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If I have no where to dip, I'll unzip
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 11:51 PM
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Essentially you have to demonstrate value without drawing attention to it and looking needy. Approaching a girl is value giving as you are approaching her, but you can quickly turn the tables if you are more socially capable than her. As well developed social skills demonstrate value. It is a slight paradox but an easy way to think about it is that you usually have to carry the initial burden of the conversation on an approach. After a bit of a back and forth she should be putting more effort in…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/24 12:46 PM
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She asked you out and you didn’t even try to kiss her. You are a pussy. She realized it too and you should now move on.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 08:06 PM
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Touching and flirting is enough to show interest. I've also moved too fast before and had them flake later due to that. This is definitely misattribution, most girls who flake after a first date following a kiss were not that attracted to begin with. As every time I've been flaked on after a first date (I always go for the kiss on a first date) I've picked up on tells that they weren't having the best time prior. Your average girl should feel plenty comfortable with you after a first date, if a …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 12:10 AM
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I’d give it a 70/30 favoring that he knew. The only time I can think of a situation where he wouldn’t know is if he’s a social dunce. I’d wager most guys who can afford a hot sugar baby aren’t social dunces.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 08:46 PM
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Close friend of mine who's a legend with women, insane natural talent, and I say that as a guy who does well for myself. Anyway he's been adamant since high school that he'll never get married. His girlfriend going on five years demanded that he needs to marry her or it's over. He made the painful decision to cut ties and didn't feel any negativity towards her. About a month later he learned another guy had fucked her at a party he attended with her, while they were together. It can happen to an…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:55 AM
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I literally fucked a girl, got her pregnant, now her husband is raising him, and I don't have to do anything. The jungle is no place for the faint of heart.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:36 AM
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When a girl is sitting you extend out your hand for her to grab. You know she’s going to grab it. Why? Because only the guys with the right vibe can pull off a move like a God.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:10 PM
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Most of the girls have told me that they see a friend or aren’t romantically interested. I know it’s code for I am not sexually attracted to you. I understand and I take responsibility. I am not going to click with every girl, but this is happening a bit too often. Could use some advice. As another guy who's been at this stage, your drive to improve will dramatically reduce this from happening. It’s basically an interview most of the time cause idk how else you’re supposed to get to know someone…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 01:28 AM
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I love how these guys are under the delusion that the girl actually respects their opinions.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 03:52 PM
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If you couldn’t get sex out of it would you still want to do it? Your answer to that is your answer to if you should do it
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 03:16 AM
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With how horrible the vibe was and OP letting her kiss him, this is clearly the truth. I can't think of a single situation I would kiss a girl who I had a bad time with, yet OP is here like "ER MEH GERD GUYS SHE KISSED ME."
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:51 AM
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She's angry because you show signs that you want to sleep with her, i.e. watching a movie in her room, yet you aren't making any effort to actually fuck her. If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If you don't then stop chasing some phantom chance she'll make a move.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 02:22 AM
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she tells me that I am being rude and unsympathetic to her situation. Oh because she's being so gracious and sympathetic sitting on her ass all day while you work. It sounds like she simply doesn't want to work. Granted most people would rather have their free time than work a job. If she really can't reckon with the fact that she has to get a job, then you have no other option but to divorce her. My dad put up with my mom's excuses and promises for years. However after she promised to start wor…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 10:08 PM
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And I know she thinks she's complimenting me but all I'm hearing is... I only see you as boyfriend material not someone I can have fun with. This is completely accurate. She's too comfortable with you, and if you're getting that a lot, chances are it's because you're giving off "I want a serious relationship" signals.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 09:35 PM
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The best ladies’ man I know is 5’7” There is no excuse
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 08:09 PM
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Suppression works
/r/askTRP04/07/21 10:03 AM
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male best friend Orbiter I'm very familiar with how girls call guys their "big brother" and it should immediately tell you the nature of what's going on. Using their long history as some sort of concrete reason to justify it to your logical man brain. No, that long history means "Look how long I've been pulling this guy around by his collar!" flew across the United States to come visit her So this is where it gets tricky. My first impulse was to simply say "Ya you're being cucked dude" but I wan…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 04:43 AM
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This is where the art of telling sweet nothings like a politician is really helpful. Since making them feel good usually overrides the initial concern. Then after that they'll be fine with it until they aren't.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:33 AM
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Came here to say this, they 100% fuck down. Best friend of mine is naturally RP minded, and he's slayed since middle school, he's now a personal trainer, and he was even asked to join the US Triathlon team. Anyway, even he was cheated on by his gf and the dude was a fat loser who lived with his parents.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:56 AM
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No one here can answer that, simply because there’s way too much nuance we don’t know, but stop worrying about her. She should be worried that you’re not going to make more time for her when she doesn’t talk to you. So talk to other girls While you can’t control her response, you can control your own
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:17 PM
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After you’re already fucking her the “what do you want?” question is irrelevant, although I don’t think that is the primary reason she’s distancing herself
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:08 PM
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And I should've clarified, most of these people who complain are themselves not even in poverty. They are smack dab in middle class. Your whole post implies the opposite. As last time I checked the middle class is worshiped by everyone. It’s the poor and minimum wage workers who are said to “not be worth $15 an hour.”
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 02:11 AM
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Is this sort of pic suitable for Tinder/Bumble if I'm looking for casual? My dude, that screams casual
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:09 AM
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sounds good. The worst response would be to fold immediately when she accuses you of doing it.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:08 AM
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You've tried hooking up with one FWB more than I've hit up any of mine, which makes me question how honest you're being about seeing her only as a "FWB." Short answer, hit up other girls who won't flake. The plates I have know I do not have trouble getting another girl's attention so they usually don't play around with my time, and when they do I recognize it and I hit someone else up.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:59 AM
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“I’ll take it from here Mr. Weinstein” In all seriousness though I’d just make her aware of it in an amused fashion, the context of it changes dramatically once she knows what’s subtly going on.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:27 AM
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Today, they lied to the teacher by saying that I bully one of the boys, wich is completely false. This can affect my grades or the relationship with my teachers since she actually believed them. Go to the principal if this happens, your teachers can't punish you for illegitimate reasons I'd say keep ignoring them, don't give them the reaction they want, don't change your behavior because of them
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:15 AM
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what i'm expecting from a relationship (your partner not ghosting you for 24hours) You're acting like 24 hours makes it insane, and I think the opposite, especially because it's one example. If it was a pattern of ghosting you for days on end, that's entirely different from what you're describing. So yes people are going to rightly state that you sound needy as fuck.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:24 AM
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I think a lot of these comments get too hung up on "friends." Regardless of the relationship he thinks he has with them, it's a legitimate question of how to show you don't care without being autistic. For me the answer is pretty simple, I just start teasing them and making jokes about details of the story. Recently a girl tried dumping all her work drama on me and my response? "You should just murder all your co-workers." If she ignores and persists, simply persist with the joke. Don't take it …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:04 PM
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I kinda feel like I might be very ugly after these dates. If your pictures are accurate than the opposite is true, I think you're just boring them to death
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:40 PM
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How does him being gay matter? Am I missing something here?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:09 AM
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Having two shirtless pics and a pretty direct bio is a good screening tool for me. The girls who are swiping right, know why
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:43 AM
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she says she doesn't want her mom to find out that shes dating someone from another race. Ya, because your "gf" is clearly embarrassed of you. I'm sure the moment you met her family, they'd be the nicest people to you.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:40 AM
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she hits me with she wants to take it slow, but last time we talked she was mad I was taking it too slow Translation - "I still want to fuck you but I want you to think I'm calling the shots, so I'm going to pretend I have that power here."
/r/askTRP01/06/21 09:12 PM
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You gotta throw yourself at a group of people and say whatever dumb shit comes to mind. Lower the bar of what you think people want to hear. Hell go full Russ Hanneman and tell some guys that they look like they're doing all the fucking at the party.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:54 AM
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Ya she was just worried about how you'd react, because she straight up admitted it instead of furthering a lie, which would've been incredibly easy in that situation. "Oh no this is my friend fuckboy's account! I haven't talked to my ex in forever." Then if you find out "Oh I didn't even realize it was his all along... but why tf did you care so much?"
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:36 AM
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Who knows? There's no black and white answer if that's what you want. For all you know she was interested but just not in a way you noticed.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:31 AM
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I'd ask him if he had 20 girls who he thought were insanely cute and fun, that were texting him. Would he still chose that girl to date? The obvious answer is no, but I would keep trying to make that abundantly clear that he's only excited to date her because he doesn't think he can do better and he's desperate.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:20 AM
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The amount of girls I know who became single thot moms before 21, is staggering. The weirdest part is that they never come at the guy with child support. Even when I hear from a mutual friend, that thot#69 had a kid with an ex, and I ask how much she gets from him for child support the answer is always "Oh he doesn't pay child support."
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 06:10 AM
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I can’t be talking to lots of other girls can I? Why not? You aren't going on a date where the friends are random bar patrons Because her friends will see that and judge me for not mostly focusing on the girl who invited me. Don't try to control people's perceptions of you, half the time it doesn't work, all the time it's low status as fuck.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:32 AM
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When I was obese with a fat face, I was the first choice of multiple cute girls. I just don't care for this whiny blackpill bullshit anymore.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:22 AM
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no guy would really match up to him since she still has intense feelings for him, not so much that were genuinely incompatible No, it's because of you. She hasn't gone celibate ffs.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:56 AM
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I don’t want this to be real, but it feels too real
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:47 AM
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If there was ever a sub that shows you just how true TRP is, it’s that sub. Was looking through their top posts a while back and one was saying how “To get men to change their behavior you have to get other men to call them out” which made me laugh because it was a blatant admission that they don’t have the frame needed to override a man’s. They blamed it on sexism, because ofc that’s what they blamed it on.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:04 PM
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If you want to hunt deer by running into a forest screaming at the top of your lungs, go for it alpha Chad. You're still an autistic retard for not understanding why your approach is shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 08:32 AM
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I use to have this exact problem. You your breathing gets shaky, you start stuttering, you can't think of something to say, it sucks. When I first started getting into TRP I was also watching a lot of infields from ToddvDating and the RSD guys. The video that helped me out of it was an analysis of an interaction with one of their friends who had good game. In the clip the friend is getting coffee with this girl and almost falling asleep on her. They joked about how him being tired was being perc…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:09 PM
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I am not sure if her flirting with the other dude was just a nuclear test No the nuclear test is when she fucks him in front of you while holding eye contact, and looks to see if it upsets you. Remember hold frame and there's no way she'll leave you if you pass that one.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:30 PM
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The conversation basically ended like “if you don’t think you’re having enough sex, or you can’t go a week without it, you should go find someone else.” Translation- "I'm more valuable than you. We both know you don't have the balls to find someone who will do what I won't, which is why I can throw it in your face." Personally once a girl makes that admission, that she sees her sex as more valuable than my time, she's dead to me. Relationships are built on a value dynamic.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:57 AM
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I also told her I have plenty of women i can just call if I want just sex The fact that you thought you had to say this, makes the average person think it's not true. You're assuming the low status frame that she sees you as the kind of guy who wouldn't be able to do that.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:10 AM
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and fuck whoever who says " girls acting like you don't even exist " while approaching is a shit test , it's fucking not It absolutely depends on the context, in this situation? Yea that applies. I've had girls deadpan say they aren't attracted to me and act like I'm embarrassing, only to end up fucking them later that night. So this is just utterly false.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:26 PM
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When I caught her at that moment she was crying There was a really good psychology piece I read about how men naturally feel the need to comfort a woman when she's crying and in distress. It's absolutely something most women understand, and they use it as a manipulation tactic. A few months after learning that I experienced the effects of it firsthand, but I recognized it despite how hard it was to initially resist, and when I still held firm she immediately stopped like it was all an act. Don't…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:25 AM
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I went and read that thread and they’ve already seen this lol. Even tried to gaslight by pretending we treat their fat friend like “trash,” motherfucker no one is entitled to our time. Are you trash if you ignore a homeless person? I don’t think so, and I’d argue mostly everyone agrees. But boy that sub is ripe for gaslighting. Was browsing their top posts and there was one about how if you want to change a guy’s behavior you need other men to call him out. Bizarre seeing something this sensible…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 11:51 AM
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I think your problem is one of creativity. Watch some standup, there are plenty of ways you can misconstrue and over exaggerate a girl's actions. She's texting? Clearly a player, texting all her mimbos. Simple things can be twisted like that, all it takes is the creative thought you need to see it.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:00 AM
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I’ve been dating a girl for 11 months. Strong family values, smaller city in the Midwest, Christian, has a mix of secular and Christian friends, doesn’t party, never done drugs, n count of 1 before me, she’s 23. Doesn’t use social media much at all, doesn’t entertain any orbiters, she’s frugal and disciplined. These factors I’m sure play a role. But, she’s never shit tested once in our relationship. She does whatever I want and sex is on tap. She was really in to me from the get go, and I think …
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:15 AM
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Man the messages between you and her when you rematched are cringy as fuck. She was clearly keeping her distance keeping things purely logical and not engaging, while you were doing the whole Mad TV "can I have it" routine with the hangout. I can only assume the texts were a continuation of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 05:46 AM
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You’re definitely conflating “being polite” with the problem you have in socializing
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:36 PM
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right now i see my only bottleneck being not portraying myself as interesting enough The first thing you should change is your mindset to what you're doing. For instance I consider myself a fairly interesting guy, but even if I wasn't I'd never say "I can't portray myself as interesting" because I don't have an urge to prove anything in simple conversation. You're interesting when you're able to showcase your personality unapologetically. not being able to think of the spot for whitty responses …
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:37 AM
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A lot of conversation just comes down to creativity. I found mine by giving more opinions and less questions. If she's simply boring, but you can think of an endless amount of engaging subjects, you'll still be able to hold the conversation at a good level. These are some of the canned lines I use when I feel engagement trickling off "And I thought my family was boring to talk to" A tease I use when she's not engaging at all "Use your words" Good for "mhm" and thumbs up emojis, and because of th…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:32 AM
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I'm confused, you're talking about US stocks. Crypto is global.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:20 AM
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prices will eventually crash hard later this year. I think it's more accurate to say that no one really knows if the current market is a bubble or not. I personally think it all depends on how fast new protocols can be created, so that more and more people see it affecting their daily lives. If that's ten years from now? Ya I could see the crypto market crashing in the next year or two, but it's still a guess. It all is.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:14 AM
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^ this, I personally invest in a variety of tokens because I have knowledge from guys who've worked with Elon Musk, Mark Cuban, etc. No I will not give recommendations, because you shouldn't trust random internet strangers with your investments.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 03:55 AM
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As a guy who has family in psychology, this is common knowledge. The best way to catch a liar is to catch them making inconsistent statements.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:13 PM
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The idea that most people, even among experts, can tell when someone is lying has widely been disproven.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:42 AM
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For me personally that sounds dirty as hell so I get it, but I recognize I'm not some kind of southern guy who isn't bothered by it. I think there is a type of girl who would find that appealing but that there are also girls who will see it as a complete turn off. If it doesn't bother you though, I say just find girls who don't care
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:53 PM
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He's a witty, interesting, and confident guy. Who has a natural understanding of RP principles, as this guy has been killing it since middle school. I've spent afternoons talking to him about women and how I've (TRP) put into words things he already knew subconsciously. When I was a complete loser to women I was tall, attractive, and even had an incredibly deep voice. So if I was short, it would be an easy out rather than to acknowledge the shitty perceptions and mindsets I had. As what I didn't…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:53 AM
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This. Every time I've seen a guy get extremely jealous and possessive, the relationship ended soon after. Usually with cheating involved.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:29 AM
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The best ladies' man I know is 5'7. I've never seen anyone pull the way he does, he puts James Bond to shame. Definitely was my inspiration for improving my game and humor, and hell I'm a 6' guy.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:26 AM
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I realized that your presence enriches my life more and I simply want to be there for you in your times of need too. This sounds like the shit a BPer would say to his oneitis, meaning she's completely in your frame of the relationship. If I had to cut the meaningless bullshit from her message and highlight the major points it would look like this. Hi, how are you? This email may have come too soon for you. I would like to apologize for ending things abruptly that day and I'm so sorry for hurting…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:55 AM
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I don't even think most of them are on birth control, most girls just do not care. Ever since I heard RSD Tyler bring up how he's noticed most girls didn't even care to mention it, I've noticed the exact same thing. The times they have asked me to wear a condom it was always out of disinterest, as the girl would break things off after.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 08:09 AM
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I said “why did you poop in her kitchen or something?” And she got quiet lol You are my hero
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:37 PM
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at first i said ok that was your mistake. If you want to draw the line at pizza, draw the line at pizza, being wishy-washy on insignificant plans is the exact opposite of someone who's confident. I would've just asked her if I should send the limo to pick her up. If she immediately gets defensive and says she was going to pay for herself, then you pick on her for being so serious (because I personally wouldn't mind Outback in that situation, but if you still don't want Outback just say you don't…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:24 PM
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It seems to be an implied principle here that you should only deal with women who like you more than you like them. It's not implied, that's basically what's taught. It's a demonstration of value when a girl likes you more. For instance if I was a celebrity, billionaire and I thought you were the coolest motherfucker ever and I wanted to spend all my time with you, what would that say about you? That's a rather extreme example but the idea is the same.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:14 AM
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She was testing the waters... 100% this but my god wtf
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:50 AM
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Stop reading so much into it. She might have just wanted to get fucked anon style for the thrill of it. You won't know and it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:58 AM
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Seems like feminist society really tries to make it seem unacceptable for older guys to date 17 and 18 year olds. We call feminism a shit test for a reason. they seem to feel social pressure to not engage You need to create an environment where they feel comfortable with it. When a girl asks how old are you? Do you lie or tell the truth? Don't lie in the hopes it'll win over a girl, that's low status as fuck. I'm still in my twenties but I'd probably deflect with a funny comment and tell her the…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:48 AM
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they should be into it, or at the very least open to it. One of my current plates didn't start calling me daddy until we'd had sex four or five times, and it was her idea buried under her nervousness. Over time girls will want to do dirtier and dirtier things with you, so there's no need to feel like you have to rush it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:57 AM
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There's also a sub for flat earthers
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:41 AM
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I know for a fact that the vibes would definitely not be here. If you think they wouldn't be, you're right So practice until you stop believing that
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:40 AM
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It's not the reason, stop falling into the frame that you actually suck with women. If you are not spending money on them then that is not why they are sleeping with you. Girls are always taking cues on what to expect by your behavior. If you spend money on them, they'll expect it, and on and on it goes. I recently realized the reason a plate broke things off with me because she made what I thought was a throwaway comment about me paying for child support if I got her pregnant and I didn't reall…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:38 AM
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"yes, but it would be weird for my date to sleep in another room, wouldn't it?" Why are you saying this? Do you really expect her to say "Silly me I'm definitely going to fuck you." Girls want deniability, not the opposite. Just say yes, you don't need a written confirmation like you're staying at the Hilton. "what was the last time you had sex?" You should've thrown the framing back at her here, as you never mentioned sex. She's already rejected your attempts twice, you need to give her some sh…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:47 PM
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A bit anecdotal but I have yet to meet any guy in this kind of relationship where his gf was not thinking about leaving him or straight up was down to cheat. The last time I saw it the chick told me her bf used to be her friend, and I knew he was a pussy before I even saw him. And when I did? He had a shouting match with her over whether or not a comment she made was "rude." A few months later, after seeing me for the first time since, the very first thing she told me was that she was single. If…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:13 PM
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Remaining calm when you're at a pivotal moment in conversation. For instance say you went on a date, it goes well, and you're now dropping her off at her place late at night. You'd like to fuck her that same night and all the adrenaline and angst is getting to you when you're in that moment. Being able to maintain your composure, mentally, is something girls will feel and that kind of confidence is one of the sexiest things a girl can observe. Below is how I suffered from this, and how I correct…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:26 PM
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My first time meeting a redpilled man was in college. He was extremely insecure Oh, so it's 100% projection. Just another reason not to read into this crap
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:37 AM
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So a problem I used to have was not widening my understanding of what constitutes interest. I went on a date with a girl, didn't have a good opening for a kiss, and never heard from her again. When I was hanging out with my best friend, who's also the best ladies' man I've ever met/seen, he helped me see that by agreeing to the date I should've already assumed she was very interested. Sometimes girls won't give you the window you want. If I get straight up uninterested vibes, which are obvious, …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:21 AM
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A general rule of thumb is if you didn't at least get a kiss, it was a bad date. Did you even go for a kiss?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:34 AM
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I think you're taking the rejection too quickly. I say that as someone who's been told by women that they're gay, I'm not their type, and that they're scared of strangers BUT I fucked all three of them. To me this reads that she was using age as an excuse, as it almost always is, because she wasn't comfortable enough with you.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:20 AM
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i said oh sweet and kissed her. Since then im her boyfriend and i am in the phase where i evaluate her if she is even potential ltr material. To your gf - "Oh sweet a LTR" To TRP - "So this girl who's my plate" It doesn't work like that chill dude and invited me to a nice dinner with her together. This sounds like the shit I do when I'm also fucking the girl and her bf is too much of a retard to realize it Didnt give her a answer until now because i am not sure how to handle this situation, neve…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 09:00 AM
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It's simply a response to the values society holds. Society does not value women who sleep with every guy they can fuck and it does not value guys who rarely get laid. The opposite is true, and that's why it's taught. TRP deals in reality not the ideal.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:11 AM
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Why can some people sing incredibly well without years of training? The answer is the same. Some people have natural skill. A close friend of mine is the best ladies' man I've ever known or seen, and he's been that way since 6th grade. When I started learning deeper concepts of game I'd talk to him about some of what I'd learned and he loved it, as I was able to put into words the things he just naturally understood. The difference is I didn't have that natural instinct for game, and he did.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 11:24 AM
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Why are you dating a girl when you don't want to be dating her is the real question.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 11:12 AM
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I worked with a dude that showed like 3 women we worked with a picture of his dick. Yes I know because they told everyone. I honestly believe they deserve the negative consequences that result from their actions. I used to be a dumbass BPer and I only ever escaped that frame of mind because of the shit I went through.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 11:09 AM
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Bragging, flexing, and showing off is low status as fuck, as you're qualifying yourself. If she is actually interested in you she will learn this naturally through conversation and spending time with you.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 11:03 AM
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Gotta not crave pussy that much. Hell when the pandemic started I'm sure I would've lost a few plates if I was super pushy about getting them to come over. Start enjoying your own time, and for what it's worth my time on dating apps has been the exact opposite as maybe 1/4 are opposed to meet ups.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:56 AM
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AA is great for this and you can even throw in a little misdirection with it "Well ya I'm not sleeping with anyone else, they canceled on me."
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:48 AM
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But after the height topic she ghosted the poor guy. Now I know that height matters but rejection can be done respectfully. Firstly, why do you care? How she treats guys has no impact on you. Secondly, doing things "respectfully" in game does not exist in virtually every instance. You don't get respectability points from rejecting someone nicely. You're simply projecting your own frustrations about rejection onto your sister. Cause imagine if the dude saw you saying that to your sister and respo…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 10:44 AM
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is this normal? For a guy who is terrible with women? Yes. i feel so attchde to her... i cant' seem to really care or feel anything for other girls except her. As a guy who dated a girl for 2 years, and would describe her with higher praise than you did your gf. Caring that much is why she dumped you. It's not sweet or thoughtful to her but instead the opposite, she resents you for it. She's going to go fuck a guy who doesn't care as deeply as you do, because that's the very thing she doesn't wa…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:36 AM
1

That's awesome, there's no problem here. Hell I wish my plates only talked to me when we hangout.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:26 AM
1

I can somewhat relate here. I keep being told by a few of my closest friends that I need to do something differently with my hair. I like my hair so I ignore them. Granted it's a average haircut, but I've grown up around lots of people who've had long hair. I don't think anyone really gives a shit at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:23 AM
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If it were me I'd just assume the date was cancelled, and wish her well.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:32 AM
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As someone who also likes to lean into the most outrageous but fun responses, that is perfect.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:19 PM
2

Who cares? If it's a sport you like doing, do it. Don't plan your life around other people's validation.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:43 PM
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the relationship status is in fact in her hands. It's like that for all girls. That's absolute bullshit. I have three plates and I know if I gave any one of them enough attention they'd want to be my girlfriend. Hell one of them even left her husband because I think she thought I wanted more. All this means is that I'm the one leading and defining the relationships I have. The moment you let them do that for you, is the moment you are agreeing to what they'll give you instead of what you want. M…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:51 AM
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When she gave me the christmas gift I said "didn't think we were doing that" She said "we're not doing "that" but I like giving gifts to my friends" Translation- "You are not in control of this relationship, I am" It's pretty apparent that you want to fuck her more than she wants to fuck you if she's saying that. You needed to reframe that immediately with something like "Well if it's good, we maybe can be friends." However that's just surface level shit, the damage is done, this doesn't sound l…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:47 AM
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Act less interested in her than them, they will look like needy desperate cucks. Look at her then look at them and say "Go for it man." with a smirk, and nothing they can say will break that frame of you giving them permission to try and flirt. I've even seen this happen first-hand and it destroyed the dude's SMV so much so that girls he'd be able to get otherwise stayed away from him out of embarrassment.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:43 AM
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I wished I could make this up, but this is not a joke post. What to do lads? He's fucked. Leaving isn't fair to his own kid. So he's fucked, and it's completely his fault. There's no amount of advice that will unfuck this.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:38 AM
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I usually just treat them as her saying hi, although I don't ask for her attention
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:12 PM
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Your female friends don’t actually give a fuck about you, then seeing the reality of that unfold before my very eyes with the girls I thought were as close to me as my bros. If they don’t want to fuck you, you’re just pathetic in their eyes.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:00 PM
1

Will Smith is a huge, cut Physical attributes do not mean you are good at conversation. Looks get you a notice because of the positive social implications, but if you are boring as fuck, that's all you'll get. attractive commanding dude with a deep voice. He has extensive experience with acting, improv and comedy. Sure, that objectively helps a lot in conversation. I'd go as far as to say you aren't very interesting to talk to if you aren't creative. AKA what comedians and improv artists are ama…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:58 PM
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you could always feed into the ignorance with something like "I'm a good Christian, we don't commit sin."
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:35 AM
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For some reason when i socialize with friends and coworkers job I get ignored, cant hear me, i get quiet, or crack jokes unsuccessfully. This was the first thing that came to mind. It does a good job showing some of intricacies of group dynamics. Basically the reason someone like Will Smith is able to command attention is because he believes what he has to say is important and will add value to the conversation. I've said things that aren't remotely funny but because I said them with confidence,…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:34 AM
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She agreed to meet me on Thursday but said she wants to keep it very low key? What does that mean because I don’t know how to respond to that "I don't want my husband knowing we're going to fuck"
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:17 AM
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Posting shit about social proof? Bro how fucking autistic are you
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:52 AM
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I would like to have as many friends as possible with whom I could go out, but I am very shy and introverted and I do not make contact with anyone. This, fix this. I used to be extremely shy (I used to think by sitting in on a conversation I was contributing) but after I rolled on MDMA I started visualizing all the barriers my insecurity had created. Like this weird "rule" that I couldn't start conversations with random people, because it was impolite or something. Not saying you have to do that…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 02:09 AM
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I really want to hook up with this girl. I want it so much it borders on oneitis even though there have been about 7 other girls since I first took interest in her. None of them have been as hot to me as her "It's not oneitis" proceeds to describe oneitis Also I don't get why you're asking for advice here. You've literally made yourself her orbiter because you're to insecure to escalate on a date you initiated. It's like you're asking "Guys I need a foolproof way to get into her pants. Thoughts?…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:20 PM
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(she initiated kissing) Kissing really doesn't mean much to girls. In my experience it means, you pass the bare minimum in terms of how attracted she is. It does not mean you will fuck her, and my guess here is that she later realized how you just aren't someone she really wants to fuck, maybe because she wanted to kiss you and you never got the signal.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:10 PM
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If you find guys who are cool they'll inherently be redpilled. The best ladies' man I know even told me he frequents stupidslutsclub because he likes hearing about crazy stuff other guys have pulled off. It's also funny hearing how they interpreted how the night happened, as most of the time they act like they "made an exception" to take Chad home but in reality he made himself the exception.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:46 PM
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For first impressions, yes, it's a form of social proof if you're friends with cool people. If she's already interested, no.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:34 PM
2

^ this, no one actually gives a fuck if you have a girlfriend or not. My go to is always to crack some joke about my right hand.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:33 AM
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While lovebombing may be seen as beta, it seemingly gets the woman addicted to you when it is withdrawn, leaving them widowed after the fact. The thing is, is that it was always on his terms. It doesn't fucking matter that he professed his love for her, they both knew on a subconscious level that he was the conductor. To her the extra initial comfort wasn't a lady boner killer because of the value she already saw in fucking him. In general yeah, I'd say saying that tends to go badly, but every s…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 02:47 AM
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If you think you're fucked or not, you're right
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:24 AM
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The reason you are asking this is because you are too comfortable with "safe" conversation. There's no risk involved when you're making small talk. Meaning you need to start taking risks, stop sucking on the tit of safety, and know that you WILL get rejected and it'll be okay. A good way to start taking these risks is to just be direct with your intentions, tell girls you found them cute etc. It's not about good game, it's about showing yourself that taking social risk is not a big deal while al…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:18 AM
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Maybe in your eyes but I was gonna say Danny devito I'm not following, when were you going to say that prior? Anyway I think what you said is fine, but what I do when girls throw that kind of shit test is to flip it back on them with "You don't think so?" As it forces her to either fall into your frame that you are or to joke it off. It's probably my favorite deflection.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:02 AM
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If I had to think of an ELI5 for frame it would be your perception. If you can properly control the frame of a situation, not only will your perception of a situation ring true for you but for everyone else as well. The key to a strong frame are traits like confidence, but that's not the whole picture.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:10 AM
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My rule of any social interaction is that whatever is happening, it's always a good thing. No one is being negative to you, everyone likes you. Obviously that's not a mirror of reality but what it does is train you to stop taking negative things personally and overly seriously. Now you may ask "But wanker7171 how can I not take negative things, about me, personally?" By seeing it for what it is, an attempt to get under your skin. I'll give you an example from something that happened to me. I was…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:28 AM
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Like how father tell their daughter's boyfriends "whatever you do to her i'll do to you" but applied to a plate? You have got to stop taking cliche memes about dads seriously. Girls will not tell their dad they'd been casually fucking you.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:44 AM
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That dude, straight up, was caught paying women to act in his videos. There are recovering BPers on here that wouldn't stoop to that level for attention and validation.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:44 AM
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what exactly are these ‘values’ that I have that makes her stay? As a college student most of your value comes from your personality, fun times, and connections. If you're pretty chill and know how to have fun, you're solid. So I’m genuinely curious as to what sort of materialistic ‘values’ i’m providing to her that makes her stay? lol that's not what value is my dude. A cute cat video on reddit has value because it's a cute cat video, not because it's buying you lunch. So be an awesome guy and …
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:17 AM
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branch swinging is and that girls need a lot more comfort than in America, or that girls here are used to way more comfort. I realize there are real, meaningful, cultural differences here but when it comes to sex, we're all animals. It's not some social construct like religion which is solely dictated by culture, sex is an intrinsic need we have as humans. I've fucked a virgin Christian girl within a week of meeting her. The kind with strong family bonds that a lot of guys on trp think mean she'…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:05 PM
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But really "thumbs up", that's best answer? That's just how I would respond, because it sums up exactly how I'd feel if someone sent me that kind of stupid shit. The exact response doesn't matter as much as the underlying message, which is just one of indifference. A shrug, an "Oh ok," or any basic acknowledgement would suffice. why i can't just write that i'm out of town, it's perfectly normal as we didn't have plans together for today. My message was indirect communication and in this way i wa…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:44 AM
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Google a picture of someone dressed as a hamster, point to it, and respond "See, now that's what you should be aiming for."
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:42 AM
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I think you have a massive misunderstanding of how to handle this situation if you think indirectly conveying "I don't care" is inherently bad. That's the entire dance my friend. It's why she's trying to shove her not wanting to hang out with you down your throat, as the one who can walk away wields the most power (aka the one who doesn't give a shit). It harkens to one of my favorite general rules "Disinterest is rewarded with disinterest."
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:26 AM
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I would've just thumbs up-ed the message. She knows you know and this urge to prove you didn't care about the hangout is just weird.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:53 AM
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Idk about you dude but I’ve never had “come cuddle” not mean sex
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 05:56 AM
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She started all of it and straight up made it clear after our dates she wanted to "wait a bit" before having sex. Yet SHE initiated the phone part and bugged out after the fact. Oh I see, you were only sexting her because she was letting you, she finally gave you permission to do something sexual. If you can't see how deep you are into her frame, I just don't know what to tell you. Can you imagine what would have happened if I pushed actual sex? I can imagine what would happen if you didn't obey…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 10:58 AM
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So I took this as a permission to move forward since she was the one who started it, because if I rejected her that would have wound up even worse. BBBBBBUUUUUUUULLLLLLLSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTT Anyone who tells you the right way forward in that situation is to sext her with dick pics and phone sex has no fucking idea what they're talking about. No guy wants to fuck around and send dick pics to a girl instead of fucking her. Actually guys who don't fuck do, and that's exactly why she…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 08:18 AM
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It's hard to explain as game is so nuanced that a lot of points sound contradictory. But the best way to really understand neediness, is to have abundance and know what it feels like not to have it. That's when it really clicked for me.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:33 AM
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Being afraid of someone's perception of you is textbook insecurity. I remember old RSD videos where they'd be out with students. A girl who, earlier in the night, had a small chat with a student would end up leaving without the student. They'd ask why he didn't follow her out, as they knew she wasn't leaving the bar strip, and he responded "That's a bit needy though right?" This girl probably hadn't spoken to him long enough to make the decision to sleep with him or not and he's expecting her to…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:53 AM
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I am extremely insecure about myself and hate how I look before you can even think of going on that date you need to address this. I'll give you a challenge, the next time you're in a situation with someone new think of a relevant thing to make a comment on. I'll give you an example, I was in Publix and suddenly there was a loud crack of thunder outside which was strong enough to make people jump. I looked up at the cashier and said "looks like I can't go streaking now." Although that's because …
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:09 AM
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I was almost on the receiving end of this. I still have the FB messages where she started to claim she didn't want to have sex. At the time I figured if I kept up the sex her point would invalidate itself because I knew it was consensual. We ended up fucking two more times after, and she even had to walk by my roommates (who obviously heard us) one of those times too. But boy was that stressful.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 07:37 AM
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How do I show I am a high SMV You don't show it directly. You shouldn't even want to show it. You just are, and it'll show indirectly. Take a step back and ask yourself "Why do I care about how she sees me." It's because you're chasing her. If you don't think she'll sense it, you're wrong. Solution? Stop wanting to impress her, you're the one who's not convinced that you're going to sleep with her yet. the young ass girls that have dicks flying at them at every point? So I'll tell you a little s…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 06:06 AM
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I got over it once I accepted it was out of my hands. In a similar vein to flushing a hundred dollar bill down the drain. It fucking sucks and you'll be angry about it for a good while, but eventually you move on because you know there's nothing you can do. Make no mistake, that is exactly the same when a girl breaks up with you. As trying to "get her back" will just result in her losing even more respect for you as well as validate herself for dumping you. It's a self-defeating cycle. I had a o…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:13 AM
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I think you have to realize that dicks in most porn are usually average length, but are presented in a way that makes them look bigger. I say this because most girls do not want massive 7+ inch cock, it's just not fun for them. Now there's a difference between them wanting to try it for the experience (which I imagine is common) and having to fuck it every time. I myself have an average dick and I've never felt insecure about it.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:24 PM
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a week or two later I aaked if she wanted to go in the back and 'makeout' Lesson one, NEVER and I mean NEVER permission seek. Men take action, little boys ask if it’s okay I told her how are you gonna be afraid if she's not there to even witness it? Lesson two, you can not negotiate attraction. Even though you are right, guess what? THAT DOESN’T MEAN JACK SHIT. You’re not going to use logic to get into her pants because that isn’t how any of this works. I decided to give her less attention and l…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 09:15 PM
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I also have to say I don’t like the “hate” for women I see Most guys here are still in the anger phase, hating women is not part of TRP despite how much other people try to say it is. But both sides seem to think their own gender is superior in a way. This is pure projection from reddit. The genders are different but that doesn't mean those differences make one gender "superior." An example is how women are generally more emotionally attuned to conversation. That makes it annoying for guys who j…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 07:07 AM
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I really doubt it. Most people can go fuck an escort right now with minimal chance of being caught by police. The real concern is STDs but I'm not convinced guys who'd fuck escorts are ecstatic for the day escorts are screened/licensed.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:07 AM
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I try to start a convo and she’s just super dry about it. What are you saying? If she's acting disinterested all the time throw that shit back at her. When she texts you respond with "I'm never getting rid of you am I?" Flip the frame of you being the disinterested one.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:55 AM
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Own it, no one really gives a fuck. It's more about the mood you're setting with your response than the actual response. A close friend of mine who's obese was called fat at a bar last year and he repeated that funny yt video by saying "It's cause I eat too much pussy" and everyone had a good laugh. You have to stop thinking people are insulting you, and even if they are who cares? It shouldn't faze you either way. edit: The other comments are right that you need to lose it, but I'm speaking to …
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:21 AM
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I felt like I couldn't find the right moment to go in for a kiss. You're gaslighting yourself. You didn't create a moment, it's silly to act as if it's just going to fall into your lap. When I was first learning how to turn conversation sexual I just started with the most basic way I could think. I'd ask her when the last time she kissed someone. Now it doesn't matter how she answers because I'm only asking so that I can accuse her of being a bad kisser. For instance say she says "Last week" I'd…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:04 AM
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It depends on how quickly you get used to doing it, as it hits you in waves. First you start feeling indifferent to the idea, you stop getting overly excited and feel more relaxed, you breathe slower, you're more focused on what's going on rather than seeing if she likes you, etc etc. After you feel more familiar, with some self-awareness, you'll start seeing where the real holes in your game are.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 05:07 AM
1

This^ Imagine if it were the other way around. How would a girl feel if you kept pestering her about some guy she hung out with?
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:59 PM
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Is the virus really that bad tho? I’m not a high risk patient but I’m also not that knowledgeable on how harmful it is. It's not for most people but there's still that chance. People without pre-conditions have absolutely died from the virus. That's without mentioning that for every death 19 people have debilitating lung injuries stemming from the infection. I haven't done any research into how long someone is infectious after symptoms subside but one of my mates had it and after a month of wait…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:25 AM
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sometimes it's as lucky as being in the right place at the right time. I've had a moment like this happen to me in the club too, only she approached me and it was on immediately. I remember that she was incredibly hot but I was too drunk to remember to get her number.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:21 AM
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there are a lot of blackpill incels who lurk and try to push their "looks are all that matter" bullshit. Looks matter but you better have confidence otherwise looks will only get you 5 minutes with a girl.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:07 AM
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Finally, this Brad pit test mentality is not working because well no one is Brad Pitt except Brad Pitt. That’s such a defeatist mindset to have. I’ve had a girl so excited to go on a date with me that she bought the movie tickets and popcorn without me even asking. This is the kind of reaction you want from girls, no one gives a shit about literally being Brad Pitt. The point is that she behaves as if you’re as attractive as Brad Pitt.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:23 PM
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I messaged her jokingly asking if that's her boyfriend Oh man, that's cringe. You can say "jokingly" but you both know you're not, hell no one thinks it's "jokingly." I told her via text to meet me outside in 2 minutes and she said that she cant. Yikes, I didn't think you were going to make it more awkward What do you think is the best course of action? Was that her boyfriend? Should I continue responding and try get logistics right I.e. hotel. Or should I block and delete since it may be disres…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:54 PM
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For a man to attract a woman I feel there's more tests you have to pass. Well it depends on how many options she has, which is the same with us guys. We become pickier about specific looks in a similar way that girls become pickier about certain traits. Like my gf in high school was hot as fuck and yet I was BPed out of my mind with a best friend she fantasized about fucking, but she was so quiet and "weird" that everyone avoided her. I was her only option so she settled. You can flash money and…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:18 AM
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I've had some easy lays but this one was effortless, and also the worst sexual experience of my life but not because she was an uggo. This was my first year of college while I was still heavily BPed. I want to say when this occurred it was about halfway through the year. I was outside at the spot near our residence building where everyone would always gather. I overheard this girl, from my floor, wishing she could fuck tonight but that she didn't know where any parties were. One of her friends j…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:04 AM
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in a nutshell yes, but I'll describe it through another guy's story to really drive the point. There was this guy who asked for help on asktrp as he had gone to the library and approached a cute girl. They talked for about an hour before he got her number and left. Later she would text him "So are you looking for a date or something?" and immediately rejected him when he said yes, but think about that. This motherfucker talked this girl up for an HOUR and she had no fucking idea why. You have to…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:55 AM
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It's so cringy to me that you're aware of how cringy this is. You should be able to position yourself to where she's invested in talking to you without escalating too blatantly. You have to understand how to frame discussions to get her thinking sexual thoughts, without being overtly sexual. Words like dangerous, simply framing the discussion about how much you're getting along, etc etc. Also getting a number doesn't mean shit. Girls give their numbers to plenty of chodes so that they'll leave t…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:08 AM
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The best ladies’s man I know is 5’7” and he kills with women on a scale I’ve never seen anywhere else. But top comment here pretty much sums up my thoughts
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:31 PM
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I've literally been in the process of eating lunch at Taco Bell when a girl walks away from her four/five friends and up to me to ask "Hey do you wanna fuck sometime?" I lied and said "I have a girlfriend" and she quickly hit back with "That's cool, we could have a threesome." I declined and her friends came to apologize for her lol. I don't want an STD
/r/askTRP24/07/20 10:26 AM
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After some days, my gf is drinking with her friends and she sends me a voice text of a guy who used to work in Africa for a construction company and he used to build houses for less than 30,000 usd. I was like wtf, you are talking about Africa and something you used to work like 7 years ago. I got kind of mad How you should’ve responded “I guess so” and dropped it immediately. Being reactionary made it so much worse than showing you don’t fucking care if they believe you or not. You wouldn’t get…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:08 AM
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As a guy who went from fit to obese to fit, you’ve learned the exact lesson I’ve been preaching for the past two years. Looks get you in the door, but your social skills keep her invested. You need to start putting yourself out there more and you’ll naturally begin to know your worth. For me that moment came when a girl who looked like she had just stepped off a professional modeling shoot started aggressively flirting with me but I was so in my head about how she’d never be interested that I co…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 06:44 AM
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I have a similar story where the guy is an actual friend Before I broke out of my BP stage I was dating this girl I thought I was in love with. She dumped me and that shit fucked me up for a long time. My close friends witnessed just how badly it affected me and tried their best to help me get my mind off her. Fast forward five years to when I started reading TRP and I started realizing that I didn't give a fuck about her. She ended up reaching out to one of my mates on Bumble saying that it was…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:40 PM
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I did... deep down girls know they are not special and it's why they treat guys who believe they are like losers. I did not treat her like one of those guys.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:18 PM
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Doesn't treating women nicely Who said anything about treating her nicely?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:22 PM
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Throughout my teen years I was a little bitch with social anxiety and some other problems. Lots of us were, I have some of the most cringe stories myself. I couldn't talk around people. My mouth clammed up, I walked/dressed like a loser. Middle school and first years of Highschool were tough. I used to think I was participating in conversations by just being present, so I feel you But I am so worried that if I cold approach some girl and introduce myself, my slight anxiety and how I THINK I look…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:19 PM
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Lol not particularly, last time I checked I was just short of 6”, I think if you’re average you’re fine. Porn sets unrealistic expectations. I’d tie her coming back with how infatuated she was with me from the start, coupled with the fact I treated her the way she feels she’s worth makes her long to be around me again.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 02:09 PM
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He absolutely has no idea. She actively avoids the topic of where she’s living and changed her insta to private pretty quickly after I messaged her back.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:58 PM
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Met her on Tinder during college (when she was single) and had a ONS. I fucked her one more time a few years after but then I started seeing another girl more seriously so I ghosted her. Few weeks back she reached out to me and it was on without me needing to put in any real effort. She reached out to me on insta which is how I know she’s married.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:39 AM
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There are literally too many different reasons girls flock to a guy. He could have incredibly strong frame and/or he could offer a great amount of value to her, i.e. being a lot of fun to hangout with. Just with those two extremely broad reasons, there is just too much to quantify. But let me ask this, have these girls rejected you?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:28 AM
31

Not harsh for me, but I’m currently fucking a married girl who I’m certain does not give a fuck if I pull out or not.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:05 AM
2

Question: can a shitty girl be a product of environment and situation? I'd put money that it was her trying to get a reaction out of you because being with you for a year made her miserable. I do believe you're more to blame than you realize. Either way I'd stay clear because that behavior is bound to repeat with you. I'm basing this mostly on my anecdotal experience. As a close friend of mine has dumped a girl who became miserable and within a week she was back to seemingly being fine. It's als…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:49 AM
5

"and blowjobs, sex and blowjobs"
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:30 PM
8

your game sucks She even added "oh" in her text to show how off guard you hit her with the hangout question. You have to understand that she does not have a gauge of where your SMV is, apart from wherever your pictures land you (aka why lots of girls won't be interested until you meet). She constantly has thirsty guys only interested in number then fuck date. So when you close like this that's exactly how you're framed in her mind, as just another lame desperate guy. edit: the people saying you …
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:19 PM
11

any big city. Austin, Texas I always hear amazing things about.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:13 PM
1

as in, a BP guy would think the girls would be completely disinterested in me after the way I acted
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:08 AM
5

lately Tinder and Bumble, but I've even had several former plates I treated like shit in college recently hit me up. I felt a little bit of anger phase rise back up when those old classmates reached out for sex, because the way I ignored them would be seen as a pussy rejection to BP thinking. Yet they're still incredibly interested.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:33 AM
1

How much truth is there in "get a hotter girl" to get out of friendzone? First off if you ever say you are in "the friendzone" you are a cuck, period. Why? Because who says that? Guys chasing girls who aren't attracted to them, in other words, cucks. but u like that girl Secondly why do you like that girl? It's because you lack abundance. Fuck more girls, and I'm not talking about the fat ones who are much uglier than the girl you're thirsting for.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:30 AM
2

I got a text saying that she's put herself back into the market. I would just like her text without responding. It's the least amount of validation you can give without ghosting.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:07 PM
2

Think of the biggest loser you can picture. Now imagine that loser was the woman. See why you shouldn't care?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:34 PM
1

yes
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:25 AM
8

This story always comes to mind as it was one of the earliest moments where I actively realized I was getting better. I had been watching a ton of toddvdating before going on this date because the thing I was worried about the most was asd/lmr. His advice was pretty straightforward, find a plausible excuse for her to invite you inside when you drop her off. As she wants sex to “just happen” instead of you having no other reason but to make it apparent it’s for first date sex. I decide I’ll ask h…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:49 PM
21

I'd imagine the ECs are on the older side but I'd wager this sub mirrors most of reddit being somewhere between 20-30 yrs old
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:35 AM
2

I have a story for you. So my best friend (Rob), is also the best ladies' man I've ever seen or met. He got into a relationship with this cute HB7 shy asian girl and was absolutely punching below his status. After all he is a personal trainer who owns his own gym, was asked to join the USA triathlon team, and is built for a guy who mainly does cardio. Now this friend also does not want to get married, which is a problem to her. Eventually she gave him an ultimatum that it was either they get mar…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:06 AM
3

They always want to take things slowly, go on dates, get to know each other etc... NO. THEY. DO. NOT. Stop falling into their frame for fucks sake. I find that women tend to separate men into a group that they fuck and a group that they date and it's looking like I've been doomed to be the latter. Even when I flirt with women and they're clearly into me (touching me and kissing me) It feels as if you're conflating girls who "date" you with girls who lead you on. I've touched and kissed plenty of…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:37 PM
5

Then another girl metoo'd some band player after he sent a message "You got my dick hard" He got deleted. If he posted that publicly he's an autistic retard. If he dm'ed her that, fucking lol. Another girl comes out to say that the first guy offered to walk her home after a night out with friends, she accepted, guy puts his hands on her sides, she pushes him back he backpedals and claims he was only hugging her. She wasn't interested in him and he overstepped his SMV level hard. Getting metoo'ed…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:40 AM
1

some girls are just crazy needy, especially at that age. I had a movie date with a girl lined up after having to cancel on her twice. She had arrived early and purchased both tickets, and then it hit me just how much she liked me. The sex later was great too, but I definitely didn't consider her for a LTR just because I don't trust someone with that much insecurity.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:26 PM
1

friend of mine, who's also the best ladies' man I know, had a similar thing happen. Only he wasn't on a date, instead we were doing a theater performance and he was paired to dance with this very cute girl. Multiple times I overhear her saying "Don't touch me" in a very annoyed tone. This girl would later fuck him. I've always been extremely confused about it, hell even he said that he didn't really get it, but now I'm fairly sure it's some kind of shit test.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:04 PM
2

This has to be a troll post
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:00 PM
4

Your approaches should not feel like approaches. That's what they are and the girl knows it on some level, but you can't put yourself into that frame. If you're telling yourself "Oh this is weird and creepy" guess what? You'll come off awkward and weird because you believe you are. So you need to start looking at these interactions as a normal fucking conversation that leads somewhere instead of "IMMA PICK UP DAT PUSS CAUSE IMMA THIRSTY BOI"
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:06 PM
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Might have an STD, girls are terrified of telling guys that because they know they'll run afterwards. I was having a similar problem but when I subtly called her fake she opened up and told me, while shaking with nervousness, that she had genital herpes. I almost feel bad for noping out immediately, but then I remind myself that she's probably rejected guys for much less.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:28 AM
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she might've just not been into you tbh. A homeless guy can tell some jokes that I'd find hilarious, doesn't mean I'd fuck him. Although you have to be able to objectively read the situation instead of just willing it to happen. If I had to guess though, is that you asked fairly out of the blue considering where the conversation was.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:08 AM
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I thought they were supposed to get hotter to branch swing Doesn't sound like she wants to branch swing though. Sounds like she doesn't feel like putting in the effort for you anymore and isn't worried about you leaving.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:09 PM
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16 and I am 23 This is legal in my state so I don't care "You like me, or so I think!". How do you respond to it? Is it a kind of test? It's a validation trap. If you answer "Yeah I like you." she'll respond "Oh well we can just be friends." You're giving her the validation that you like her without her giving anything in return. You can use AA "I like everyone though" or reframe it "It would only be decent?"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:14 AM
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DISCLAIMER: I KNOW THE BEST OPTION IS TO HARD NEXT AND GHOST. NOT ONLY TO GET RID OF ANY ONEITES BUT ALSO TO PRACTICE ABUNDANCE MINDSET. Nonetheless I'm making this post to find the secondary options. "I KNOW" Fuck off, you clearly don't
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:01 AM
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Never permission seek, assume she’ll do it. If you have a consent fear just guide them to be on their knees like you would guide them to a different position, and they’ll absolutely know what’s up as you’re dropping your pants in front of their face.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:52 AM
2

I don't think my idea will help you with her now, she's probably annoyed at the very idea of even getting a text from you now. As when girls have a guy asking to "hang" like a broken record, they get disinterested by that thirst real fast. So ya I would next her too and just take it as a lesson for the next one. Just a side note, but if you "just happened" to be in town I'm fairly certain she'd have another excuse. I get the vibe she's just trying to see how much she can milk you.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:01 AM
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I’m a 15 year old guy Take it slow, I know at your age I wanted a quick fix to it. It's a change that takes years to internalize. She basically told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship yet. I hope you know by now that means the problem is definitely you Now, I’ve really liked this girl for years now so it crushed me and me lose some sleep. My man you did something soy boys wish they had the courage to do. It may have been a rejection but you did what many won't, you found out. But now I’m det…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:39 AM
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That's exactly what I was suspecting. You said you've been talking to her and I assume that means you haven't actually met her. Now if that's the case you don't want to harp on the hangout, because you're thinking "Oh she said next week so she's definitely made a decision to see me sometime then." but that's just not how this works. When a girl is not very interested or invested yet she will not schedule a time slot for you. That time may be available and she might also be genuine when she says …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:57 AM
4

So I hit her up that next week What did you say?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:22 AM
3

I would've playfully responded to his no with "Common you're not that lazy" as he could just be having a little contrarian laugh at your expense. Then if he continues to take it seriously I'd have changed gears and said "Are we doing this?" Then if he continues to be a bitch about it I'd just get up and grab them afterwards, or simply just waved it off because it's not worth the effort. You have to understand that no one gives a fuck if you "win" a stupid argument/situation, that's your ego talk…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:40 PM
1

I was lazy, I'd put him off not because I wasn't free but because I'd rather sleep in, play games, and watch youtube rather than hang out with him. Granted he was actively fighting my best interests at times, but if I could change anything it would definitely be the laziness.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:00 AM
1

She has told me multiple times to please give her more time Usually if a girl says she wants me to give her more time or that she's not ready yet, I take that to mean "Let me suck you dry of validation while I do not fuck you." I see it more as her giving away her intentions rather than disguising them. I only give exceptions for when I have a gut feeling a flake or delay is justified.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:29 PM
2

Sure but all situations aren't the same. Some do call for you to call a girl out on playing games, but the text she sent you isn't that.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:39 AM
1

She could've been ya, but if you're constantly harping for a meetup without any buildup I think I've found why.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:15 AM
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Me: I mean there's not much to talk on here if we can't met What she sees- "I'M THIRSTY PUSSY PUSSY PUSSY! FUCK ME FUCK ME!" Christ dude. If you're going to give her a shot at least do it properly and gradually transition into a meetup, don't fucking jump to it in your first response.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:58 AM
1

hmm, ya not sure I can offer much input besides with my own older brother. I used to have a similar aversion to him, granted it was not as drastic as your younger brother's. I would always find that the conversation could quickly turn negative and so I wouldn't want to put effort in.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:27 AM
2

Do you often find yourself criticizing him when you hangout?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:08 AM
2

It might just be me but I love leaning into the worst possible responses because it really gets them going. I'd respond with "You know what you did." and allude to something horrible without telling her what it is or "I just can't stand you"
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:42 AM
8

Whenever I think of rape accusations I always remember this story from a girl I was "friends" with back when I was BPed to hell. She went to this guy's (rapeboy's) house at night to watch a movie on Netflix. At some point he escalates (unsuccessfully) and then handcuffs her to the bed. She asks to be released but he gets called away, for a moment, by his mother. When he leaves she calls a fwb and asks him to pick her up and to call her in 5 mins when rapeboy returns. Just as rapeboy returns her …
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:29 AM
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I feel it’s a moral thing to do If you're coming here to moralize, you've come to the wrong place. I would want for her to have told me if she found out first If you don't think you can let it go, tell her. The quicker this shit is off your mind the better.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:48 AM
2

I think the "no reason to hit a woman" one is particularly good. As I assume most people give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they mean "no justifiable reason" but Burr focuses on the ambiguity of "reason" and takes it literally. It reminds me of how I reframed a shit test from a tech savy buddy of mine. I was turning on my laptop at his place and my VPN booted up on start. He raised an eyebrow and said "You use a VPN?" with an undertone of "You're up to some shady shit, huh?" I was abo…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:05 PM
1

not acknowledging her bullshit hurts her more than seeing this message hurts you. Hell the only reason is hurts you is because you do not have abundance
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:46 PM
3

you just have to practice and over time you'll slowly become more creative with how you respond. Bill Burr is great though as he flips the frame of typical feminist arguments incredibly well, like with his bit on "No means no" and "There's no reason to hit a woman.". I find that thinking of responses you couldn't think of in the moment, after the fact, helps considerably more as you're training yourself to hone in on certain aspects of what is said. As language is such a cluster fuck that taking…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:27 PM
8

The most perfect of men that you aspire to be lost their girl to someone lesser. Such an amazing point, hell the guy who I aspired to be and the best ladies’ man I know got cheated on and the guy was pretty overweight. Meanwhile my buddy is a personal trainer and was asked to join the USA triathlon team
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 03:07 PM
3

you have to be more creative though, I normally reserve the seriousness for when I'm trying to plan or make a serious point. I would've said "Why do you break everything you touch?" It's an accusation, which conveys authority over her and it's pretty funny at the same time. Then you look for ways to ease the conversation to a sexual path, as you don't want to be her court jester text after text.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:15 PM
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I struggled with this exact thing. Even when a cute girl would flirt with me my heart-rate would shoot up and I'd get extremely nervous. A solution I've used ever since came from the former RSD Todd. He was walking through a date a friend of his recorded and in the date they go to a coffee shop and they joke that he's so relaxed that he looks as if he's practically falling asleep on this girl. So whenever I feel my heart rate rising and my breathing intensify I try to fall asleep, or in other wo…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:50 PM
1

I asked, what brand is it? what was the point of even asking this? She called out how one dimensional this comment was and you responded by shutting off your contact
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:08 PM
8

I think you're over thinking this. Especially considering she's a plate and not a LTR.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:00 PM
2

If a hot girl hits me up and practically begs me to fuck her, I'm not going to act like I give a shit about her marriage
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:28 PM
1

DO NOT PERMISSION SEEK That being said there should be some build up, as my favorite saying goes "If you have to make a move, you're doing it wrong." At the very least use your hand on her chin to guide her to your lips so she has the opportunity to pull away
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:23 PM
1

I'm thinking about dubbing this bitch. Just for lying for no reason. AWALT. Even when I was BPed talking to the most kind and nice seeming girls I would catch them in lies. Even lies where I told them to do whatever it was they were lying about not doing
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:08 PM
1

That was beautiful poetry
/r/askTRP10/06/20 11:57 AM
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Her: Do you still remember me Translation- "Do you see lots of girls or was I one of the only ones you actually approached" Better answer "Ya it's (insert wrong name)" then when she says no respond with "Close?" and claim it was close even if it wasn't, remember it's about how you make her feel not how logical it is. Me: Yes I do, I approached you in the mall, why do you ask? Her: Can we be friends at least? Translation- "Oh cool in that case you can be my gay best-friend because you're clearly …
/r/askTRP10/06/20 11:51 AM
1

a general rule I have, is if you don't at least get a kiss it was a bad date for her.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:41 PM
2

Only point where I think I may have fucked up is not kissing her. You answered your own question
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:18 AM
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My experience says "come cuddle" is just ASD for "come fuck me". I feel like "come cuddle" is on the level of "Netflix and chill" obvious. I've never been in a situation where "come cuddle" didn't mean sex, to me it's synonymous with sex. Hell I've said it as a way of indicating sex without being overtly explicit. edit: I've even had a girl ask me to come cuddle but said we couldn't fuck because she was on her period. You know how the story ended.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:52 PM
3

LTR says he has never hit on her but has said shit like why can’t I find a girl like you. LTR- "Who do you believe? Me or your lying eyes?" Today she hits me with “I am going shooting with my cop friend after you and I go shooting. He’s a good shot and can teach me a lot”. I usually weigh on the side of inclusion with her orbiters, especially when your exclusion feels a bit out of place. I would've replied "He can join us." ME: fucked up that you wanna do this shit. That was your first mistake, …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:04 AM
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I don't really see why a woman would say "damn I wanna bang this guy because he's popular" For the experience. It's the same reason girls go to doublelist (craigslist 2.0) and request gangbangs. Not because they give a shit if the guy can hold frame and is a badass but because they want to experience it. Although it depends on the situation as she could be sleeping with him because he's actually alpha as fuck. Your question is too ambiguous. If you're asking why women fuck the most attractive gu…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:55 AM
2

flirting and implying sex might happen is good. Ambiguous terms like "dangerous" and "adventurous" but not directly saying you want to fuck her. Game is happening in two mediums. What's literally being said and what's non-verbal. Usually you shouldn't say you want to fuck her (even when she baits you to) but you should demonstrate that with non-verbals, flirting, and escalation.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:47 AM
2

Definitely cut back on the sexting, hell when a girl tries to bring up sex over text I reframe the conversation as being she just wants a one night stand etc etc. essentially flipping the usual role of a guy just in it for sex. Usually though if I can’t make plans I’ll hit her up every week or other week with a value giving text which intrigues her and keeps her interested.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:57 PM
2

We sext with each other regularly You say this like it’s a good thing. It’s not. What part of giving her the validation that you’d fuck her is good for you? Because it doesn’t mean she’d fuck you, instead it hurts your chances considerably as she realizes this is the best any girl will give you. Meaning you’re a loser chode If you’re hanging out escalate anyway, if she brings attention to it treat it like a shit test unless she’s hard stopping you or telling you to stop without nuance.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:44 PM
3

As someone with a sister, she acts towards my brother and I exactly like she would with a guy she was dating. Constant shit tests and I recently had to talk my brother down when she jabbed about his faint hair loss and it really got to him.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 10:35 PM
9

It's interesting how these things are a measure of attraction. As a self-declared retard I've also noticed that being asked to wear a condom is another indicator.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:02 PM
2

This is spot on, reminds me of a time I was in OP’s position but I got the lay. She probably had buyers remorse as she was embarrassed about it since her friends saw us that night (they told me what she said about me the next day). Yet I kept fucking her afterwards.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:00 PM
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(I always bring my own condoms and rinse it out afterwards before wrapping it in toilet paper and flushing it!) Jesus dude. My biggest fear is a girl keeping the condom and impregnating herself with it when I leave, but this is straight up overkill. I normally wrap it in toilet paper and take it with me (in my pocket), but rinsing it and throwing it away would be just as effective. You're destroying her plumbing when you flush them, it's borderline malicious.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:46 PM
6

I want to be Chad, even if society thinks late 20’s is too late to be a Chad, that it should’ve happened in college years or never at all. It's never too late to be Chad, not sure where this idea you have to be young is coming from
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:14 AM
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Personal anecdotes don’t count bro Oh fuck off, half your post says "I"
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:30 AM
3

So by your logic, the second guy, the 5’2 balding Indian janitor can outslay the first guy, the male model if he’s “confident” and holds frame jfl If the male model is as insecure as you and the janitor is as confident as me? YES. My money would be on the janitor, easily. Ever wonder why guys who joke that being fit only brings in gay guys? It's because while looks absolutely do matter to girls, it's not usually the primary reason they're going to sleep with you. Looks matter more to guys. I say…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:12 AM
12

worry less about exercise, fix your diet first. Exercising will simply make you hungrier and expedite the problem. -Used to be obese
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:48 AM
2

As a guy who used to be as low as that guy, no do not feel sympathy for him. His behavior will not change things no matter how much he wants it to. He has to come to terms with this on his own and he has to do that whether or not you're the guy fucking her.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 03:55 PM
2

My good friend has a friend that goes i the same school as her. He told me that she is bad mouthing me and saying that she rejected me and i was constantly trying to kiss her. (Not true) Who cares? In college a girl told a friend of hers that I wasn't as hot as she remembered (we fucked after meeting while drunk) but I sat next to her friend in English and he brought it up. At first I was a bit surprised and sad, but not even a week later and I would be clapping her cheeks once more. Start takin…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:59 AM
0

Yikes, the oneitis here is strong. If a homeless person sent you this message would you be asking yourself “WHAT DO I DO?!”
/r/askTRP05/04/20 05:39 PM
6

The mere mention that you don't like her fucking other guys is a form of mate guarding. It's similar if a guy gets reactive to someone who's trying to pickup the girl he's been flirting with at a bar, that act of wanting to directly control/influence who she sleeps with is the issue.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:43 AM
3

I messed up a chance last night. Situation: it’s a girl I’ve been friends with for a while now There's a reason you should go for attraction before comfort, because little beta soy boys who only know how to be friends with women go that same exact route and get shit results. Don't be like that, stop trying to hook up with girls you already consider friends and start setting a sexual frame sooner with women you are interested in. I put my arm around her and during tense moments I squeezed a bit a…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:22 AM
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Told her I wouldn’t try to tie her down or make any “rules” but I didn’t like it. mate guarding is inherently needy, she should be the one mate guarding YOU
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:08 AM
5

she hit me with that she's paranoid about catching something No she's not, obvious shit test is obvious
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:37 AM
5

she got drunk and ended up at another place ( getting drunk here was acceptable in the context that she had her some shit going on in her life). You just said "I would never want an exclusive relationship" so I don't understand why you care what she does. it's still blatant disrespect because she told me that only after curfew and only after I texted her, which means i couldn't make other plans. This is a soft next for me, of course. I get dissapointed, I get hurt, but soft nexting allows me to …
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:47 AM
1

you have to get better at being in the moment. Being able to quickly understand whatever reality is being created by someone. For instance I work with a young girl who's constantly shit testing me, but she's not very good at it. She walked up to me the other day and said Her- "You're really weird." (weird=bad) Me- "That's what makes me so interesting." (flipping the frame "weird=bad" to "weird=good" you can simplify a lot of shit tests to them saying something you are/do is "bad" so you just hav…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:48 AM
-1

I'm fairly certain I can sleep with their gf when they do that
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:02 AM
1

How do i remain fun if i have to show no emotion The fuck, how is this a takeaway of TRP? Not being reactive and not being emotional are not the same thing. You have to show emotion if you want to be good at game. i also cant compliment them because then im validating them You can compliment girls but the caveat is that you can't compliment them as an excuse for conversation or because you want them to like you. If you want to say you can't because you'd be validating them then I'd say "Alright …
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:44 PM
1

Did you probably mess up by driving a bit too fast, idk, you know though. Did it warrant his reaction? Fuck no. That being said it doesn't matter, don't dwell on it to become just as bitter as the guy with a fuck load of headaches kids
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:05 AM
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Question about guy who calls me a beta male My reaction to seeing this title was "Who cares?" Please start making that your default reaction too. If someone calls me annoying I'll probably forget about it before the end of the day, no one person's opinion about you matters because they do not know you. It's all projection. Basically, there's this guy on my campus (i am a graduate student in seattle) who is constantly telling other guys I am good friends with and also girls that I am a "beta male…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:57 AM
2

I see so many guys making the same mistakes I used to make so I get a reminder of it pretty often. It's immensely painful to have to witness day after day. The most recent example was something I noticed with a co-worker. She was bored and just going on about relationship problems after she asked if her bf could drop something off for her. Eventually she reveals that they used to be friends before they dated, which actually caught my interest (as I enjoy validating my beliefs). I asked who escal…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:49 AM
2

Knowing I can get it whenever I want, it creates an almost disinterest in it. The way I think about it is looking back to my first relationship where I was embarrassed to be dating the girl. She wasn’t unattractive by any means, quite the opposite, but she was a held-back freshman and I was a senior in high school. Despite being massively BPed she was incredibly excited to date me. Now when this shame wore off the story changes to her dumping me but this attitude about it is what I attribute mos…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:48 PM
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The best natural ladies' man I'll probably ever know was cheated on. The guy she cheated with was no where near the man he is, but it happens. I'm convinced there's no way around it, no matter what your SMV is.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:35 AM
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asshole =/= playful Learn the difference. Not every seemingly negative comment is said with malice.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:26 AM
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Should I have waited it out a few more weeks? No Or was I right to break it off with her because she wasn't reciprocating? Yes, you set your expectations and she didn't meet them. If you wanted to buy alcohol at a liquor store but they offered you water instead, you'd leave. Just looking for some security in the decision I made That nothingness feeling you feel is a hard truth about dating. You will have to make hard decisions like the one you made. Hell I recently gave up on an incredibly hot c…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:17 AM
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It's hard to say but another contributor that could've been a turn off to her is your response to her saying that.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:01 PM
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Shes flirted with me before but was never that aggressive. Just today i realized that after finding out i was a virgin she must have felt superior to me and that gave her the confidence to say that. So she was basically fucking with me because my lack of sexual experience made her lose respect for me. Or at least that's how it seems to me. You are reading way too much into this. I mean WAY too much into this. She was just trying to flirt. You call it "aggressive" but it's really just her being m…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:16 AM
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Girls calling older guys creeps online/elsewhere/theyre not gonna do it to your face This is just not true. I've seen multiple older guys get called creeps for simply approaching. One of them even threw pizza at me when I picked up the girl who falsely told him she was 17. The hotter the girl, the more willing they are to say shit like that because they know how it will play out.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:48 AM
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But still I think to improve your SMV significantly, you need bigger social circles. My older brother is someone who's very extroverted and outgoing. He's created such a large Twitter following that we've been stopped, multiple times, in public by random people who recognized him. So I've been able to have a front seat to the life of someone who's always gotten along with pretty much everyone and has a lifestyle that compliments it as he makes tremendous amounts of money working for, cutting edg…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:36 AM
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It's her job to know you wouldn't be okay with this. It's like farting in an elevator, everyone understands you shouldn't do it. I'd take a mental note that she insists on farting in your elevator.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:00 AM
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Just muscles isn't always going to get him laid, but it will give him more than what the other ideas of TRP will. I completely disagree with you on that, simply because my own life experience has proven the opposite. When I was in high school, all the way until college I had decent muscle mass and I was tone. I played varsity soccer, ran for the varsity cross-country team, and played tennis after school. I was real eye-candy but that's all I was. On the inside I was one of the most beta guys in …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 07:14 PM
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Any Surefire Way or foolproof method of escalating? There is none. Rejection is always a risk. Get rid of this need for it to work, because you should have the inner peace of mind to know that you'll be fine if it doesn't.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:30 AM
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Asking about my current living situation ps I have my own place and car and good career. She's vetting you. You should be doing the vetting on a first date. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:30 AM
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I'm just saying I wanna have a close tight knit group I often communicate and do things with very often, and be somewhat reserved and exclusive, not just open to anyone making friends. Just quality basically. I'll give my two cents as I'm a guy with about 5 true, ride or die, lifelong friends. Shit has gotten real multiple times, and we're essentially family. I do not think I will ever be as close to other guys as I am to my friends. As we all met in middle school when we became friends, and hel…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:26 AM
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It all comes back to this idea of value. For instance say you were throwing a party and lets say that every guy at your school, except your friends, are special needs kids. Even further lets say that a few of these special needs kids have super hot girls they could bring. Who do you invite? That was a rhetorical question but that's essentially the mindset of people who are throwing parties. They're going to invite people they like and if someone adds enough value to their party they'll invite th…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:53 AM
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I'm already trying to get closer with the kids that usually go out to parties, but I guess I don't come off as the partying type. No they just don't like you or see any value in inviting you. People joke about me being 30 year old, because of my masculine frame That's such a weird criticism for them to make that I almost don't believe you. Although the best advice I can give is try and build rapport with other kids, but you need to be worth talking to. Meaning the solution is to work towards bec…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:16 AM
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Most girls are expecting you to make some kind of move on a first date, especially if you're calling it a date. I wouldn't say I hard next them but at the very least I absolutely withdraw attention, that's as long as we're talking about actual rejection and not her playfully rejecting a kiss. Although a tip I believe is helpful for people who get rolled like OP is "If you didn't at least get a kiss it was a bad date for her."
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:41 PM
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So I have a friend who's naturally amazing with women, easily the best ladies' man I know. Now the first approach I ever made was to these two stunningly cute blonde girls at a bar after my group of friends decided to part for the night. That friend I mentioned, unbeknownst to me, noticed me approach and decided to watch from afar. I went in with some funny line that I liked from an old RSD video and it landed well. I was vibing pretty well with one of the girls and the other seemed to like me a…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:39 AM
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You just have to do it, tbh. The first few approaches I did my only goal was to have a fun interaction, as you can't transition into a sexual frame if you can't even open. A moment before approaching I'd think of something creative to say, on the spot, and go with whatever it was. After a few of these you'll realize that it's not a big deal and you'll feel more comfortable doing it. That comfort will make you look that much more confident in your approaches
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:35 AM
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At the end of the first date I tried to kiss her, she went for the cheek. Why was there a second date after this? Sixth date we spent most of our date making out, and I grabbed her a lot, invited her to my place again, and she declined once again. Next morning she texts me that I’m being too intense, that I shouldn’t be grabbing her every time she gets close. She said that not everything in life is about sex, that she enjoys more romantic stuff. I said ok. She's literally saying "You're chasing …
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:22 AM
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Important note because every comment here is missing the mark by a bit. You next her because you value your time, you are not doing it hoping to get a reaction from her. In other words, you’re doing it for you and not as some weird tactic
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:54 PM
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First of all, fuck this idea I used TRP on a girl No, TRP is not some book of tactics you use when you're trying to get some action. It's a fundamental change to your perception of your role as a man. You might hear some advice about "use AA" or "soft next" but at the end of the day those are band-aid fixes. The reason these "tactics" are band-aid fixes is because your behavior is a manifestation of your thoughts, and TRP seeks to change the way you think so that you naturally become a much more…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:16 AM
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You keep asking people what you should’ve said instead but understand that there’s not always a “right” thing to say. Say what you want to say and accept it if it falls flat, it’s not the end of the world.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:35 AM
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Abundance mindset is a guideline, it's absolutely not the holy grail of game. Acting like any of it is will significantly hamper your game, there's nuance in everything. I'll give you an example. You're on a date with a cute girl, it goes well, and you vibe nicely. Only you haven't escalated yet and towards the end of the date she says "You should think about giving me a kiss on the next date." Now what does orthodoxy say to do? Hold frame and don't fall into hers so you respond "Don't push your…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 09:15 PM
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I drove home and thought about going back, but decided it’d be way too needy and to just work on my book. You know what's extremely needy? The active avoidance of being perceived as needy. The fact of the matter is that if you didn't go back your chances were 0%. If you did you could've possibly fucked her, but because you cared about your ego and not looking needy it will stay at that 0%.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 09:12 AM
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This has easily become my favorite thread of late. There's just something so incredibly satisfying about a bunch of people collectively saying "Ya I did some dumb shit like that too." Although I can do you one better. I've had a girl naked, on top of my naked body, and we didn't fuck. I think I was 19, but thank god for TRP
/r/askTRP02/02/20 10:38 AM
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Your actions and behaviors are a manifestation of your thoughts. If you want to improve your behavior you must change your outlook on whatever it is you're doing. For instance, I used to not know why I should be telling jokes. I would tell jokes because I wanted people to like me, I wanted people to think I was funny, etc etc. This led to me looking to see if people laughed at my jokes, it made me re-enact jokes I told someone else, and I didn't know when not to crack a joke. However all of thos…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:46 AM
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It's hard if you don't routinely have to talk to strangers. Since you'll feel incredibly nervous the first time. Meaning you'll do things like jump at the opportunity to fill in every void of conversation, you might just not know what to say next, or just a combination of things. Approaches get better when you start giving less of a fuck, because that anxiety comes from fearing a negative outcome. Since you would have no problem approaching if you got laid every time. Now there are plenty of str…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 08:32 PM
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For example, my son, 9, used to be really embarrassed to talk to strangers. So when he wanted to buy something and we didn't know where it was, I would tell him to go and ask a shop assistant himself. I did it in a fun, kind way, but made it clear that if he didn't, I wasn't going to do it. It was a test, but also a game. The first few times he was really nervous. Then he discovered the sky would not fall down if he did it. And he got a reward from it: finding the thing he wanted. And now he doe…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:27 AM
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she was like “I saw your lil girlfriend today” I felt like it was a shit test Holy shit you are overthinking this. -It is not a shit test. -Stop caring about if she is shit testing you or not, she's not going to fuck you.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:16 AM
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I think when you're in high school it's different but only because there are hot girls with absolutely no confidence whatsoever. After they're exposed to how easily they can get attention it changes. I say this as a guy whose first gf in high school was an HB8 who was absolutely thrilled I was even interested in her. Two years later when we both went off to college she realized what a pathetic BPed loser I was and she dumped me. College is the point where I think guys need to discover TRP, becau…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:05 AM
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You own that shit. Accept your flaws, we all have them, and leave your ego at the door. People will respect the guy who is unfazed by a negative attack more than the guy being negative.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 06:44 PM
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Are you picking her up? If not make sure you agree to meet at the theater about 10 minutes before the movie so that you have the time to establish premise more directly. It is not completely necessary but it makes kissing her afterwards much easier. So during the film there's really only one move that I do. I'll pull up the divider and put my arm around her, with her preferably leaning onto me. Sometimes I just do it and other times there will be a moment where she adjusts herself in her seat an…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:54 AM
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I was talking to a few female coworkers yesterday and one of them mentioned a former coworker. The conversation went something like this Coworker1 - "Remember that guy Mat? He would always talk about video games and anime?" Coworker2 - "The one who had a bit of a smell issue?" Coworker3 - "That guy took everything too seriously." Coworker1 - "Ya definitely. He was nice though." My brain immediately translated "he was nice" as "he was a pussy" because no girl in the history of the world has ever …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 05:34 PM
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some girls really do not like cum, to the point that it's not a measure of how attracted she is to you. I've never had it happen to me personally but I remember hearing about it a couple times from mates of mine in college.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:52 AM
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I tried for sex and was rejected. I'm worried this plate is turning into a "friend" without benefits. That's what it is though, getting rejected by a plate means she ain't a plate. The moment she rejected you is when you should've withdrew attention. Meaning if you are acting accordingly then there's no chance you'll ever be her gay best friend.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:08 AM
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Sometimes they just drop off, over time you learn to not read too much into it. I had a plate who was constantly hitting me up for sex. She even fake texted me as another person to get my attention when I was ignoring her texts. Then one day she just stopped.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:01 AM
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You're reading too much into this, if your LTR looked you in the eyes and said "You're ugly as fuck" you should be able to look right back without flinching and say "Yeah? What else do you like about me?" with a big ole smirk on your face
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:56 AM
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So strange reading this as a white guy because I tend to attract the type of black girls who are very similar in personality to white girls. Meaning my experience is the polar opposite of yours, as the seven black girls I've slept with were docile and sarcastic for the most part. Hell idk what it is about me but I tend to strongly attract that specific type of black girl. Not to sound like some blackpill incel but it's made me ask myself if it's something about my facial structure.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:19 AM
1

My favorite opener is “What’s going on losers?”
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:33 AM
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she says shes going for a smoke outside and says I can meet her there. She's just rejected you a handful of nights ago and now she's setting the frame that you'll come outside and give her your undivided attention because she knows you're chasing her. I meet her outside sigh she says she is really happy i'm here because it is dark and scary. She then asks me if we can go to the zoo together one weekend and sleep in my car together (its like 200km away so it would be an overnight trip) This is ju…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:03 AM
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Women want to sleep with men who are indifferent to their attention, yet show intent. So in your example yes, she is more likely to sleep with the guy she knows less. Now obviously there needs to be enough of an interaction for her to be interested in the first place. Although to understand this you have to understand why being a beta orbiter is bad. She is more likely to sleep with the guy who she knows less because he hasn’t spent all his time on her like a chode. Popular culture creates this …
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:43 PM
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Oh man, if you could only hear yourself
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:46 AM
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I assume they'll live for a good amount of time, I'm not trying to go around ending their lives or anything.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:58 AM
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I think her telling you that she was a virgin was a comfort test. You have to remember that girls are constantly fed false information that their first time will always hurt, and they’re incredibly nervous about it. A girl I met from college was a virgin and when she told me she was a virgin I maintained the confidence that it was going to be an awesome time regardless. Then when you hurt her while fingering her it compounded her nervousness about it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:36 PM
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I left out the context of this being around the time I was sharpening my RP mindset. This was the desperation she turned to, to maintain the dynamic as me being her faithful little orbiter. In hindsight it makes sense and I feel like OP might have to deal with similar desperation when she realizes he's grown a spine
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:59 PM
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Just like a rectangle is a square but a square is not always a rectangle. Where money is the rectangle and the square is status. Meaning there are different forms of status besides money. The main one focused on this sub is social status which money plays no role in.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:38 PM
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when I try to soft next her she just reinitiates conversation. Blow her off the same way she's blowing you off. I'm talking one word answers and how you would treat a morbidly obese girl hitting you up. If she texts you get to the point of the text and end the conversation. For instance when my ex (who's also friends with my friends) reached out to me by replying to a snap on my snap story with something along the lines of her- "Is that at xyz?" me- "It is" her- "Is is as cool as people keep say…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:30 PM
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Only had 1 hour time to chat / get to know each other. This time was too fucking short to escalate for me an hr is plenty of time when it's a girl you've met on Tinder. Get better at turning conversation sexual. Thing is, she paid for us both This is almost always a good sign At first she agreed, but when we got to our cars she said she is tired, havent slept much and has to get up early no it was absolutely because of you I also never complimented her Don't be afraid to give girls compliments. …
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:17 PM
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As a guy who's found his success with this method. you really need to work on your reading comprehension
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:17 AM
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The link you see on the pirate bay is right, but that link you posted is just a podcast he was on
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:00 PM
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There's high status humor, and there's low status humor. It's the difference between doing a clown routine and making jokes like James Bond. I actually learned a lot of the fundamentals through one of those old shitty ad tabs that randomly opened after I went to pornhub. I ended up torrenting it and it was actually extremely helpful in explaining humor to me. I still seed it, it's called "High Status Humor"
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:48 PM
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So much this. 99% chance he's thinking "This will get her back for sure"
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:45 PM
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get someone to take pictures of you
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:41 PM
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I know people here will say fake it till you make it. But I do not see how. As a guy who's found his success with this method. Just say things you think a confident person would say, even if it's actually terrible. The first date I had with an HB8 I got rejected super hard for saying the most autistic thing ever, but I said it thinking that an actual confident guy would say it (even though I had no idea if a confident guy would say it). I think people who can't find success with this are too sca…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:39 PM
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say you'll be 5/10 mins late, that way you're confirming it without making it look like you're only trying to confirm it edit: plus it puts you in the frame that your time is more valuable than hers
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:30 PM
1

I still can’t seem to close. What specifically happens when you try escalating for the close
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:15 PM
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Not a shit test, more of her trying to subtly control the frame of the conversation. I would just brush it aside/ignore and stick to the path you have the conversation on with something like “Well whatever you feel, it won’t help you when I’m there”
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:05 PM
1

I spank them hard, I don’t wind up my hand over my head or anything over the top.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:25 AM
1

Because most men do not have the same natural abundance as women do, which makes them put women on a pedestal. So if the question is "Why do men have less abundance than women?" then my answer would be "Because society preys on insecure men." You can be an extremely insecure woman and have no problem in attracting an attractive guy, but if you're an horribly insecure guy you'll be picking from the scraps. Since women attract guys based on looks whereas guys attract girls from a multitude of plac…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:14 PM
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Is getting a ''hey whatsup'' from a guy you broke it off with validating for them? Attention is currency for women, yes. Think about it this way, if you broke up with a girl and she didn't seem shaken up about it. Would you ever expect a text back from her if you randomly said hey? No because girls are far ahead of most guys when it comes to having abundance and an abundant mentality
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:42 PM
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I think ur my music taste doppelgänger Stop saying things like this. You are trying for rapport with this attitude of "Oh wow look how much we have in common! Who would've thought!" the rest of the comments touch on everything else
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:17 AM
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should I realistically worry about being a virgin No worrying is stupid and pointless and has an objective negative medical effect on your body. where I decide to date the most desperate women I can find or even pay a prostitute. Don't date them, fucking a girl and dating a girl is not the same thing. Just work on your approaches and social skills because at 22 you absolutely should've been laid already
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:23 AM
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I know that when you're going to reestablish contact and the girl asks why she got nexted you're supposed to be casual and change the subject I'd say that last part is not important and it will hurt you if she's insisting (as I later read is what happened). Instead I'd reframe the topic or use AA and while smirking say "You're just a horrible person"
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:00 AM
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asking her about her program then asking why she chose it, what year she's in Stop asking questions and start giving opinions about her, where you are, or simply anything relative to the both of you. A simple "You look familiar" and getting the ball rolling off that is better than asking twenty questions and hoping for something you can use.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:40 PM
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The fat guys or burly dudes always end up being my best friend I don't see that as I negative but you've framed it that way. I agree that if you're overweight that's a massive issue and you need to address it. That being said I have a group of 5 guys I'm lifelong friends with. 2 are overweight, one of which is morbidly so. Yet the other 3 are in great shape, one of whom is even a personal trainer (oddly enough). So I think you can have friends who are both in shape and not. Especially when I've …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:56 PM
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I've said this repeatedly too. I've tried time after time after time to help those sad fucks. I genuinely feel bad for them. Although they're not coming here to learn, they're coming here to bitch and whine
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:17 AM
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A bit of both because you should be trying new ways of approaching when you're starting out and when those approaches start succeeding you naturally internalize the idea. I'll give you an example of something I successfully internalized with practice. It was the idea that sometimes when a girl is bluntly saying things like "I don't like you" or "We're not having sex" she's shit testing you. (This story takes place at my house) Now with this particular girl who was a self described "sub" she had …
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:37 AM
3

Practice. Look back and think "Oh I should've done this" and you'll improve with each failure.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:48 AM
1

Part of me wants to engage whenever I heard some shitty remark made by one of them If they're just gossiping who gives a fuck, that's literally the kind of pointless drama women worry about. As a man you should be glad they're not including you in their bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:11 PM
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Older women and loser young men hated it, eye daggers galore Can confirm, I as a once bped guy absolutely hated it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:02 PM
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Because he truly believes he's figured out whatever "the flaw" was and corrected it. I have similar thoughts when I think back to the first girl I dated and lost my virginity to. After 2 and a half years she got fed up with my bp self so she dumped me. I cared about this girl as much as I could care about anything, so I get where your friend is coming from. Today I've improved virtually every one of my social skills and my entire personality. Looking back on our relationship I know that my bp wa…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 12:45 PM
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I'm just objectively boring Something tells me your humor sucks if you consider yourself boring. As I find the most interesting people have great senses of humor, since good humor is probably one of the most creative skills you can have. I'd advise you to improve your humor skills as its done wonders for myself
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:47 PM
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The second method is what's advocated here however, if she hits up you within, let's say, a few hours, and you go back to normal, she won't even know that she's been soft nexted. What's the point of the soft next in that case? If she blows you off and you soft next her but she continues to text you after a few hours you still need to be withdrawing attention. In a thread a couple days ago a guy immediately jumped to ask a girl out again when she started texting him again after she had just blown…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:38 PM
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I woke her up, gave her a chance to come clean. I just don't get it. Why the fuck does it matter? You uncover a bed of lies and your first thought is "She'll be honest with me now!" Furthermore there's no apology that would change how you should respond. And the guy is one ugly SOB, he’s overweight and sends these super sappy essays for texts like he’s one of the girls I'd say it was never a permanent thing in her mind. A close buddy of mine is the best ladies' man I know and he's also a persona…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:47 AM
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I'm typing this after the fact but I decided to really go in depth to what happened here with some examples from my own experience. Getting the lay is good but even after she will continually try to control the frame. I recently fucked this girl and when I was saying I need to stop by her place sometime again she started saying shit like "I guess I can let you [fuck me] since you've been thinking about it so much." I correctly read into it as her being playfully bratty so I responded Me- "I wasn…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:17 AM
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Don't invite a girl over immediately after she blows you off. It reads like you wanted her to come over so badly that the moment she gave you any extra attention you saw it as your opportunity to ask. She knows she can fuck you if she wants, so it's not a win for her. Aka she won't fuck you. You should've either given her a one word answer to the question (meaning you barely try to converse with her) or teased her for asking it.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:17 AM
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I never thought I'd ever have a cute girl text me "did you downgrade me?" or beg to be my girlfriend. TRP is a great place
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:10 AM
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The thing is you read online and I keep reading from women how they like older, but to them that means 2-3 years. I assure you this is not true. For certain girls, sure, but not most of them. Anything above 5 is just unattractive and talking down on the men who date 10 years younger. A lot of negative comments on the appearance of guys in their 30. There are people who will give you shit for it but those are the people you shouldn't associate with anyway. Anyone who feels the need to shit on a f…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:04 AM
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The way I check myself when I'm talking to a girl is asking myself "Have I established a flirtatious/sexual frame?" recently I went on a Bumble date (a FR I'm planning on posting) where after a bit of hilarious, joking conversation I realized I was actually failing. As I had not made any attempt to turn the conversation into a flirtatious frame. I immediately misconstrued something sexually, later got the close, and am now currently spinning her as a plate.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:35 AM
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I am an average social guy and don't really have any problem talking with strangers and interacting with groups and things like that If you have no difficulty in striking up conversation then your problem is probably the same as most guys. That being you aren't showing intent and getting to the point. There was a post on here a few days ago where a guy approached and talked to a girl for an hour. He got her number and when he asked to meet up later she asked him if he was looking for a date, whi…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 10:29 AM
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Damn thought yall would be more supportive than destructive lol thanks Getting shit for being a dumbass is the best form of support you can ask for
/r/askTRP16/11/19 10:19 AM
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he was qualifying himself at the beginning of that exchange. Where? She shit tested him immediately, and he demonstrated his low value by falling into her frame during the shit test. He did no such thing, he was mockingly acting like he was a pussy. Imagine if Brad Pitt was telling the girl he was with, that he was a virgin. That shit is hilarious, when done correctly and I'd argue he didn't go over-the-top enough. I was suggesting that instead of not getting the joke as her response implied, sh…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:04 AM
1

I’m pretty sure she’s just playing into the joke to see how you react. Although even if she’s just dumb your response should be the same. Make it more absurd. I.e. “You literally took my virginity”
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:54 AM
14

You don’t “handle” anything, you next the bitch
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:50 AM
1

AWALT Have a plate who has a “wolfkin” fetish, whatever the hell that is. She’s also an amazing artist, who paints exceptionally well. I ignored most of her weird fetish stuff and she recently gave up trying to control the frame of the relationship (i.e. I’m not looking for a boyfriend right now) to now sending me paragraphs about how much she cares about me.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:48 AM
1

I live with my parents, they're the ones in charge of the food I eat Do you not have a meal plan? Unless your major is extremely difficult, I'd say get a source of income so that you can buy your own food. I know I should be going out more often and talking to girls but I'm just really nervous when I walk up to them (when I do walk up) and I feel like I'm going mostly nowhere. Start small. Don't put your expectations in the sky with "I need to bang this girl or get her number if I approach" dump…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:11 AM
1

Only 20% of my friends in my fraternity said happy birthday to me, including in our fraternity group chat. As a dude who has a group of 5 life-long friends, I promise you this does not matter. It's different if they're going out of their way to not wish you a happy birthday. Also, when I asked if anyone was down to go out on a Friday (day after my birthday), only one guy said anything in our group chat Can't really help you here too much as I'd need to see the group dynamic to understand complet…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:57 AM
5

fake it until you make it. I didn't think I was very cool, so I acted like I was. Pretty soon people would give off honest signals that they thought I was actually a pretty cool, confident guy. Hard to pretend when you realize you are that person.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:49 AM
9

I don’t have any plates, just some friends that are women. Yikes
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:38 AM
14

she asks if I'm looking for a date. She literally had no fucking idea why you were talking to her for an entire hour. SHOW INTENT
/r/askTRP06/11/19 12:21 AM
3

I think your problem here wasn't that you didn't want her to get your phone but that you had this mental inclination to remind her you said no after she was already charging it. It's like if a girl lies to you, you don't tell her lying to you is bad, you simply accept it was a lie and act accordingly. You don't set boundaries after they've been crossed
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:47 PM
2

Is just someone who can mentally and socially handle any situation. Handle it to the point that it doesn’t faze them. My favorite example of this from film is from Avengers Infinity War, when at the start of the film a character appears from a portal and another character, completely unfazed, asks if the guy is trying to sell him tickets or something
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:42 PM
2

The key is the absurdity. If it's not absurd enough then it looks serious. It's the same if a girl asks "Do you say that line to all the girls" and you respond "I've never talked to a girl in my life"
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:03 PM
2

"I don't want to make you feel bad" "I've never lifted anything in my life" (this would be a good AA)
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:57 PM
10

Wtf am I reading. Are you straight up banging homeless chicks? Next the shit out of this girl, christ.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:12 AM
11

society doesn't want insecure guys bettering themselves. I have a few lifelong friends and I broke the rule about fight club with them. A few of them gave me a lot more shit than others and that was that. A few weeks later I remade plans with them after cancelling. They asked why I rescheduled so I told them that the girl I was inviting over was moving out of state. The friend who gave me the most shit over being part of TRP had denounced it with "that's just a whole lot of misogynistic ideals" …
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:55 AM
2

Just got back from a date, was with girl and we were chilling having fun. Didn’t get much kino but slowly got it in towards the end. How much time had you been with this girl? This sounds like you kept things platonic and then you tried to make everything sexual last minute and she was like "No wtf you're my gay best friend"
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:42 AM
1

they do it subconsciously, as you've probably done before too. Think about it, when was the last time you had to deal with someone who you considered to be a complete dope. Society preys on insecurity. Any inkling of insecurity that people will find within you they'll use against you. For the simple reason that the person who has the social power in an environment, dictates who gets to feel confident. Meaning they have all the social power in any given interaction. A good example from film comes…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:34 AM
31

I call these cock blocks because they are trying to make me look bad by telling the woman I’m hitting on her in order to weird her out. They're not cock blocks though. They're just giving you general shit. It’s all shit like that. Why do they do this? Are you really asking why people give each other shit? What does it mean about me, that I’m low value within the group? And how the fuck do I make them stop? By what I've read already I'd say they keep doing it because it's effective
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:09 AM
1

we started talking about mundane things again like work, this is my fault for not steering the convo somewhere more interesting. Yes 100% your fault. You should be able to turn conversations sexual on a dime. Talking to her like a friend shows her that you’re not the guy she’s going to be fucking.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:30 AM
6

play the guy up to be awesome and that she should go on the date. This girl, who doesn't want to go, will naturally take the opposite side. So congrats, you now have her in the frame of wanting to chase you instead.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:08 AM
1

Yes you were, but you can make it up to me that’s true She's down, as long as you don't fuck it up
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:00 AM
2

There is a line of thought which states that women are reflection of men they are with at the time and that it is mainly the man who is responsible for her behavior. The simplest way of proving this is that girls will mold themselves to please the guy they want. I have seen many exceptional men get betrayed or mistreated by women, I don't think for a second its their fault. For the most part it is absolutely their fault. I believe it falls off for LTRs but I digress. When a girl disrespects you …
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:52 AM
13

Come to find out when he leaves that’s her ex. I totally let this dude be the alpha at the table and was basically being a fanboy to him all night. Reminds me of a talk I watched from the 21 convention a while back. The speaker was saying how this is the best reaction you could've given in that kind of group environment, when dealing with someone who is confident enough to have fucked a 10. Since your other choices are to try and subtly AMOG him by being more charismatic, more charming, to try a…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:33 AM
2

Now it's hard for me to help you here because calibration and understanding the "tells" of how a girl is feeling are fairly subtle. I'd say you should try paying closer attention to the moment, which helps immensely if you're calm. Once you feel that easeness around girls, you'll start to pick up on when a girl likes you vs when she's just there, existing. If you think you can't really get a read on a girl keep practicing on picking up on IOIs and be okay with getting it incorrect sometimes.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:00 AM
4

whenever i cold approach and go on a date and attempt kino they dont reciprocate, they show signs of disinterest and move away from me and all when I do. You might just be reading signals incorrectly or you're oblivious to something horribly wrong in your game. I'm going to post a FR from tonight where I felt confident leading in with strong kino fairly early in the night. She called attention to it at every turn and I stopped after she said she wasn't into something I really liked. Not much tim…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:31 AM
4

I think you feel this way because you don't have enough positive experiences with not being needy. So when you really like a girl and she's losing interest you turn to neediness like it's some last ditch hail mary. When in reality the best solution is to soft next her and give her some space, as every guy on here would suggest. Hell there's this girl I like and at the beginning of this month she seemed to have fallen into my frame of our relationship. Wanting to hang out with me and when I'd say…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:16 AM
1

I have a guy i work with who is very passive aggressive So he's a chick What do you all suggest is beat way to handle this kind of situation? Call him out for not knowing what he's doing when it affects you because it sounds like he's intent on being difficult if you don't call him out anyway. I'd do it in the most condescending way possible too because no one wants to be labeled as a retard who can't finish work tasks properly i.e. "We have to retrain you." There's an old quote I remember from …
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:48 AM
2

I started to get needy You should either start talking to more girls or better recognize how this neediness will destroy your standing with girls. You can't guilt a girl into wanting to spend more time with you, it will always make things worse
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:25 AM
12

RDJ - "Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway."
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:29 AM
2

I don't get it? How can I be a nice guy to this girl yet she just uses me for sex in essence. It doesn't make any sense in my mind? Or is my idea of alpha flawed and can an alpha still be a loving, caring and responsible but not though, trendy guy? A silent rule I've adopted is that anything she says while she's still fucking you that she believes is a compliment, is a compliment. I don't look at it in terms of "Oh no she sees me as a beta cuck now" I look at it in terms of "Oh she's bad at desc…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:30 AM
1

I understand abundance who cares? Are you abundant or not
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:30 AM
22

I usually go with a "you" + a disqualifier as it makes the comment more playful and it doesn't give your power away. i.e. "You, but only if you play your cards right"
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:16 AM
3

and told me to leave When you walk up to a group and they tell you to leave, most of the time they're being serious. If you find yourself getting shut down on the approach a lot it's because you're doing something extremely wrong in your approach. Continuing to stay after they tell you to fuck off just makes you look like you need your approach to work instead of just being there for the fun of it. I will give you props tho, knowing how awkward that was and sticking in is something not a lot of …
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:27 AM
2

If you have to ask "Does it matter if" the answer is always yes. The real question is "How much does it matter" and I'd rate race as fairly low on the bar of things that matter. Sure there are girls who only go for white guys, Hispanics, etc but that is not the vast majority of girls.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:00 AM
1

start small. For me I started simply by keeping track of what I was eating. I continued my same diet but the first step is wanting to put in the effort to make a change. Over time I naturally switched to foods with lower calories.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 10:04 AM
4

6’4 alpha male real estate tycoon with a Slovenian model wife who has the world by the balls. Qualifying yourself right off the bat? Cuck
/r/askTRP24/10/19 10:00 AM
21

My first gf was a virgin and so were the next two girls I ever fucked. It's left me with a good mindset on how to fuck virgins, oddly enough. I've found that you have to go slowly. Meaning as you thrust you should start with the very tip of your wang and after three or four strokes, go a little deeper. Rinse and repeat and next thing you know you're all clear. Other than that treat her like any other girl, handle escalation and lmr the same way. One of those girls I fucked in hs put out a ton of…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 08:58 AM
3

I was obese at one point and I still got laid, granted it was much harder than it is for me now, but it is absolutely still possible if your social skills are up to par. The advice I'll give is, don't think of your best self as some distant thing. Start being your best self today and when you get in shape you won't feel the need for womens' validation
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:50 AM
3

If you don't care just ignore. If you're ignoring her hoping to get a reaction then delete her.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:22 PM
2

When a girl I meet on Tinder says she's DTF immediately, or after one date, it's a big turn off for me. It means she does it for everybody else. I don't like that. Get used to it. I've never known a girl who wouldn't put out after a first date. If not with me there would absolutely be someone she would. I'm guessing this is going to get a lot of AWALT responses, saying that even the women who put up more resistance or hold out for relationships are whores too (or worse, that they would put out i…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:40 AM
12

she misses your attention, she has no interest in fucking you again hard next
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:10 PM
19

Why cant I just say what the fuck you doing with black guys at 5 am Because do you want to know what her response will be? "Oh I didn't even see it (or whatever the excuse is). I didn't realize this was such a big deal to you." so congratulations you broke frame, came off extremely needy, and completely validated her disrespect of you. So tell me, what do you gain here? You know she'll excuse it off. It does not matter what she has to say.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:58 PM
15

One of my best mates is 5'7 and I'd describe him as an 8, easily. He's also the best ladies' man I've ever seen, which is hard for me to admit sometimes.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:45 PM
3

^ ^ ^ Real friends are wingmen not pussy goggled assholes
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:42 PM
15

Do I call her out You must be new here. NO. NEVER. flat out end it? Well what would happen if you reversed the situation? Would your gf be okay with you disrespecting her like that? I'd end it in your position, too much pussy out there to worry about one girl. Especially one pulling that kind of shit
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:36 PM
1

It doesn't really matter as to the order of making the plans and finding out when she's free. For instance I was talking to a girl about sports and I discovered that we both really enjoyed tennis, so I suggested we play and then the plans were made around our schedules. Conversely I might find that the girl I'm talking to is a tourist and is free for the rest of the day so I'd make plans after I'm confident the frame of the interaction is obvious.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:29 PM
4

A number is a means to an end. Meaning she better have a reason to text you before you get her number. Since what reason does she have to text you back? Because you could hold a conversation and could say a funny one liner? Find out when she's free, make plans, then get the number. It's a simple formula but it will drastically cut back on flakes, or at least it did for me.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:10 PM
4

Replace these girls with children, which works exceptionally well when you run the club. Now reread what you posted. Don't listen to what they say, conversely stop trying to grab her attention when she's ignoring you. Use your crowd (the two other girls) to ostracize her subtly. For instance if she's ignoring you, you can say to the other girls "girl1, girl2 we need to get her some hearing aids, she barely hears anything now." Then when she responds seriously i.e. "I'm just ignoring you, because…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:11 AM
-2

As a guy who shys away from ltr I’d say you better get advice from a guy who wants/is in a ltr. As I imagine most guys will just tell you to say “That sucks”
/r/askTRP15/10/19 05:06 PM
43

I wish more guys understood this relationship dynamic. You might not marry a gold digger but a few decades down the line you might learn you did. My parents divorced for the exact same reason this guy talks about. My dad, being a doctor, and a man TRP would be proud of has told me that he divorced my mom because “She was less of a wife and more of a house guest who didn’t put in any effort.” He’s now with a much more attractive woman who is about his age and they seem to be in a much better rela…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 08:05 AM
1

What could it possibly be? If I'm doing weird something in person during the date, then these girls wouldn't be getting sexual with me Well there's weird in different ways such as "Oh fuck this guy is an autistic retard" and "Ohh... this guy isn't as cool in person." For instance back in the day I went on a movie date, we made out at the end, and I walked away feeling insanely confident it went well. I planned the next day at her place but she flaked the morning of. I ended up finding out from a…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 08:44 AM
1

Anyway, am I correct to assume these girls aren't interested anymore They are not interested, I would absolutely not think they are if I was in your situation. Should I ever text back? No, do not respond to excuses. Especially when it's clear they're not into you. My advice? You're doing something so wrong socially that they lose interest. Now I don't know what but it sounds like it's a pattern.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 08:06 AM
3

I consider myself to have a very strong immune system. I rarely get sick but I don't do anything focused on my immune system. I used to have really bad sinus problems but that was because I lived with a cat who's dander drove my allergies insane. I think some people just aren't as lucky but I'm not a doctor
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:58 AM
3

regardless it seems like a lot of them basically boil down to ultimatums which only work on anticonfident people. If you give a girl an ultimatum, which showcases powerlessness, you are beta as fuck. I'm not sure what you've been reading.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:37 AM
1

If you find that you're not going over the line at all, then you need to be more polarizing. If you find that you went too far then you can always break the tension and say you're kidding
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:37 PM
8

No. There is being playful and being an asshole. There is a line. One will get you laid the other will not. One will have girls biting their lips and calling you an asshole the other will have girls throwing drinks in your face. When niceguys say the "asshole always gets the girl" what they really mean is "The playful guys who don't take everything seriously get the girl." I'll give you an example of how people confuse being playful with being an asshole. I was talking to a cute coworker when an…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:36 AM
2

I did keep escalating, and she kept pushing me away There's something I think everyone should keep in mind when you are hard stopped more than once. Is she fucking with you or is she not there yet? For instance this past weekend I had a girl over for drinks and as I made out with her on my couch she started looking at pictures on my wall. It was just after I went from kissing her to sucking on her exposed tits. Realizing her attention was slipping I started rubbing her clit from under her skirt,…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:23 AM
2

Both, but if a girl is into you she will constantly tell you that she wants your cock in her mouth.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:25 AM
8

She quickly says she wants to stop, but whenever I do, she pulls me back in for a kiss. This sounds like a shit test and not a serious rejection. Whenever I face these I just keep escalating while agreeing with her. I'll say something like "Ya we should stop I just washed these sheets" "Absolutely, I have to wait until marriage" or I'll misinterpret what she wants me to stop "You're right we need to just stop talking already" She keeps saying how mean she is Because she knows you're the one chas…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:23 AM
12

You really think girls don't know what "Hanging at her house for drinks" means? They know
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:20 AM
6

seems genuinely interested I've had girls falling into my frame hard but then they later ghost me. Interest is relative.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:41 AM
3

start putting that thought into what you're doing. If it persists for too long I usually start talking to another girl (platonically in your case) and I'll quickly realize that I don't really need her attention.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:37 PM
11

"maybe like a yes?" god the cringe is real. If you have to ask if she wants to go on a date with you, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:28 PM
3

Reminds me of a girl I dated. She kept telling me things I did that upset her until even after she branch swung and was fucking another guy. I was with a plate one day and my facebook messenger starts blowing the fuck out of my phone with this now single mom telling me why it didn’t work with me. After laughing about it with my plate I told her to stop and that I didn’t care. Sometimes you just have to realize that their bullshit is not worth your time
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:22 PM
7

Having a LTR =|= blue pill fantasy I’m on mobile right now but there’s even a sub called marriedRP (I don’t know off the top of my head). There’s a pretty big divide for sure with people who want a LTR vs lots of plates Mgtow, I’ll always think is a stupid sub because guys should absolutely be having sex. Blackpill is a bunch of losers who think women want a “genetically superior male” aka their natural physique is to blame for their failure with women. Absolutely hate those guys, nothing but ex…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:12 AM
7

If anything I’ve seen more blackpill losers stalking these subs.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:52 AM
1

Do I just ask her to keep it on the down low? Yes, but it's already a fuck up and probably not salvageable. Next time assume she will tell everyone.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:13 AM
0

You are invisible to her until you approach. I wouldn't look at it like that. I think it's better to say "You're only invisible to her because that's the reality you've put yourself in" As a common line I'll throw in at some point was how I saw her looking at me or checking me out (not true at all). Since most girls will then invest by trying to control your perception of them by saying no, or they'll say nothing and accept the frame that she's into you.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:50 AM
6

I find it's because the person sucks at giving them, or I've gotten a bj from them before (idk that last one might just be me). The best bjs I get start with just mouth for at least 5-10 mins and then they add their hand to finish.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:36 AM
13

It's almost near impossible to have male friends who stick with their friends, they'll instantly switch up when a female arrives. The concept of bros before hoes has died out. At least with females, girls stick together (women friendships are shittier yes, but you get the point). The amount of nonsense in this one paragraph is staggering. Real friends do not "instantly switch up when a female arrives" and I say that as a guy with five life-long friends. Instead they'll talk to the ugly friend fo…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:32 AM
14

she will never say "Hey come fuck me" unless she's head over heels for you. Change her mood not her mind, and also stop taking everything she says at face value. Since that is a form of ASD, remember sex with girls "just happens" because they didn't analytically plan on it.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:39 AM
1

Remind myself that I don't have them and it's no big deal, but I've had girls go from being completely into me to nothing at all. As a result I've already been conditioned to feel this way. Although it's almost impossible to completely detach yourself from them because you're constantly thinking of inside jokes and teases you can draw back on, which means you are going to be thinking about them at least a bit
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:46 AM
1

So you're saying "We've updated our guidelines so that we can remove all views associated with socialism because of the harmful totalitarian threat it posses" and then they removed anything regarding Bernie Sanders, Justice Democrats, etc. is not dishonest? You can't even make an argument in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:51 PM
1

How is that relevant to their freedom to curate content? Because they're not being honest to their community about it, which is a pretty massive deal when we're talking about one of the most visited sites in the US. If Facebook suddenly said "We've updated our guidelines so that we can remove all views associated with socialism because of the harmful totalitarian threat it posses" and then they removed anything regarding Bernie Sanders, Justice Democrats, etc. Do you really expect reasonable peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:59 AM
19

This sub wasn’t quarantined like the main sub, but is it going to be deleted as well? Or are we in a “wait and see” place?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:39 AM
20

Too many people confuse liberal thinking with “er mah gerd that offends me shhhhh” Liberal thought is thought that challenges what is, just as TRP does.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:28 AM
2

The reason I like to get her on the phone is because it is a measure of interest. The difference between texting and calling is that she must actually invest her full attention to you with a call. When you ask her about calling you're giving her the time to think about if you're worth investing that time into. Whereas if you just call you don't give her that opportunity and most of the time they will go along with it because of how much you've just put them on the spot.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:32 AM
2

Are you asking to call or are you just calling? I plan my tinder dates over calls. Only once I get their number I'll call them but I flip the script if they act like it's weird. By playfully accusing her of being antisocial or accusing her of being a forty year old who wants to rape me, you get the point. Since if they convince you it's weird then you're just falling into their frame of what is acceptable. You can get away with so many things that are "weird" if you don't act like they're weird.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:52 AM
1

OR will they think it's weird I'm living with young females? Why do you care? I remember back in the day when I used to watch RSD jeffy, almost religiously, he had a white van he would use to pick up girls. Super weird and creepy right? When girls would shit test him with "What's that thing for" he'd looked at them puzzled and say "Transportation?" Girls won't think it's weird if you don't think it is. So if you are asking this question I'd bet anything you'd fail a shit test about it. If a girl…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:40 AM
10

Join a frat. My first two roommates at FGCU joined a frat and they couldn't stop telling/showing me how many girls they were meeting. This school was one of the smallest (maybe still is) in Florida and I was pretty impressed with how many girls they'd bring over. I even became friends with another guy in the same frat and he pretty much echoed what they said. So yes this isn't first hand knowledge, although I do think it's still solid advice.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:04 AM
1

I've seen a lot of conflicting debate on TRP about the friendzone. What? Where? If you think you are in the friend zone, then you are a pathetic loser. Why? Well what is the friend zone? It's a term used for guys who are chasing a girl who's not attracted to them. Having the self awareness of this and saying "yep that's me" = pathetic loser. I would be okay with "staying friends" with her but I do have a few concerns. I'm worried that she may only value the friendship for access to drugs, and I …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:39 AM
3

Go for it. It'll work or it won't. Although it is a bit weird she responded to your question with an apparent excuse about being busy.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:05 AM
9

First of all if she is the one offering to give you her snap without you indicating you wanted it then yes "welcome to the fan club." This is also true if you ask for her number and she offers her snap, don't take the beta bait by settling. The last time I asked a girl for her number she gave me her insta but I declined. She then gave me her number and we ended up fucking, but curiously I checked her insta and ofc it's all pictures with her and her boyfriend (she told me she was single). It mean…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:55 AM
1

Got into some argument First of all, you know better Secondly, dude I read this and some of your responses and I get it. You like this girl but the problem is that she absolutely knows you like her more than she likes you. Meaning she has the power in this relationship. Usually I think the guys saying "hard-next" are just a bunch of troll retards who don't know how to offer better advice but this time that is the best advice. The reason you don't want to is because you lack abundance. If you had…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:41 AM
3

Anyone can be confident behind a keyboard with plenty of time to think of fun responses. I speak as a guy who was horrible at talking to girls in high school but a master at talking to girls through text.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:15 AM
1

with age comes social experience
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:12 AM
1

So she cut him of from his live and told me about it all. "OMG I can't stop thinking of chad, emotional tampon please let me tell you every feeling I have about the cool guy" I don't understand why you even wanted to talk about some random fuck boy
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:10 AM
4

most women using online dating apps, use them continually. Meaning they constantly have their inbox full of thirsty guys who want to fuck, so keeping those girls as plates is that much harder. This realization has made me use Bumble less and less. For fast sex, ya it's a great option, but don't be surprised if you get ghosted about 2 weeks down the road.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:43 PM
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are you fucking her?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:20 PM
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Well for me it's because I like fucking girls more than my hand
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:15 PM
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for reason being They will never tell you the reason what i did wrong sometimes it wasn't something you could prevent. Don't let it get to you
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:12 PM
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After I get an excuse I'll ask them when they're free and if they don't give me an answer I know they're not interested. I'm not wasting time on girls who aren't interested
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:07 PM
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There's this girl in my class I've been vetting for a while. Nope, I don't have oneitis, I keep fucking, gaming other girls, and I consciously keep her off the pedestal, very aware of her flaws because of vetting her actions. "I'm vetting this girl by creepily watching her actions instead of talking to her, but don't worry I don't have onitis." whatever dude
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:58 PM
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She always answers when I text her but never texts me first. Who knows, but I'd really like to set something up with this girl cause she lives in the same town as me and attractive girls around here are hard to come by. Wait how many pointless conversations have you had with this girl? GET TO THE POINT. I think you fucked your chances because she is clearly not interested anymore.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:50 PM
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If there is one thing I’m certain of, it’s that she didn’t cheat while on vacay This is delusional. No reasonable person would say this. I say this as a guy who's girlfriend in high school came from a hyper christian family that would never leave her alone after she started dating me. I still fucked her though. IF SHE WANTS TO FUCK A GUY WITHOUT YOU KNOWING SHE WILL
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:44 PM
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the one time I've had a girl go from not caring to asking me to cover up was when she was losing interest (and would later branch swing).
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:48 AM
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Something I've been noticing from experience, as a self-aware retard, is that if a girl is super into you... she won't give two fucks about if you put a condom on.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:12 AM
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You rebrand yourself by applying the same social techniques with your current classmates as you would anyone else. The social status everyone has assigned you at school can change it's not some static perception. It will not change overnight. I used to be the class clown too so I get it. I had a group of friends who would sometimes make plans without me because of how low I was in the group. Hell they would get invited to drinking parties and I never did. I'll give you an example of a situation …
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:54 AM
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I personally like movie dates, especially when I've spoken to the girl already. They're cheap and it's probably the easiest place to start kino, even for beginners. Just make sure they haven't renovated to lounge chairs because then you're just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:19 AM
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Passing a shit test isn't just passing it, but being able to continue as if it never happened.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:48 AM
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Is my girlfriend telling me that her friend doesn't care for me just a shit test? She basically said "Hey this person doesn't think you're cool" and then you proved that the friend was right. You shouldn't give two fucks about what her friend thinks. Misinterpret it, reframe it, ignore it, hell do something that doesn't involve being a butthurt bitch about it.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:45 AM
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She tells me fucking everything, everything in her life. this is not a positive. If you build too much comfort she won't think you have a penis. Let her unload this crap on her pussy orbiter friends while she fucks you instead. Once you start getting better at handling conversation girls will be put off by you wanting to know about their day. Almost as if they're thinking "Common you aren't one of those guys." It feels good to hang around with her, but sometimes I don't know what to talk about. …
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:56 PM
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if she is gaining weight it is because you have communicated/subcommunicated that it won't negatively affect your perception of her or she doesn't want to please you as much anymore. Read a great piece back in the day about how girls want to shape themselves to be fit the frame you set for them when they're invested in you. For instance I was flirting with a girl and I really enjoy playing tennis. Now I don't have a requirement that the girl likes tennis but I'd like her to be, at least, somewha…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:01 PM
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I've conditioned myself to the point where I never genuinely say a negative thing about myself. I did it by faking it until I slowly began to accept that I was always the boss I pretended to be. Then my perception of saying insecure things became "Why waste a moment of my time shitting on myself? I like who I am despite my flaws." It's not easy to do this though because society punishes guys who pretend their social status is higher than it really is. I even had a moment at work where an older n…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:03 AM
1

tell me specifically what you had trouble understanding. These are things you need to understand
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:43 AM
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"Is it ok if i kiss you" I physically cringed reading this. NEVER turn to permission seeking when it comes to attraction. Then when I say bye to her she gives me an extra long hug so I just go in for the kiss, and she's surprisingly into it There's a fucking reason you should always "assume the attraction" because her not pulling away is the response. You should've done this when you were busy doubting yourself on the couch. Learn to pick up on those signals. After I was like "ok... I didn't thi…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:34 AM
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Should I sit back and be more chill and talk to some of the bros and wait for IOI’s or wait for the opportunity for one to approach me? NO. That will not happen 98% of the time. It does happen but it should absolutely not be your game plan for the night, but sit back and talk to some of your boys? Absolutely. Go there to have fun. Girls will be thankful when you bring them into the fun you're having. Now don't do what I call "seeking attention" where you look around the party for something, you …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:25 AM
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Just say "Water sucks. Gatorade is better" easy close
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:10 AM
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honestly it's hard for me to give you any advice on the kiss because idk if you guys were drunk, if it was done in an extremely awkward way, etc etc I'd say next time just tease her about it by saying stuff like "You're still terrible at kissing"
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:43 AM
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"Is she prettier than me?" i told her it's a fwb, nothing serious about it and actually pretty dissatisfying since i'm actually looking for a meaningfull relationship if it turns out to be one. Am I outright stupid for telling her this? This just gives off a qualifying vibe and why even explain yourself here anyway? She's just joking around, I would've smirked and without looking up from my phone I would've said "Don't get too jealous" Tease her about being insecure and fishing for compliments. …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:47 AM
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“you really can’t sleep at my place, my boss would find out and I’d lose my job” which totally would not happen but she was being super paranoid. Sounds like she's just rejecting the logistics of going to her place And every time I suggested we go back to my dorm room she just made this face and said “I’m done with dorm rooms for the rest of my life, not gonna happen.” Top comment says to withdraw attention but I think that's ignoring the reason she is declining to go to your dorm. I think it's …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:33 AM
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I just could not get past that LMR though. She would not, for the life of me, come back to my dorm room or take us back to her hotel. Give specifics of what exactly occurred if you want actual help. As there's nothing to say but just general shit What do you guys do when faced with LMR and how do you get past it? You brush it off as if nothing was said, the key is to not react. For instance I was moving my hand up this girl's shirt and she said "What are you doing?" and I responded "I'm not doin…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:26 AM
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Some of the most inventive people of our time attribute at least some of their success to using psychedelics. They expand the way you think in ways you can't experience normally. I personally attribute the start of my RP journey to when I went to my first EDM festival and did MDMA. I was so happy in the moment that people flocked to me and I had never experienced that before, but it felt so natural. It tore down these mental barriers I had formed in my mind. I was able to visualize what was hold…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:07 AM
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Agree and Amplify = Agree and make it ridiculous "yeah i’m a child, why don’t you take care of me"
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:04 AM
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Yikes
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:27 AM
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Claiming that i was insecure and that she's allowed to have friends. She insisted that D was no more than a friend whom she'd met at a festival. The shaming worked and I backed off slightly. It worked because you absolutely were insecure. Mate guarding is probably the easiest way to obliterate your SMV in front of any girl. Not only that but if a girl wants to sleep with another guy you can't stop it and you're only shooting yourself in the foot by acting that controlling.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:02 AM
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In practice it was better understanding my reactions. For instance just after I had swallowed the pill I had this HB10 come onto me in the most upfront way imaginable. Literally saying "Well we should just multiply" after I said something about green eyes being 2% of the population and a dying breed. I looked down feeling all that social pressure, and I couldn't take it. Immediately seeing this she said "Oh I was just kidding" and I knew what had actually happened. Understanding these reactions …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:35 PM
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Is this some sorta mental beta block I need to get over Yes, that's exactly what it is but I'd shorten it to "Mental block". It's a barrier you've drawn in your mind with yellow tape saying "Do not cross" There's a lot of things in our lives we do this with that we don't realize. Has anyone else overcome it Any guy who overcomes that mental block has, yes. I know I have
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:32 PM
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np, it's just a bait of "Are you going to be my orbiter who will accept anything I give you?" Had another tinder girl ask me to add her on insta, I refused, and I got her number soon after. Later I checked out her insta and found that she had a bf. Ended up telling me she was single when I got the f-close, fucking lol. Don't take the beta bait.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:51 AM
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This is less that logistics are shit but that she considered her car a place to fuck. Some girls, especially ones who've fucked a lot of guys are fine with car sex. She probably wouldn't drive 40 minutes with you to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 08:07 AM
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I think in both cases my openers were way too rehearsed and when I initiated wasn't relaxed at all. I think your opening lines for both were appropriate and decent as they pertained to the situation. I think the real issue is that you're clearly terrified of talking to girls. So what you should do the next time you approach is simply have a friendly conversation. The key is to not set any expectations for the conversation. Both of these opens as far as getting the close, were complete failures o…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:46 AM
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Don't settle. Most girls will shit test you in some way to see how you react before giving you their number. From saying things like "I don't think you've earned it" to this. If she's wants to go on a date with you then she has no issue giving you her number. I usually respond with "Oh I don't use snapchat" but when she sees you using it later clarify with "I don't use it, for tinder dates" I posted this in another thread but it's from a date I got about 2 weeks ago Her- "Hey" Me- "Hey can you k…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:16 AM
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Also I call out the guys she spoke to at the same event and she says "it's different" You shouldn't even feel the need to argue about it. Don't throw out shit you don't even care about to begin with, i.e. her talking to other guys. You have to realize that you aren't going to change her mind with reason because these aren't logical feelings. Crazy, women not being logical, I know. Use AA or reframe the discussion.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:06 AM
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my fucking idiot friend throwing the party thinks they’re actually friends Damn, he's really putting you in your place with that. You make it sound as if this was a LTR and that your friends knew this too. I'd never invite a friend's ex-LTR to a party I knew he was coming to, unless he wasn't my friend and I didn't give a shit. I know that you don't care about her but that shit just straight up isn't cool. Haven’t heard from her for a while then she msged last night out of the blue. Her: are you…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:49 AM
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not necessarily but it's hard to tell with girls because they're all over the place. Usually though when a girl blocks you it's to provoke some sort of response from you.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:12 PM
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Is it still a good idea to block her The reason guys block their exs is to help get their minds off of them. It removes her completely from your space. As blocking is meant to help you and not as something you are solely doing to the girl. The question really is, do you think it would help you get your mind off her? If so go for it.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:50 AM
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you called their number when your last contact was two months ago and they didnt get creeped out No the initial conversation with the first girl was 2 months ago. I was radio silent for the 2-3 weeks my sunburn was healing. from online dating so flake chance should be high It is but I'm not going to talk about all my flakes
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:41 PM
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Is she still fucking you? That's really the only question that matters. If she thinks you're cheating that's all the better. Think of what that means from her perception of you "My boyfriend is so out of my league that he's thinking of leaving me, so I have to please him with sex, and tell him I'm his." Girls love this kind of drama bullshit that'll keep their mind racing about you. A lot of guys minds' race like this when they're first trying to attract a girl they like, but girls love to alway…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:14 AM
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They're not uninterested because of your age. You've just fallen for the shit test and they knew it. Hell you posted an entire question saying "Hey this shit test is absolutely true how do I solve it?"
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:31 PM
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Being attractive helps get you in the door. Meaning girls will be more likely to project positive qualities onto you and thus lend you their time more willingly. It means you won't have to game her as hard as you would if you were overweight with a shirt that didn't quite fit.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:20 PM
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I tried to include myself again but clearly he was also interested in her and so he wasn’t giving me much room to speak. Why are you worried about his attention, get hers. If you can't then you need to improve your social skills.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:44 AM
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I don't like planning around maybes because it usually means flake, and I don't want to set myself up for flakes. Intentional or not, so if I were in your position I'd just tell her there was no rush and schedule a different date.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:01 AM
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then tried again this time kept it short and she ducked me again This is you, just replace number with a date
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:37 PM
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They are incapable of telling the truth if it has a negative impact on their status. They'll shun you for it instead When I swallowed the pill I was in a dark, sad place but I needed it. Two girls who I had the upmost respect for and who did not know each other both lied to me within the same month. It was clear that neither one of them cared when I confronted them, and both of them acted like me being upset was bizarre! Hell one even said "You shouldn't be upset by anything I do. At all." Today…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:26 PM
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What I wanted to know is watching movies she likes is breaking frame because she explicitly refuses to watch horror. Or should I draw a red line because she doesn't watch horror so I don't watch rom coms? Just pick something to watch it's not hard. She will object if she doesn't want to watch it. You should ignore her objection if it's pretty obviously a shit test, as there are absolutely girls who will act bratty because you shutting it down is a turn on for them.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:19 PM
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still friends and still gym buddies. Any help? Escalate. If she rejects your advance then find another girl. Before long you'll be fine tuning your game and improving dramatically
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:00 PM
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I pressed further and asked her if there was anything else because she threw in that she felt like she had "missed out" while working her old job because of how miserable it was. She also said she knows that you can't just go back from an engagement and knows a marriage is even worse. Did she seriously say she wants to cuckold you? I then said, be straight up with me and I won't get mad - is there someone that you find hot that you're interested in/want to smash? And she answered with "well the …
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:29 PM
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But of the many shit I've read the thing I like doing the most is being direct and not hiding my interest. But I'm way too direct and escalate way too fast before any comfort has been created. I don't think the issue is comfort, I think it's how you're escalating
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:00 AM
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I want to get laid. Really bad. This is my last shot before college. Most of the guys i know have been getting some. I don't want a girlfriend, i want sex. Wearing pussy goggles is the easiest way to ruin your game. How confident are you with your social skills and humor?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:22 AM
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If you take the snap you are communicating that you will settle for what she'll give you, which is a one-way ticket to orbiter status. The correct answer is "No" or "I don't use it" then later if she notices in person you can clarify "I don't use it for tinder dates." Now, based on my own experience, I don't subscribe to the idea that if you don't get her number within the first 4-5 texts, she's not interested. With some girls this just flat-out is not true as they need a bit more comfort. here'…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:15 AM
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She said a cab was picking her up and that she was leaving. She defended herself saying her mom "freaked out" last time she didn't go home. (When we fucked last time) She kissed me and stuff saying "we will meet tomorrow or the day after". She's leaving on wednesday for studies. So obviously tonight it's over. I want to know your opinion about what i did wrong. Also, i've considered inviting her over tomorrow or similar. She definetely wanted me to fuck her tonight, and i feel like if i play my …
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:31 AM
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I just can't approach because I'm worried I'll get shot down You won't get any better if you aren't brave enough to fail. I can write an essay about all my cringy fails but I can also write an essay about all the beautiful girls I've closed on. There's no cheat sheet to success. Fixing your approach and improving your social skills is a load of trial and error.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:15 AM
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I tap one of their shoulders ask for her name, then ask if she wants to dance. Your approach screams of permission seeking, which girls absolutely hate. Asking for her name is a neutral, safe opener but you should be able to bring some fun and excitement to the initial conversation. To put it simply you sound as if you're asking "Do you wanna??" before doing anything When you should be initiating with the mindset "You totally want to, they all do" Now you still have to have the social awareness …
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:31 AM
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it's hard to give advice on good approaches, as a good approach seems completely natural whereas even guys learning about approaches can feel when seeing if an approach was awkward for the girl. Giving general advice could be made into an essay but pointed advice that would help someone is next to impossible to give over Reddit. The best way to improve is being able to have a wingman who has decent game tell you what they thought, unless you're fairly good at self reflection. Although an essay a…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:50 AM
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I don't believe in LMR or ASD, which is why I don't use those terms here. There is only desire and lack of desire. I think you can believe both, as I do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 09:31 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0xRrUVVKigk
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 09:19 AM
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I'd say it's in your initial approach. As approaching correctly means successfully grabbing her attention. Homeless people don't approach correctly which is why most of us just pretend we didn't hear them. If you approach correctly most girls will give you a moment of their time.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:09 AM
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I don't think race is a problem with most women. Then again I'm white and I've had multiple black women surprised that I'm into them because I'm white. I could get her to laugh but could never hold a conversation with her I think this is what you really need to work on. I have a feeling you've set the bar for conversation so high which is why you can't think of anything correct to say.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:49 AM
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First date advice for a super innocent girl? She's probably more shy but she still watches porn and furiously masturbates like the rest of us. She's still a woman and gets turned on the same way all the other girls do. I used to date a girl like this so trust me, just because she's "innocent" doesn't mean she doesn't fantasize about being gangbanged
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:35 AM
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show that you don't care, because who does "You're right, you should dump me"
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:22 AM
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I mean, you do and speak contradiction to social norms and system bullshit and they don't like it? You've got this backwards. BPed losers contradict social norms which is why they're not attractive, because they're super autistic. the rest I've interacted with act butthurt by my current state. How do women act towards you that makes you say this? Guys can't do what you're doing so all their doing is throwing that hate and jealousy at you. It's the same reason why incel subs are filled with hatef…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:28 PM
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this ^ After a good amount of flirting has been thrown around and she starts acting like you have a gf, saying you do will immediately throw her off. Every time I've done it there's that confused pause of her trying to comprehend what you are admitting to. If you sense that it has actually upset her then you can defuse it with something like "Don't worry my right hand likes it when I see other people." The realization she followed your frame so hard that you used it to clown on her, is high stat…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:14 AM
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social conditioning
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:03 AM
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there's a sub for flat earthers too
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:04 PM
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I would just soft next without telling her to hit me up. It comes down to this, if she can't find time to hang out with you within a week or two than she is most likely not interested. Thus leaving a final message of "I still want to see you" with a girl who is already disinterested is going to hurt you and not help you. On the contrary just soft nexting her is a much better option. Although for me I generally do not want to wait more than two weeks on any given girl so if they can't hang out I …
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:41 AM
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"no worries, hit me up when you're free" Don't say this. You're sub-communicating "Your time is more valuable than mine so I'll make time for you on your terms." I used to say this all the time when I was BPed and they're smart enough to know why you're saying it. If they're interested you won't have to say that.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:09 AM
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Fast forward to Saturday morning I ask if we are still on and she asks for a rain check because a birthday came up. This is a classic bs excuse I've gotten from girls. Sometimes the fact there's a birthday party is true, but the idea it "just came up" is laughable. The best way I've found to check if we're still on is to say I'll be 10-15 mins late because it reinforces the frame that her time isn't that valuable to me and if she flakes then you have already put yourself in the highest status fr…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:06 AM
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Sorry to hear that brother. Think of it as a blessing that you found out, a lot of guys never do. Remember that while it hurts you shouldn't buy into that crap that she is any more special than the millions of other girls out there.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:41 AM
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Girl: "Entertain me, I'm bored" Me: "That's a disrespectful message." Girl: "No it's not. How are you?" Me: "Yes it is. Go learn from manners." Girl: "Fuck you and your manners. How this conversation should've gone- Girl: "Entertain me, I'm bored" Me: "That's a disrespectful message." Girl: "No it's not. How are you?" Me: ignore (do not argue) Why was she extremely rude yesterday for no reason? I've never had any of my male friends speak to me in this manner before. wtf, how are you seriously co…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:38 AM
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I constantly seed a program called "High Status Humor" from Thepiratebay. It helped explain the dynamics of humor to me and how to make the correct kinds of humor for attraction. I credit it with completely evolving the way I see humor
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:24 AM
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The other comments have the right idea, which is to recognize that it’s the time to escalate when that moment occurs. It was the end of the night, the vibe was dying down, and recognizing that moment is important because people are starting to mentally plan out the rest of their night. Personally I would’ve just gotten her to hand me her phone and then put my name in as “dance master” then texted her later inviting her for private lessons. Now you could go harder and say let’s get out of here bu…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 08:50 PM
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and said “I’ll be back in a bit” This is just a failure of understanding your position. If a girl is leaving your set you should not expect to see her again, especially when she implies/says she'll be right back. Hell one of my canned lines for getting a girl alone is to tell her friends we're going to go outside for some fresh air for a bit, then we stroll on over to my car makeout and leave because we don't have to explain why we didn't come back even though we implied we would.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:01 AM
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This has to be a troll post
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:21 AM
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logistics rein supreme my friend. I have had girls clearly interested in me but once they realize my logistics are shit they know they don't want to deal with it. live and learn
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:03 AM
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i said «my place, your place, or seperate ways, it’s up to you». Why ask this? You should be making her decisions for her. She can always say no. Instead you get what every girl is thinking which is "I don't fucking know, this is your job"
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:55 AM
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I try not to but when you are weak it fucks with your mind. I actually was talking with that 5'7" guy, I mentioned above, fairly recently. We were talking about how leading interactions, approaching girls, improving your social skills, etc etc it all takes work. You have to have to have the motivation or discipline to put in the work or nothing will change. I used to have girls tell me I was good to look at before I opened my mouth, I've even had my prom date get banged by another dude because I…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:32 AM
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The best ladies' man I know is 5' 7". Dude is a legend and what I've aspired to be. Hell after I initially swallowed the pill I was obese, not overweight, obese. I closed on HB7s and I'm still in a bit of disbelief that I could do that looking the way I did Don't fool yourself into believing those bullshit defeatists. They just want to whine and complain instead of actually focusing on their social skills. Since whining and complaining about looks is stupidly easy to do. Feel free to look throug…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:12 AM
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Not a fan of this thought "This is what I think, BUT PLEASE DON'T HURT ME" that's what you're saying by adding that
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:12 AM
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By saying shit like “yeah i’m a child, why don’t you take care of me”or “don’t worry i’m old enough to take care of myself. you just worry about yourself.” First one made me chuckle but that second one is bad. You didn't go absurd enough to make it come across as a joke, in other words it sounds like a serious response. But that's just me knit-picking In what ways do you feel undermined? Specifically
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:03 AM
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My instinct is to tell me to ignore and don't even bother with her. Good instincts However, we also have a professional relationship so I cannot just walk away completely. Easy, only engage her for work related reasons. Withdraw any other attention
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:58 AM
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I want to delete her because "out of sight out of mind". Is this cowardly? No. No it's not. The point of no contact is for you, not for the girl. Don't listen to the weird "butthurt" arguments being made in this context. Remove her if you believe it will prevent you from having to spend time thinking about her.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:36 AM
1

Outside of work? I'd make some jab about them stalking me
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:02 AM
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Man this is a mess. Your crazy uncertain attitude about it. I usually avoid saying cliche things but shit dude, man up. You say you don't want them to think of you as xyz but who fucking cares what they think? If instead you want to be the guy they constantly ignore and don't take seriously then, by all means, keep it to yourself. That being said go through the proper channels with your concerns. Be clear that you are serious about your concerns and you will go to upper management if the issues …
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:38 AM
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I am 22yo if that’s important I swear I'm going to lose my mind if I have to keep reading the phrase "If that's important" Please god erase that annoying phrase from your vocabulary. Be confident in what you think is important. Basically I wanna know how you guys overcome past traumas? I change the subject asap. I don't want to have to relive shit I've put behind me
/r/askTRP24/07/19 05:31 AM
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We start making out, its gets pretty intense, and they ask to slow down. I take a break, then escalate again, get pushback, accept that we are NOT going all the way, talk a bit more, goodbye. How did she ask to slow down? Did she just say it in the heat of the moment? Because normally there are two reasons a girl uses LMR She's not turned on enough to continue It's a shit test Strangely I've even had both of these occur with a girl in the same night. We were watching netflix and I started making…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:05 AM
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state of mind > looks I say this as a guy who was obese, not just overweight, and fucking HB7s If you play the role as a defeatist blackpill you won't get laid. You need an attitude change.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:35 AM
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any advice on how to apply dread, and are there any hobbies i should pick up now? Remember that guys get sex while girls get validation out of a relationship, in other words they get the attention/approval of a high status guy. You apply dread by threatening her access to your validation. Leave her messages on read for an extra day or two, flirt with other girls in front of her, anything that will make her fear that she is losing your interest. You should pick up hobbies you're passionate about,…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:29 AM
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It can be used to build comfort but the intent and context of the situation matter. Going back to the example with my father, after he answered the question he was pressed on it further. He reframed the subject and they dropped it, which was easy as it was a large group setting. Yet if you find yourself in that situation with a girl it won't be as easy to glance off if she's actually interested. In that case you can absolutely use the answer to build comfort as the intent isn't to show off so sh…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:20 PM
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Was it the 30 minute response window during sexting? No it was the sexting. Don't do that shit. You're giving her the validation of fucking her without fucking her.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:03 AM
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Do you guys really think that attractive girl on Tinder is getting ploughed by Chad daily, but then her identical twin sister, who isn't on Tinder, who you approach in a bookstore is going to be a virginal unicorn? I don't think anyone is saying the girl in the bookstore is a virgin unicorn. People are saying she's not actively putting herself out there with "message me something chad, I want to fuck". If an attractive girl posted a Craigslist ad looking to fuck she's going to get more responses…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:45 AM
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This is a weirdly phrased question. But I'll answer it from the perspective of a guy who shys away from LTRs When talking about attraction, money doesn't create it. You can't throw money at a stripper and get her to feel genuine attraction to you. What money does do is help you get in the door. A woman is much more likely to see the CEO of a major company as being very confident and fun than she would the homeless guy down the street. Although if your game is good enough you can bridge that gap …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:01 AM
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She said she was “spotting” which has happened before when she was on birth control. Just because she is spotting isn’t an indicator that she is pregnant right? Even if she told you she has been throwing up, it shouldn't affect your frame. I've had several girls tell me they believed they were pregnant because they missed a period while they weren't on birth control. I knew they weren't pregnant so I just ignored them. Now I personally don't think this is a dread move like many on TRP have said,…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:17 AM
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I find the most trouble people asking this have is when they make mistakes by accident. They'll say someone's name wrong and look at the ground like a beat dog when called out. You have to mentally condition yourself to just not care what people think. You said someone's name wrong? Big deal. I'd keep calling them that name and say it's their new name. Now there are plenty of other things people do which shows their lack of confidence but it's all a matter of recognizing what you're displaying w…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:34 AM
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No contact is generally used so that you remove her out of sight and out of mind. Now people use different degrees of this from soft nexting to hard nexting by blocking the girl on everything. Both degrees have the same underlying principle of restricting your investment into that girl. Every time you see her name or something about her is a moment you're forced, however briefly, to think about her. Although I'd wager the reason why you don't understand this is because you believe no contact is …
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:02 AM
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We haven’t had any contact, what the fuck is her problem? You're missing the point of no contact if you're asking this
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:13 AM
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If you come in with something like that You misunderstand, I'm not objecting to compliments. I'm objecting to the framing you put yourself in with the compliment. Every single attractive girl has had guys telling her she looks pretty. It's lazy and frames you as another predictable, unimaginative guy. Now sure can this work? Yeah absolutely. Hell I'd argue most things could work if you try them enough. Is it good sexual strategy? No
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 03:18 PM
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Better conversation openers? I'd say something that's self amusing, as it's something that your doing for your own pleasure instead of approaching it from a low status mindset. With that mindset having intents of needing her like you, the need for it to work, etc. Now that's my quick answer for beginners who need a place to start but the real answer is that I don't think one opener is necessarily better than another. Only as long as the opener isn't coming from a place of low status. A friend an…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 02:52 PM
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There are good ones and bad ones. This is just one of the good ones and I know that I see what you meant but ya that's a good way of looking at it. I've picked up girls who were attractive but afterwards I thought "Man what am I doing I don't even like this girl" because there just wasn't much chemistry there for me. What would you do next time you find a possible LTR? To be honest I don't even know. Especially because I've made a mental promise never to delude myself like that again. If anythin…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:12 PM
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He's stating intent and being honest. So? Being honest doesn't generate attraction. As guys also tell girls they're a unicorn and that they'll never find a better girl. If you're honest in a low status way, you're going to be seen as low status The "PUA" school of thought is for losers. Where did that come from? Most of it is about undertones and vibe than actual words. Generally yes but not necessarily and when you're opening with a compliment you're doing what the guys over on thots' Instagram…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 01:49 PM
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Conversation starter is an unearned compliment? -1 fucking garbage opener. That’s the kind of shit incels think you should approach with. Already know the rest isn’t worth my time
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 08:44 AM
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Back when I used to be BPed out of my mind I was an orbiter, but still fucked this HB6 girl who had a boyfriend. You get the idea, a girl who has sex with any guy that gives her the time of day. Anyway she told me this story from the days when she was single about how this guy invited her to his house at night to "Watch Netflix and chill" Given the context to this story it shouldn't surprise you that it ended with her calling a friend to pick her up and then getting a restraining order against t…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:24 AM
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I can’t stop thinking about this girl. I questioned myself if this is oneitis it is but throughout all the years I’ve been dating women this is a good one that certainly stands out. ah the old "I found the unicorn" You probably didn't. You like your idea of her more than you realize imo. I've gone through heartbreak so I know how easy it is to fool yourself into it.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:06 AM
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I don't put up with guys giving me shit, aka I walk away. So if a plate tried pulling me into it I'd kick her ass to the curb. No plate is worth fighting someone over
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:56 AM
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Why the fuck is she still texting me? to get your attention. You choose how much of it you want to give
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:25 PM
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I don't want to know. All I know is that I've been seeing a lot of defeatist blackpill incels in AskTRP lately and I think they should all be banned
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:20 PM
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most dating advice from women is some generic platitude about "just be yourself" and "just let things happen". From women and most guys** FTFY
/r/askTRP15/07/19 12:00 PM
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Golden rule though is not to talk about fight club I learned it the hard way so I'll share... I have a core group of friends and one of them is objectively leagues better with women than the rest. I started talking about TRP ideas with them because I wanted my friends to come to the same understanding as I have. Most of them gave me shit for it, projecting the kind of attitude you were speaking about. Hell the last time I gave one of them girl advice this was his exact remark "This sounds like T…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:35 AM
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“I’m still hoping you would like to go out some time so give me your number”, now other redditors in another post told me that sounds too confident, and like an order, which they said is too much. Now my gripe was that you were framing it as if she might not be interested in seeing you. Sure, what you actually said is fine though. You can calibrate your response on the flow of conversation but there's never a perfect response. I'm sure those same guys would be horrified to know I fucked a girl f…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 03:26 PM
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The EC response here is spot on but I'm feeling helpful so I'll take the time to point to everything that you absolutely should have done differently I asked her if she ever wants to go out NEVER ask a girl to spend time with you. The reality should be that she's the one who wants to hang out with you, so just tell her the time and place. You can ask her if she's free on ______ (aka when you're free) for the logistics. So a week later I ask for her number. I clearly said “If you’re still interes…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 06:45 AM
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But I start to feel guilty like that's the coward's way out instead of being a man and telling her its over in person. HAHAHA That's your bullshit social conditioning talking, not reality. The reality is that closure is bullshit. There's a great link that gets thrown around that goes into detail about it but I forget where it is.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:32 AM
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pick better roommates
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:23 AM
2

gamed a Thai girl I met at a party who barely spoke english and she too was spouting that tradition crap. I closed in the same day. Traditions don't matter, not even language matters if your SMV is high enough
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:17 AM
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pulling her in picking her up Couldn’t find an appropriate time What?
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:09 AM
2

you get nervous because you want people to like you, you don't want to say something stupid, etc. The solution is to not care if people like you and to know that you'll be fine if they don't
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:03 AM
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lots of personal experiences with girls where I didn't understand what I did wrong were all answered when I started reading. It's like having an incomplete puzzle and TRP filled in all the blanks.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:58 AM
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How should I have better handled the situation? Should've dumped her yesterday. The stink of oneitis is filling my brain on this one. Hell I don't even accept her kind of behavior from my plates! First time she gets plausible deniability but you're a no show two times in a row? I wouldn't employ someone who pulls that crap and my relationships aren't any different, because I don't put up with crap.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:52 AM
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"Your age is a yellow flag for me." (I just ignored it). Is it the age? Again, she's 24 and I am 20. (That's what I am thinking turned her off.) You might have recognized that as a shit test but the fact you actually believe she meant it, means you failed and it broke your frame. I don't think you've ruined it though. To me that text sounds like a shit test. I'd reframe it with something like "No not in this weather, but when it improves I'll let you take me out again."
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:39 AM
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I fucked a plate because I could and I regretted it after. Mainly because I just wanted to fuck her and then kick her out, but she kept trying to get more attention out of me. Now last weekend I instead invited a different plate over with a false time constraint so it was already set that this was going to be a quickie and boy was that so much more enjoyable.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:24 AM
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it's not about it "working" it's about understanding. If I told you throwing an ant off the empire state building wouldn't kill it, you might not understand why it's true but that doesn't mean it isn't true (when it absolutely is true). If you want to understand how it "works" you need to read until that light switch in your head turns on as it has for most guys on this sub. I keep seeing guys post this defeatist shit about their looks. Hell not too long ago I had a guy spouting off about this s…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:12 PM
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humor that elevates your status. I'll give you an example. I was at a Beef 'O' Brady's one evening with some buddies of mine and after I was finished with my beer the waitress came back around and asked "Can I get you another one?" and I responded with "I'm sorry but I don't let anyone buy me drinks." Obviously I'm joking but lets break down that joke. What am I doing? I'm misinterpreting her question in a way that paints me as a high value guy. As the guy who is constantly offered drinks. I'm u…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:34 AM
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I WOULD bring her back into a relationship if the conditions were correct With a LDR? This is one bad case of oneitis She didn't see your value. You think going right back to her will change that? There's a reason the correct answer is to ignore.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:34 AM
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you have to be a dancing monkey for online dating. If you can't spark intrigue either by pictures of you doing cool shit or having a smooth opener then you're going to have a bad time.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:31 AM
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I see that some people say people who make other people laugh are just jesters and that jesters are entertaining but dont get pussy wet. BULLSHIT. That is some straight up bullshit. There is however a massive difference between low status and high status humor. Low status being that of a clown and high status jokes being more akin to RDJ
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:09 AM
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It’s not about looks, but the actual skill set of seduction. There are far too many defeatist cucks on TRP spouting crap that looks are the only thing that matter. Looks don't matter as much as game and frame. That being said, looks do matter.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:29 AM
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How do I find success with shallow teenage girls with my short height? I would appreciate it if someone who is also short and has found success with girls to comment and help me out. The best ladies' man I know is your height and he slayed in high school too because he's a natural. Hell even my ex from high school essentially begged him to fuck her a year or so ago. Looks only help you get in the door. Height isn't nearly as important as style and your physique. Although again looks only help ge…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:44 AM
1

whatever music you like man. Lying about what you like to please people is beta as fuck
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:55 PM
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dodge every shit test and ‘😱 Rude’ message she throws at me as if I’m taking the same approach as before ‘you may not want to fuck me now, but give it 10 minutes’ They're usually only drawing attention to what you're doing to gauge your reaction. Last girl I closed started saying "What are you doing putting your hand there?" when I was reaching into her panties. I just responded "Okay I'll stop" while continuing and she absolutely loved it. LMR is usually a shit test which is why continuing to e…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:30 AM
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What should I do to keep her interest? If she's already interested then a week of not seeing you is a good thing. Scarcity of something you want creates value.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:24 AM
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Not sure what the rules regarding TPB are on here but here you go
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:52 AM
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I think it's the most important thing for newcomers, as that's usually the thing they are terrible at. It's at the root of most of the problems guys who are not getting success suffer from. Girls have a much more advanced way of communicating than most guys because with guys we talk very literally and direct. If I ask you if you want to go see the new horror movie in theaters you take that to mean "he wants to see the newest horror movie with me" but to girls it means "I'm not making a commitmen…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:59 PM
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you can search it on thepiratebay as I'm always seeding it but rn there's like 4 other ppl downloading it so it might be a bit slow
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:39 PM
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no that's just an interview with the guy behind the program
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:37 PM
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If I had to say where you specifically need to start, it would be in being comfortable leading. In other words whenever you've done stuff with girls have you been approaching it from a frame of "Uhhh do you wanna??" or do you approach it from a frame of "We're doing this now"
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:11 PM
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there's a program called "High Status Humor" I found on thepiratebay that I go back and watch every now and then. Essentially teaches the difference between acting like a clown for laughs vs having the attractive humor of RDJ or James Bond.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:50 PM
1

Your game just sucks. I say this as a guy who when obese was pulling HB7s and 8s without being rejected nearly as much as you are saying. No one is saying girls aren't harder on guys that look worse, because they absolutely are. If you look unattractive then girls will assume you have a low SMV and thus be more resistant to you. If your SMV is higher than their initial assumption you can showcase that once you have their attention. Grabbing that initial interest is what's harder when you're unat…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:02 AM
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In what ways are you pushing. That's such a broad statement. As you could be pushing to an extreme extent or just saying something playful like "You don't play the banjo? I can't date a girl who can't play the banjo."
/r/askTRP19/06/19 05:56 AM
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Is society that appearance obsessed or am I being nihilistic? No society is not appearance obsessed. Humans, by our very nature, use appearance to determine a lot of things. However that doesn't mean it's the holy grail of how people perceive you. I'd argue society is more obsessed with who has the stronger frame without most people even realizing it. Here's a personal example that I feel sums up exactly what I'm trying to say. When I used to be BP and overweight I went to a music festival with …
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:23 AM
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Half the comments here are flat out wrong, even one you responded to. Your first mistake was asking her to come over. Don't ask, assume she wants to come over because it communicates that you know your value. Besides if she wanted to say no she would still say it. You can ask her what she's doing on friday but don't ask her to come over, give her a time to come over instead. The last time I invited a girl to my house for a first date she ended up telling me how turned on she was when I simply to…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:51 PM
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If you're certain the condom didn't break then you shouldn't even waste a second thought on it. I've had multiple girls pull fake pregnancy calls on me but I never believed it for a minute, because I knew she wasn't pregnant with my kid. Don't let some random chick break your frame by saying stuff you're certain of isn't true
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:28 PM
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If you're not asking for legal advice then you should tell us what you want out of the situation
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:21 PM
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demand a paternity test, sounds like she wanted to pin the kid on some idiot
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:18 PM
1

Nobody will make it harder for themselves to get what they’re interested in. You're right, random girls at a bar should just throw themselves at OP without any resistance because his SMV is engraved on his forehead. That sentence is only true if this random girl has initially seen OP's smv as being high, which isn't what happened and isn't likely to happen. You can't just blanket those statements to everything like some kind of autistic retard.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:02 PM
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wtf did I just read. I don't believe you've read the sidebar. I just don't believe you, at all. She just dryly went "uh-huh" and actually seemed more interested in my buddy. She was talking to him more then me. I tried listing off my accomplishments. That i was star quarterback of my university's football team and everything (which was, a lie but hey.). I tried complimenting her looks. I stopped reading here because this is where the cringe went from bad to "are you fucking kidding?" First- just…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:49 AM
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Ain’t nothing wrong with being a little pissed at your “boys” but there's absolutely no reason to be upset. You should have the same level of emotional investment in an ex as you would a homeless person, and I wouldn't give two shits if my friend fucked a homeless person.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:37 AM
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She texts a few friends of mine and flirts with them - fucking shit friends why do you care
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:08 AM
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No it's not RP at all He's saying sexual strategy doesn't matter and that all that matters is attraction, which is implying physical attraction and if so is 100% pure horseshit This is the kind of defeatist bullshit guys who can't get laid spew. They want to blame someone or something for their problems getting laid and the easiest way? Blaming something that's out of their control, their natural physique. Thus this "they will feel like they have very less to control over their life direction." …
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:25 AM
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Fair point
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:09 AM
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say what she's not expecting you to say, girls love guys who add some spice to conversation. If a girl says this shirt makes me look fat, smirk and say "It's not just that shirt" although with these kinds of jokes you run the risk of it not landing
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:53 AM
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Bad experience for sure, very very bad. Probably one of my biggest work related regrets So I had a coworker who would always subtly flirt with me. Eventually I couldn't handle my urge to fuck this HB7 as it was being served to me daily on a silver platter. So I invited her over for whatever reason, we fucked, and I enjoyed the sex a lot more than I was expecting. I went to work the next day and EVERYONE KNEW. EVERYONE. To this day I do not know, for the life of me, why she would tell all of them…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:58 PM
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imagine you wanted to pet your friend's cat. You would just pet your friend's cat. You wouldn't be overthinking it to the point of asking "So how should I exactly pet your cat? Should I start from the head? Midway? UGH IDK!" You want to escalate with these girls? Get them into an environment where you are alone Physically touch them, pull them in close to you. Make them feel small with your actions. Like a Lion pulling in one of it's cubs Go for the kiss. It's that simple. Leave the suave, compl…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:29 AM
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I get some snapchats (which I know isn’t great but better than nothing) If you want their number but they offer their snap, then refusing them is better than nothing. Settling for what they'll give you is beta as fuck and they know it after a few days You have maybe a week to initiate a hangout after matching, in my experience, before you most likely will not get a response again. What do you guys talk about on snap chat? You have to come up with something that intrigues her. My favorite message…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:53 AM
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no, the reason girls have things like ASD is because they have been socially trained by their girl friends to not look like a slut. Most girls tie their value to not being known as "the slut." So she might mention that she had a thing with that guy, if he had a higher SMV, but she won't say she cheated on her bf with him.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:21 AM
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handle it by not handling it, cause that's nothing. Just a creepy guy being creepy
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:54 PM
2

Actually tried to find the video I was thinking about but couldn’t find it, I’m fairly certain it was jeffy
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:35 AM
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I used to watch one of the RSD guys a lot. He had a white rapist van. People would give him shit for it but he would hold frame. When people would ask "Whats up with the van? lol" he'd respond with "Transportation?" in an incredulous tone. PEOPLE DO NOT CARE. So if you show that you don't they'll drop it, but if you are reactive than they will continue to shit on you. You need to work on holding frame if this is an issue
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:13 AM
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No he didn't he did however, post this same exact thread a year ago which makes no sense
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:02 AM
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if you can use social media to compliment your lifestyle go for it. If you're using it to show off then avoid it, as that'll put you in the mindset of qualifying yourself to others.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:36 AM
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Yes, they are all the same doesn't matter how "nice" they are. I say this as a guy who dated a very religious christian girl HB8 who did the most genuinely nice shit I've ever seen anyone do, and I've done some genuinely nice shit myself. She'd defend assholes, she didn't know, who had moments before inappropriately insulted her. She'd leave her change in change machines because "It might make someone else's day" and when Christmas came around she asked her family not to give her gifts but to in…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:32 AM
2

Oh absolutely, as soon as she turned he stopped and turned too. I'm pretty sure he was putting so much effort into actively ignoring me that it stifled the conversation as it sounded pretty boring when I came back with my drink.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:24 AM
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There's a lot to unpack here, let me know if you didn't understand certain parts. This is a summary of what I learned at the start and is heavily influenced from "High Status Humor" as I believe it's the easiest explanation High status humor is humor that elevates your status socially. The stepping stone for me to understand what that meant was a program called "High Status Humor" by Zach Browman. I found it after searching for it on thepiratebay.org and I've been seeding it ever since. It break…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:57 AM
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I just want preface this by saying, you sound exactly like me back in high school. So much so that I even had a teacher say "I've finally figured you out. You just crave attention, whether it's negative or positive." and my girlfriend, at that time, who was present would later say "You know, he's absolutely right about you." My humor was so atrociously bad because of my clowning that one of my friends would keep reminding me how painfully unfunny I was. I know who you are boy, because you're me …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:33 AM
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I just break down my responses to situations after the fact and analyze what I did. Especially when the situation made me feel a bit uncomfortable. Not just what I said, but where I was looking, my tone of voice, and how I felt in that moment. For instance today I was trying to weigh in on a new conversation thread but I wasn't given the room to talk. I kept trying to interject until I just gave up and went to get a drink. Now for context it was a guy and an attractive girl, both of whom were ac…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:56 AM
1

She was uh huh
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:30 AM
1

Only exchange snap or insta in person, never before
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:57 AM
1

You're missing the point. My point wasn't she ghosted you immediately after sex. My point was that you've fucked already and she still ghosted you, that interest is gone. Our mutual female friend had a double date for us all planned coming up You could go on a million dates with this girl that she herself planned out, it could end in her just kissing you, and she'll still know you're her little orbiter who settles for it. Don't be the guy who is so desperate for a woman's touch that you keep try…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:45 PM
1

stop talking to him? Oh absolutely she didn't stop
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:19 AM
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In the age of snapchat and free online phone numbers. If your girl wants to fuck another guy without you knowing, she will, deal with it. Knew a guy who told his gf to stop talking to a guy who he thought was emotionally abusive towards her. I was friends with both of them (more so the bf) and I urged him not to try and be so controlling but he ignored me. A few months later he told me I was right and that she ended up sleeping with the dude despite how certain he was that she'd never cheat on h…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:40 AM
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Christ this was a painful read. I had to stop reading and convince myself to finish it. After I hear they split I wait a month or 2 then start messaging her on facebook. We exchange numbers and soon after go out on a date and things went well and we start talking. She says she wont go back to him, he tried to come back and she turned him down. She told him to leave her alone and she needs time to heal. I try and hang out with her again and she gets flaky. This paragraph is the start of what I ca…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:35 AM
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darknet websites or you'd just have to know someone. IMO it's not worth getting caught with
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:52 AM
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I tell her to hit me up when she's free NEVER DO THIS. Never bend your time to match her schedule which is what you are communicating with this line. IF SHE IS ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN YOU SHE WILL MAKE TIME. After she said she is busy with uni for 2 weeks you should've ended the conversation as there was nothing more for you to gain until that logistical hurdle of 2 weeks is over. If you don't hear back after the two weeks then it was never going to work out anyway
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:48 AM
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While often I can just say hi, get her number, and leave this is the sort of thing beginners do to build up confidence as it won't work a majority of the time in getting you the close
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:37 AM
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as someone who weighed 230 only a year ago I do not believe you
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:35 AM
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Getting her number should be seen as an avenue to continue conversation. She should already want to text you when you exchange numbers. If you approach a girl without knowing what you want and this idea that "Oh ya we'll do something later" you will fail most of the time because why should she text you or hangout with you? Because you met at the mall and could hold a conversation? Now that may be good enough for some lower tier girls but it is far better to already start working towards what you…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:26 PM
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If this post annoyed you This kind of shit, stop it. Stop framing yourself as an annoying low life because that's how everyone else will view you.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:13 AM
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I would look like a creep if I'm just a random dude walking on the beach or the boardwalk alone, same thing with the mall. Your perception is your reality. If you believe you're being creepy, girls will think so too. Actually reminds me of another guy I gave some advice to a bit ago. He asked why a girl was calling him creepy despite him saying that he's trying to be less creepy and weird around girls. I just said "You framed yourself as a creepy guy so she teased that you are a creepy guy. It's…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:58 AM
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what was your goal the last time you approached a girl. What was your realistic goal in your head? Were you just going to approach and grab a number then leave? If so you should not be surprised that you will be ignored most of the time even if your opening text later is solid.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:47 AM
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Guys who are already truly red pilled follow those rules because they do not see them as limitations. The reason they even have to be said is because a lot of guys just want the answer instead of the nuance behind the rationale for the answer. Once you understand why the game is played the way it is played you won't see these rules as some sort of holy book you always have to follow.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:33 AM
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Some guys are so deep into oneitis that they'd do anything for a girl if it's within their power. So you trying to tell him not to do that won't work as he cares more about keeping her than he does his own dignity. This isn't something that will be solved by you telling him this advice in "the right way" as these kinds of attitudes come from a place of severe insecurity and lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:07 AM
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I don’t think girls care if guys hookup too much. If anything I think it has the opposite effect because of preselection
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:14 AM
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No amount of money, lifting, or high level job will make a girl sexually attracted to a guy if he has terrible social skills. Will more girls approach that guy than they would a guy who doesn't have any of that? ABSOLUTELY. I have a unique perspective on this as I went from hot beta cucklord to a fatter guy who took the pill. Now I'm back to being fit and the only thing that's changed since I lost the weight is how much easier it is to get quick interest from girls. That being said you need to w…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:04 AM
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you're asking men about approaching, in a sub that religiously tells guys to grow a pair and approach. You already know what their response will be. That being said if this guy won't approach than I don't think you should because I don't think you would enjoy that sort of relationship where you have to be the one doing the leading. I'd say the most you should do is make it obvious you want him to make a move via working out near him or asking for help with something etc etc.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:31 AM
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Ghosting her is the furthest extent of attention withdraw. Now you don't have to jump to ghosting a girl every time you want to withdraw attention. In your situation I'd simply stop putting in the effort to have an interaction where there is no upfront value to me. For instance my ex commented on my snapchat story once asking if it was a picture at so-and-so club. I just said "it is" and left her at that because there was no purpose to the comment other than to get my attention. Now the opposite…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 02:19 AM
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I can't imagine having the validation sucked out of me so hard that I'm alone with a girl watching videos of her boyfriend. I just can't get over how cringy that is, that you'd even put yourself in that situation. Don't block her, unwarranted negativity is weird. Simply distance yourself from her, leave her on unread, whatever you do just make sure you're withdrawing your attention.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 01:38 AM
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being confident in what you have to say and having all of the answers is not the same thing. If you've never been bungee jumping it's not a good idea to put on the harness your way, without help, because "I have to act certain." Instead you should be decisive in your decision making, a youtuber I like made a point about it one example being that you can make decisions by telling someone else more qualified to make said decision. At my workplace I mainly work with women and they'll constantly say…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:54 AM
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introverted, I wish I was more extroverted. When I'm in a very active mood I can be as social and charismatic as any other guy but I am usually not in that state. It's to the point that my biggest problem with girls is my lack of communication because I just don't want to muster the social energy to have a conversation as often as they want to. Now despite this I have a very active sexual life, it just makes getting into a LTR that much harder.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:36 AM
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Texts were a mix of sexual and banter NEVER be sexual in your texts, especially when you haven't fucked the girl yet, you're showing your hand and it's not attractive. Too many guys think "I sexted this girl that means she wants to fuck. This makes logical sense, beep-bop-boop." when this is the opposite of the reality. Girls know you are low status when you do this.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:37 AM
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MDMA is the chemical acronym for the party drug ecstasy. Before you think “drugs bad” I’d mainly attach that idea to cocaine, meth, and heroin. Party drugs are substanially less dangerous and after how it’s altered my personality for the better I feel like everyone should experience it at least once. All that being said there are plenty of online resources to educate people who want to experience a safe trip. If I had to try and explain how it changed me I’d describe it as letting me be so in tu…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:48 AM
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Even if they’re being serious, make a joke out of it. The idea being that you’re showing how little of a fuck you give about explaining yourself to them.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:34 AM
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I think this stems from a lack of empathy, or more specifically not being interested in anything (I used to struggle with it too). If you ever get a chance to try MDMA, I would suggest you try it as it fills you with this empathetic feeling (the way alcohol makes you confident) and you will feel as charismatic as the most confident guy because you're genuinely interested in anything and everything. I've done it twice and it's completely changed my attitude for the better.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:08 AM
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Treat them like shit tests and you’ll be fine. “Why do you hate the poor so much?” “I don’t like money” Or you can take a more high status frame of “No one can afford me” There’re endless responses to it Edit: sp
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:49 PM
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That style of texting probably works for him because he's probably a great conversationalist and can easily show value over text and snapchat without much effort. In a nutshell you have to have as much fun texting as you would talking to them, which is not easy to do if you aren't used to doing it. It's why the routine texting game is always a safe bet
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:03 AM
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what was the extent of it? Stalking as in following them home or just keeping up with their Instagram?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:05 AM
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Most guys will leave this at "don't shit where you eat" but this won't help your reaction to this scenario. Always assume the best case scenario in your interactions. Is it possible she isn't into you? Sure. However you're far better off coming from a place of high status and assuming she's into you when you're feeling unsure.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:21 AM
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I've solved this issue once myself. I was trying to fuck this really cute virgin my first week of college but she was incredibly nervous about it, mainly because she believed it would hurt. IT WON'T HURT IF YOU FUCK HER CORRECTLY. I've fucked about 6 virgins to date and it only hurt the first time since we were both virgins and dumb. The correct way to do it is to start thrusting but only penetrate with your tip then slowly go further in while continuing to thrust in-and-out the entire time. Thi…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:09 AM
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similar interests. Granted, I've never had this problem as my niche of guy friends I've had since middle school. Although I find that the times I get the most enjoyment is when we're doing something I enjoy doing. Whether that's playing poker, bar hopping, etc.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:24 AM
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^ this, every time you feel the urge to talk to her now you’re screaming “I can’t just move on because I need your attention” Do not dwell on thoughts of her, it will only increase this urge. Imagine she was a homeless person, you wouldn’t spend a second thinking about some random homeless person.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:59 PM
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how many women have you met up with and actually gotten the lay? Within a reasonably close time span of these events
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:26 AM
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you can still be playful if you have no idea what you're doing or if you fuck up. It's the difference between not caring when you fuck up and getting all apologetic by acting like a whipped dog. A friend of mine is a master at this. We were playing "Clue" one day and this friend was playing as Mustard. Now he had never played Clue before so we had to explain the rules to him before we started. Now the first guess involved Mustard so when it got to him he looked up from his phone, without checkin…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:59 AM
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A good tip I picked up back in the day is that it’s great to compliment and validate a girl, when she’s earned it
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 01:53 AM
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Stop conforming to what you think will make others like you, that is textbook beta behavior.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:15 AM
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Why are you dependent on her attention to the point you're checking if she's read your message? christ dude, find something to occupy your time
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:08 AM
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A good rule of thumb is that if you have to reason out why you shouldn't initiate no-contact with a plate, you absolutely should. If a homeless guy stopped you for a conversation you wouldn't feel compelled to stay and chat because you don't value the interaction and the same should be true when a girl doesn't meet your standards. Especially when this clearly isn't going to turn into a LTR.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 09:13 AM
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this is natural, it's why the rule when moving on is to block a girl from everything. Since every time you see her name it creates another moment that you're forced, however briefly, to think about her. Just recognize it's old hurt and get on with what you were doing
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:52 AM
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Dude calm down. You are in an amazing place. I know this because when I was 16 I was bluepilled out of my mind, so much so that my best friend fingerbanged my homecoming date (hb7) because it was understood that I had no chance at doing anything with her. Do you know what got me out of this cesspool of shitty behavior? Dedication, dedication to change my behavior. You're watching RSD Tyler and on TRP, that's like taking the shortcut to the real shit. Shit that I wouldn't discover for another 6 y…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:39 AM
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This looks like a video of a guy who thought of a funny way to start an interaction and the only real confidence he brings is in the delivery. He did think of some funny ideas though, like running away and coming back but most guys should know how to amuse themselves in any interaction to begin with. Now I personally don't like this style of pickup where you go in with some prepared line because it kills the mental muscles you need to be flexing. Those muscles being the ones that find fun/intere…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:51 AM
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When I feel boring I remind myself "The coolest guy in the room is the one who's enjoying himself the most" So whenever I'm in conversation I'll try to be engaging yet direct the conversation to go where I want it to go. Since I want to create a conversation that will be fun and memorable to her. This is a lot easier than guys think as girls will respond to just about anything positively but it's up to you to introduce those interesting new perspectives and avoid being dull. I can think of how I…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:30 AM
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“i’ll see you around, be less anti social.” Might have been because I told her specifically that’s how I am Yes that's absolutely why she said that. You framed yourself as an anti-social creep so she teased that you are an anti-social creep, it's not rocket science. Then play 21 question game or something Not terrible but you're not going to have chemistry with every girl. Some girls you'll be able to talk to for hours on end but others you'll have awkward pauses nonstop. Now if you're just havi…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:59 AM
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she might have been a bit tipsy, I doubt she'll act like that outside of that night with you
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 02:36 PM
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Most times, the first time won't feel any different than the 100th time. I strongly disagree here. I've slept with 6 virgins now and what I've learned is that they're extremely fucking tight. Now it's up for debate if that's because they're nervous or whatever, but every time no matter how turned on the girl was or how much foreplay there was, it was very tight. Hell it's at the point that I know the best way to fuck them, you have to take it slow. Fuck her like you normally would but only penet…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 08:20 PM
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But but he was SO mature /s
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 05:47 PM
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You sound like the kind of guy who avoids confrontations. Stop doing that, you need to command respect. Do you think some court jester would walk up and start yelling at his king in medieval times?
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:43 AM
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High School Hypergamy- This is the most important takeaway from this post-High school girls are bluepilled too. Their nature is still the way that it always will be, but they really want to believe in the Disney fantasy. Because of this you will see less break-ups, cheating, and slutting around in high school. If your game leans too much on the asshole side of the asshole/nice guy scale, you are going to pay the price for it. Dark Triad autists aren't cool, in fact they usually have no friends a…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 11:55 PM
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Also never allow your woman to make your hamster spin by telling you "oh, he's just a friend". what do you mean? I normally just consider him an orbiter of hers unless I see any red flags
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 04:34 PM
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she was doing all of the pursuing until I suggested we went back to mine? This is a failure to understand what kind of pursuing a girl does. A girl will make herself available to you but you have to be the man and bring her to your bed. If you never escalate 99.9% of the time the girl won't either. I say this as a guy who was so insecure at one point that I had a girl naked on top of me, literally sitting on my dick, but I didn't fuck her that night because I froze up. By going home with you she…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:26 PM
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if it's not a value giving picture you're not doing yourself any favors.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:53 PM
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TRP focuses on sexual strategy, the MGTOW does not there's probably more differences but that's the most obvious one
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:50 PM
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Look at it from her perspective, either you don't know what you want or you had an ulterior motive that entire time. Both of those are massive turn offs
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:58 PM
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The problem is that I have a tendency to get annoyed ya that is a problem. Think of him as a little kid trying to be cool in a "Aw that's cute" sort of way. By getting annoyed and taking his chances seriously all your doing is sub-communicating that you consider him competition to you. should I be nice to the guy and treat him has a buddy You shouldn't be giving anything that won't help you oxygen, ignore him and only engage him if he tries to AMOG you. However all you should be worried about is…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:56 PM
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"Why did you ask me to lunch? Is there something you want to say". I tell her it's simply a lunch between two friends. Why did you lie to her? If anything this is the reason she was turned off by the idea. You basically told her you weren't interested and then asked her to come over, ofc she'll say no.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:17 PM
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This is too broad of a question for anyone to answer except to tell you to practice.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:30 PM
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he might just need some space. I'm a super introverted guy and I had to break up with a girl last year because I simply couldn't commit the amount of time to our relationship as she wanted me to. It's not that I didn't care, I just wanted a bit of me time.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 06:06 PM
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the other night her and I were chilling after sex and she told me how her friends that Ive met think Im a douchebag. You are fucking her and you're worried about her having a negative view of you? The fuck is this? Listen to her actions not her words. Does this mean Im doing stuff right? Absolutely, in your case. It's a girl's way of saying "You're not seeking my approval, thanks" and if you give a serious rebuttal you're essentially saying "What? Me? NOOO I'm a good little chode." Other people …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:44 PM
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generally speaking women would more likely choose an uglier (within reason) alpha. Hell I've seen girls go home with the objectively less looking guy just because he was the one leading the interaction and being the man
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:01 PM
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i didn't meet her standards ,that I wasn’t man enough for her, and that our relationship meant far more to me than it ever did to her. Stop with this kind of thinking. Get that pity dick out of your mouth. Especially this "I wasn't man enough for her" bullshit. Hell a close friend of mine, who's a personal trainer and easily the best lady's man I've ever met, got cheated on by his LTR with a beta overweight cuck. Now obviously she didn't stay with that fatty but fuck if I know why she chose to f…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:55 PM
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"You're just ruining your chances with me" or my favorite "Strike two"
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:07 PM
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That girl makes it sound as if you told her the two of you were exclusive. I've never had a plate frame that kind of thing as her being a second choice, because she was never the LTR
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:47 PM
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People have lives, flaking isn't always done as a status move which is why some people give them another chance. I usually do this as well and I'll focus more on other girls until she starts putting in actual effort, but I don't make this exception twice An example being I had a girl flake on me two weekends ago and this past weekend she invited me to her friends' party and I had a great time
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:37 PM
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My question is, is getting a ride from a girl falling into her frame? And if it is, would I be better off just inviting her to my place when my parents aren’t home? A big thing you should understand is that a girl's expectations of you as a high school guy aren't the same as most of the older guys in this sub. The game is the same but most girls in high school are much less likely to fault you for having shitty logistics than they would a guy in his thirties.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:51 PM
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I don’t want to sound cocky but I’m smarter than these girls and guys at my school I speak 4 languages and have won multiple competitions in English and karate , my accomplishments are only rivaled by the 1% , whenever I eavesdrop and hear the stupid shit girls and guys talk about i cringe at them and at myself at how i can’t talk to them but in a way am “better” than them. Something that is especially important to be cognizant of is that, things that you think make you "better" will not get you…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:50 AM
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The flatmate is unnattractive and she does not get laid and is the only one Always in the flat. doesn't matter, you have to be following the noise rules set by wherever you're staying because I doubt she'll be understanding
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:30 PM
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When I was a senior I dated a freshmen and I did get shit for it but no one actually cared. I regret being ashamed of it because now at 24 I realize no one even remembers so don’t think it’s that weird. Although it depends on what your social atmosphere is like as I live in the south
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:57 AM
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I'm a strong believer in your passions and things you unapologeticly enjoy doing are inherently RP. You should not conform to what you think will make people like you. So this is hard for me to criticize since at the same time those weeb themes are cringy as hell to me.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:36 AM
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Any girl who stays that close to an ex is emotionally attached, make her a plate not a LTR
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:17 AM
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either you're not noticing them or she hasn't yet. I've known girls who's every sentence was a shit test but I've also known other more quiet and shy girls who just go along with however I lead.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:02 AM
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I think you're focusing too much on coming up with a good response. When in reality you should see the shit test as a conversation opener and flow into it. The first thing on my mind when I read her asking you that was to say "I already have it" then when she says "really?" you can think in the moment and make it more ridiculous sounding by saying "Ya I've talked to just about every girl in this city and I hear there are some --(change subject)--" Passing the shit test is part of the win, mainta…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:32 AM
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I was upset about it and have told her multiple times to stop talking to this guy. I don't understand why it's so fucking hard for guys in this sub to understand. IF A GIRL WANTS TO FUCK ANOTHER GUY, WHETHER YOU KNOW OR NOT, SHE WILL. No amount of controlling will change that, all it does is lower your smv and sub-communicate to her that you consider the other guy competition. This asshole is trying to ruin my life Your fiancee isn't your life, christ man. This sounds like why she would want to …
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:25 AM
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"nice guy" to you, what's the difference between a nice guy and an asshole? I think you're confusing being playful with being an ass I have a perception that trp doesnt apply to "upper class" females with a sense of worth da faq are you talking about? TRP only applies to women with a sense of worth. The desperate, bottom of the barrel girls are the ones who go for betas. with idiots Being dumb doesn't really matter that much. There are homeless people that have great game. You're looking at inte…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:24 AM
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I have a good take on this as I went from being fit to obese back to fit. The main thing I noticed was how much more girls would make themselves available to me. When I was overweight an opportunity for a hangout would be avoided but as I lost the weight it felt as if girls were hoping for more time with me. An example being when I was going to a group hangout with a girl I had been trying to close on but I got the date confused. I texted the girl asking how many of her friends were joining us t…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:09 AM
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realizing that she wasn't as special as you thought which is the hardest part. You also need to understand that she wants you to move on because she already has. Being dumped sucks, heck I just posted my story about being dumped (like 3 comments ago) where I came to both of these realizations after about 5 years from when I was dumped. Although I had the benefit of hearing what she really thought about me.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:14 AM
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The only reason I haven't done this already is that she goes to the same school as me and has mutual friends in my social circle, and I don't want her to resent me for ghosting her. I would just keep doing what you're doing rn, next her but show indifference by rarely responding
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:06 AM
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For some of us it's easy because we have personal experiences that have shown us how wrong that idea is. I feel as if my story below is one of the best showcases of why it's a false idea. So here's my story, in high school I was probably the most beta guy of my friend group but I wasn't bad looking at all. Hell even the fat guy of my friend group was much better socially than I was. Anyway at some point after getting rejected by a girl I, a senior, desperately asked this cute freshmen to our sch…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 11:51 PM
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I think you should feel comfortable saying stupid shit. If you keep beating yourself up over every autistic remark you make then it'll keep perpetuating this cycle of you desperately focused on saying the right thing then you'll get in your head and fuck up. Hell I say stupid shit all the time but I own it and most of the time no one really cared that much anyway.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 10:06 AM
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you improve your social skills and deal with it. I had a friend respond to an obvious joke, seriously, in my friends group chat the other day and instead of reacting to what he was saying I made it even more ridiculous. The guy who wins the pissing competition is the one who cares the least
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:10 AM
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Not just "drugs" as meth, cocaine, and heroin are on a level of their own, and most people at parties wouldn't want anything to do with them. I like to compare MDMA and LSD with alcohol in that it supplicates emotions that help you unwind and enjoy your night more, but if someone wants to experience it they should do so responsibly and with a trusted friend. Again though I only mentioned those drugs because that's what it took for me personally to see how much fun those festivals can be, which i…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:55 AM
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I went to EDC in 2015 and after doing MDMA for it, I adamantly believe that's the only true way to enjoy a music festival. Especially if you find yourself generally disinterested by the whole scene at one, as it counteracts that feeling. It was one of my most favorite nights because of how many people I remember talking to who were just in amazingly positive moods, hell I even met the singer from Walk the Moon at some point in this crazy fun party scene. That's what it really boils down to, is a…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:31 AM
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What do you think caused her to lose attraction when it was so high before? As someone who's had this happen with countless girls, it's hard to know. I think my problem with women is that once I succeed with the initial attraction and close I start getting too comfortable (by making myself too available) with the girl and it kills that attraction. So if I had to guess I'd say it's because she doesn't feel the need to put any effort into keeping you around, although take that with a grain of salt…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:07 AM
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I don't think you're doing anything wrong, I've fucked girls who shout "OH FUCK YEAH" over & over and girls who don't make a peep. I do not think it means she isn't enjoying it, especially when she keeps coming back.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:56 AM
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Idk why you stayed a second night after she refused to fuck you the first time. Even more so that she's leaving your ass on read. You should be twice as distant as she's being. Hell a girl who I ended up nexting could only take the silence for a week before blowing up my phone asking if I was upset with her.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:41 AM
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meeting her friends is a golden opportunity to increase her investment in you. Why is it gold? Because of how many social dynamics you can abuse. I personally am at my best socially when I introduce myself to a large group of people, there's some magic within me that activates. My favorite thing to do is to see which one of her friends is the hottest as she probably gets the most attention and I make sure to engage with her the most. The effect this has had on some girls I was closing on was so …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:15 AM
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given that she said snapchat what should I do? Don't message over snap. You did not ask to snap and you should not settle for it. It reminds me of my friend who suggested going to the movies with a girl. She said that they should just walk around the mall so they could talk. My friend said no and she caved while later telling him that most guys would settle for walking around the mall with her. Don't fall into the girl's frame
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:58 AM
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I'd say most girls notice it subconsciously. They can feel it in the same way that you can gauge the confidence of other guys.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:52 AM
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I don't like Tinder and Bumble because you have to do one thing and one thing only. You have to spark intrigue. The reason why I hate that, is because you have to become a bit of a circus monkey to do it. Meaning you have to think of a fairly good opener which she actually wants to respond to sort of like a good askreddit question. Whereas if you were to go out and actually game girls in person this rule is lessened by a factor of 100 because girls can actually sense your confidence, instead of …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:42 AM
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If he's saying this to other people he does not care about you and is not your friend because friends don't get off to shit talking you behind your back. Since he got the girl he's using you as a punching bag to remind himself how much more of a man he is than you, it's why he's trying to make you sound as beta as possible. My moto for any negative comment someone can make is this "There's always a higher status angle you can take." For instance if he keeps talking about you to other people you …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:49 AM
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If you got her snap then odds are there is enough of an incentive for her to hang out with you sometime, if not then it's likely that no amount of conversation will change that. Stop over thinking it and just lead
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:38 AM
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I think that's actually true because that would be a weird thing to make up. I'm talking about a bit earlier where he flat out said "Ya you weren't invited" while holding eye contact and a straight face. Then Fallon starts looking down and laughing to release the tension that comes with someone putting that amount of social pressure on him. RDJ isn't trying to be an ass though and immediately goes on to make it clear by saying "It would've been great to have you" but there are a few people who w…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:00 AM
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well that's just the feminine way of communicating
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:46 AM
1

I know I'm not alpha as I don't like being a leader for the most part. depends on what you think being a leader means. With women being a leader can be as simple as having the ability to progress social interactions. Think of the last time you were at a gathering with friends taking shots or some activity, afterwards who was the person to speak up and say "hey lets do ______, common guys" because that's all it takes to lead. My interests are feminine like literature and arts. One of the most alp…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:29 AM
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I've had girls act irrationally upset towards me as a test but not because I passed a shit test. Although to be fair I don't know what they were butt hurt about
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:12 AM
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TALK TO HER, don't be controlled by insecurity
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:07 AM
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She doesn't think you're gay, stop believing everything a girl says. A tip to know when people are joking is they'll usually give you an indication that they're joking, especially when it could be seen as negative or mean. Granted this doesn't happen all the time, especially with people of higher status
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:19 AM
1

Do you have a car?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:10 AM
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Simple, you just need to stop becoming emotionally invested in what a girl does. In other words you wouldn't care if some random homeless person lied to you about why he needed some cash and the same should be true for whichever girl you're speaking to.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:53 AM
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I guess you could make a case for teachers being a "respected profession" but the whole high school girl bit is a bizarre stretch Although I want to cut to brass tax, so you told her you're a teacher because you wanted her to know you have a respectable job?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:18 AM
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I’ve been told by users on this sub that I act like a bitch so I guess I’m simply a bitch. Why are you letting people influence your self image? If you don't have confidence in creating your own self image then you aren't ready to even try and attract a girl. Why should or would a girl be attracted to someone who calls himself a bitch? genetically superior men If you actually want to improve with girls please stop with the incel talk
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:11 AM
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I’m feeling pretty discouraged about doing anything since I have saw no results at all When I first started on TRP I saw my fair share of bad results too. Hell I even had a girl (HB7) throwing herself on me and I showed too much disinterest because I thought she was shit testing me. It's not that the teachings of TRP are wrong, it's your implementation of them that are. I practiced TRP principles what did you do specifically maybe trp principles do work but maybe up until a certain extent, maybe…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:57 AM
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thought it might help with my SMV how could telling someone you work as a teacher raise your SMV
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:16 AM
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girls want validation from high status guys but those are the same guys that do not act that way. It's something they wish the guys they liked did, but consequently they wouldn't be attracted to them if the guy acted that way. Reminds me of a girl on my FB who posted some bullshit about how if a guy can "easily walk away from a girl he never actually cared" in other words "I can't pull my bullshit with confident guys because they have the self-respect to dump my ass for another girl"
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:07 AM
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I think that I'm good at talking to girls one on one but the club setting is just so different. I don't really know how to approach them so I didn't do it. this is why you didn't talk to any girls, you're creating barriers for yourself and thinking of all the reasons you can't. I saw dudes that are pretty ugly or out of shape with cute girls. Ugly guys get cute girls all the time, girls generally don't rely on looks as much as guys do. That's no excuse for not bettering yourself physically thoug…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:52 PM
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no way, some of the best openers are when you take into account what she's probably been going through or what's on her mind. For instance I have South African parents and everyone thinks they're British because of how similar the accents are. I remember once when I met a South African girl (I can distinguish the accents) in a bar I got to tease her about being British because I know she gets it all the time.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:42 PM
2

she’s with 10 of her friends that I don’t know I don't see why this prevents you from approaching
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:34 PM
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There was a good post on TRP about being a rock and not a mushy turd. The point being don't let a girl's desires shape what you do Stop being a mushy turd, have some conviction behind your actions
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:26 PM
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you need to drop your ego at the door, girls want to have a fun experience and if you're in your head thinking of how others see you then it's going to make you look bad
/r/askTRP09/02/19 07:01 AM
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same game just easier because you'll have more seasoned social skills
/r/askTRP09/02/19 06:59 AM
2

you can cure oneitis by opening up your options. Abundance mentality always
/r/askTRP09/02/19 06:58 AM
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she blocked me so I contacted her to see why You should not care if a girl blocks you. I'm fucking a girl on Monday who has me currently blocked on FB, they do it to get a reaction out of you and you took the beta bait. Basically she said we're never gonna be together and she'll tell me why if I want. LOL no she fucking won't, girls will never tell you why they aren't interested. Go read up on why closure is bullshit if you want to understand the fundamentals. Furthermore you shouldn't care why …
/r/askTRP09/02/19 06:52 AM
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you did not fuck up you invited her out and she said yes show her that you are the fun guy she thinks you are, that's not to say you should overdo it and start qualifying yourself or try to impress her. I say this because you sound as if you're already balls deep in emotional investment. Just have the logistics figured out of where you'd hope to end the night, but don't marry those plans. Then have fun conversation, escalate, and the rest should be easy.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 06:43 AM
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she left on read any girl who leaves you on read is ignoring you. Do not give her the validation of more needy texts
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:05 PM
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Okay I'll bite. Hypergamy, shit tests, there are plenty of things women do but whether or not it's being done consciously varies, although imo it leans more on being done subconsciously. Alpha is pretty ambiguous but TRP defines it as "Socially Dominant" or in other words someone who can go into any social situation and be able to handle it. The best example is think of the most distressing thing that could happen to you and imagine it not even phasing you, like if this was real. As for guys we …
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:32 AM
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The default response you'll get is nah find another girl dur hur If you're getting to fuck a girl, who cares about how you feel towards her? If you know nothing more will come from it then it's just one more hookup in your pocket. I just don't think the way you feel about a girl's relationship with you should stop you from having sex with them.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:07 AM
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You don't understand TRP philosophy if you have to ask people in the comments about hypergamy
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:57 AM
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Ya I'd chalk that up to the tone of the post making me feel like this wasn't anything exclusive, that's definitely what I was missing though.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:23 AM
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She dread gamed you and it worked. Really nothing else to say The best advice I can give is that you need to try and recognize when she's doing things that make you feel like she's not interested in you.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:57 AM
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I don't think she's trying to make you jealous by saying she turned down some weirdo. If anything she's trying to qualify herself to you by showing that she's desirable. Edit: You were not clear if your thing with her was exclusive or not. This advice is with an assumption that you were NOT exclusive. If you are exclusive than ya I'd say that's just your average shit test. Your response was a bit too invested in the topic but that's just me nit picking.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:52 AM
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I'm actually curious of, in what way do you think that's a shit test?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:37 AM
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I really am not witty enough to agree and amplify and I don't really enjoy doing it I was painfully unfunny throughout all of grade school and into early college. If you have the dedication to improve your humor you will. It IS a skill. You do not have to use AA every time and nor should you, it WILL get predictable if it is your go-to. Re-framing a conversation is the broader picture though. For instance I had a coworker say "I never see you actually working" and I responded "That's a pretty ba…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:17 AM
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The prize mentality =/= mentally repeating “I’m the boss I’m the boss I’m the boss” It’s usually used for two reasons First is a sort of character you play but you don’t want it to become your shtick because it’ll become predictable. An example is by misinterpreting actions and words to say someone is hitting on you, trying to get on your good side, etc. Secondly being the prize is also used to describe having a high status mindset. For instance, once I was talking to this really cute girl when …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 08:47 PM
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It’s the same here on Reddit. A guy had a 1k+ upvoted post talking about the motivation behind girls who post in gonewild etc. I made a comment about it being exactly how someone from TRP would explain it and I got like -200. Most of the time it’s people having preconceived notions about what these things are. It’s why you can’t explain TRP to anyone because they’ll think “OH he’s one of those people”
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 05:40 AM
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All alpha's will have a hard frame at first, because they're used to applying social pressure. They don't even see it as being a dick most of the time. To him he probably thinks it's funny that you care about what he might do with your sister so he's saying that to amuse himself.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:36 AM
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who cares what he does? I would've responded "Look I'm straight so this whole jealousy thing isn't working, I'm sorry man." Hell I wouldn't have even brought it up to begin with and I say this as a guy with a 3 year younger sister
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:31 AM
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No ​ Let me relay my own experience with this to better illustrate what I'm trying to say. So my ex is also the girl I lost my virginity to and I was BPed out of my mind when I dated her, I was wholeheartedly convinced she was "the one". She ended up breaking up with me and a few years later I found TRP. Now about 5 years after the breakup she texted me and I ignored it (I was still a RP noobie at this point though). A few weeks went by and one friday night right when I got off work my phone sta…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:31 PM
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She's basically saying "Hey just checking to see if you're the loser I think you are!" and you're jumping into the fire to say "M'lady I never stopped, after all I don't have anything better to do than to text you again."
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:18 PM
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that the girl I adamantly believed was unique and different, really wasn't. Felt like I was trying to accept a family member of mine doesn't really exist
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:02 PM
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probably tons, maybe none. Who cares? Their value doesn't come from how many guys they've fucked.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:05 PM
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If it's legal you shouldn't care what other people think of you. Sure people will joke but if you take it seriously you are losing, and if you're asking about it then your chance for taking it seriously is almost certain. My advice? preemptively think of responses to things like "Isn't she like 12?" "Are you her babysitter?" etc You probably won't get those exact remarks but thinking of playful responses to those will put you in the right direction.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:42 PM
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whenever she is asking questions it's always a golden opportunity as you can misinterpret, re-frame, etc what she's asking. I have a rule that I have to make at least one objectively good joke before I invite the girl out.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:30 PM
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older women know they have or are close to hitting the wall so they will naturally try harder for sex, now some will act all uptight anyway but that's rare. Getting older women does not mean your SMV is high, I could pull them easily when I was BPed
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:03 AM
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Are we supposed to allow orbiters to continue to orbit or do we have the girl shut them out?(not likely, since women don't really do that because validation) If we are to take this course of action, how does one go about doing it, without coming off as jealous? They are orbiters thus you should not care
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:59 AM
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Same way you handle normal girls, but with less teasing at their expense. They'll still find your confidence and humor attractive like any other girl would, just don't expect them to start conversation threads.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:46 AM
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chalk it up as her not being interested, if she is she will make it easy for you
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:38 AM
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My go to when a girl starts with these kinds of shit tests is to play along with "agree and amplify" (AA). I would've said "Ya and I don't think my girlfriend would want me to either." This usually results in her taking it seriously and showing that she's invested in you. If she does then keep exaggerating until it's clear you were kidding, for instance I'd then add "Relax my right hand is cool with me having sex with other people." ​ Well to understand why you shouldn't take shit tests seriousl…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:03 PM
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every time i stared her in the eye she would try to hold it but then look away smiling and say so you do that to all the girls you meet. Wait did you just stare at her? That's just plain creepy. Hold eye contact while talking, it's not a staring contest i hit her back "meh i dont care" and she actually blocks me No you didn't, you gave her a serious answer. You failed that shit test which is why she did it. Never respond to shit tests seriously. Also you should never tell her you don't care, it …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:22 PM
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I have a friend who has a very similar build to me, as in people get us confused all the time, and he kills it with women. You have to stop convincing yourself that you have some magic feature that makes you unattractive, because that belief is what's holding you back. Hell not long after adapting TRP I was hit on by a model tier woman, I fucked it up as I was still learning but it proved to me that I had the ability to be amazing with women.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:07 PM
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all your responses were semi-serious and that last comment was just bad. So when she said "too bad she's with me" that's shit test number one. I would've shifted the frame away from whether or not your gf would join you (I'm assuming that's the implied result), instead you challenged it (even if it was jokingly) which is bad for three reasons You can't control what your gf does (nor should you care) It comes off as a serious response to a shit test It creates a rivalry your gf then kept driving …
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:19 AM
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I think your problem is that you're letting yourself believe they are shunning you. I had a coworker telling me to fuck off when I walked over to say hi. Instead of just walking away like I normally would I said "It's nice to see you too" and she broke her poker face and smiled. I did not expect her to smile, I was so shocked that it worked that I didn't even have a follow up. Stop getting in your head about if someone likes you or not
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:19 AM
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you have to strike intrigue in your opener. A girl will not respond otherwise, unless she's already valued your SMV above hers (very rare). This is why I stay away from Tinder and Bumble, I just feel like a goddamn circus monkey. Girls irl are 10x easier
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:07 AM
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I'd just say "Stop trying to touch my dick bro" The key is to have fun with it instead of feeling annoyed or upset
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:04 AM
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you shouldn't care for the reason to why she did it, it shouldn't matter to you. You can fuck her and know she's a habitual liar
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:25 AM
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it's been 7 years since I got out of my longest relationship. The best way to handle it is to push it out of sight and out of mind. Sure you'll still have bad days but you're human, with time it gets easier. In the meantime go meet more girls to fill that time and your thoughts
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:00 PM
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she basically wants THAT TYPE OF LOVE No she doesn't. She wants a confident, high status guy who makes her feel good. If he decided to show that he cared about her, the way most beta guys want to, then that "love" would disappear
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:58 PM
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I keep failing some of the best chances I’ll get one in my life Bullshit, your best chances are ahead of you and that mindset, that you have, is why you're failing. I have plenty of stories where hot girls threw themselves at me but I was too stupid to see it at the time. I don't really care about it today because I still get plenty of opportunities, so much so that I don't even find the time to care
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:03 AM
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you reframe the statement or display behavior that shows you don't care. Since I think if you use AA here it'll just be seen as actual insecurity. "Ya you're not that adventurous" is one I use because most girls start qualifying themselves to me after it I've had girls completely reject my these same advances so I blew them off, didn't make time for them, etc. Then after a few weeks I'd tell them to stop by and I'd fuck them, now ya some girls didn't respond to me when I'd text them but I wasn't…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:31 AM
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sounds like you're falling into her frame of you chasing her pussy
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:16 AM
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So if it really is true that I have this bad reputation amongst women should I be concerned? I've been told I have weird behaviours but if I think about it weird means not the norm and since 80% of guys aren't getting pussy regularly I guess maybe it would be good in this case? Your perception is your reality and right now you're believing whatever some girl says about you. Whenever someone tries to put you down like that they're shit testing you and you sound as if you fell for it easily. You c…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:14 AM
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I love to call her out Something you need to understand is that you should never want an explanation to why she lied. Since it communicates that her actions have been taking up your thoughts which shows emotional investment (a no no). Know that she lied, but be non-reactive to it because you shouldn't care
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:07 AM
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Because you're the guy she's talking to. It's the same reason you wish you didn't have to ignore her, you've already invested your time in her.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:02 AM
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Lol my cousin said I was extremely witty too, which struck me as odd because I don't even think I'm that great at it. Not to mention that I've only picked up this way of thinking in the past year, before I would interpret these situations exactly how you would. For me I started saying "No" when someone would ask me to do something or I'd say the opposite of what was true (I crashed my car so I told people I was an amazing driver), even when it wasn't really that funny. It gets your mind thinking…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:39 AM
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Agree and amplify I actually used this when I went to a wedding a few weeks ago. I had a lot of beer and I was burping up a storm so my cousin said to my brother "Is your brother dying over there?" I responded with "Ya, I have cancer so you should grant my last request and grab me another beer."
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:38 AM
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that's what I suspected I used to be the same. I'd think "God what a douche" but you have to realize that, that way of thinking is flawed. It's the same concept for shit tests. If a MILF says "You're too young for me" and you try defending your age, you've failed the shit test. The right approach is to say something light-hearted and playful which can be to reframe the comment, use AA, etc. The reason you should act that way in these situations is because no one actually gives a fuck. Can you re…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:25 AM
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realizing you've believed a lie for most of your life is hard. I still catch myself wishing I was still with my ex, that I could continue living the fantasy. With time and understanding I firmly believe that it gets easier
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:23 AM
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ya do something you're passionate about. The same goes for your job and every other aspect of your life. Do what you want to do, don't try and fit anyone else's mold of what you should be doing (as long as it's not unhealthy)
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:18 AM
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Okay so say you're talking with a cute girl and you say something about going to see friends later. Now a guy overhears that and says "Woah what? You have friends?" What is your interpretation of that? Really take a moment and root yourself in that kind of situation with this gorgeous girl and chad thundercock How do you feel in this situation? Do you think he's just being a jerk? Type whatever comes to mind These aren't trick questions, just trying to understand how you're perceiving situations
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:14 AM
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would you say you're a fairly analytical thinker?
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:01 AM
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It doesn’t even matter anyway, the idea that she is any different because of it is just part of women’s culture of slut shaming each other.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:02 PM
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tearing down my argument I still don't understand how this fits in
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:47 PM
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attempts to destabilise communication by sending me my tweet in iMessage tearing down my argument were we suppose to understand this?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:45 PM
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she told me to add her on snap Wait, who's frame are we in? then I asked her to hangout This was a painful read for me. When she called you a tool is when you leave her on read or say something cheeky like "Now you're ruining your chances with me" an IOD gets an IOD Ignore her and game other girls
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:58 PM
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should I send her a joking/witty message on Tinder? For you? I'd say no because as other have pointed out it feels like you're already way too emotionally invested in this girl. Also work on your openers, 80% of girls will leave you on read with that unless you have a well made profile
/r/seduction11/10/18 10:04 AM
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If you are fine with not working there tomorrow because of the social situation or because they want you to transfer then go for it. Although I'm speaking from experience when I say it's not worth it if you want your job for the foreseeable future
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:02 AM
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if you want to get better at physical escalation start by incorporating more touching with more people (not limited to girls you're attracted to). Touch is something you have to experiment with before you'll get a feel for it. Remember that touching is creepy when you're putting to much investment in the touch. A simple pat on the shoulder isn't creepy. Now going to pat her shoulder while going slowly and staring at your hand is creepy because of how much investment you're putting into it.
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:00 AM
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there's only one reason you end up in the non-existent "friendzone" You're chasing a girl who isn't attracted to you. The solution? TALK TO OTHER GIRLS
/r/seduction09/10/18 12:32 AM
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remindme! 1 year
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:31 PM
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If you see her again, striking up a conversation is showing initiative. Trying to find her number after the fact is just weird, especially if she wasn't attracted to you. My advice is approach more girls to help get over that first interaction anxiety and to overcome the urge to get numbers that way
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:13 PM
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Now since yesterday I’m thinking about getting her number and writing her, if she’s still up for dating, or if she already got the cat-lady starter pack. Is this a good idea? She wasn’t primarily attracted to me but my friend. Absolutely not, you will be sending all the wrong, insecure signs. If she was interested she would've gotten your number like how she approached that other guy and your friend.
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:03 PM
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Plenty of people here have answered you well enough but I wanted to focus on this I'm an autistic man with low prospects, not young anymore, has little to offer women (at least not if you measure by status and money) Because I really want to stress that money and status are the same yet completely different at the same time. Money, like your job or some position of power, is something that is objective as it is measurable in scale. While having that objective status is nice it is not what will k…
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:42 PM
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maybe it sucks and I will fail and learn or maybe it will work, either way its better than regret. Try going into it not caring if you fail and stop feeling sorry for yourself if you do. If you're hoping for any particular outcome you're already hampering yourself. The goal is to be indifferent to rejection even if it's a girl you believe you have a good chance with. Being able to gauge how much you're investing is easy once you truly don't care. Hell I got a cute girl's number not too long ago …
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:11 PM
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Honestly if you lost your frame here I would understand completely. The thing is though, is that he was saying that for the sole purpose of having me fall into that defensive frame. He didn't actually think it was sketchy. Hell after I flipped the script on him, he didn't even respond. I know this is true because if he was genuinely interested, then responding to my question should've been easy. In short it was a shit test
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:01 AM
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your frame is your own frame, idk how else that's suppose to be answered. I'll give you an example of what I mean Just the other day I was setting up my PC to a large tv so my friends and I could play Smash 4 on an emulator. As my computer turned on my VPN service also launched which was displayed on the tv. A tech savy friend said "Oh? You're using a VPN?" but he said it in a way that was implying I was doing shady stuff on my computer. Immediately I felt the urge to justify why I have it, beca…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:08 PM
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She said we'd keep contact via text and I texted her the next day Who's frame are we in again? Since I just got home, I kinda wanted to start a conversation, again resulting in her literally putting no effort in it. Doesn't matter if you want to, you have to realize how much effort is enough otherwise you'll keep doing this unaware that you're being needy as hell. But it still raises questions as to how she could be so uninterested even though literally everyone she knows said the opposite Take …
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:07 AM
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simply staring at a girl after she notices you looking is creepy as hell
/r/askTRP30/09/18 08:17 AM
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There are so many different nuances with eye contact but I'll try to think of the main effects. First and foremost it shows confidence, an insecure person will have a terrible time looking a stranger in the eyes when they first meet. Secondly as another guy pointed out it creates tension, which can be a good or bad thing. For instance if you just stared at her when she noticed you looking then that's tension but not the kind we want to be using. Lastly it shows investment, but there is good and …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:53 AM
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college student living at home In my college days I was BPed out of my mind and I fucked multiple cute girls in their dorms, hell I almost even had a threesome with two girls in their lounge space, so don't you dare use that as an excuse
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:56 AM
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"This sub, r/MGTOW, isn't some phony, PR-designed sales pitch to show you the wonderful life you will have if you just take the redpill and go your own way. If that's what you are looking for, a sales pitch to convince you that we hold the secret to your unlocked potential, a perfectly polished façade that shares stories about bungie jumping, selfie moments, loads of cash, bikini-clad pumps and dumps on beaches, retirements by 40, and all of that crap, go to the PUAs on r/TheRedPill. They'll giv…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:47 AM
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Mgtows pump and dump My understanding of MGTOWs is that they're incels who justify it by saying they don't need women. Most of the crazy insecure guys I've talked to on here come from braincels or MGTOW
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:59 AM
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But she told her friends before that she thinks im ugly and short. Even if this is her opinion of you, who cares? You got what you wanted, end of story. Don't try reading so deep into what girls say, you'll go insane
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:46 AM
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Opinions? Should I lie about my age? I wouldn't lie about it, especially if you're in a place where it would be illegal. Cause that just makes you an asshole, although you shouldn't lie about yourself in the first place as it's a fairly beta thing to do. I'd dodge the question or re-frame it if I was asked but if they insist you'd be out of luck. My advice is go try the waters and try not to even worry about it.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:25 PM
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If you’re coming off as an ass it’s because whatever you’re saying is too believable, exaggerate more, make it more ridiculous
/r/askTRP29/09/18 09:14 AM
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doesn't matter what they're into, being socially dominant is a universal language. Hell I've f-closed with a Peruvian girl HB8 who didn't speak English
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:13 AM
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Not really. You came off as fairly needy and she's probably glad you got the hint. I tried to have sex about an hours later and she said she’d rather cuddle because cuddling is more intimate. You need false time constraints if she kept pulling this shit, and you should've been ignoring her much sooner i got Pissed off and sleep on the other side of the bed This set the tone for why you handled it wrong, you let her not fucking you get to you. Don't ever do that she has been real distant with tex…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 11:57 PM
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I'm just indifferent towards her like I am with people I talk to normally. The difference is I don't escalate
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:30 PM
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beta orbiters the redundancy here made me chuckle. I'd say so, I have a girl who I have to associate with, for work, who constantly throws me hints that she's into me (I'm not interested).
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:21 PM
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also dont want to smash someone who will give it up to anyone with a dick Every attractive girl will sleep with a guy who attains a certain level of social status (it varies). If they're fucking every guy with a dick then you're not fucking attractive girls. If you are fucking attractive girls most likely they'll have a ton of opportunities to sleep with other guys anyway. So whether she says she's fucking a lot of guys or she says she's a good little church girl, who cares? Their value isn't ti…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:54 PM
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That hit me hard as a train because you're insecure and she knows it. I have a story that's similar to this but I caught myself before I fucked up. So I've been inserting RP ideas into my friend group for a while now and my closest friend whose also the best ladies' man I know said that amused mastery just seems a bit try hard. Anyway fast forward to me talking to this girl with absolutely gorgeous tits, I make a joke about something she says and she replies with "I just feel like you're trying …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:58 AM
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You're conflating social status with objective status. You can be rich and insecure as fuck, which equals a lower SMV despite being rich.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:49 AM
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I'm a brown haired white guy and the only time I've noticed a different level of attraction based on ethnicity is with how many attractive black women approach me. It's because of this that I've developed a bit of a thing for petite nerdy black girls.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:23 AM
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I just cannot shake the feeling that agreement and amplifying is being a little bitch Resorting to "I will fuck you up" over the smallest bit of social pressure is being a little bitch. But i am talkin about people who are not im my circles at all... And its not comin from a jokey place Well the example with my friend when he realized he used that line a lot was with other people he'd talk to. He didn't think of saying things like that as them being insults, since technically they absolutely are…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:28 PM
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Guys do this all the time to check your social dominance, with this understanding I've started to see it less and less of it being about being a jerk. I was recently explaining this to my closest friend and easily the nicest, coolest motherfucker I've ever met he's also the best natural ladies' man I've ever met (hell the best ladies' man I've met period). I used this scenario where I was at work talking to a cute HB8 when a coworker wanted to grab her attention. Her- "I can't believe you have t…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:32 AM
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"Your action: You're done. It's over. Hopefully you're well into your contingency plan and completely okay with moving forward. She's dead to you."
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:27 AM
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Where does that alpha mindset come from ? Comes from many places for different guys but at it's core it's the understanding that you have value. You can build that value through a range of different things. I built mine by lifting and learning new social skills. Working on yourself is the best way of building that value. Hell for the longest time I'd see girls as way out of my league and think I was a bottom of the barrel guy, I believed I had no value compared to other more attractive guys. I s…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 10:08 AM
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there are women who can love you TRP doesn't believe in love, it's a Hollywood fantasy. No woman can love a man the way he wants to be loved. Men value attraction over personality because we don't really care that much about personality, just good pussy. Since at our cores men value sex and women value validation
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:35 AM
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This girl invited me out to a club (we just friends) We hit it off I'm so confused
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:31 AM
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Sometimes it happens and there’s no real way for us to see why it happened, you can’t analyze every mistake you’ll ever make
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:35 AM
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Absolutely not. Looks matter to an extent. I was overweight and pulling HB7s (not an excuse to not better yourself). Your confidence and frame is what will keep a girl interested, good looks like a good job just help you get in the door
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:23 AM
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Oh you want real cringe? Back in my BP days I had a girl naked on top of me and sitting on my dick. She said “Oh it almost slipped in” and I didn’t say a word or get the hint.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 07:40 AM
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I know you guys love tearing newbies to shreds. If you feel the need to tell guys not to be so mean to you you're already showing your insecurity. Never take insults seriously even if you think they are actually trying to be hurtful. Some girls will really try and get under your skin so take TRP shit tests as a blessing in disguise, it's good practice to truly not giving a fuck "I apologize if I came off too harsh on you..." Don't apologize for christ's sake, think of the logical outcomes. Say s…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:02 AM
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"please be my emotional tampon orbiter so I can suck the validation out of you"
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:44 AM
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Same way you’d deal with other women, I usually see insults and general bitchiness as an easy way to misinterpret why she’s saying whatever she’s saying to make her notice her own insecurity.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:24 PM
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Many alphas have been rejected by countless girls ALL alphas have been rejected by countless girls. For example, failing in business might mean I’m broke; approaching a girl & having her feel bad about it might lead to a career-ending sexual harassment accusation, & getting an escort might lead to a criminal prostitution conviction Do you drive a car? Well your chances of dying in a crash is 1000000% more likely than either of those scenarios so stop overthinking everything. It's either that or …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:36 PM
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I havent talked to her for almost a week now since the incedent . I want to maintain contact so how could i try to get back You don't, there are too many girls out there to wrap your brain around one
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:31 PM
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you really should reread the definition of oneitis because what you described isn't oneitis
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:28 PM
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luckily for me most of my BP friends have some natural RP tendencies so it's not too bad. Although I stayed up all night last weekend talking about attraction with one of them after he said "Women choose the guy" and it turned out to be pretty productive
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:15 PM
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Talk to her when you want to and stop overthinking it. As long as you aren't texting her out of a low status neediness urge then you're fine
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:11 PM
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abundance mentality and just practice not investing your time in it
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:08 PM
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Well that's just inherent when sarcastically joking over text since most of the joke comes from your tone and body language. An example being from Seinfeld where he cracks a joke and the woman looks at him with a straight face and says "That's very funny." Since reading that line out of context could come across as a serious reply just as my response did. edit: just because I see the next logical point here I'm going to preemptively respond to it. That point being, "If most of the joke comes fro…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:44 AM
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I felt the pressure to still play my old role - the beta nice guy chum. My friends are all BPers but I never felt like I needed to act beta when around them. What beta traits do you find yourself expressing because I just don't understand what you mean.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:20 PM
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is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality Only if you're being serious about it. If you use self-depreciation in a high status way it absolutely elevates your status. It's the difference between the comment coming from a place of real insecurity and a comment that's clearly ridiculous. For example if you see your girl talking to an ugly bartender then later you make a comment about how they make a cute couple it can easily make you look insecure. However if you were to say something like "You lik…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:02 PM
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You can't be a high status male if you don't have a high status mindset. Those two ideas aren't antithetical from one another though
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:49 PM
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also be mindful of where your attention is because you can emit confidence just from who you give attention to. There's a guy I work with and he always prods my social dominance. One day he was talking to a cute coworker HB8 who was badgering him about something. Getting annoyed he said "Did I ask you a question?" and seeing a good opportunity for a joke I said "Isn't that a question though?" However he kept his attention on her and withheld any smile/smirk because he didn't want to validate my …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:59 AM
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I use the app "lose it" on my phone and it updates what your caloric intake should be as you lose weight
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:04 AM
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I stuggled with this for a bit too. In my experience when you can’t think of a good comeback the best response was to ignore it or react in a “God you’re embarrassing” sort of way. I’d sigh, shake my head, simply close my eyes for an extended amount of time, or a mixture of the three. While not the most ideal response I felt as if my SMV wasn’t affected too much
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:39 AM
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(so long as the bf isn't a complete moron and oblivious). I will grant that the guy I was talking about was a moron. As in willfully ignorant.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:51 AM
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Same way you deal with any other girl, it's just a tad bit harder I had this real alpha woman working with me not too long ago. She came off just as confident as me which made me notice myself displaying subtle insecurities when around her. I'd never met a girl this dominant. However my attitude changed after I realized that she was just as willing to fall into my frame as any other girl. One day I learned she was demoting herself from her manager position because the hours sucked. Genuinely cur…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:40 AM
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I used to know a girl who slept around for 2 years on her bf and he never knew, until his friend grew a conscious then told him that he had fucked her. While your LTR adding him on snapchat could be completely innocent you have to understand that you shouldn't be surprised if she's fucked him already. That being said I'm not trying to fear monger you into making a rash choice. Instead I think you should just continue doing your own shit, stop worrying so much, apply some dread, and if she cheats…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:29 AM
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Then why are the making their account public? Status. That's all it is. Girls talk about all the guys messaging them because it increases their social status. Think about it, there's a massive difference in status between a girl with 5 followers and a girl with 500,000.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:10 AM
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Trying to get her back is beta
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:42 PM
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Are one night stands or friends with benefits almost impossible during high school? depends on the school and your mobility. I had sex in high school because the girl I ended up dating, surprisingly only lived about 4 miles away from me. Her parents were hyper overprotective but I'd ride my bike over when they left, dumbasses even stopped to say hi when they passed me riding back to my house and they never put 2&2 together. Although on campus we both did after school theater productions and our …
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:41 PM
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Im filled with regrest because I may have lost my only plate. she's not a plate if she was the only one, that's called oneitis
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:30 PM
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I’m a senior in high school As a guy who's 24 and just out of college trust me, you found this sub at the best point in your life this girl is really hot and I don’t want to fuck this up. Be cognizant of this feeling because being outcome dependent will drastically impair your judgement in the moment. Realize that if she were to say "I'm leaving" (and then left) you wouldn't care. Would it be smart to try to use this to my advantage and tell her, or should I just keep it to myself? It doesn't ma…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:21 PM
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I've been seeing is acting like an asshole to people. there's a massive difference between being playful and being an asshole. If you get told you're being an asshole, you're probably just being an asshole. Being playful is a refined way of communicating that sits on the line of joking and actually being an asshole. If you really believe you're just being playful then you should be able to amplify whatever frame you're using until the other person realizes you're kidding. You'll know if you're d…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:11 PM
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I started noticing I was becoming quite cold It's because the best way to be attractive is to not show emotional investment, it sucks but that's the world we live in.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:10 PM
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“okay, nope” and I just told her “I was going up” and she relaxes. Wrong move my dude. You don't continue when this happens you take 2 steps back for every step forward she rejects. It makes you look more invested in her than she is in you if she can say no but you can't. I didn’t want to push my luck and make her uncomfortable by trying to go any further This whole statement is telling of why you failed. You saw it as luck. If you see any sexual encounter as you getting lucky then you'll always…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:11 PM
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First off: I am sleeping with OTHER women regularly. Okay? You can easily still have oneitis if you're banging 100 other women and the way you're hyper reading into this it's leaning in that direction Problem: she is still with that guy. The real problem is you seeing that as a problem. Since you see it as a problem she could easily shit test you with "I have a boyfriend" and you'd immediately jump to being defensive. You can message her, escalate, and see if it works or not. What I would do tho…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:37 PM
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Don't show emotion, don't ask for an explanation you don't care for one, and just tell her whatever you want. Hell if you want to ghost her you absolutely can, that's always an option. I've ghosted girls I had to see on a daily basis and they were socially aware enough not to make a scene.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:18 PM
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Depends what they say but the general rule is don’t take it seriously. Had a coworker dissing me saying how I never work and I responded with something like “Yeah i’ve noticed you staring at me” then he immediately tried to qualify himself to me. I didn’t deny or agree with whatever he said but I simply reframed the statement
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:32 PM
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I think she said that as a joke but you took it seriously and she saw that in your reaction
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:34 AM
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I think it’s more of a slap in the face to how you’ve been idolizing women and after you swallow the pill that ends, that’s for me at least
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:30 AM
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I see what you're saying, the dynamic itself exists in that self-induced way. Whereas I was approaching it in the terms of the idea itself is a way of avoiding saying "I'm chasing a girl who's not attracted to me" Interesting point
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:41 AM
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If it was regarding frame you wouldn't hyper focus it to this one girl
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:31 AM
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Maybe you're thinking of it in terms of what the results show rather than the context the term is used in. Since I agree that girls do not find certain guys attractive and will not sleep with them. However that is not what the "friend zone" is, it has a bit more nuance. That nuance being that the person saying it wishes they could be something more, for instance a gay guy would never seriously say he's in the friend zone with a girl he knows. Thus if you're the one saying "She put me in the frie…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:29 AM
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Lol you keep telling us you don’t have oneitis for this girl but this entire post screams the opposite
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:24 AM
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I got friend zoned by this girl The friend zone does not exist. It is a term used by beta guys who have oneitis for a girl and the girl is not attracted to them. If I were you I’d blow her off
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:08 PM
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I don’t believe this isn’t a troll
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:05 PM
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It sounds like you were begging for her number and were outcome dependent. Either that or you just read the situation wrong
/r/askTRP15/09/18 10:36 AM
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I feel like you were being too passive. I would've escalated how rough the touching was after I got to the point of squeezing her bare ass
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:27 AM
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Recognizing when you do it and being aware of it is the first step to changing that behavior. I sympathize with you here because I had a similar problem too, where you have to actively fight that instinct. Once I was going to see a girl I thought was pretty cute and she had just got back from Disney. She teased that I should bring her sweets and I said I could stop and grab some when I stop for gas. She ended up blowing me off and that kind of thinking is why.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:22 AM
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You're conflating a lot of different status dynamics. With your physical attractiveness and attitude yes, men age like wine whereas women age like milk. However when it comes to your job that deals with your objective status and you do not need objective status to secure pussy, it just helps get you in the door. If a woman becomes a CEO that's of little threat to an alpha because that kind of objective status doesn't mean very much. So to answer your question, no.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:14 AM
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Approaching is half the challenge. The other half is being able to have something worth saying. While I don't think saying that put you in a bad light it definitely wasn't a good opener. ​ That being said some girls are just not interested in talking because they don't find you attractive or because they're in a bad mood. This is where your social awareness comes into play, because for all I know that girl just wouldn't have been receptive to even a great opener, where you use misinterpretation …
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:46 AM
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if she went to the local college This is the only thing I thought of
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:17 AM
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who cares, focus on you not her
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:38 AM
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I'm doing you a massive favor here man, it might sound harsh but this comes from the heart. So the only place i feel comfortable messaging girls at now is on facebook Then you need to stop trying to talk to girls and focus on yourself. If you don't have the confidence in yourself to talk to girls in person then you'll fail every time which will feed into a vicious cycle of "Hey I might have a chance" gets rejected "What the fuck is wrong with me" The reason people say do not use FB is because it…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:56 AM
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I tried to argue No no no, she doesn't fucking care what you have to say. Girls respond to how you make them feel and arguing will always make her see you in a negative light no matter how right you are. My advice is to not care what she thinks about you, trying to argue and control her perspective of you is beta behavior
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:08 AM
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She's trying to see if you're still interested so she'll know she's really the one who broke up with you. This is classic post break up validation, if you fall for it she'll see you as an insecure loser
/r/askTRP13/09/18 09:32 AM
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Well you came to the right place my friend, now please read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:01 AM
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I can see the hesitation in their eyes when I tell them I'm a grad student who's there alone. I promise you they don't care about that and you're reading the situation incorrectly because of your insecurity. Hell half of this post is "I'm alone." No one writes you off as an annoying loser just because you're by yourself, that's crazy talk
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:59 AM
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Girls aren’t your friends, this is orbiter status 101
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:17 AM
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You need to be careful here since this could be a comfort test. I’ll usually give them a compliment but if they persist I’ll call it out with something like “You’re not fishing more than one compliment out of me today”
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:12 AM
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Why does it matter? Girls lie about that all the time
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:10 AM
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Not too old, that's your insecurity talking. I didn't join one but a guy who was sat me down one day when he was drunk out of his mind and he kept saying "Bro you meet sooooo many girls" and this was at FGCU an incredibly small university. I imagine it's good for spinning plates
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:36 AM
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The easiest way to dry up a girls panties is to have too much interest in her. You dried them up the moment you didn't next her after she kicked you out. The whole night seemed romantic and fun, I've been on a couple of bad dates and this was the opposite of a bad date. If you don't at the very least make out 99/100 times it was a bad date for her. date #2. She bails. She stops replying and goes cold. She knew you were an orbiter by this point
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:16 AM
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how should I turn these women down "I didn't escalate for obvious reasons and she walked away shortly after." Just like that, do that a few men noticed and said something along the lines of "woah, personal space man!" If someone calls you out like this, that could mean they're testing your social dominance in that moment. However because multiple people have made the same complaint I think it's pretty safe to say that you've been reaching into creepy territory. How far should I take physical con…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:09 AM
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When I used to use Tinder I would always get their number and I was never flaked on. I would do it just to save the hassle and next the ones who resisted
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:58 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:53 AM
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Do you transition from talking on Tinder to text?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:37 AM
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Approaching a girl in public should not be seen as creepy unless you're doing something objectively creepy. It sounds like your insecurity talking and if you're insecure about approaching then you'll fail any shit test about your approach. I've walked up and sat down with random people for the heck of it and it usually turned out well. If you do it with a confident mindset I imagine you won't have much trouble but you have to put yourself out there with the possibility it'll go nowhere
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:54 AM
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I used to fuck a girl who said she just doesn't orgasm and it was never an issue. Don't let it go to your head
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:39 AM
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don't take it literally, it means frame the discussion so that you have the higher social status. It can be adult-child but it can also be man-dog manager-employee etc etc. Although yes, not taking something seriously means joking about it to an extent
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:48 PM
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Most guys feel the same way, you sound exactly like me back in my BP days. Girls just don't value traits like loyalty as guys do which is why we don't understand that way of thinking. So getting emotional over it just comes off as clingy and insecure to them. First you have to decide if she's even worth your time after it. If she is, ignore the lie. If not, tell her you're not talking to her because she lied or ghost her. Either way don't ask for an explanation or get sucked into arguing over th…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:46 AM
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Girls lie to us all the time, deal with it and don’t let it get to you. If it bothers you and you show it, you’re displaying that you’re emotionally invested. Unless it’s objectively important to you don’t bother
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:21 AM
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ASD pure and simple. Since if she sleeps with a guy she's not comfortable with she'll feel like a slut and girls are hyper aware of that.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:03 PM
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I'm constantly worried about not being good enough and the possibility of falling off in the future. Did any of you guys struggle with this when you set off on your journey to self improvement? I experienced this before I swallowed the pill. TRP teaches you to thrive in rejection not to shy away from it. I'll probably get rejected at least once with the next couple of girls I chat up but at the end of the day it's just a numbers game. I don't mind though, I know I don't need anyone's approval to…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:09 PM
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simple, alpha fucks beta bucks women want to be fucked and satisfied by an alpha because it's a thrill they can't get from a beta who just pours them with their needy validation. However they'll keep betas around to provide for them. In my BP days I was an orbiter to this girl who was living with a guy she claimed to "love" while she slept with any guy who showed the smallest bit of social dominance over her. It wasn't a coincidence that she just happened to be living with him in an apartment he…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:23 AM
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we're not all bad btw
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:00 AM
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remember stick to a high status mindset. Instead of interpreting it negatively use it as an example of the weird stuff people do to get your attention or some other positive perspective. Interpreting it negatively will backfire if they didn't mean it in a negative way. For instance I was walking by a coworker and I was bumped into the wall as I did. She noticed and turned saying "God I'm not that fat" meanwhile I had no idea wtf she was talking about, just that she was super insecure about her w…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:56 AM
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if people wanted to use your name for their team that's probably a good thing, I think you're being paranoid about it
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:49 AM
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I have this worry of approaching woman because I fear the guys that are with them may be a boyfriend/husband, and they will try to fight with me if I hit on his girlfriend/husband. This is a perfectly normal feeling as we're constantly making observations about everyone around us. Not too long ago I was talking to this HB10, I mean my god, she looked like she had just come from a modeling shoot. She was with a friend and these two ripped guys who didn't have shirts on. She starts coming onto me …
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:26 AM
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Do I go along with it or insist on just the two of us? If you didn't object to it at the time then I'd suggest going along with it. The last thing you want to do now is to say "Hey I wanted this to be between us actually" because then you're also communicating that you've been unsure about how you feel about such a minor detail which is fairly low status.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:08 AM
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Agree and amplify is your best friend people. If you solely use this method you will become predicable and boring which is the same as failing fyi As far as dread am I missing something? I don't see where you applied dread
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:22 AM
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NoFap is pseudoscience I still can't believe people buy into that bullshit edit:(I'm agreeing with you if this was unclear)
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:18 AM
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we had been talking all day yesterday sounds like orbiter status, especially if this was over snapchat
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:16 AM
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remember alpha fucks beta bucks girls want to be fucked by alphas and they want a beta to provide for her. Which is why lots of married women sleep around because they're just with their husband for the predominantly beta validation that comes with it (in the form of money, gifts, housing, etc). It's also why being in a LTR is TRP on expert mode. I have a close friend who's gf broke up with him because he wouldn't marry her. None of my friends know why but TRP knows why. On the outside it's hard…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:08 AM
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Not when given the context that you're telling her to. You always want to lead the interaction and this is an assertive way to showcase what you want. She can try to reframe it in a needy way "Oh you can't live without me huh?" and if that happens just hold frame and you'll be fine. If you're insecure about getting her to hang chances are she'll ask something like that to check.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:59 AM
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I asked also if she wants Don't ask, say she should join you. Then if she refuses say something snarky like "You're just ruining your chances with me" I'd ghost her until she reached out to me because I think you're starting to reach into "PLEASE HANG OUT WITH ME" territory. Focus on abundance mentality always
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:14 AM
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I did, she told everyone I work with to my annoyance. She was a freak in bed and it was nice but I suspiciously wasn't given the promotion I had been building up towards shortly after. Don't do it
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:15 AM
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There’s a lot of kind of passive aggressive messaging and behaviour they're girls, this should go without saying. Men are direct (straight to the point) women are indirect (passive aggressive). Basically just feel like I have to end up explaining myself, losing frame. I try my best to just get the job done and make no mistakes or anything but there’s always something mundane to complain about. It’s all they do? Explaining yourself to them, being defensive, and arguing will only make them do it m…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:24 AM
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My life is bettering exponentially. that's what it's all about It seems most of the girls are dating or hooking up with guys that are 3-4 years older than me This is absolutely untrue. Slightly older guys have more success because they have more social proof and experience but that just helps get them in the door. The challenge comes with having an inner confidence to yourself that girls want, which will work just as well for you as it would for an older guy. Hell at my workplace I've had two gi…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 07:25 AM
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she apparently forgot my name but remembered meeting me. Sounds like she was saying that to check your status. I actually used something similar on a girl the other day me- "What's your name again?" (to someone who's told me their name countless times) her- "It's Jessica but it's okay I forgot your name too." (she's trying to copy my status move) me- "I didn't give it." Now in your situation, she could be telling the truth but she was just in a bad mood, who knows. Girls reject guys for a variet…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 07:06 AM
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they don't really care, but they'll shit test you all day about it for insecurity
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:52 AM
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I fucking hate being ignored simple, deal with it. You won't get anywhere on TRP until you do. I get ignored all the time but idgaf because I'm focused on myself not others
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:50 AM
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The problem with this is that you only have the capacity of seeing this from a guy's perspective. We value personality traits like loyalty so ofc you feel this way, most guys do. Now girls, they don't care because they don't value that at all. They get excited at the idea of being used by a guy with higher status. Thus realizing said guy was just using them makes them even hornier for you. Sure they're going to give you shit about it, but it's just a shit test. They're only seeing how confident …
/r/askTRP01/09/18 09:49 AM
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Most high status guys put up a hard frame with other men. To break it just show off your social dominance and they’ll see that you’re someone worth talking to. I have a gay guy I work with who is very alpha and gets along with all of the women at my workplace, as in he demonstrates the higher social status. I saw that my smv would be increased if the girls saw him wanting to get along with me, it made me decide to break that hard ball attitude he had towards me. When I was teasing a girl I’d inc…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 02:09 AM
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I was friendzoned this made me cringe. The friendzone DOES NOT EXIST. It is a term used by beta guys who have oneitis for a girl and the girl isn't attracted to them. After being in there for about a half hour and playing some songs on acoustic guitar for her, she made up some excuse and wanted to go ahead and leave She probably wanted to fuck initially but you wanted to have a play date instead, of course she left. by saying "you guys look like you'd make a cute couple" I think this speaks to t…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:46 AM
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I think you’re lying to yourself when you typed “We would’ve hooked up but she was on her period” because I don’t believe that for a second. If she wanted to fuck you after that she wouldn’t have stormed off when you escalated the next night. When girls realize you’re the alpha they’re looking for you don’t have to try very hard because they’ve pretty much made up their mind by that point. Meaning she placed you as an orbiter that first night.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:08 AM
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I’ve had this happen once before. I felt excited but it just went soft after I put the condom on. We kept trying to get it up but to no avail. Never had it happen again, so I think it was just a fluke on your part. Still to this day idk why I couldn’t get it up despite how excited I felt
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:01 AM
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this isn't just restricted to words either, it can also be where your attention is after telling a joke. Are you looking at them hoping for their reaction? Surprise! They just turn to look at you and say "Huh?" Now they've just caught you as wanting their attention. There's countless ways for someone to weed out a false sense of confidence
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:11 AM
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Well the idea that "it doesn't matter" is a bit nuanced Some guys when they come to TRP are wanting to feel the confidence a lot of guys here feel and some genuinely feel it. The problem is they've been taught how to communicate with BP phrasing, for example "Do you want to go see a movie tomorrow?" since for guys that's a straightforward thing to ask but not with girls. When some RP guys say "it doesn't matter" it's coming from a place of confidence which assumes you aren't using that sort of B…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:55 AM
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I meant constantly as in with other girls. I'd ignore it and approach different girls, if you're not catching the eyes of more girls. Lift and work on yourself. Don't let her flaking on you make you doubt if you did the right thing or not. While yes that matters to an extent, the better way to approach it is to realize you don't care and can hang out with any other girl anyway. Guys are emotionally stronger than girls, which is why ignoring her works for you but not for her. I was just messaged …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:44 AM
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If she's flaking on you you're doing something wrong, especially if this is happening constantly. I only had this happen in my BP days
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:30 AM
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First of all, stop overthinking it. Stop obsessively checking her online time on FB. She's trying her hardest to get a reaction from you with this. Your best friend is silence, no contact with her is your best friend. Girls use it thinking it gets to you, the best way for it not to is to not even think about it. To the point where you don't care if she's read your message or not. Doing that you win. You're focusing on your own shit, she's actively thinking about how you interpret it, you make ti…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:07 AM
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You're confusing trying to get a LTR with plating a girl. For obvious reasons you'd next a LTR candidate if she slept with another guy but you shouldn't care if you find out your plate fucked another guy. If she stops wanting to fuck you is when you next her.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:50 AM
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I think you nailed it the first time. Since this sounds like a comfort test
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:31 AM
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It depends on how much it bothers you. If it were me I’d call her out and hard next her, I don’t have time for that kind of hateful bullshit. Just remember the golden rule, don’t argue about dumb shit like that.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:03 AM
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Your mistake was answering her request seriously
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:32 AM
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I am still afraid of being scowled at by a woman. Does this 'asshole' mentality You need to change the way you see being playful. I say this as someone who used to see these jokes the same way you do, as a guy just being an asshole. Being playful is a very refined way of joking that sits on the line of joking and being a douche. I'll give you an example that happened to me pretty recently when I was talking to a cute coworker. Her- "I don't know how you survive working two jobs." me- "Ya my free…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:24 AM
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This is the cringiest thing I've read in a while. You are an orbiter She flaked because she's not attracted to you, at all There is no scenario where you fuck this girl in the foreseeable future Tell me how fucking dumb you feel when you ignore this advice and keep trying to hook up with her
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:06 AM
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40 yr old women are probably easier as most have hit the wall. I'd say as far as the game goes it's still the same. The only shit test I'd usually get is the age difference one as I'm in my twenties and after that they're usually set.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:55 AM
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Anything negative that’s said about you is a shit test FYI. They could just be trying to get a reaction out of you or be mean, sure. However you win every time by going in knowing not to take it seriously. Judging by how bitchy it sounded I’d just ignore. Or assert your dominance and ask “Who is this?” and just don’t read the response, and ignore
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:25 AM
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her white knight friend orbiter We argued about it Fucking why? Arguing about pointless stuff shows that you're being overly defensive which inherently shows that you find the WK's opinion valid. I said that I dont give a fuck about what that guy thinks IMO telling a girl you don't care is bad. Every time I've had to say it the opposite was true and the woman knew it from that point. In this case your very actions show that it isn't true, that you don't care, so I recommend you show through your…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:36 PM
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I think when you look at our closest relatives, monkeys, iirc they have patriarchal social societies.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:38 AM
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Not Op but as someone who has literally done that, yes.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:41 PM
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people longing for an LTR Men want a loving relationship with a woman but women do not want that even though they make us think they do, it's a fucked up world
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:19 AM
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it's not illegal, no. Is it creepy? Ya, very. Not to mention extremely impractical unless you are friends with someone at high school. When I got to college it felt like an extension of high school. Hell even when I was still BPed out of my mind I still made out with random chicks at the party scenes. Just try to get into the college scene, it's just as easy and you won't have to worry about being confronted about being an uber weirdo. I sympathize with you though like I'm sure many on TRP do. I…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:13 AM
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You shot yourself in the foot with your self respect when you said it's over then proceeded to fuck her again. While ya you got pussy, the context behind it will affect your confidence in the big picture which is why it was a fuck up. I would hard next her. She knows you are invested at this point, so much so that you came back after she broke a clear boundary. Just ghost her and talk to other girls, there's too many out there to waste time on her. She's not going to stop fucking other guys and …
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:00 AM
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So I lashed out at a plate after I caught her lying red-handed. She used that anger to paint me as some needy creep who is too attached. It helped teach me this Don't let it get to you. Don't show emotion. Don't ask for an explanation, you don't care for one. Hard next
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:22 AM
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If it were one of my inner circle of friends I'd have no trust issues at all over it. We can't really give you a good idea because we don't know the extent of your friendship nor how dominant you are in that social situation
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:17 AM
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Sexual Assault is unwanted sexual contact so what we think of it doesn't matter since it's subjective. It can be called distasteful, sure, but speculating on it is dumb.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:24 AM
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I think people hear that “treat them like children” thing a bit too literally. What it’s suppose to mean is, set up a dynamic where you have the higher social status. Celebrity-fangirl Manager-employee Man-dog etc etc. What I do when someone’s unloading to me is to just be a ballbuster of a person to talk to. I’ll misinterpret what they’ve said, mishear a word which changes the meaning of what they’re saying, etc etc. This shows you don’t really care and if the girl is interested she’ll change t…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:24 AM
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Let her self destruct, the fact it bothers her so much will make other girls curious as to how you could be the center of her attention. They don’t fucking care what she says you did
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:15 AM
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My money is on troll account
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:05 AM
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If you’re insecure about saying it, it will show in your follow up response if she shit tests you instead of actually taking offense FYI
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:04 AM
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Should’ve isolated her, if she actually was interested it wouldn’t have mattered that she had a bf. In my BP days I was an orbiter to a girl who had a boyfriend but would sleep with other guys. She’d shit test them by saying the usual “I don’t want you to get the wrong idea but I have a boyfriend” My take is she was interested but you let her friend cock block you
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:57 AM
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Because then they want to show others that they're more confident than you and you value yourself less than you value them. You show that subconsciously when you fall into the other person's frame. This happens because everyone wants to be the one who's valued more than others.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:21 AM
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I completely disagree with this, when it comes to guys Personality > Looks I say this as a guy who was hot in high school and early college (I got rejected by just about every girl) but started reading up on TRP this past year while I'm in the worst shape of my life (technically I'm obese class 1). I'm working on myself, but my social behavior has improved ten-fold and I went on a date with the hottest girl I've gone out with (HB8) by holding frame and displaying confidence.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:42 PM
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you sound like you dont dederve her The fuck out of TRP with BP shit like that
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:35 PM
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I always find those girls are way too needy, like they want their guy to be the center of their world. Last one I plated (have had a thing with several others) she kept wanting more than the ~5 mins per day I'd give her and I had my own shit to do so I peaced out real fast
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:28 PM
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It’s just a societal thing. People use it to start conversations, get a reaction, assert dominance, etc etc I was shit tested by a guy the other day at work when he tried pulling the attention of an attractive coworker but I held frame and made him look silly.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:53 AM
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Depends on the type of humor you were making. There’s a difference between high status and low status humor
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:50 AM
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Why settle? Is there a shortage of hot girls no one told me about?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:53 AM
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The only one who’s putting her on that pedestal is you, and no one here can convince you to tear her down from there. You just have to accept that she doesn’t belong there. I say this as someone who believed that a girl I dated was a unicorn despite many people trying to convince me otherwise, even when I first joined TRP. I was adamant that no girl could ever be as amazing as her. I was wrong (no shit) and now I’ll have to live with knowing I acted like a beta retard for 7 years of my life. Don…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:47 AM
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My favorite go to is “You’re just ruining your chances with me”
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:41 AM
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Who’s usually initiating?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:36 AM
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I had something similar happen. This is what I did: with my underwear off and her in her panties I’d go from fingering her to kissing her while climbing on top of her. I just pushed my dick against her vagina repeatedly and eventually she said “Just fuck me already.”
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:29 AM
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Whenever a girl says this to me it’s for one of two reasons I’ve started a non-engaging conversation and she’s trying to keep it up It’s another way to say “Why should I be talking to you? What do you bring that the guy over there doesn’t?” In both cases it’s up to you to think of an engaging topic
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:00 AM
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That’s just objectively not funny, you need to work on your humor OP. Humor is a skill so it can be improved on
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:55 AM
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overcoming social awkwardness I failed at this just now so I'll give you the senario I was going to go clock out and my manager HB8 jogs over to meet me at the computer (to clock me out). I said "Ran all the way over here just to clock me out? Now you're just trying too hard to get on my good side." she then turned looked me in the eyes, smiling, and said "But is it working though?" the eye contact was too much and I turned away and shrugged. A good example of this on video is when RDJ was on Ji…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:38 AM
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No ghost her, if you try to initiate again it comes off as needy
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:37 AM
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With abundance mentality you wouldn’t care why she’s not responding
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:24 AM
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You’re lying to yourself that you’re ghosting this girl This post reeks of “I don’t know what I want” which is BP mentality. You want to fuck her pussy. When she said I’ll leave you alone that was your moment to escalate. You fucked up then came off as needy by having those second thoughts and hitting her up again
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:21 AM
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Nope. I've had undeniable video proof and have gotten the response "Well I don't remember that"
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:21 AM
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Just before I went to college I had a pop-up ad open a new tab for something called "High Status Humor." Like your typical ad it said shit like "Are you having trouble with women?!" "Well in this interactive video program we walk you through insert vague ideas" but unlike all the other ads this one stuck out to me because it didn't say it was a "do this and get laid" trick. They made the point that this was simply to make the humor you tell seem like RDJ instead of a clown. I ended up torrenting…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:03 AM
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how are your humor skills? If you meet someone new can you think of a well made joke? I often find that in conversation a great sense of humor separates the men from the boys. Especially since the better your humor is the better you're equipped to deal with shit tests Hell just today I was making pizza with my sister (No I'm not trying to get with my sister) and I told her not to put too many black olives on it. I walked over before she put it in the oven to check and she feeling annoyed said "O…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:22 AM
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I'm going to assume you're talking about a guy. It depends how close the two of you are but generally I'd say no
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:06 AM
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This is just conflating social status with someone’s objective status. It’s the difference between a regular confident guy and harvey weinstein. I have a close friend of mine who is a marine and while he has a very rough attitude generally (he’s overly hostile to new guys we talk to), as far as relationships go he’s still pretty hardcore BP. I’ve slowly tried putting TRP ideas into my friend group and he’ll always reject the ideas, including tonight since another friend is having relationship tr…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:04 AM
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You will never have a girl all to yourself, at least not one worth having all to yourself lol. It’s a sad life we live but it’s better than believing a lie and getting burned like most guys here have been.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:43 AM
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So much this, your personality and confidence will drawn people in like flies to dead flesh. It's an aura that people will feel
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:01 AM
1

I've had a threesome, it just has to happen on it's own you can't force it or expect it
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:57 AM
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I wasn't really interested. she didn't say bye or anything. I'm so confused
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:55 AM
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as a guy who had that feeling for over 5 years with my own ex ltr I'll say this, the more you care and the more you try to show you care. The more she'll look at you like you're some sort of pathetic human being. How do I know that? AWALT vvvvv My personal experience with this I'll even walk you through how amazing of a person I was convinced my ex was. I truly believed she was genuinely kind and this is off her own actions. One day a guy insulted her and I said something worse back at him. What…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:04 AM
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Tinder has become a pay wall joke I've had that 3 like thing appear, swiped right for four days straight and had no matches. You do have those matches but they probably won't show them to you anytime soon. I miss the days when they'd bump the matches to your next swipe
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:41 AM
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go "spend time" with another girl then my dude
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:39 AM
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Don't start mixing expectations in when hanging out with girls, if she doesn't want to hang out after it's alright. Plenty of other girls out there who'd love to, go meet them
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:16 AM
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How do you think you should approach this? This is your basic shit test
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:09 AM
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long term ltr this made me laugh, thank you for that On a serious note you handled that well, the biggest mistake guys make is letting it get to them. I can tell from reading your responses that a few weeks from now you'll think "What's the harm in just staying positive with her?" Don't think that way. Early this yr just before I fully ditched my BP self I was an orbiter ("friends") with two girls. One was an old ex I thought I was in love with and the other I had almost constant communication w…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:58 AM
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I've had a girl pretend to text another guy, I ignored it at first. Then when a friend of mine noticed it and jokingly said "better watch out!" I let it get to me. Don't be me, don't be paranoid
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:17 AM
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as long as you aren't ashamed of what you do it doesn't matter what your hobbies are. I met a ballet dancer who was marrying my cousin and he was one of the most socially dominant people I've ever met. Your status lies with your confidence and your appearance not with the activities you enjoy.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:15 AM
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she might be doing this to get to you, if your relationship is a little rocky I'd just suspect that to be true
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:10 AM
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She said can you give me tips and resources for the upcoming semester and in exchange ill get coffee with you when you get back. lol wat. Hanging out with you is a bonus for her not for you. Absolutely turn it down She's just validation seeking
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:05 AM
2

Something I focused on heavily when I first started experimenting with frame wasn't so much in words but with where my attention was. I got so good at controlling my attention that a co-worker HB8 made a funny joke about me while I had my back turned but I withheld any smile which drove her to say "That was hilarious insert my name you're just trying not to laugh!" I knew however that my face didn't so much as twitch which meant she was essentially saying "I want your validation" because she was…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:30 AM
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if she wants. with how long it took you to do this plus that response is probably why you failed. Remember you are the prize so you need to assume she wants your number. I'd have given it to her and said "you're welcome" Day we are leaving we go for a breakfast at the same bakery. I met here and say something like - you didnt appear last night. She just smiles and blushes. She has your number, this is overkill needy
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:17 AM
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sarcasm is your best friend don't have a good job? Act like your job is the greatest job in the whole world. Hell you could even make your shitty job sound better than it actually is. When I delivered pizzas I'd tell people "I save the lives of starving children. You'd be amazed how many parents would call and brag about starving them." No girl cared that I was a delivery driver, all that mattered was the emotion I was invoking. Girls care more about how you make them feel.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:07 AM
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Ya and I'm a 24 year old guy who lives with his parents, who's giving you lessons on confidence. Insecurity is a choice and lifestyle. I call bullshit to the idea that if you woke up tomorrow with a million dollars you'd approach women with confidence simply because you were a millionaire. Those people who are actors, models, whatever have confidence because they feel valuable which is something they've come to understand mentally. If you want to excuse your insecurity with "What works for me wo…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:46 AM
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asked if she wanted First mistake right there, you asked. Obviously she'll either say yes or no if you ask. If she says yes it's far better to assume she was going to say yes and set a meetup right then. However she can still back out even if you take that assumptive frame that she wants to hang out. Assuming she wants to see you shows that you are confident and leading. Even asked her if she really wanted to or was just saying that This made me cringe. Being in disbelief that she said yes is ma…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:09 AM
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I hate this phrase because it's only true since a high value guy does not say needy low status things. So it's irrelevant when talking about someone who isn't there to begin with because it comes across as "Just say anything if you feel high status enough" which is terrible advice
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:51 AM
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This is bad. Just let her talk, don't give her advice, and make sure you don't jump into interviewer mode. Hell a simple "Oh that's really shitty" is fine. Some girls will really want to unload about something so I'll let them talk but I'll be a real ball buster when giving any feedback. I had a coworker complaining about a Canadian guy we work with and towards the end of her rant I just said "Why do you hate Canadians so much?" it shows that you don't really care while showing you were at least…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:22 AM
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Is the, “if you want” putting the ball in their court too much Yes, because she can still say no if you tell her you're going to meet her there. Don't be scared to be assertive, girls eat that shit up. Some girls would be down others wouldn't, I've had it go both ways. Does that sound butt hurt at all? “No problem. Well get together another time.” I'd say that's just a standard response. I usually try to throw something cheeky in like "Wow, you're just ruining your chances with me."
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:19 AM
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It’s too hard to give any specific examples of what you may be doing wrong or right but if you have a decent grasp on when to initiate kino I’d say you’re probably fine. They might’ve just not been into you (by no fault of your own), and that’s just part of the game.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:38 AM
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My ex HB8 tried to sleep with my best bro and he shut her down immediately. I only found out because she thought it was because I told him no (she texted me bitching about it), but I had no idea. That’s what a real best friend does, he knew I’d be fine with it but he chose not to do it anyway
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:22 AM
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I’d say work on your conversation skills, if you hit all the right kinds of emotion she’ll do the rest.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:19 AM
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That’s TRP for you, make someone feel silly in a light hearted way instead of being a douche. Although now that I understand the situation I’d say he probably thinks it’s raising his status but isn’t getting the hint that his wife thinks it’s weird. Guys will use social dynamics like that to assert dominance, in his case adult-kid.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:13 AM
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I believe you, but that's besides the point. Why do you care if she thinks you're ignoring her? In other words, why do you care how she thinks of you? By pointing that out you are also saying "I'm trying to control how you are perceiving me" which is beta behavior. When she accuses you of ignoring her she's shit testing you. She doesn't think you are ignoring her (despite her saying that) so when you buy into that frame you're failing. You should've played it off as a joke or use AA for instance…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:26 AM
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you explaining yourself to her with "I saw it minutes ago" shows that you are invested on some level, hard next that girl before it gets worse
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:04 AM
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You should think of these solutions quickly, try practicing reasons to touch in different environments if you're having a hard time. Hell last time I took a date to the beach I immediately knew I was gonna bury her ass in the sand. It was fun and she was feeling me pat her down all over.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:25 AM
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Just act like you normally would if you were trying to ask her out. If she says something like "I have a boyfriend" know that it's a shit test. In my BP days I was an orbiter to this girl when she had a bf and she told me of how this guy started talking to her and before they got into deep conversation she said "Ok look I don't want to give you the wrong idea but I have a bf" and as you probably guessed she fucked him that night.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:15 AM
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Think of Robert Downey Jr, that's probably the best way I can explain it TL;DR to a layman. It's someone who can handle any social setting with their dominance of the social atmosphere. There are a million traits that give men this ability but at the root of it is confidence. On TRP you'll find posts on lifting to achieve that and you'll even find more nuanced looks at small things you might be doing that showcase insecurity. Getting laid a lot etc is not the mindset you should have because it i…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:08 AM
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What did I just read
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:59 AM
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And most of reddit thinks this sub is shitty for trying to help guys like this. It enrages me
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 01:59 AM
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While some girls like being called a bitch, there are a lot of girls who have that kind of negative visceral response to it. I've jokingly called a girl a bitch after she was acting bratty and it went downhill in an instant
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:48 PM
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Being more animated with your responses and really being over the top helps so much too. BE EXCITING Had a day at work where I was almost falling asleep while talking to this sexy HB8. I noticed almost immediately that she was not engaged with what I was talking about since I was being very monotone and boring. I switched gears and she went from looking down and away from me to smiling, showing a 0-100 twist in engagement simply by adding more excitement to my tone and body language.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:52 AM
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I’m really into art actually. I don’t always understand what I’m looking at, but I don’t care. Have you heard of the Barnes Museum in Philly? It's really interesting. This doctor, who retired pretty early because of a patent he came up with, started collecting art by sending his assistant over to Europe to buy what was popular at the time. The assistant ended up coming back with pieces from Van Gogh and Renoir, who have pretty similar styles. Anyway, the doctor becomes obsessed with collecting a…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:44 AM
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Why would you want to be on speaking terms with a lying x anyway? That's how I wanted to view this because I value myself a lot. Until after I thought about it a bit and realized that girls lie to us all the time. What matters is what they lied about. If you invite a girl over and she says something like "Just for the afternoon, I don't sleep with guys on a first date." you shouldn't be annoyed at her hamstering that out. You can realize something is a lie and just accept that it's a lie without…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 06:32 AM
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A tactic I've been using is to twist their words and just generally be a ball buster of a person to try and unload on. This works incredibly well because it makes them laugh at themselves but also gives them the subconscious thought of "He's fucking with you because he doesn't care." This does two things, firstly it separates girls who don't want to invest in you vs girls who do. Since when a girl unloads on you it's for one of two reasons. She either wants validation and your pity or she wants …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:37 PM
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Since they were fine with being alone with him so soon I think it was less about comfort and more about them hamstering a scenario to go.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 08:59 PM
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The most common technique I find that girls use to filter out most of that 20 odd crowd is with shit test rejections. Messages like "Cool" after your first message or simply leaving you on read. The key to this is to look at that response through a high SMV mindset (a reminder for those noobies who want to give up easily). Recently a hb8 tried this on me but I was prepared. Me- "Can you keep a secret?" Her- "sure" Me- "Well last night I ate dessert before dinner... phew, you have no idea how muc…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 11:14 AM
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ESCALATE SOONER RATHER THAN LATER Stop wasting your time. If a girl is interested she is interested, if not she is not. You need to get her number within 3-5 messages, and once you get her number, escalate to logistics immediately. I actually completely disagree with this. I agree with a lot of PUAs that you shouldn’t set a beta tone of chasing the girl by asking for her number (or telling her you want it). Instead she’s the one who wants your number and needs to ask you. Your only mission in th…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:24 AM
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I've never understood the hardcore belief in the "don't shit where you eat" mentality, because if you don't text using your number but one of those fake online ones there's no proof. I mean lying is something that you should avoid yes, but I don't think that merits the harsh responses it gets. Idk maybe I'm missing something. I've slept with several co-workers, when they worked together too. They were both completely oblivious to the fact I was sleeping with the other one. They don't work with m…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:00 AM
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honestly LTRs will rarely work out if you're looking for loyalty and longevity. A post recently put it best by saying "You want loyalty, get a dog." Women will always be on the lookout for something new and exciting. As a guy who used to get attached, I promise you, it's better just to realize that it's just your turn with the girl.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:29 PM
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This sounds like a beta's fantasy RP revenge story
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:45 AM
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brought back bad reminders of when I was giving my ex dating advice and she was freaking out over this guy who texted her. Man I wish I could go back in time and say "dude fucking stop" was a great read though. Most guys on here talk about validation from a BP perspective but not what it means from an Alpha standpoint
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:21 AM
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Being stubborn and negative will make anyone feel bad. You knew the truth and probably figured she was lying so that you'd help her out. It probably wasn't even that big of a deal, like holding the door open for someone. That being said, no one will respect you if you don't respect yourself. When she decided she was going to act like that to you and in front of your family you should see it as you earning respect for standing up for yourself. Hell some people may disagree with me but by standing…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 09:24 PM
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"The cargo cult is run by the Hollywood media" I've always hated this generalization that all of Hollywood is responsible. One of the best examples of TRP tactics I've seen in film comes from Casino Royale
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 01:07 PM
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^ so much this. Asking for advice is fine but once you do you NEED to be aware that you’re letting her take up your thoughts which if unchecked will lead you to putting her on that subconscious pedestal
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:50 AM
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I’ve had a friend who is also very small and she had a bf who’s dick was just too big for her. She described it as hitting her cervix and nothing about him being bad at foreplay. I think “too big” is a bit ambiguous, but if she meant you’re too girthy then yeah I’d say it’s probably not enough foreplay
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:47 AM
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I feel for you man, the fear of losing a parent is some hard shit. That being said, you have to stop caring so much about what your dad thinks. Seeing how you talked about the way he was treating you emotionally was really cringe worthy. Who cares if he tries to tear you down? That's his emotional shit that makes him the weak beta one, and by reacting to it emotionally you're rolling over and showing your belly. That's not to say you shouldn't care about him. You can love and care about your fam…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:09 AM
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Let me share a story with you about when I was a hardcore BP. I had a friend who lived in Cali and we met about 8 years ago while flirting over some online app. Over the years we talked almost every day about everything and anything with her having me jack off to her every few months or so. We both didn't want a relationship (hell she eventually got into one) and I thought of her as my closest friend. This year I caught her in a string of lies surrounding a guy who had been an objective asshole …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:46 AM
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The fact that she uses “might”, and the fact that she is still planning on going to the movies are still openings from her. Sometimes girls also test you to see how easily discouraged you get, and if you easily do it is seen as weak. “Ight later” is such a reactive and defeated response I was convinced she didn't want to go that Friday night after I reevaluated how quickly her interest died after I caved to see it. So when she said that, my response was my way of saying "If you are going to pull…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 08:56 AM
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Waste of time. Going out and meeting girls is 100x better I've landed chicks on tinder for sure, even hot ones but the chances are so fucking low that I just don't bother anymore
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:06 AM
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a girl I work with does this constantly and as an introvert it hurts to keep on my toes 5 days a week for 6 hours at a time. Great practice though
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:52 AM
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No problem and if you wanted an example of a crazy trait i’d go with spontaneous screaming, but it’s better if you can think of it on your feet
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:36 AM
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I asked her out to a date today in the most casual way possible Did you ask i.e. "wanna go to the movies?" or did you suggest "Lets catch a movie tonight" the latter is a much better option she said “lol plus I don’t know you and what if you’re a crazy person :P jk jk” any response that doesn't take it seriously. "youre right. We totally don’t know each other enough" this isn't good imo because it sounds as if you're taking it seriously by simply agreeing. A&A is when you exaggerate it enough th…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:18 AM
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I have a close friend group of about 5 guy friends I made in high school. Today we have a bond so close that it still surprises me. They regularly break the trust of other lesser friends to inform our group of what's been going on. Now some people may hear that and think "If they do it to others they do it to you too" but in the context of our friendship that's laughably not true. I'd say it needs to be a guy who you can spend a lot of time with while having somewhat similar interests. Hell some…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:47 AM
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if it's legal in the state who cares? If it's not walk away
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:51 AM
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I don't think this is a good one. She'll equate hangouts with disappointment and feel less inclined to go on one. Hell this even applies with other kinds of teasing. For instance when a girl is on her phone it's so much better to say something neutral like "Go ahead take your picture I have nothing to hide." than to be negative and say "Woah don't be taking pictures of me." I can see it working in nuanced situations but not a general one
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:26 AM
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My hero
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:21 AM
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Stop worrying and letting her take up your thoughts like this. All this is doing is increasing the amount of mental investment you're putting into her which will turn into putting her on a pedestal. Just show her a good time and she'll do the rest
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:14 AM
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I break eye contact not knowing what to do. I think the first thing you need to practice is being okay with social pressure. The easiest way to figure out who's a beta is how quickly they feel awkward. The trick is to understand that you're feeling shy and FIGHT it. Stop caring how others perceive you because people WILL NOTICE that you're feeling insecure around them. This isn't something you can change by using a step by step guide since it's a change that you have to make mentally.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:08 AM
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A man that other women want You can even see it in the way girls talk to one another too. I'm one of the only guys at my workplace and I feel very confident that I'm the most alpha guy there. With some of the girls, when I give a cheeky reply to a shit test, they'll say to another passing coworker "He's so mean to me." AKA "I get his attention."
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 08:20 AM
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I understand that these rules are helping to shape “betas” into “alphas,” but beyond a certain point they should be second-nature. You shouldn’t even have to think about them. They should be completely natural to you. I feel like you just answered your own problem with it. These sorts of things aren't going to come naturally to guys who've adopted beta traits their entire lives like me. Eventually with enough practice they will become second nature but active techniques simply help solidify that…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 08:02 AM
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Now there’s playing the prize for humor and there’s having a high status mindset. I’d argue you should always have (or try to have) a high status mindset. For instance there was this girl who’d leave me on “read” all the time and just showed disinterest whenever we texted (as I was trying to arrange a hangout). Now a low status person would read that and think “She’s ghosting me” but a high status person would think “Wow she’s so shy” since he knows he’s really interesting and awesome. So I star…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 02:40 AM
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I don’t know why I didn’t read this earlier but that’s some pretty sound advice, thanks for putting in the effort
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 02:07 AM
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Even with sarcasm though the core thinking of it is "I'm not being serious" and my brain was always thinking in that serious analytical way. Thank god I dropped that mindset. Before I discovered TRP I adamantly believed the key to being attractive was simply improving my humor. Discovered a program called "High Status Humor" in high school through this annoying online popup ad that came up when I was watching porn and it caught my eye because it was promising everything I wanted to know without …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:17 AM
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I still understand but have trouble codifying. I'm not sure I'm following what you mean by codifying in that specific context
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 11:01 AM
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As someone who was in love at one point too, cutting her off is honestly the best course for you to take no matter how much you want to have a positive relationship. Don't make this same mistake again
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:25 AM
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Now she's telling me that since 2 days she feels sick, nausea and dizziness Sounds like the nocebo effect. If she believes she is pregnant she will have these symptoms. I say this as a guy who had 3 girls pull this exact same fear but I knew better
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:53 AM
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Should I wait with dating till I am lean As a guy who is currently overweight and working on it let me give you a good bit of advice. Girls are significantly more attracted to someone's personality than their looks, for the most part (again not an excuse for neglecting your appearance). But I am afraid that if I get turned down by girls too often, I could get depressed. I don`t know how well I can handle rejections at this point. Stop with that thinking, being afraid of rejection is BP thinking.…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:44 AM
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Honestly the main thing that'll help you get laid is creating attractive humor
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:33 AM
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