I am 26. Just landed a new job to where I will be able to provide for myself in every way financially. I start in one week and will receive my first paycheck in three weeks.

My mother is an absolute controlling psychopath. She always manages to find some type of leverage on me to control me. The majority of the time it has been money though sometimes she uses information to threaten me.

I'm sick of having to deal with her. I've tried so many times to handle her and have a relationship with her but at this point fuck it I don't care.

Tonight she came to my room and wanted to have a talk with me. She said she believes I am on drugs and asked me maybe 7 times if I'm on drugs. She is so persistent with conversation that if I walk away she will follow me or make unreasonable threats to get me to stay and listen.

Whenever I respond with "ok" she says something stupid like no it's not ok. She is truly a 50 something year old child.

Obviously the solution is to get the fuck away from her, but until that point, how can I handle her? She is really stressing me out and causing me to feel anxious with this relentless fucking nagging.