any advice for a new 9th grader?

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-07-23T02:36:01+00:00

Reading RP stuff since I was 11

Jesus Christ this is fantastic.

If I had had that advantage I’d be....

Full of STDs.

Join a sport, do well in school, go to the best college you can. And realize you’re not going to be with this chick in a few years

ATRP2019 · 2019-07-23T03:02:35+00:00

How to apply dread: Do fun shit when she's not around that leaves her guessing what your doing and who you're with. Do not do this by your words, texts etc. Do this with your actions, otherwise you'll most likely fuck it up.

Hobbies? Prioritise education, yourself and your health. After that, find things that interest you. Too many kids are slaughtering their lives away with video games. As a former player for 20+ I can guarantee that 99.99% of gamers wasted their time on that stuff, in terms of personal improvement. Try to find things that mean something to you but also have an outside effect. Examples being: studying economics, starting a hobby business, learning a new language, playing sport, gym, reading, travelling. These things all will get you some sort of bigger benefit, other than just being fun. For example the gym makes you feel great, but others will see you as masculine, dominant and girls will give you points just for large muscles. Learning a language will be inherintly rewarding but gives you larger career options, a bigger pool of women to date, you'll get cultured etc. In summary, don't waste time on some of the time sinks of this upcoming generation.

Good luck and PM me if you need. I wish I had a community like this growing up, when I was younger it was really hard to find role models that I looked up to.

wanker7171 · 2019-07-23T03:29:20+00:00

any advice on how to apply dread, and are there any hobbies i should pick up now?

Remember that guys get sex while girls get validation out of a relationship, in other words they get the attention/approval of a high status guy. You apply dread by threatening her access to your validation. Leave her messages on read for an extra day or two, flirt with other girls in front of her, anything that will make her fear that she is losing your interest.

You should pick up hobbies you're passionate about, not ones that you think will make other people like you. If you like watching anime, you should do so unapologetically. Just as long as that hobby isn't adversely affecting your life goals.

in conclusion I do want to say that as a guy who is in his mid twenties and searched for years for how to improve myself with women, you've hit the gold mine.

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-07-23T05:27:28+00:00

Use your high school's weight room.

Flirt with all the attractive girls at school. Develop a reputation for it.

Start thinking about what you want to major in or pursue vocationally. Make sure it's something that will give you sellable skills. No liberal arts, psychology, or other useless shit. Either STEM, or take up a trade like plumbing, welding, electrics, etc.

Get into trouble now that you're a minor and your record can be forgiven or expunged. Don't get into criminal shit, but get some good, wholesome youthful indiscretions out of your system while you can, and if you feel the inclination. Now's the time to do it.

Build a reputation for reliability and trustworthiness now, with your peers and with adults.

Don't take any of this shit seriously. Approach everything as a chance to experiment, learn, and laugh your ass off.

whoscodex · 2019-07-23T04:13:03+00:00

would be kool to be friends with someone who knows/reads RP and is young like me. . . im 16 finna be a senior so were both in school my opinion would be stay in shape be the alpha of your grade. stay on your self improvement {and also find your purpose that means find what you love doing and learn how to make money doing what you love :) ].

she's a grade lower you might find some baddies while your in high school and i really don't have to much to say and oh yeah dont take females serious nor these relationships and I realized this last year and had me thinkin like "what am i doing trying to date all these females its not like we're gonna grow old together and live under a rock".

one more thing i would like to say is its rough being the only teen in your school knowing red pill because it is a lot of TRUTH to take in and its different since we're younger so if your down to be friends let me know

and if you ever mess with more then one female don't open your mouth to your friends or anyone thats BETA.

Uberfeedus · 2019-07-23T14:01:21+00:00

A hobby to pick up includes being creative. Seriously important. I'm not saying you have to be a professional drawer or illustrator by any means. But taking up a creative hobby now (or multiple ones) will turn into a really powerful skill later down the line. For example, I have been shooting photos for 7 years. i can take ANY camera and make an amazing picture seemingly out of nothing. If I go to a family event, I bring my camera, and now supply my family with amazing family photos that'll line their walls for years. The ability to take nothing and turn it into something for almost no cost is the real value here.

If you draw, you can sit down with a chick (or anyone) and just draw a portrait. 1 hour of un disturbed time to build rapport, and with a small bit of lead, you can make their heart skip a beat, cry, hug you etc.

Creativity will also teach you to think outside the box and see every angle. I recommend Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, and listen to Patrice O Neal, and George Carlin.

Goodluck. Any clarification just ask.

spencg · 2019-07-23T06:16:13+00:00

The best advice I ever got going into high school: “Don’t fuck up.”

Essentially, don’t waste time on things that won’t help you to be a better man. Don’t spend time doing things that will take away from the man you one day dream of becoming.

1) First and foremost, focus on your grades. You want to be able to choose whatever future you want for yourself (picking the job you want, picking the school you want, etc). Getting the best grades you can opens doors for you that allow you to make those decisions. Without good grades, you’re left making your decisions based on which options are available to you instead of just doing what you actually want to do.

2) Make good friends who you can rely upon. You are an average of the 5 closest people to you. Surround yourself with people who also will shoot high like you, and/or embody something you eventually want to be like. If you want to get more muscular, make friends with a kid who likes to work out. If you want to do better in school, make friends with a brainiac. Etc. In high school you’ll make friends that you’ll keep for life. Pick the best ones you can and pick ones that really connect with you.

3) As far as the whole girl thing goes, you’re way ahead of the curve. You’re 14 years old and already trying to figure out the best way to implement dread into your game. Absolutely amazing. That being said, if you’re ahead of the curve you should challenge yourself accordingly. Lose the 13 year old. You’ll get bored of her quickly and won’t learn anything about yourself or how to improve your game from being with her. Instead chase after the older girls. Try flirting around with the sophomores, and if that goes well move into the juniors, etc. Who knows, maybe you’ll even ending up banging a hot teacher before you graduate! (A kid can dream, right?) Don’t shy away from these challenges, or else you’ll get bored. Push yourself beyond your comfort zone and you’ll never be disappointed.

You sound like a very motivated young guy, and embodying the values you found here on the red pill will take you far in life. The sky is the limit kid. There’s no stopping where you can go. Don’t fuck up. Best of luck

Title	any advice for a new 9th grader?
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Date	July 23, 2019 2:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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