Girlfriend thinks I’m cheating..

vandaalen · 2019-08-08T09:56:07+00:00

Why is it causing you emotional stress? Where is the problem? Make fun of her if she tells you such horseshit. It's just another form of shit test.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-08-08T10:24:15+00:00

You cant cheat on a plate. She is not your wife.

The only person being cheated here is you. Your cheating yourself with this LTR.

AlphaBinomialDistrib · 2019-08-08T09:21:05+00:00

She’s cheating on you.

dukab · 2019-08-08T09:32:31+00:00

Maaan, my ex LTR thought that about me too. She also had dreams of me cheating. I know she lacked self esteem and had trust issues. If your LTR is something like my ex, she won't trust you untill she gets therapy, which she probably won't. I'd say watch her for jealous behavior. If you really think she has trust issues and low self esteem you can expect a lot of drama. In that case I reccomemd hard next. Save your self from bullshit.

wanker7171 · 2019-08-08T09:14:58+00:00

Is she still fucking you? That's really the only question that matters.

If she thinks you're cheating that's all the better. Think of what that means from her perception of you "My boyfriend is so out of my league that he's thinking of leaving me, so I have to please him with sex, and tell him I'm his." Girls love this kind of drama bullshit that'll keep their mind racing about you. A lot of guys minds' race like this when they're first trying to attract a girl they like, but girls love to always feel that way.

opinden · 2019-08-08T11:30:03+00:00

She's projecting OP, keep your eyes open.

frick-a-frack · 2019-08-08T11:30:14+00:00

Projection.

She “thinks” you’re cheating on her because you must be doing the same shady shit she’s doing.

By getting you to “admit it” first, she can then retcon when her affair started to make it be “your fault.”

RedSkeller · 2019-08-08T13:47:46+00:00

She's projecting her insecurities or most likely cheating herself. Either way, is the juice worth the squeeze. Spoiler: it's not. Ever.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2019-08-08T16:06:59+00:00

Yo Gotti : "I'm going to give it to you raw, straight up and down. If she's complaining and accusing she's probably fucking round."

nobody_thinks · 2019-08-08T12:56:48+00:00

sounds like u guys are 14

jjj2576 · 2019-08-08T14:43:40+00:00

This is a standard Shit Test.

Responding with a question is usually pretty solid— “Why do you feel that way?” or something similar. This type response can give you more insight on your dread game. The question can prevent DEERing. Effective probing with negative inquiry (WISNIFG) can help you determine if this is her projecting guilt from sucking Chad’s fat confident dick or if this is a manifestation of her insecurity.

Jabbermouth · 2019-08-09T01:12:37+00:00

Soft next for creating unnecessary dram/stress in your life. This is your gf not some plate. She should be making your life easier/better not worse.

She had a “dream” that I was cheating on her

Are you fucking kidding me? A dream? You may have failed in the vetting process because this bitch seems crazy, or at least more crazy than the average female. She accuses you of cheating from a fucking dream. Insanity. I wouldn’t put up with that shit from any LTR.

Title	Girlfriend thinks I’m cheating..
Author	osrsreddituser123
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	August 8, 2019 9:08 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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