice being tactful at work. I tend to say what's on my mind, and I stand by what I say, and the values I have. This is you trying to rationalize your unprofessional behavior. Unless your job is paying you to speak your mind then you have no business doing and saying things like this. Besides, you insulting others makes you look like shit. Gossiping and talking about others is a horrible look for a man. Nothing says bitch more than running back and gossiping about some fatty's clo…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:31 AM
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Is there an article/link missing? Edit: She's pregnant aka temporarily more insane than usual.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:33 AM
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Ive noticed a pattern in asktrp where setting restrictions=insecurity. However, I've also heard restrictions make a girl feel safe/loved. Boundaries are good but how you set them up is important. Her bringing up other boundaries isn't the time to list a bunch of new ones.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:01 AM
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I bring up topics like this during sex/foreplay. You can get a woman to agree to anything when you have her open and turned on. The way you broached it can come across as insecure or douchebag. You don't want her to look at you like a joke.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:46 PM
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Have you read the side bar?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:39 PM
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Damn. Here I thought you were gonna go back to TBP and get one of those collages you guys like to make of "TRP's greatest hits."
/r/askTRP05/08/14 07:56 PM
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No shit. "He" is probably a "she" and this entire discussion is concern trolling. That's why they haven't replied.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 07:18 PM
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The fact that she knows this and shares what he says with you has you thinking she's being honest but it's a fucked up game. How old is she? No offense to you but this sounds like the kind of games teenage girls play. Your frame is good but have you tried dread?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 07:06 PM
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remaining a virgin until marriage is the red pill ideal all over the subreddit. Like every other post. You have links? I just checked and I didn't see anything that says remaining a virgin until marriage is a redpill ideal.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:47 PM
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Dude break up. "She has become less attractive" and "long term partner with marriage potential" don't even go together. That's a shitty start for a marriage.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:29 PM
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She told me he didn't like how me and my girlfriend started going out And she's still his friend? Fuck no, she definitely knows he's interested then. She's also using him to make you jealous. If he's liked her for a long time and they never hooked up, then I'd stick with the advice byronshadow gave. Is this friendship new? I'd worry if it was. If they've known each other for years and he's never had a shot then I wouldn't worry at all.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:15 PM
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"doesn't care what I do back home" Please tell me you know what this means.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:59 PM
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Red pill ideal? Where does it say this is an ideal?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:50 PM
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Shut that friendship down in a way he doesn't know and she doesn't know. If you pull him aside and call him out he may run to her with it. And you sure as hell can't tell her. Is he your friend too or just hers?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:36 PM
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she never had a dad and she says this fills that gap for her. That's deep man. How are they with you? If they're cool with you then I'd try to build a bridge with them. If they aren't holding on to some fantasy about her getting back with their son then I suggest you try and find a way to deal. You're fixated on her ex and not on her and them. You want to take away a relationship that means something to her then you gotta have a real good reason. You throw down an ultimatum and you may get what …
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:28 PM
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women with small children are the ones who really need help from other people. Yeah but they don't need men for that. Men and women balance each other out. Both have their own purpose and both need (and benefit from) each other.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:49 PM
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Was your Mom not very affectionate? I'm not gonna get all Dr. Phil on you just curious. I haven't read all the replies but if it wasn't mentioned, there is a book called "No more Mr. Nice Guy." You should read it.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:37 PM
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wanting someone for affirmation Wanting affirmation and sex from a woman isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's when you need it that it fucks you up. You depending on a woman to give you those things will only set you both up for disappointment.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:53 PM
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Well buddy, you need to make changes anyway. Make them and see how it plays out. Worst case scenario, nothing changes with her, but you'll be in a better place to be on your own and meet other women. Best case scenario, she responds positively and things work out. Either way you'll be in a better place.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:43 PM
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You argued against your own claim (in your title) in your text.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:40 PM
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You should be ok ...... but, a little advice. If you have a history of doing this when you sleep then you need to make an effort to avoid sleeping with a chick you haven't had sex with. Or give them a heads up. I don't know if you can try and make light of it by saying some thing like "I've been known to get touchy while sleeping" but you have to find a way to cover your ass in the future.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:32 PM
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She probably does know. Girls notice social cues that go over many guys' heads She may not know. My wife had no clue at first and the times it crossed her mind she figured she was reading too much into it and ignored it. Her guy at the time was well aware that I wanted her. He acted exactly how you suggested the OP should act. Obviously it didn't work out too well for him.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:23 PM
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You're typecast already. I don't know if this relationship is salvageable. Keep working on yourself but I don't know if she'll ever see you as a leader. She took on the role of mommy and leader to you early on. It's not like you had your shit together and then took a hit. You've been beneath her level since day 1.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:12 PM
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What exactly angers you?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:59 PM
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I told you to go outside in your other discussion. Log off and leave your house. You need logic? Look around your house. Are there a bunch of single women there? You need to get out there. You can't meet any women if you don't get off the computer and leave your house. Find a therapist and go talk to them. Find ways and give yourself reasons to get out of your house.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:50 PM
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It's only awkward for her. You didn't go up to her so it isn't awkward for you. It's not your job to make her comfortable.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 10:03 PM
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I may be in the minority but I disagree. You want her to think she doesn't matter to you, You shouldn't care what she thinks. That's the point I think GrandCzar is trying to make and if it is I agree. A woman bringing the new guy around is always intentional, the classic "let's you and him fight" scenario. You shouldn't care what her intentions are and she isn't going to get her fight over me scenario either. If the guy she's with is a badass he isn't going to be cool with her dragging him over …
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:11 PM
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It's only contradictory if you think women and men are equal. I'm not saying one is better than the other we just aren't equal. If you read the sidebar, you'd know this already. Getting caught up on what the people who don't get it say, makes no sense. You also don't have to agree with everything. I'm married so a lot of shit said doesn't apply to me. I ignore it. You should do the same. I said as much in my first reply to you in this thread.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:44 PM
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Why are you married to her?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:39 PM
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Thing is, we don't give a fuck. Instead of bitching about what you don't like why don't you go and start a sub full of the shit you do like? Then have rules against sweeping generalizations and whatever else offends your delicate heart. Either suck it up and take what you agree with and leave the rest or GTFO. Complaining doesn't do shit and that's all you're doing.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:24 PM
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It's probably going to get deleted. In the meantime These PC police types are entertaining me.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:19 PM
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So it's the hypocrisy, sweeping generalizations and harsh language that bothers you?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:10 PM
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Let go. You have major trust issues. Your need to control things is a way to prevent yourself from being hurt. You probably don't realize it but you're insecure. You remind me of my wife when we first met.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:04 PM
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I feel like TRP should be less focused on criticism of other genders and more focused on self improvement. FTFY Don't assume we all hate women or are here to criticize women.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 03:43 PM
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Yeah. The man should have a higher number.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 02:07 PM
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Of course she's butthurt too.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 02:55 AM
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Nope. Men and women aren't the same.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 02:43 AM
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Regardless what tactic is this that she is trying to do? Crazy tactic. Why do you even care what tactic she's trying? Block this crazy bitch's number and ignore her. Every time you respond you drag this shit out. She wants attention and you're giving it to her.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 02:34 AM
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Lack of human interaction is depressing. Staring at a screen all day is depressing. You are your own worst enemy. Until you are willing to take responsibility for your own well being then nothing matters. Go outside and live life. Stop trying to analyze the logic behind TRP and start practicing some of the techniques in REAL life.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 01:48 AM
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That's not healthy. Why aren't you working?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:55 AM
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Basic answer "I'm busy." I told my wife once that if she included a picture of herself masturbating I'd probably be compelled to stop what I'm doing and reply. I've got a ton of pictures now.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 08:45 PM
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Give her a chin lift and then give them your back and talk to whoever you're with. They come closer, ignore them. Personally I don't give a shit what I say to some ex that cheated on me. I've said "fuck off" to girls in the past. I don't care if they go back home and try to figure out what it means or how it makes me look.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:58 PM
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How much time are you online daily? Is it limited to when you're only at work? What do you mean you were raised TRP? It means none of what's said here is new. My family is traditional when it comes to gender roles. I wasn't raised with the terms used here though. "Shit tests" are what my Dad or Grandfather would call "disrespectful" or just "tests." As far as dating goes I never cared or had a problem getting girls or meeting people. I was raised that women are a reflection of their men. A bitch…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:33 PM
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Time in and civilian life are two different things. They don't compare. Survival mode is pure adrenalin. We need that there, not here. It doesn't sound like you're turning into some beta shlub without drive but your priorities are changing. I don't know about you but after 3 deployments, I feel old. I may be in great physical shape and look my age but part of me wants to lay back and enjoy easy and the other part is still craving that high you get when you're on adrenalin mode. I'm married and I…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:18 PM
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My advice for you is to: Read MMSL. Stop apologizing, even if you're wrong about something. Never ask permission. Children ask for permission not husbands. You mentioned you opened a separate bank account. Great! Keep your info private. Come and go as you please. If there aren't any plans then you don't need to give a heads up. You can give a quick text every now and then letting her know when you'll be home but I wouldn't do this just yet. Don't reply to her texts immediately and let her calls …
/r/askTRP03/08/14 06:36 PM
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I feel weak and scared. I used to be ok being alone, but now it's debilitating. I don't feel like myself anymore. If you seek medical help this should be why. Not because of your girlfriend but because your fear of being alone is uncontrollable and your insecurity is bad man. You're not only freely giving someone else control of your frame but your happiness/well being is dependent on someone else. This is fucked up because you'll always be miserable and it's not fucking fair to others. No one w…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 06:06 PM
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someone else likely won't give a shit. And they might not give as much of a fuck about what the fallout of their actions is going to be. Absolutely right. This conundrum is only exclusive to TRP. I was "RP" before knowing this place existed and I never worried about shit like this. Ever. A few times I'd feel a little bad if I knew a girl wanted more and I didn't shut it down sooner but even then I didn't feel bad enough to lose sleep. It was a quick thought and that's it.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:29 PM
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Perspective. Everyone has their own. It's why I view handling shit tests in a positive light and why another person views it as manipulation. If my intention when applying a technique is good then everything else is relative to that. I was actually raised "RP" so nothing said here is a foreign concept to me. You were raised differently and view it that way. Thing is, you admit (in this thread to someone else) that what you're doing isn't working. So instead of trying to find logic why not try an…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:10 PM
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I try to really focus on on other people in conversations. Do you? Really? I gotta be honest, I haven't seen you display that in this thread. You seem to be more concerned with being right and logic. That's cool and even honorable at times but when it comes to social settings and human interactions it isn't the best way to be. When it comes to relationships (all types) and social interactions being pragmatic is best.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:37 PM
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I think the idea that "when you are LTR with girl, your dick becomes the ownership of the girl", really stupid That is really stupid. That's also not what being in a LTR should mean. As for cheating being wrong or right .....that's up to you. I have my personal beliefs that I stick to and that's all I care about. You want to cheat then cheat but you shouldn't need or want validation from others.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:19 PM
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Dude you're on a path to improvement already. You see her for what she is and know she's shit. I don't think you even realize how far that means you've come already. You didn't try to excuse her behavior. You are better than the sucker who's with her and falling for it. Start giving yourself some damn credit.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 02:43 AM
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keep us posted on your progress. Amen brother.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:18 PM
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I can't change your attitude or mindset. You should read Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people."
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:12 PM
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You're looking for a logical discussion but when it comes to women, logic isn't always obvious. They do things based on feelings and emotions. What's suggested here is guidelines. Use them. See if they work. Then try and come up with reasoning on an individual basis. I know why my wife does certain things and why things suggested here work but it took me knowing her years to get it. No one says use all the techniques. They're there because they work. Maybe not all of them on every girl but the m…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 09:18 PM
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I'm hyped for him. I think he can do it. Her age makes it more likely her behavior has gone unchecked for a while so that's going to require effort. But her age also means when she looks in the mirror, reality is kicking her ass. He can completely flip this around. Her behavior is screaming for some boundaries.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 09:11 PM
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This isn't a debate and no one is calling your house trying to sell you shit. If you aren't ok or comfortable with what's said then don't do it. If being open, sharing your every thought, showering some girl with compliments and making her feel like a precious jewel is what you want to do then do it. Clearly you don't agree and you consider what's suggested as manipulation so why are you even here? Do you normally go to subs you disagree with and ask questions? It's weird.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 09:02 PM
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Second this. Running a MAP (hard), dread and a huge dose of I don't give a fuck is what OP needs.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:42 PM
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She is the epitome of shit tests and "controlling independent woman." Fuck, I want to run and all I did was read this. I feel for you man. Besides all this crap: How's your sex life? Who makes more money? Your marriage is under 10 years and you have a kid so I'm not going to suggest nexting her. You have to do a 180 though. My wife could've ended up this way but she didn't. Granted she was younger when we married so you have your work cut out for you.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:32 PM
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Withholding validation to increase their value Did you mean decrease? Also, this isn't lying. being unavailable Having a life and other intrests that occupy your time isn't lying. pretending you have other girls or plates Where does it say to pretend you have other girls? None of the other techniques or suggestions are forms of lies either. So to answer your original question, yes, you can seduce a woman honestly. Edit: being aware of what works and using that knowledge to your advantage isn't l…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:06 PM
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"That's like observing a politician..." It's not like anything. I asked you a simple, straightforward question. You asked a vague question and made a claim that lying is recommended. Without more information or an example how can we know what you're referring to? So again, where in the sidebar do you think it says to lie?
/r/askTRP02/08/14 07:30 PM
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Where in the sidebar did it say you should lie?
/r/askTRP02/08/14 07:13 PM
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Southern girls aren't all they're cracked up to be and southern religious girls are the worst.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:57 PM
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she says i have to earn it That's a Negative. She's 16 so (maybe) she doesn't know better but you can knock her off that entitlement pedestal she's placed herself on. You want to keep her around, then she becomes a plate. No more dates. Dread is what you need. It's cool she has standards but so do you. If she thinks you need to earn a kiss then she needs to understand she has to earn your attention and time. What she has to offer isn't more valuable than what you have to offer. Even if all you'r…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:51 PM
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Being afraid over something you can't control is trivial and unhealthy. I know what my limits are and so does she. She knows what I'd do if I was to find out she was cheating and that's it. If she cheats I'd be angry as hell at first but life wouldn't end. It's not the end of the world.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:02 PM
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Yes, I met a woman who can laugh at herself and I married her.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/08/14 05:51 PM
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Consider us your sponsors then. A month isn't enough time. The fact that you reached out and asked the question here shows you still have feelings. The fact you acknowledge this girl as someone you had oneitis for shows you still have feelings. There are stages you'll go through and buddy, you've just got over withdrawals. You're doing good. Keep it up. Hang tight.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:16 PM
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It's like a drug man. You're clean. Don't fall off the wagon. Delete text and move on.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:52 PM
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It could be a let down or a fitness test not a shit test.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:43 PM
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I don't know if you can get her to insist, but you can start dropping the idea more during sex between the both of you. When you're having sex ask her if she thinks about [friend's name] ask her what she wants to do to her or vice versa. Ask her what she wants to see you do. If she doesn't have trouble describing certain acts then you might have a better shot because she's really open to the idea and not just teasing you with the idea of it. Talking her down from her fears and making it seem lik…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:26 PM
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I had a 3 way twice. Once with a LTR at the time and one of her friends. Her friend was hotter and much better. Got caught up in the moment and it became a 2 way with my ex becoming an extra getting left out. It wasn't good for the relationship. Second 3 way was with two random chicks. Less drama and everyone went their own way afterwards. Much better scenario. If you're really into your girl and she's already backing out then it will probably cause problems in the long run. If you aren't too in…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:50 PM
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Haha. It's school not jail dude.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:26 AM
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Go for it. One of my boys is into that BDSM stuff and he had a dominatrix/domme teach him. He had a few guys who gave him pointers but he had the woman because he could experience it with her.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:46 AM
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Allowing my woman to anger me is not a good look. Displaying anger at someone else because I'm protecting her or my family I don't have a problem with. I don't know what the consensus is but that's my view.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:24 AM
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Disagree. Beta males mate guard. Alpha males disregard. Tell that to the guy whose girl I took.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 11:55 PM
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Agreed. It's a weak move to leave your woman out there to defend herself and your name. Embarrassing. OP, check this dude.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 11:25 PM
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It's never worth the wait because it's a weapon she's using against you.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:15 PM
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I'm not sure if she only lets herself go a little bit to keep me happy because she doesn't enjoy discussing it and still acts like a kid sometimes and thinks its kinda gross NOT qualities you want in a wife unless you like jerking off. Marriage and kids can kill a good sex life and you're only getting pity blowjobs now. I gladly put up with shit tests, nagging and a little crazy because it came with crazy, constant, great sex. Without a woman who is interested in sex, nothing will work. If she i…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:12 PM
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I'm more than likely in the minority because my wife isn't really a Valentines Day fan. However you could buy her something that's really for you. Lingerie is sexy, romantic and you get to enjoy it. Throw in some candles and [insert alcoholic beverage] and you've given her romance but it's really for you. If I'm honest I try and make most occasions revolve around sex. It's a guaranteed win win for both of us. When you're married gifts that are "just because" go over way better than on a day like…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 11:37 AM
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Did she get off/cum before she stopped?
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:14 PM
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What's the reason for not turning it into a LTR sooner?
/r/askTRP29/07/14 07:59 PM
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I love it. I don't know how it's beta. I'm the one controlling her orgasm. If you're good at it you can get her to do anything. I'm married though. I wouldn't go down on some girl I'm just fucking. If she's a LTR then yes but anyone else, nope.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:07 PM
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I say shit like this to my wife all the time. She says I'm "nasty" or an "asshole" for saying things like this, but I know she likes it. Every now and then I'll compliment her looks but mostly it's only her ass, tits and sex that I comment on.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:41 PM
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I'm glad I'm not single and my school days are over then. I'm not old enough to know how dating was without games but it seems like things have changed drastically and fast. It's still a bunch of games but minus respect and manners. I would consider girls who dragged their friends "rude bitches." I'm guessing rude bitches is that status quo now.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 12:02 PM
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I would've said myself but I'm 6'1" and built like a machine so I can't help you out. I think I will get many examples of movie stars, famous business men, musicians, and so on. I just want to throw this out there but a lot of celebrities and musicians aren't what they seem. It's an image. The people in the industry behind the scenes controlling them are the real deal. The ones who sign their paychecks. Thought I'd mention it because I've seen certain names come up here and it's not real.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 12:27 AM
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I've always felt if a girl gives you more than 3 minutes of her time she's interested. After that you're only job is to not lose it.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 04:31 PM
1

"Chase her or hold her there" How is that a good look? Puppies chase after people and I'm not sure if you meant physically "hold her" but that can scare a girl. If this is within the first few minutes of meeting her I wouldn't advise anyone to hold her.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:34 PM
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If she was interested she wouldn't let her friend pull her away or she'd excuse herself and come back.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 10:38 AM
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I somehow missed your comment. Think you're right about being bored. I feel a bit restless (?). Wanting to relax and be lazy but thinking it has me feeling without.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 10:32 AM
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I should've made my reply clear. Ask her "why are you asking? Do you want to be my first?" If there is a possibility of it happening with her then you don't want to get caught in lie so you can admit you are. Make sure you own it though.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:08 AM
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Why is she asking? Does she want to be your first?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:18 AM
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I have a bad temper and it was hard to adjust at first when I got married. If you know this about yourself then it's best you take yourself out of the situation before it escalates. It wasn't easy and I didn't always remember. You get caught up in the moment and it's a habit so it'll take a while before it becomes a natural reaction for you. I also never apologize. Not proud to admit it but I don't. Ever. Looking back though I think it worked to my advantage. When you're with a woman who has a s…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 11:42 PM
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How old is she and how long have you both been married/living together? This sounds like what happens early on in marriage. She thinks her way of doing things is right and your way is wrong. The fighting though is immature. She's being nasty then flipping it on you. Next time she starts dealing out orders I'd stop and tell her if you want it done your way then do it yourself. Then walk away. If she starts arguing, get your keys and leave. I wouldn't talk either. I'd just leave. No heads up. She'…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:31 PM
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I understood your point and agree with you. "You have to be fully yourself and react less to what you believe others expect from you." It's more about me missing the acknowledgement/attention.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 04:46 PM
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I have 2 boys and if they don't spend enough time outside releasing their energy I swear it's like they have ADD. I always tell parents of boys, if a teacher suggests he may have ADD or ADHD have him play outside. You'll see a huge improvement. Boys need to run out that energy. Video games and computers don't do that for them. My wife kicks the boys out every day when they get home from school. They come in, eat, homework and go back out until dinner. Fuck Xbox. Pocket knives and bikes are what …
/r/RedPillParenting27/07/14 03:37 PM
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"Don't look to her for that masculine role model of not giving a fuck. She has never faced the same kinds of pressure from society that you do as a man." I would never look to her or any woman as a masculine role model. Sounds strange. She hasn't faced the same type of pressures I have but she had a harder life than I did growing up. Facing adversity at a young age probably played a role in who she's become.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:23 PM
2

Yes, but this is my wife. I have "competed" by trying to get more attention than her. I think the mean shit I've done could be me fighting. It's not like I'm going to knock her out. Even if she was a man, it's not a reason to go all Rocky on anyone. If punching people for the hell of it was cool everyone would be fighting.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:56 PM
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It's sounds like insecurity but it feels like I'm in competition. I compared myself to a spoiled brat to someone else. I think they checked my levels but I'll look at my records to make sure. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:42 PM
2

Thanks for that info. I added him to my reading list.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:37 PM
2

My levels are good. My sex drive is good, energy is good, I have a short fuse too that is hard to keep in check so I have to be careful about messing with anything that increases my t levels.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:32 PM
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Yeah. She's attractive plus she has that thing going on too. I'm lucky on that front. I working on the headspace.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:21 PM
3

You mentioned "They can't fuck her" but I don't feel any of that type of jealousy. I sometimes wish I did. I could probably talk myself down from that type of jealousy. I've been making an effort to try and learn from her but it's not like she does anything special. It's just her. I want to be old already and have her join me, but she's just starting. I feel like a has been schoolyard legend but I married a late bloomer. It's her time to shine and I'm probably being a spoiled brat because I'm no…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 11:18 PM
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