Had a “date/hangout” at my place with virgin girl who’d never even had her first kiss before. Things went seemingly perfect, we had fun, talked, made out, and I felt up her shirt several times. Now she’s left me on read. Whats happening?

So I’m 20, only had one previous GF, an LTR of 3 years who, for all intents and purposes cheated on me. She also sent her nudes to a group chat with every guy on her school’s soccer team, so that was pretty cool I guess. A week after I left her she was out on booty calls to fuck different guys. Whatever.

So now its been several months, which gave me some time to cool down. As some background, I’m attractive, dress nicely, naturally slim but have lifted for over a year, and in ROTC while in college (freshman). My body is slim but very toned. Met this girl in my ROTC program (HB7, 18) who was pretty cute and seemed kinda nervous to talk to me. Messaged her and after some brief flirting set up a hangout next weekend at my house to teach her how to shoot (just bought a nice AR15 and fuck traditional dates, I’ll do what I want and she was down, we’re both in ROTC anyway). Had some decent flirting until then, but using what I’ve learned I DID NOT over-message now that the date was set up. As a funny side note, coincidentally she walked in on me in my underwear in the ROTC supply room while I was trying on my uniform to find sizes that fit. She came in the get her uniform for the first time too. I picked on her saying “I know you were trying to sneak a peek at my booty”, etc.

Anyway, the weekend rolls around and the day before shes supposed to come over I confirm plans and stop contact, telling her I had some stuff to do but “ill see you tomorrow!”. I believe this was very important to not seem needy and to increase suspense.

So anyway, I get a message from my bro, who she’s apparently been talking to about me, and it turns out shes really nervous, because get this, shes never even had her first kiss before and is afraid she’ll be bad and everything, etc. So shes definitely into me and definitely wants some of me.

I pick her up, bring her over, shes really chill, we have a lot of common interests so talking is not awkward at all, I make tons of eye contact (another thing I’ve learned here). I practice a little bit of amused mastery, teach her how to shoot, use some kino in adjusting her body to the right positions, I enjoy touching her body, I think she does too.

We get done and go back to my room, and shes talking to me and says something about inviting me on a trip or something. I’ve always been great at rapport, SHIT at escalating (that deep seated feminine conditioning to not be touchy feely is a bitch), so I just say fuck it and step up to her and say “hey, you’re cute”, pull her in and make out with her. She smiles and says something about how that was her first kiss, I pretend to be surprised and tell her that if thats the case we should practice more. Shes embarrassed and apologizes if she’s bad, and I just tell her “shh, you’re fine”. At this point I just go full on amused mastery and it works beautifully.

We make out for a few more minutes and then I show her some stuff downstairs in my house. We come back after a bit and I start kissing her again while also grabbing her ass. I’m trying very hard to make her feel comfortable at the same time that I am being dominant. This time I push her down on my bed. I kneel over top of her/straddle her and pin her hands behind her head and she likes it. I start running my hands over her chest and she’s responding well so I start squeezing. She doesn’t have any problem so I pull her shirt down and start feeling. I kiss down her chest and shes really liking it. I tell her “I guess I’m going to be teaching you how to do a lot of things”.

The angle is a bit awkward, so I go down to her waist to reach under her shirt so I can feel up from below, and I guess she thought I was reaching to go down her pants, so she kinda jerked away and said “okay, nope” and I just told her “I was going up” and she relaxes. I go up her shirt, etc. things are fine.

It gets late and eventually I have to bring her back to her dorm (all female dorm), and I ask if she wants me to walk her back up. She smiles and says yes, we get in and her roommate is away for the weekend so it’s just us. I kiss her more and ask if she really wants me to leave just yet and she says “maybe a few more minutes” . I tell her we should go sit down on her bed.

I feel her up more, she’s got nice tits, and we’re both super turned on, I kiss down her neck to her chest, she leans back and enjoys the feeling. She cuddles with me for a bit, the whole time running her fingers through my hair. I didn’t want to push my luck and make her uncomfortable by trying to go any further, and TBH I would have found it strange if a fairly cute girl who held out 18 years for her first kiss would go further on a first date anyway, so this was as far as we got so far. I realize this was probably all a pretty big step for her in one day, and I plan/planned on continuing more. Additionally she was afraid that the girls who share the dorm bathroom and I guess have a key would come stop in because they have a key so she didn’t want to get caught doing anything.

Anyway, to wrap things up, she tells me (on the subject of me leaving and her having to get some work done) “you’re making this hard” and I tell her “You’re making me hard”, she replies “you’re making me blush”. Eventually it’s getting late and on my way out I give her a kiss and smack her ass. She’s eating it up, and it ends on a great note.

Next morning I send her a text “heyy” wondering if maybe I could judge how she felt about the whole thing, and 5 hours later she responds “hey”. I sent her a picture of her shooting that I thought she would want, and she read it and has not responded or contacted me since, it’s been 2 days. Usually she is very responsive over text and her messages are long and detailed. I’d think that a girl losing her first kiss and getting felt up for the first time would be prone to at least talking briefly to the guy she chose to do it with.

I have class with her tomorrow afternoon so I guess I might find out if things are still good then, but I don’t have a good feeling about this. Did I move too fast? I wanted to make my intentions clear and she didn’t once tell me to stop when feeling up/touching/kissing her tits. She seemed to really enjoy everything. Nothing was awkward at all, my flirting was (and i’m usually pretty hard on myself) practically perfect. Every response. She’d ask “what are you thinking of?” And I’d just look her in the eyes and say “you”. I asked what she was thinking of and she said back “you”.

In reflection, I did a really good job being dominant, having amused mastery, being flirty, but also balanced it with making her feel comfortable by being kind of romantic and being slow with her.

So askTRP, what am I to do if tomorrow she is distant? I am not going to text her again and ask if everything is alright, it would make me seem needy. Although perhaps since she is completely inexperienced, she isn’t playing the same games yet? My primary concern is that I’m playing this advanced red pill game coming from a (partially) jaded and ruthless background, while she may yet still be a bit more innocent, and I don’t want to over do it.

What if she says she regretted it or we moved too fast?

Thanks all

TL;DR

Escalated with virgin, made out with her as her first kiss and felt up her tits. Things went really really well and my frame was honestly amazing and natural. She seemed to love it too and it ended great. Now I feel like I’m getting the cold shoulder.