Did I do something wrong here?

ggggggggee · 2019-09-07T05:36:22+00:00

I would have said "Taking care of my parents dogs for the weekend, you should come by and check em out"

Plausible deniability.

It doesn't look that bad and you still can hit her with the come over to check out the dogs line.

intl_plyrs_clb · 2019-09-07T05:58:47+00:00

What are you getting into tn?

Two things I hate about this opening message:

I try to callback to a previous memory or point of conversation of opening up a conversation, or make a statement. What you texted is so passive compared to something like "We should meet up tonight" which pushes the agenda forward.
I know what your subtext is (trying to fuck) and she definitely knows it too. Why not just start getting to that point?

Blah blah blah NOT SURE ABOUT AFTER

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

It feels like this woman has a passive interest in you and she was giving you a line to suggesting meeting up with her in a non-needy way. She was waiting for a response like "We should meet up tonight at X" (where X = your place, the bar, the gas station, the court, wherever is a good place depending on your situation) or just anything exciting.

At a friends blah blah blah... stop by after

You gave her a bunch of useless filler information and then tried to just drop in a "stop by after" . Stay on point. Another user suggested "Taking care of my parents dogs for the weekend, you should come by and check em out" which is so much better. Plausible deniability and a much more exciting message which is also to the point

Where? You're parents? Lol

The lol was your death sentence

yea Nothing you said after the "Lol" really mattered

It feels like you've never fucked this woman and the conversation feels stilted. Keep pushing forward to a point.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-09-07T05:47:32+00:00

I'm trying to work out if this is a troll.

You made yourself look like a loser. You're staying at ma and PA's house, all alone with the dogs.

Think about it. Would you want to fuck you with a description like that?

Title	Did I do something wrong here?
Author	BeautifulSuggestion4
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	September 7, 2019 5:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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