I've been married for two years and have two young children. When I was dating my wife, we had some epic times. The sex flowed like wine and she was even up for threesomes (MFF). She was also very sweet to me with never an angry word. Now I'm starting to think that I was her Beta Buck, since she said that she used to date guys with tattoos and piercings (and has/had some of her own, including clit and tongue piercings), while I'm a clean cut guy that works at a law office.

Two weeks after we got engaged (at her urging no less...) we found out that she was pregnant, so we decided to push forward the wedding date. Sometimes I wonder if she already knew that she was pregnant... While pregnant, she started becoming super bitchy and would yell at me daily, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt because of her pregnancy "hormones." This is also when the sex started ebbing.

Our first daughter was born with a heart defect that required two surgeries, so it had put a lot of stress on us and we were constantly at the hospital, practically living there, for a period of months (I was somewhat fortunate in that I got laid off and got right back to work after our daughter was released from the hospital). Again, I gave the benefit of the doubt. We then had a second child and the sex was still infrequent.

She used to suck my cock during my lunch break, now I can't get her to suck my cock at all now that she's in psycho mom mode. To make matters worse, I received a temporary pay cut due to low business, and my wife got laid off due to a company takeover. Because of this, and with the kids, hospital bills, etc., we are staying with my parents temporarily. I don't think she holds this against me since she had wanted to do something like that beforehand in order to save money for a house. However, she does use it as an excuse for not having sex, which is bullshit since we weren't having sex often anyway.

I tried to talk to her about it. Even last night I tried some of the suggested techniques, like pulling her hair and trying to get wild like we used to, but it just pissed her off so I put on my clothes and went downstairs. She also complains because she gained weight after having two kids, but I lie and tell her she's beautiful. She also complains that I don't pay attention to her (this is a big alarm bell I'd imagine), which is bullshit since she has to work remotely for a couple hours every evening while I watch the kids. Hell, I even rub her shoulders, feet, and back nearly every night, and I still get cock-blocked! We went out with another couple for the first time in perhaps a year, and we let my wife and the other woman get free drinks from random guys. At first I thought it was funny, but then, thinking of myself in king mode, I thought it was a form of disrespect to me. I wonder if she would have sucked the club guys' cocks (definitely, I'd imagine). Dammit, she even complains that we don't have sex, even though I get rebuffed every time I initiate. I've never had this problem with a woman before, so obviously once a woman is married she knows that she has the upper hand.

I only have one life to live, and I can't live life without my jizz going into a bitch's mouth. The problem though is that if I next her I will be bent over the barrel for divorce rape, which would be particularly harmful for my SMV since I don't earn a lot of money ($36K).