Been hooking up with this girl for a couple months now (check post history for more info) and last night we met again at my place. (Yes, she's the only one I'm meeting atm. Yes, I do have slight oneitis (although that's invenitable when there's only one gal) but I don't let that control my actions.)
Sex was absolutely great, like the best we've ever had together and probably even the best she ever had. She even gave me a bj and undressed her shirt this time (she didn't want to do any of those things before).
The night was all good until she asked me what I did yesterday after she was at my place (she was there at noon). Didn't give her a concrete answer, just "stuff". She kept asking and wanted to know what I did, I kept holding my frame and gave her the same answers, sometimes I even ignored her or gave her a smirk.
"I told you about my day, so why don't you? Why are you so mysterious? (I actually liked that) Do you have secrets? Why is it such a big deal for you? Just tell me."
She didn't stop so at some point I had enough and I said "okay, get dressed, I'm driving you home now". I stood up and of course she was like "noo come back". I waited first and then she pulled me back into the bed and hugged me. After 2 minutes of silence she asked the same question again.
Then she went on about the "driving her home" thing. "Were you serious?" she asked. "Did you seriously wanted to drive me home?", I nodded.
"Wow you're so shitty [..] why are you like this [..] you're weird [..] you're a bad friend [..] my friends always tell me when I ask them [..] why are you so rude to me" bla bla bla.
I didn't even bother to answer her anymore. I just kept a straight face the whole time.
After a couple more nice compliments (hah) she got dressed and wanted to go home by bus. It was late so I told her I'd drive her home. She didn't want to so I let her go by herself. 10min later she calls me and asks me to pick her up from the bus station. I drove her to her place afterwards.
Did I handle this whole situation right? I hold my frame when she kept asking that dumb question, so I think that was fine. But I'm a little unsure about the "driving her home" part. Did I "overreact"? Or should I've had reacted way before?
I don't need any tips on what to do now, she'll come back anyway (and even if she doesn't, who the fuck cares); but I'd love to get some feedback on how I dealt with this whole shitfest.
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