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Kidterrific/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:53 PM
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Karma is real, just not by the definition of what people think it is. It’s not a cosmic bank account where good deeds will come back in some other way. Karma, in the traditional sense, is how you approach things. If you approach them with a giving attitude, then you will continue to approach life in that manner, and life will reflect as such and you will be around giving people. If you approach life in an angry manner, then your life will be filled with anger, and will create continual situation…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:19 AM
1

Judging by the username, I’d say this guy speaks from experience.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:15 AM
5

Someone posted this once, and I copied it to my notes. It has helped me tremendously: LPT: Instead of excessively worrying over a decision, decide what you're going to do, then do things to make it the right decision afterward. Most people will excessively worry and over-analyze a decision, but then do very little about it after the decision is made. We spend 95% of our energy pre-decision, then 5% after. However, a lot of the science shows that very often there isn't a "right" decision, but the…
/r/askMRP11/03/21 04:08 AM
1

TL;DR: No.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:07 AM
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Yea to the second half. The therapist has no, absolutely NO right to give you any shit about what demographic you fit according to career choices. He sucks, and can eat a fat dick. And if you’re happy in your life, then you’re golden. You’re a fucking moron in the first half. Therapy has its merits, and there are excellent therapists out there. I agree, and OP has showed, that not all therapists are good. But therapy does help with certain traumas and to sit there and try to apply TRP to therapi…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:04 AM
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All it ever really boils down to, in any situation, is to be able to differentiate between what you want now versus what you want more.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 02:15 AM
1

You get to decide. You’re in charge.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:43 PM
2

Yes. You come first. You can care about other peoples issues even if they override yours. You just don’t have to do anything about it.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:42 PM
1

Anytime. DM me if needed, or you’re feeling anxious. You got this.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:44 AM
2

Got there with a therapist, too. Thank you for the compliment.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:41 AM
9

By realizing that life isn’t comfortable, even though you try like hell to make it so. Look deep into yourself- why do you people please? It’s often because you fear a negative response (learned from childhood) and will sacrifice your needs and wants so the other person could be happy, in essence, trying to control the situation by losing the only thing you can control: yourself. Say no more often. No is a complete sentence. No explanations. Just say it and if pressed say “I’d rather not, that’s…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:40 AM
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How many deaths were a direct result of Covid? Now answer this: how many deaths were a direct result of the vaccine? Hint: it’s zero. Let’s go party! Covid is a hoax, because Proctol_Apollo’s grandparents survived it, and they are the anecdotal evidence that we finally needed to know it was all a hoax, completely forgetting the family members that I had who died from it. /s, for the stupid. You don’t have to blindly believe what the establishment tells you, but you could do a little more researc…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:31 AM
1

Piano
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:46 PM
2

Love and hate are the same emotion.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:13 PM
3

The whole purpose is to find out who you are and what makes you happy. Once you figure that out, you find a girl that makes you happy. The one from two years ago didn’t make you happy. You game all these girls, but you don’t have a connection with any of them. For some reason, you had a connection with this girl. Now you feel like you may have made a mistake, and you’re mad at everything because you feel like you can’t go back. The truth is, you didn’t make a mistake. And the connection you feel…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:19 AM
1

I’m not sure I get your question. I’m happy to answer, but I don’t quite get what you’re asking.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:02 AM
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Just because you don’t like the advice, doesn’t mean it’s bad. Besides, it’s your ego talking. You’ll learn your lesson soon enough.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:55 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:54 AM
1

You handle it by not giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:53 AM
4

Life is a gamble, roll that dice.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:48 AM
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You deal with it. Every day. For the rest of your life. Or, you could try and get back together with her, realize you made a mistake, and be more miserable in a shitty relationship with a terrible person. Iron rule #7.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:46 AM
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Every relationship you get in will fail, until one doesn’t.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:39 PM
2

Everyone is superficial and fake in those settings. Go someplace else, not a bar or a club, and get to know people for a little while. In life, everyone you meet is going to have a veneer. You’ll become friends once you get past that.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:32 AM
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Depends on what you’re going to college for.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:31 AM
1

That makes all the sense. We are on the same page.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:16 PM
2

I’m rooting for you. You got this.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:19 PM
4

You’re too focused on “being beta.” Chill homie. Do what feels right for you. That’s what’s alpha.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:17 PM
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Not cool. He’s tryna bang and he’s selling you out. Next both of them.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:38 PM
0

Well I guess you know it all then, don’t you? Good for you to post pussy ass questions online about how to fool a woman into making you think you’re any less of the bitch we BOTH know you are. Pussy.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:42 AM
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I do. No need to call me a retard, but you can if it soothes that tender ego of yours. Maybe you should take all that badass alpha energy and look up some dark triad tricks to deal with internet strangers who hurt your fee fees.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:35 AM
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It doesn’t matter. She’s fucking crazy. Next that shit.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:28 AM
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I’m sorry you think that, but I’m not. You’re looking for tricks to get a girl to be worship your cock. You’re in her frame. Homeboy told you that and you got all resistant. Thank the man - he’s telling you the truth.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:27 AM
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Before you even meet them. You should know what you expect, and don’t. If you make them up along the way, that’s when you get insecure. Take some time and figure out where your lines are.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:24 AM
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I am chill. But if you can’t handle a rando internet stranger telling you where you’re wrong, you DEFINITELY can’t handle a woman doing it.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:22 AM
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It seems like you’re butrhurt. Downvoting the truth and attacking honest criticism. If you don’t like what you hear, fuck off then. Don’t make it any less true. And your pussy ego is definitely hurt based on your reply, you bitch. But whatever. You seem to have it all figured out. Have fun.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:17 AM
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Jesus. Look at you measuring the reply time. Do you really want to waste your life worrying about this shit? Move on. She has no interest. She didn’t offer another free day - next and don’t reply. Even when she texts in two weeks.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:17 PM
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Do I like her and does she add value to my life, or complicate it? That’s basically it.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:14 PM
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I agree 1000%. Here’s the distinction: I do it as a reward for good behavior, NOT as work to get anything. If she’s getting dinner, I ALREADY got what I want, and she’s cool and I want to hang out with a hot chick I was just banging. Plus, when she sees me out in the wild, chatting up the waitress and being myself, she sees that I can pull at will. There’s nothing wrong with shining up a plate from time to time.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:19 PM
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Look, I agree with what you’re saying - to a degree. But you make it sound like I pull my credit card out and the pussy dries up instantly, with no exceptions, and that’s bullshit. There’s no absolutes. If you were 100 percent correct, nobody would ever get laid on the second date, who paid on the first.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:03 PM
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What this soldier right here said. And a shit test isn’t to make you jealous, it’s to test your value.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:11 PM
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Eventually and if it’s all you do. But I’m not suggesting that.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:09 AM
3

Happy cake day.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:55 AM
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Ah, spring for dinner so she doesn’t feel like a slut. It’s no big deal if you want to get laid. But be careful of the standard you set. I would say no now and then surprise her with it down the road. Intermittent reinforcement. If she starts to expect it all the time, tell her you can’t do dinner because your plate just broke.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:25 PM
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Create a new personal rule: if the thought of it scares you, you have to do it.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:50 PM
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This
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:01 PM
0

Right outside your fucking door, you lazy bitch.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:59 AM
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Something the OP didn’t think to do: Google her ass in December.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:57 AM
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Happens to the best of us. But once you realize it’s not really her rejecting you but being fucking crazy, your ego may realize it’s better off. Wish you all the best.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:50 AM
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I don’t deal with them at all.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:14 AM
1

Questions direct the conversation wherever you want it to go. Learn to ask them with a purpose.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:14 AM
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Whenever a guy strikes out he assumes he fucked up somewhere along the line like he didn’t play the game right and lost. It’s clear she’s an emotional nightmare and you dodged a bullet. Why are you faulting yourself because she was unable to hide her crazy like other women? She is either alpha widowed and is trying to fuck to get her mind off her ex but then got a text he was gonna call, or she’s cheating on her guy and didn’t want to get busted. Either way, this is addition by subtraction. Next…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:12 AM
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Just fucking stop. Stop caring what people are doing. You’re only comparing yourself to them. Stop caring what other people see you do. You’re only trying to get them to compare themselves to you. Stop caring what other people think. I live a relatively private life outside of Reddit and work, so this is easy for me.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:30 PM
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A friend and I watched another buddy crashing and burning with a girl at a bar, and I’ll never forget what he said: “ Jesus. It’s like watching him chase a puppy. All it will do is run. Let the puppy come to you.”
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:23 PM
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Oh yeah, my experiences. I fuck a lot in there. You’re welcome.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:19 PM
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The city where my bedroom is.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:17 PM
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“You can have excuses, or you can have results. You can’t have both.” —Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:20 AM
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Everyone is fighting a battle you’ll never know about. Fight yours. Don’t hold their history against them and don’t let anyone do the same to you.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:18 AM
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Simple. Don’t be the quiet type. I should charge for this advice. How, you ask? Be genuinely interested in people. Find out what makes them tick. That’s an interesting shirt you have on, where did you get it? No shit? Oh? You drive for Uber? What’s it like? Are people crazy? What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever seen? what were you thinking when that happened? Man, if that were me I would do XYZ. Just ask a lot of questions, and get to know somebody. When in doubt, repeat the last five words the…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:14 AM
2

Came to say this.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:09 AM
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Step one: don’t be Asian. I’m only kidding. You need to lift. Some muscle mass will be hugely transformative.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:08 AM
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Leave that shit on read. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:00 AM
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This, people. If they liked you, you’ll know. They make plans and stick to them or reschedule with definitive plans.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:57 AM
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DONT YOU DARE FUCKING DO IT. Do you want a jealous bitch who controls your schedule to answer the phone when some other bitch calls? Or hears about your weekend? Or to randomly quit one day because she can’t take the tension anymore? Because that’s how you get all of those things. I speak from experience, and it was the worst lesson to learn. She knows too much about you. And you can’t hide it from her. The fact that she’s willing to take a risk like that suggests that she’s not making the best …
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:52 PM
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I’m not trying to do that.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:15 PM
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Read further down the thread, amigo.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:49 AM
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Been there. This is where you need to step away from all the books and all the reading and just get out there and get rejected a bunch so you can learn the details that all the reading doesn’t offer. When you put too much into the reading, you end up there and you don’t grow through experience. Learn to enjoy striking out. A lot. I read a lot of music theory, but I make my best growth when I actually sit at the piano and fuck up a bunch of times. You’ll get there. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:00 AM
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Don’t be pissed, man. It’s all a mind game after a while, and you can’t let emotions get in the way of goals. I know I was a bit rough with the advice, but that’s because I respond well to challenge and I like to push people. But all SMV does is get the panties to drop. It doesn’t get them wet. That’s where game comes in, and if you get frustrated, you’re losing. Make sense?
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:53 AM
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Yes, and the average ass basic guy wants the top 5%, too. But they can’t so they fuck the best of who they can. You think it’s different for girls?
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:41 AM
1

That IS good.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:36 AM
1

You’re right. Society has made it impossible for you to have sex. Have fun fucking your fist for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:31 AM
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Okay, I’ll take the bait and be real. The reality is that you’re a pussy and don’t want to put in the work fixing yourself. You just want a bunch of dudes to validate your shitty luck with women. You can’t fight genetics, but you can change your body fat, your lifestyle situation, and your attitude. You increase your SMV as high as you can and then you live like the rest of it is an option. Or you lower your standards and be a bitch fucking girls on your shitty level.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:29 AM
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If that’s what you think, start fucking guys then. You’re hopeless.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:21 AM
0

So meet the expectations. Don’t bitch that you can’t.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:16 AM
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I go in my direction. She follows or she gets the ol’ next. I’m not training bitches, here. I’m doing what I want and a woman is either on board, or not. You don’t control people. You control yourself.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:12 AM
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Nice.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:09 AM
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You have an emotional connection with the image of her. She lies, dude. She can’t be trusted. But you don’t need our advice. You’ll learn the hard way like everyone else here.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:08 AM
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Respect for owning your shit.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:02 AM
6

Sometimes your shortest posts are the best.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:01 AM
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Unless the stipend is pussy payments, that’s her problem. Maybe stop the stipend and tell her she can get one from someone else. See how she likes that option when you turn the tables on her.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:00 AM
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Sounds like she got what she wanted. This is a bad future ahead of you if she acts like this already. Every day you don’t get a divorce it will get harder.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:57 AM
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They get desperate enough they’ll find their way, just like you did. Or they’ll sink. Whatever. Their problem.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:55 AM
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I find that the truth works. Everything is not a shit test. Every day it’s someone posting shit like: “she asked me how the weather is - shit test guys?!? How do I A&A the weather!?!?” I’m not trying to bash you, dude, but I’m trying to make the point that if you think everything is a shit test, then you’ll come off as arrogant and not confident. If you feel your ego say “oof” - it’s a shit test.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:53 AM
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Upvote for my boy Rocco.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:48 AM
1

Agree and amplify. He acts like a bitch, treat him like one.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:00 PM
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You are wrong. Don’t generalize. The problem is that you’re thinking about what they want. It’s about what YOU want. Go and get it.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:54 PM
1

Another explanation.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:47 PM
1

Explanation around minute 13
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:46 PM
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Just don’t be awkward. Don’t say you’re sorry. Don’t check in and see if she’s feeling OK. Don’t ruin the moment by overthinking things. Just have fun. Things are different for different people. What one person considers sucking the other person considers amazing. It’s all relative.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:41 PM
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Buy her some fucking new sheets. Then rip those with her ass again.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:39 PM
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You’ll suck. Deal with it. Enjoy the ride. Wear a condom.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:37 PM
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This sounds like someone I wouldn’t want to spend five seconds with. Cut bait and move on.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:51 PM
1

The software eventually resets itself.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:28 AM
4

Who gives a fuck? You like what you like.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:13 PM
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This. I have it tattooed on myself. DEEDS NOT WORDS Never listen to what they say. Watch what they do. The truth lies in actions, not words.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:12 PM
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One wife is painful enough. Why you want to add another to your mess?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:10 PM
1

Tell your friends. You not telling them means you’re ashamed. Own your faults. The only way you’re going to fix it. Build support. You got this. Live a life so exciting that you wouldn’t dare drink to miss any of it. I’m rooting for you.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:09 PM
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Google DARVO.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:06 PM
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How often you getting the stiff arm? She getting outside dick? Sort that out first. DO NOT ACT BUTTHURT. Shrug your shoulders and excuse yourself to go do something of meaning. If she rejects you, and you stick around, you’re giving her what she wants without you getting what you want. Withdraw attention accordingly.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:04 PM
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I did a month of playground sessions and then I realized that I needed a personal touch. Playground sessions is awesome, though, and I almost recommend a month or two before you get an instructor. I wouldn’t go longer, though, as you’ll likely start to develop bad habits that you’ll have to unlearn. But to get the notes and rhythm down, I found it incredible. I researched piano teachers in the area and found a sweet little old lady who kicks my ass on technique. I’m learning music theory and hav…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:59 PM
5

Taking piano. Building my home gym.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:23 PM
1

It is objectively good, and I wish more wrote posts like that. Excellent read.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:56 PM
1

I’m a 43 year old man taking beginner piano lessons from a little old lady who says I’m her oldest student ever and still insists on putting stickers on my lesson books while I play “Three Blond Mice.” Fuck anyone who cares what I do. I enjoy it. And any woman that wants to hang out with me know that Thursday evenings are lesson days, and to not bother calling me.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:23 AM
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If he’s a legit narcissist, you ain’t gonna teach him a lesson. Let it roll off you.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:57 AM
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I can respect that. But only for so long. Get it together. The only person in life you should give a fuck about is yourself. The sooner you internalize that, the happier you will be.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:49 AM
3

You could be pulling a chick who is WAY hotter than your ex, but you’re too busy crying over what she’s doing.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:10 AM
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Pretend she never said that and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:09 AM
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This is a boundary. She just crossed it. What are you gonna do?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:05 AM
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That truth was so painful, I winced when I read it. But the truth needs to be said. This is the only answer, OP.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:20 PM
0

If you have to ask, you’ll never know.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:07 AM
1

Because you’re a pussy.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:05 AM
1

Lose some weight. Watch this video.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:37 PM
1

Leave it alone so she can find it later and dump you again. Kidding. Burn it.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:34 PM
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The best victories follow the best failures. Learn from it and do better.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:55 PM
1

She’s a doctor? Ask her.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 08:23 PM
2

“I must be If I’m talking to you.” Soft next.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 08:21 PM
1

Best. Advice. Ever.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:52 PM
1

Things are only embarrassing if you are embarrassed.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:47 AM
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Me too. I gotta get myself figured the fuck out.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:01 PM
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Don’t worry, Scrow! There’s plenty of tarded people leading kickass lives. My first wife was tarded. She’s a pilot now.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:09 PM
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Move on.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:01 AM
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Anytime. I’m rooting for you.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:57 AM
2

Reacting only validates what was said about you.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:54 AM
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That’s cause you made it all about the chicks, not yourself. Focus on yourself and your goals. Girls are a side effect, not the goal.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:54 AM
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Guys fuck plates and date girls they like. Girls fuck the guy they like, and go to dinner with orbiters.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:53 AM
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This comment proves that your flair is earned.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:51 AM
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You can’t tell a person what to do. You can only tell them what you will do. Example: I can’t tell a girl not to cheat. I can tell a girl that if she cheats, I’ll never speak to her ass again. Get it? Boundaries aren’t meant to tell people what to do, but they tell people the consequences of things that they do that impact you. If you are high value enough, they will respect those boundaries and if they don’t, you prove you’re high value by enforcing them.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:49 AM
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The only bar this weekend you need to head to is the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:46 AM
2

It helps only if you have frame control.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:15 PM
2

Better to feel guilt than regret. Guilt goes away. Regret, not so often.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:16 PM
1

Any improvement is improvement, pussy.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:12 PM
2

This. This question gets asked all the time by people who just want to validate bad decisions. DON’T fucking do it.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:10 PM
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Normally, I hate the way the sub pushes testosterone on everybody. However, if you’re waking up without morning wood it could indicate that you are actually clinically deficient in testosterone, and should get your levels back to normal through medical supervision. I do advise you to go to your doctor and just have your levels checked.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:16 AM
1

Here’s the trick. You just do it. Eventually you get to a point where all of the reading, all of the advice, and all of the possible ways you could figure out how to do these things are just mere distractions keeping you from actually doing them. In the end, you just have to do it once and embrace the outcome. Then realize it wasn’t so bad. Then do it again. Then do it again. And do it again. Embrace your fear of the outcome, and just jump.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:13 AM
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Doctor. Own my own practice.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:10 AM
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No more mr nice guy by glover. Read it. Then read it again. Internalize it. Then read it again.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:33 PM
4

It’s your ego. You love a woman being crazy about you.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:55 PM
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Holy FUCK how true this is. Sometimes, boring is better.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:52 PM
1

your kids would be much better off being from a broken home than in one.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:40 AM
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Divorced at 39 after almost 20 years. Killing it now. It only ends when you want it to.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:44 PM
1

The best revenge is to live well. If you truly don't give a shit about her, leave it alone and move on. Shows her you give less of a fuck and will really burn more if you're apathetic. Going to ruin a stranger's relationship is you just being butthurt. That's just me.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:18 PM
3

Paralysis by analysis.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:52 PM
3

Been there, almost the exact same situation, down to the cat (which I lost in the divorce). Just keep telling yourself what my therapist told me: “just because it feels bad, doesn’t mean it’s wrong.” You will doubt your actions completely many times because you have this need to be loved. The problem is, you don’t love yourself. You’re faking it, which is a good start - it will take a lot of time to become something internal. You’re going through all of this because your ego wants you to believe…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 02:54 PM
1

No. Then you won’t have learned from it.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:12 PM
1

This is good.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:23 AM
1

Someone once said: “if you lie down with her, don’t lie to her” ...and I’m talking about your wife, here
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:20 AM
1

That’s normal. It’s all part of the process. Feel the emotions like waves. Don’t fight them. Feel them, and let them pass. The waves will get smaller and the water will become calm eventually. And in calm waters, we find ourselves and, hopefully, someone else to be with. I’m rooting for you.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:15 AM
1

She left you bro. Get the fuck over it. No amount of whining will ever bring her back. You feel all this anger and regret because you still haven’t learned your lesson. You only think you did and telling yourself you did will only make you think that you somehow earned the right to have her back. She’s moved on. She’s fucking other dudes. She’s staring into some other guy’s eyes and she’s telling that guy all the wonderful things she told you, and there’s literally only two things you can do her…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:11 AM
4

I am smiling.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:02 AM
10

Because you’re gay.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:01 AM
1

Amazing advice.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:21 AM
3

The best revenge is to live well.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:19 AM
6

Not if you create your own passion.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 04:31 AM
1

Mindfulness
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:48 PM
3

Yes. Closure is bullshit. Cut your losses. I’d rather not talk about it.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:18 AM
3

Take it from me: this road leads to trouble.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:16 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:58 PM
4

Who gets hickeys? What are we, in third grade? Post a real question like bite marks and nail marks all over you.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:01 AM
2

She wants to get pregnant.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:59 AM
1

What you’re asking is if a red flag, which by definition is a warning sign for bad things, can be ignored. Sure you can ignore them. But you’ll learn your lesson eventually. Your ego is telling you you can fix something you’re not equipped to fix. It’s like thinking you can change a flat tire with a butter knife.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:57 AM
4

Well said.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:55 AM
1

This is good advice. She’s overstepped her boundaries and OP is letting her. Not good.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:54 PM
3

Anxiety and depression is like alcohol. Everybody should have some, but when it takes over your life and prevents you from being happy, it’s a problem that needs to get fixed. That being said, you may really benefit from a low-dose depression medication. I know many people on here will downvote me for this, and I think you need a therapist more importantly, but it sounds like clinical depression that is something you need help to improve. The reason so many people continue to be depressed is bec…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:02 AM
1

Ugh. Just reading those complaints second hand drained me. Get rid of that shit - let her go complain to someone else how she was so sweet to you and you just didn’t like her.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:14 PM
6

It’s not that you sound stupid. He gave you an answer and you’re telling him why you don’t accept his answer, like he’s going to change it. Don’t waste your time on Snapchat. If someone doesn’t want to text you, then they don’t get to talk to you. Simple.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:11 PM
4

You got your answer, dude.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:03 PM
1

Social media is the worst poison you can introduce into your life. Delete it.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:16 PM
1

Excellent post. Op should listen to this. Thank you for posting.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:08 PM
2

My opinion: any time you think about calling her, punch yourself in the dick instead. It will be better for you than contacting her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:00 PM
1

Yeah, and she didn’t have it. So why do you want that mess back in your life?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:28 PM
2

This bitch bailed on you when you needed her to lean on. I fail to see the ride or die here.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:50 PM
1

First off, have more than one set of sheets, you uncivilized bitches. Rotate and wash weekly. ​ Personally, I like to do a gator roll in the sheets and get them all nice and stinky like. Superman that hoe.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:05 PM
8

You're right. Easier said than done. You should just marry her. What kind of fucking stupid bullshit is this? You told her that once college hits, it's over, but now you're claiming you can't run? Get the fuck out of here with your bullshit rationalization. Anyone that drives you to the point of violence has control over you, and you are now fucked because you will never be able to control yourself around this person. It's over. End that shit. Anyone that hits you DOES NOT GET A SECOND CHANCE. E…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:14 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:04 PM
1

FYI, just finished the book. Great read, and thanks again for the recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:52 PM
1

Agreed. Break you back. Make you humble.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:51 PM
8

There's a subreddit that has all the masterclasses online for free. ​ ...just saying.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:54 PM
31

You've created a false dilemma. Who's to say you can't do both? You can teach a kid to be successful and advantageous, while instilling in them a sense of moral character as well. I would want a well rounded child who is exposed to as much as possible, with a high self esteem being the ultimate goal, in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:53 PM
2

I answered your question.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:54 PM
3

That question is tough to answer. If your asking me, as a physician, I fully support health care for all. I think healthcare is at basic human right, and everyone should be afforded that right. However, as a business owner, it can be difficult because now you have a single payer healthcare system, and that can create issues. For example, Medicare is the largest insurance carrier that Americans have. It is government run. Like the post office, they set the rates. If they decide they want to pay l…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:54 PM
2

That requires a lengthy answer that I can’t do right now on my phone. It’s a little more complex than a yes or no. I’ll answer it when I can.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:57 PM
2

Nah. I just bought it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:44 PM
1

Lesson learned. Don’t tell him shit anymore. Or better yet, only tell him what you want others to hear.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:58 PM
37

Business owner here. I am a doctor and I own my own medical office. It’s not quite the same, as my product for sale is my knowledge. I’m like a prostitute. I can sell my product and I still have it at the end of the transaction. But that does not mean I didn’t have my own problems getting started. Read The E Myth before doing anything.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:55 PM
9

Every theater girl I’ve known has been a mess. I stay the fuck away. Take that as you will.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:01 AM
7

This. He’s working very hard to hit the wrong targets.
/r/askMRP18/04/20 02:16 PM
5

Zero benefit. All downside. You’ll never get her out.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:56 AM
2

Jesus. Reading that makes me want to fuck you. This man speaks the truth. OP, you ain’t getting a better answer than this.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:44 PM
6

In my 40’s. Been here five years. Only care about the self improvement stuff and the mission.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:38 PM
3

I don’t know why I like it. But I do.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:35 PM
2

More like see the opportunity in adversity, but hey - interpret as you wish. I don’t live your life.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:50 PM
3

Who the fuck cares?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:13 PM
5

By your existence, you’re good enough. If you weren’t good enough for life, you wouldn’t be alive. Simple as that. You didn’t cheat your way into life. You determine your worth. It’s like being able to pay yourself your salary. Once you realize you control your worth, you will begin to demand it. Until then, tell yourself that in the mirror every day.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:19 PM
1

Thanks for helping me understand. I’ll try to follow it next time.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 04:13 AM
1

Help me understand where I went wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 12:38 AM
5

I’m going to go have urethra surgery all over my girls face now.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:26 PM
2

I’ve been just taking this as an opportunity to see how low I can get my bf%. I have an elliptical I’ve been using every day and I’m using TRX I almost forgot I had. They say that abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym. So I’m trying to get there.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 10:40 PM
2

I would much rather do that than sitting at home, alone, tearful, looking for validation on social media, watching Love is Blind on Netflix, and missing the soft, gentle touch of another man while I find comfort in another sleeve of Oreos. I hear grubhub is doing free delivery. Could it be a Taco Bell night? Your ship has come in.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 06:07 PM
1

Good for you! Seems you found the key to happiness, and it’s working out wonderfully for you. You seem happy and fulfilled. Keep it up. Thank you for reminding me how poorly people can sometimes cope with adversity. How little they learn to adjust and adapt. You’ll never be happy with anyone until you’re happy with yourself. And you just seem to love yourself so so much, I think you’ve encouraged me to adapt your keys to success and wallow in my own self pity and refuse to find the silver lining…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 05:40 PM
1

It’s funny you read it that way. I didn’t suggest you ignore anything, least of all yourself and your needs. In fact, I suggest you cater to those needs, just the ones you’re able to at this rather unusual time.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 04:58 PM
5

“Discipline is simply choosing between what you want now vs what you want the most.”
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 04:56 PM
2

Just bought it. Thanking you now.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 03:01 PM
11

The only way to do it. People create lofty goals and just plug away thinking the goal will come to them. They never plan, and it's often overwhelming to start. When you work backwards like this, it breaks it down into easier tasks that have purpose.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 08:34 PM
15

What state is that? State of denial?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 07:27 PM
1

I did. Thanks for letting me know.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:48 PM
1

Then mods can delete my post.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:36 PM
2

It was an answer to the same six questions I have been reading every day for the last two weeks.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:23 PM
10

It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:09 PM
1

Imagine your your dumb bullshit working on 95 percent of the population.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:14 PM
1

Avoid. Cut bait and run.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:31 PM
27

It doesn’t get 5% wrong. 5 percent of people don’t fit the paradigm.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:28 PM
9

I’m married
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:22 PM
2

You ever been in a relationship where you are afraid the other one doesn’t like you as much as you like them? They have the advantage.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:18 PM
13

If op feels like that, then he will learn that lesson in life in his own time.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:31 PM
1

Shamelessly stolen from somewhere on reddit. I don’t know the OP, but credit to them and I hope they speak up so I can thank them: Fuck Motivation It's a fickle and unreliable little state that isn't worth your time. Better to cultivate discipline than to rely on motivation. Force yourself to do things, to get out of bed, to go the gym, to work harder and smarter; force yourself to do stuff when you don't feel like doing anything. Motivation is fleeting, and it's easy to rely on because it requi…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:28 PM
2

I find it easier to just find someone who’s like that rather than try to change someone.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:15 PM
13

Then do you. Who are we to tell you what to do? You want validation for your behavior? Get it from the people you work so hard to get it from, not strangers on the internet.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:05 PM
1

When you reflect on life, you’ll notice that often your lowest points were also some of your highest.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:07 AM
1

You are grieving. This is the depression stage of loss. Just feel it and let it go. It will get better in time.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:05 AM
2

I had been in a toxic marriage and got divorce raped. I felt that since I got hurt so bad, it gave me a license to be an abusive asshole, to lie and do shit I regret. Like I was owed something. Some would call it the anger phase. I describe it as your last major covert contract to the world as a nice guy; that you did everything you were supposed to and you got fucked. It hurts to let that one go and you act out and try not to feel guilty. But all you have to do is realize that shit happens beca…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:59 PM
0

This....is awesome.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:11 PM
10

Middle eastern divorcee here who went through everything you did. Going through similar emotions with a recent breakup of my own. You’re reading the situation all wrong. This time alone is the PERFECT time to refocus and find out what you really want. Feel your feelings. Practice mindfulness and figure out what you’re feeling. Don’t try to forget her. Remember the good times and realize that you can and will have them again with someone who deserves your time, and someone whose time you deserve.…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:09 PM
1

One thing about trp - nobody at all has sympathy if you’re feeling sorry for yourself. But if you’re genuinely trying to improve, they are the most supportive group of motherfuckers on the planet. A sincere thank you.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:43 PM
8

Pathetic married overweight smoking moron who was a beta fuck, as blue as it gets married to a bpd nightmare. Five years or so ago, I PM’d jack10hearts (MRP) for advice and was kindly called a pussy in a lengthy dissection of my message to him. I still read it from time to time. Now, I divorced the wife, lost all my income, and have managed to crawl back from the dead. I’ve lost about 30 pounds, and gained about 15 in muscle. I get compliments routinely. I had a major chip on my shoulder, and th…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:59 AM
2

I second every word of what this guy just said. Edit: especially the part on Karma. Karma is not a cosmic ATM of good deeds. Learn to read people.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:53 PM
1

Can I PM you about this?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:04 PM
2

Saved. An excellent response.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:25 PM
9

Her concerns are valid and borne put of insecurities. If you're doing things right, she should be feeling that way all the time. Her behavior and how she deals with it, however, is absolutely unacceptable. She needs to apologize to you and your friend. She needs to state her rationale, and offer proof other than jealousy, or admit jealousy. If it can be salvaged is up to you. Personally, unless there's a giant misunderstanding, it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:23 PM
2

Jesus. 100 pounds? Respect.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:48 PM
2

the poor carpenter blames his tools I like it. I'm going to remember that.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:47 PM
7

thank you for sharing this.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:38 PM
28

Intermittent reinforcement
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:23 PM
3

Exactly. I would never give you the wrong advices.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:05 PM
2

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:44 PM
7

Gold looks like shit compared to diamond. I like this
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:44 PM
1

Said it perfectly
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:42 PM
2

Took me ten years of work. Which is why I get frustrated when posts go: "I've been working out for one month my smv should be a billion"
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:37 PM
6

Just look forward to how fun it's going to be building yourself back up when you can. Take the time to really work your diet. Figure out what you need to do. Rewrite your whole routine and when it's time, you just handle it.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:39 AM
6

Doing fucking awesome. I woke up.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:35 AM
3

But there's porn, so they masturbate, get their carbohydrate overload then go to bed at 4am. You just described my life to a T about ten years ago.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:55 PM
1

Depends on your goals.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:31 PM
3

Simple. Don't let it bother you.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:02 PM
5

Quarantine freezer clean out time. Lots of frozen veggies and spinach and whatever meat I pulled to thaw. Avoiding any takeout/fast food. Lots of chili, etc. I’m not hitting my protein goal, which sucks because I’m not lifting. I’m doing trx, pull up bar, and elliptical and I’m cutting fat and muscle. Writing this made me just commit to trying to hit those goals. Edit: I also do intermittent fasting.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:45 PM
1

Shhh.... do you hear that? It’s the worlds smallest violin playing for your pathetic ass. Poor you. I guess we should start a go fund me and pay for you to have all your problems fixed. Waah waah waah. I don’t feel sorry for you in the least. You feel sorry for yourself enough for everyone here. Your pity party is the biggest I have ever seen.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:18 PM
2

I don’t know why people love to just let their ego take over and make the same mistakes thinking there will be different consequences.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:09 PM
2

I think I have an extra frame you can borrow. You seem to have lost yours.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:52 AM
2

I wish you put in as much effort making excuses than you did trying to change your life. You half ass everything, try nothing new, don’t bother to innovate, and you have the balls to pull this woe is me, life handed me shit genetics fucking pussy-assed bullshit. You mean to tell me that in the entire universe you happen to be the one genetic anomaly that somehow prohibits you from making any fucking progress in life? Fuck you for thinking that, and fuck you twice for thinking I would buy it for …
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:50 AM
1

Apparently neither do you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:38 PM
0

If you actually believed that you wouldn’t be asking the question
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:58 PM
1

Plates can do whatever they want. She’s not your girlfriend and you being a bitch about things guarantees that will never happen.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:41 PM
2

Reach out but have fucking boundaries man. It keep him as a friend but don’t count on him to have your back. Expect nothing and don’t be hurt.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:41 PM
3

Do it tomorrow. What’s the big deal here?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:38 PM
1

If you fake everything, sure. They don’t like you for you. But if you are a person of character, and you made those changes for YOU, not them, then they like you for you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:36 PM
9

What help do you need? If you don’t have money, the solution is to get money. If you don’t have someone, go and get someone. You know the problem and the solution. Internet strangers can tell you all the advice that you want, but until you actually get over whatever fears you have and start reaching out to people in person and interacting with purpose, you’re never going to get out of the situation you are currently in. ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF REACHING OUT AND TALKING TO PEOPLE THAT THE EASIER SOLU…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:15 PM
2

It means read all the links in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:53 PM
2

10000% this.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:52 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:03 PM
1

A guy that adds Sidebar Lifts to his routine.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:01 PM
1

HIIT training.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:58 PM
1

Mindfulness
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:58 PM
1

What you're asking is: I give a fuck and I want to show that I don't. The answer is: you won't....when you no longer give a fuck.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:57 PM
1

Only if you want to be.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:53 PM
4

I did before I read this reply.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:47 PM
1

And who says you can never get those things? Oh, that’s right. It’s you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:37 PM
4

Shave your head, stop being a fucking pussy, and grow the fuck up you asshole. You aren’t shit and nobody is ever going to give you anything, and you are owed nothing. Absolutely nothing. It’s up to you where your life goes. You can have excuses or you can have results. Not both.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:36 PM
6

I guess it doesn’t work then, you pathetic piece of shit. Like you told someone else: “you can’t just excel at something. You’re either born with it or you aren’t.” You want answers and results right now and you don’t realize that the shit you want to fix takes YEARS. And you’re behind the curve. Instead of going and doing you’re wasting your time on here. You said it yourself: “you’re either born with it or you aren’t.” I guess you just ain’t born with it and refuse to play the cards you’re dea…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:22 PM
8

You did it for me in your pathetic fucking rant. Everyone gave you options and all you did was tell them how you just can’t, rather than how you can. You have an excuse for everything.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:49 PM
10

What a giant pile of fucking excuses.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:44 AM
4

Sidebar
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:39 AM
2

Watch the Martin Lawrence special where he does a bit called: “Ladies. Wash your ass.”
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:53 AM
6

Be the guy girls want to send nudes to.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:49 AM
1

Love and hate are the same emotion. You’re in better than you know.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:48 AM
1

Semantics. My point still stands.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:28 AM
2

The fuck you mean it’s efficient in the long term? No. Being compassionate, by definition is being genuinely compassionate. No thought or consideration that you want anything in return. Being genuine. A covert contract is a weak manipulation where you provide something, be it a gift or compliment, unprovoked in an effort to gain something for yourself, be it validation or future favors. That’s weak and stupid.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:33 AM
1

I’d listen to all of this amazing advice if I were you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:57 AM
1

The whole point is to be yourself, whatever that is. If it makes you happy to let someone know you appreciate them, then who the fuck are we to tell you not to? But only if you truly feel that way, and aren’t asking for recognition or validation, because that’s the beta shit everyone talks about. That’s some covert contract nice guy shit.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:54 AM
1

Typically I answer with what I’m into sexually.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:51 AM
1

Your question is a false dilemma. The whole point of both of your examples is they key to not giving a fuck. The key is this: when you find something you love, like yourself or your mission (whatever that may be), you only give a fuck about that thing and you give ZERO fucks about anything else. Hank Moody only gave a fuck about his carefree childhood and his happiness and he didn’t care about whatever else was going on. Tyler Durden didn’t give a fuck about anything but fight club and it’s prin…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:48 AM
3

I feel you. Maybe just call him out on his bullshit, either in front of everyone or when you have his attention alone. Just look him dead in the eye and ask: “is there a problem, here?”
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:41 PM
1

This belongs in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:58 PM
8

My dog’s butthole feels better. And it is nothing compared to how it felt after I taught him to blow me. That’s right, him. I don’t judge.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:52 PM
6

Get a dog.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:46 PM
3

It’s not ignoring. If someone calls you a twelve year old girl, you’d laugh it off because you know your clearly not. It’s the same thing. It only bothers you because you think it might be true, or worry that others would. But if you’re a man of character, and you KNOW it’s bullshit, and you are a man where the people who know you KNOW it’s bullshit, then you would react the same. And your genuine honest reaction that you KNOW it’s bullshit will show everyone that doesn’t know you that it’s bull…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:38 PM
6

Buddha was well known for his ability to respond to evil with good. There was a man who knew about his reputation and he traveled miles and miles and miles to test Buddha. When he arrived and stood before Buddha, he verbally abused him constantly, he insulted him, he challenged him, he did everything he could to offend Buddha. Buddha was unmoved, he simply turned to the man and said, “May I ask you a question?” The man responded with “Well, what?” Buddha said, “If someone offers you a gift and y…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:13 PM
5

Happens to the best of us.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:22 PM
13

You don’t pull away as a game. Games are for pets. You withdraw attention for bad behavior or because you’re a busy man working on your life and you ain’t got time for nonsense.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:17 PM
2

This. Very well said. While amused mastery can work in most situations, I find that it can inflame the situation, or, at a minimum, give the impression of guilt. Simply say: “I didn’t do that. Believe what you want; I’m not going to try convince you otherwise.”. Then drop it.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:14 PM
3

Just keep moving with the attitude that if she wants me then she’ll respond if not then the last 1.5 years is just thrown away? Yes. She threw it away. Not you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:07 PM
1

Frame beats Game. And frame is found thataway —->
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:15 PM
1

Are you working out? Time to do sidebar lifts.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:47 PM
2

In my opinion, shredded to all fuck looks better than being huge. Every trainer I know gets told “make me look like Brad Pitt in fight club.” But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:45 PM
2

A bitch move, in my opinion. If you have to go to that length to avoid holding frame, you never had the frame in the first place.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:43 PM
2

Glad I could help.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:11 PM
5

Spoken like a true soldier.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:41 AM
3

Comfort test following a shit test; you passed both. If she calls you the next day, the sex was as good as you said it was. Start thinking about if you really like this girl, because very soon you’re going to be put in a position to either let this plate break, or stop spinning it and put it on your shelf as an LTR .
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:38 AM
207

There’s an excellent opportunity to learn a lesson, and change your life in the best way possible. Great stories start like this. Shitty ones end like this. Up to you which story you live.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:43 AM
5

Literally just got done posting this in another subreddit: If there’s any kind of silver lining, it was seeing so many people outside in the park while walking my dog. Everyone just being a little...nicer... to each other. Like we all know we are in this mess together. Enjoying the outdoors and human contact after staring at a screen indoors. It was a nice, hopeful sight that has really helped me to think less of how this is bringing out the worst in some people. Bonus: Nobody got too close and …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:19 AM
1

Hit me up. Hopefully I’ll see something new.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:08 AM
0

Because you let them.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:06 AM
-1

It’s about learning how to help yourself.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:11 PM
4

A great book I like to read is called “How to use the search function”
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:56 PM
8

A guy has been telling everyone that I've never talked to a woman, and that's true. Then make it fucking UNTRUE
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:53 PM
3

Rest day, homie. Rest is just as important for gains.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:23 PM
1

This is good, brother. Thanks for posting it.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:39 PM
2

Be someone worth chasing.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 12:14 PM
17

always Always ALWAYS watch what they do, not what they say. You think women/people lie because you think they communicate with words, when they really communicate with actions. This has always been the way.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 12:13 PM
6

“You can have excuses, or you can have results. You can’t have both.” —Arnold Schwarzenegger While your bitch ass is half assing at life, others are getting up earlier, working harder, and doing whatever it takes to achieve greatness. I have told many naturally talented people that I wake up every day grateful that they don’t put in effort, because I will always work harder and longer to beat their asses. And I fucking do. Frankly, I hope you continue to be a half-assed bitch. You don’t want to …
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:39 AM
2

If you’re asking the question, you aren’t a narcissist.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:27 AM
1

And this, gentleman, is the difference between knowing trp and understanding trp.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:02 PM
2

Making sure my diet is rock solid and cutting with light cardio. I pulled out my trx straps and am doing pull-ups from my door bar. Reading a lot and working my finances. Getting loans deferred and making new dishes for dinner.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:23 PM
3

Right? IIRC, red pill has some advice somewhere to go camping alone. Be with your thoughts and find out who you are as a man. Sounds like the perfect time.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:49 AM
5

Now you’re getting it.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:28 PM
13

I have no clue how you think that me acting on my knowledge as a physician and giving medically sound advice is not red pill. I fail to see the correlation.I’m not looking at the news, and I’m damn sure not looking at our useless government to help. Since when did red pill go from being your best self to being paranoid conspiracy theorists?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:22 PM
21

Tell you what. How about I trust what I learned in med school and you trust whatever the internet tells you. And, for the record, they don’t touch on diabetes, HTN, and obesity because it’s not contagious. But unfortunately stupidity is. But, whatever. Don’t believe the mainstream media. Do your own research from credible sources rather than Facebook or “I’m right dot com” and come up with your own conclusions. You don’t have to think what I think. You just have to think for yourself.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:08 PM
8

https://youtu.be/28gvMM8KXm4 Watch this about ten times.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:47 PM
9

It’s only shameful if you’re ashamed of your behavior.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:42 PM
63

While I understand the frustration- believe me, I do - but fuck, man. Get it together. It’s a fucking quarantine for the better of society and your health. Shit like this happens. Adversity is a part of life. To say that actually staying home and interacting with your family is going to be something to cause you to relapse is just you looking for an excuse. You clearly don’t know how to cope with adversity. This would be a good time to try and find out why. Practice of mindfulness, and figure ou…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:40 PM
4

Start with this perfectly crafted opener: “Hi. I’m an insecure fuck with zero to offer you. I tell dudes how I’m a model and fuck all kinds of women all day every day. I notice you have a pussy. Want to date me and have two?”
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:43 AM
11

Patrice O'Neal
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:40 PM
1

Make new ones. Hang out with them more. Let the old ones go. Branch swing.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:40 PM
19

People can only talk behind your back when you're ahead of them.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 05:01 PM
1

"I'm extremely flattered. however I have a personal rule against dating people I work with. Please don’t take this personally."
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:58 PM
1

Through fear. Kidding. Then greatest motivation is to inspire. And that starts on the inside.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:55 PM
6

/thread
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:38 AM
1

No you won't. That's why you asked this three times. You're looking for the answer you want to hear.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:55 PM
1

Sure buddy? How's that working out for you? You knocked up some plate and refuse to take responsibility for your shitty actions. Then you ask randos on the internet for advice you're surely not going to follow because you're too fucking stupid to realize what you did. Life is going to be very hard for you because you don't want to learn anything. You're not about improvement. You're a pussy. Advice on you is wasted.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:44 PM
1

"I grew up without a father and it was difficult." Knowing you know how difficult it was and still are willing to do it makes you a bigger asshole than I thought you were. I respect your honesty, but that's all I respect. Do her a favor and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:30 PM
1

You DID fuck up. You didn't control the situation by wearing a condom and thought you could trust a person and now she's pregnant. Now all you're doing is thinking about pussy when she's about to have your kid. Do you even think father than ten minutes into the future? Do you even care you're going to be a dad? Get your head out of your ass and grow up. It's no longer about pussy and you have changed your life, her life, and now a child's life. Listen to what everyone else has already said.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:15 PM
5

That will not go over well.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:00 PM
1

Relevant username.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:59 PM
3

Most of the time, I would simply advise you to rise above and be everything he says you aren't, and show him that you are, and can be, a better person than he thinks you are. However, I'm getting the vibe that your uncle is dealing with some deep issues that go way beyond you, and he is never going to give you the validation that you think he is. It seems that he's using the past against you because the past hurt him and he's looking for someone to blame - your father ain't around, but you are. …
/r/askTRP19/03/20 06:00 PM
1

You go back to that relationship, you'll find yourself closer to suicidal than you ever were. Iron rules exist for a reason. Move on. Fuck your ego.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:58 PM
4

"You're right. It was irresponsible. I agree. I didn't call. Yes. I did that. I understand how it would piss you off." Basic fogging without apologies.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:04 PM
1

Your gut is telling you something. Perhaps you should listen to it.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:01 PM
1

Does it matter? You said yourself you don't really like her.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:45 PM
4

You can't negotiate desire. Move on for both of your sake.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:43 PM
12

Congrats. You have an LDR. And now you have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:42 PM
3

You don't want to go. Don't go. What's the problem here?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:42 PM
11

Deal with the consequences like a man.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:41 PM
2

Homie. It's called punctuation. Learn how to use it.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:09 PM
1

There is none. I made it up.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:30 PM
2

I think the stat is likely really that women will not date 96% of guys shorter than them. But if you're in that 4%, it's easy.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:39 PM
2

I felt that comment a little too much. I realized that I still have more work to do.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:37 AM
1

Start the process now. What else you going to do? In the meantime, continue self care even when it hurts the worst. I got though some very tough times by going to the gym with one thought in mind: "nothing, absolutely nothing, can kick my ass more than I can kick my own." And I would work out the hardest on the worst days of my life knowing nothing can get the better of me - even the feelings of emotional pain. I always win. Prepare as if it's war and you're a soldier. You hate it but you have t…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:30 AM
1

Haven't gotten it. But when I do, I'll give you an honest, sincere answer.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:24 AM
1

And yet you're going to ruminate about my comment all night. Think about how much of an asshole I am. Check my post history and think about what a piece of shit I am. And that's your fucking problem.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:18 AM
1

Is there a question in any of this pity party?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:10 AM
2

Clinical depression. Find a different doctor.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:08 AM
1

Why does everyone on this sub think the rules don't apply to them?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:07 AM
4

Doctor here. Shit is real.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 01:40 AM
2

Move on.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:58 PM
6

Comes with the job. I knew what I signed up for.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:33 PM
1

Is reflux your only issue?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:18 PM
2

Indeed.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:51 PM
19

I'm a doctor, and business is a'booming.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:54 PM
1

I like this.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:08 AM
1

I didn’t get past scenario one, but if someone said some racist shit to me specifically, I would beat some ass. But that’s just me. However, I also look like someone you don’t want to say anything mean to unless you want to get fucked up. Edit: corrected dictation.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:11 AM
21

If you only have a dollar, you hold onto it pretty tight. If you’re a millionaire, you’re not so attached to that one dollar. Same principle.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:08 AM
1

It sounds like the first sentence of your post appears to be untrue.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:34 PM
4

No
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:50 AM
3

Arrogant is being in a room full of people and thinking you're better than everyone else. Confident is being in a room full of people and not comparing yourself to anyone at all.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:34 PM
1

It's like dealing with a puppy. If you run after it, it runs from you. Make the puppy come to you.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:35 AM
1

This....is very true. I stand corrected.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:10 AM
2

Then you need to re evaluate what it is you truly want.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:29 AM
1

By living a life you like.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:23 AM
4

Painful advice, but the best advice you'll get. You need to thank her and let her know you need to move on. This wouldn't bother you in the least of you didn't want to get back together with her, and trust me, you don't.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:20 AM
3

You bang her, and she will be your girlfriend. She already set the terms. You fuck her, and you end up saying yes without saying it. If that's what you want, I recommend it.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:24 AM
3

Strong move.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:50 AM
6

Fake it until you make it.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:49 AM
1

"Thank you"
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:52 AM
5

I love to cook. Because I fucking love to cook.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:50 AM
3

Guys fuck plates and go out with the woman they really like. Women go out with orbiters and fuck the guy they really like.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:17 PM
2

Case closed.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:48 PM
10

Such a sign of weakness. Such a loss of frame. And any girl that likes it has more issues than national geographic.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:46 PM
1

You could join her sorority.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:26 PM
55

It means you're a complete bitch.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:01 PM
2

Women aren’t the goal of TRP. It’s all about being happy and being your best self. Women are a side effect from that.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:37 PM
2

Good report. Getting a little tired of posts that are like: “oMg tHiS GiRl dIdn’T AcCePT MY ADVANcEs WHaT Do i do i lOve heR THErE’S NoBoDy eLsE THAT has bOoBs aNd a vAgInA”
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:26 PM
2

I’m going out happy.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:06 AM
1

Get tested homie.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:03 AM
2

"New phone who dis?" Or "Hey, Todd"
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:27 PM
6

I might get downvoted to hell for this, but don’t be the guy who ruins this chick over vagina. Religion and culture is a big deal to some, and you’d be ruining a lot for her if it’s just a lay. There are other ones out there. And don’t rationalize that you ‘could’ marry this chick just because you are horny, because then you’d be ruining two lives. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:07 PM
1

Hope it helps putting things into perspective.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:36 PM
2

Forrest Gump her. In the middle of passionate kissing, just push her off you on to the floor and when she asks what’s up, just say: “you taste like cigarettes.”
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:17 PM
2

I say it all the time: the hardest part about becoming who you want to be is accepting who you currently are. Take your ego out of the equation and take a good, hard look at yourself. Accept everything. Accept who you are. What you think. What you expect. What you feel. Now think about who you want to be. What do you have to have done in five years to be that person? What do you have to have done in 2.5 years to be that person? One year? Six months? One month? One day? Get to it. See you at the …
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:13 PM
3

This is outstanding advice.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:55 PM
7

Just casually, or not, tell her that you have a personal rule that you don’t date people you work with, under any circumstances. Edit: casually
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:37 PM
5

Could not agree with this more. To me, it's never about what to say or how to get women into bed. It is about being your best self. It's always been motivation to work out, have self respect, and goals. ​ Everything else is an effect, never a cause. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 07:59 PM
2

Classic troll.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:16 AM
7

This.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:14 AM
0

Been married to one. It’s tougher than you think. Pm me if you have specific questions.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:21 PM
5

Isn't that the one of the points of TRP, though? It IS going to happen, and you have to be the best version of yourself to try and prevent that from happening. Don't worry that she'll find someone better, but rather be someone better. And if it does happen, you learned where your deficiencies lie, you've accepted that it's just your turn, and you move on. Fear is the worst reason to limit yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:03 PM
9

They were cheating on a different person back then. But it appears to me that that person is still around - insecure, validation seeking, and someone who can spin all the plates in the world because he follows a program rather than update his firmware. It also sounds like you have oneitis. Make sure you are honest with yourself. The question isn't if she's cheating on you, it's why do you even care?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:38 PM
13

Same way you do as an adult. I’m getting a little sick of people asking shit like this and acting like they are going to get some magical advice that is different than what everyone else does. If you don’t want to be fat, don’t eat like a fat ass. If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. There’s a food scale on amazon for 10 dollars. Prime delivery, fuck head. Get on board and learn to have discipline. “You can have excuses, or you can have results. You can’t have both.” —Arnold Schwarzenegg…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:21 PM
4

It’s a shame nobody recommended the Black Philip archives, or anything Patrice O’Neal. Damn shame.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:45 AM
1

You forgot oral!!
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:20 PM
1

Care for her with pride. The sting of resentment now is nothing compared to the slow burn of regret.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:18 PM
1

Game respects game.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:51 PM
3

This. Leave it on read.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:48 PM
1

It really depends on what you’re fighting about, and how you’re fighting. Can you give an example?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:01 AM
1

Middle Eastern dude here. PM me.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:35 AM
3

How about plan D: don’t shit where you eat and be charming enough to date girls you meet in the real world rather than grind down the ones you see every day. That rule exists for a reason
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:37 AM
1

My advice would be to stop dating all women and take an English grammar course.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:37 PM
3

The hardest part of being who you want to be is accepting who you currently are. Accept it and change it. The only way.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:57 AM
3

Really real.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:48 AM
12

Just fucking ask her, you pussy. What’s the worst that could happen, she gives you less pussy than she’s currently giving you? Hint: it’s still zero.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:47 AM
8

Don’t take this bait. This is a manipulation tactic. She’s already angling to make this more than an FWB.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:10 PM
1

Look him dead in the eye and say: “Because that’s where she wanted to go.”
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:40 AM
1

Pick something and see if it’s what fits you. If it doesn’t, pick something else. Repeat as necessary. It’s never a bad decision to explore something, even if only to find out it’s not for you.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:36 AM
1

Married one. Learned my lesson.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:30 AM
2

You say that like it’s not in your control.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:50 AM
2

It’s not what you say, but how you say it. Confidence is the key here. It’s just like a shirt. If you’re a fat fuck, the shirt will look stupid on you. If you look amazing, The shirt wears you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:19 AM
1

Jack10hearts (or something like that) - saved my life
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:12 AM
1

Back in the day questions like those would get rained on by contributors calling them every name in the book and pointing out all of their flaws. I remember a time when 'beta faggot' was how most replies started, if not all. It's not happening as much these days. Perhaps the community needs to revisit some of the brutal honest advice that got me to realize how much of a candied pussy I used to be (and still can be at times).
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:42 PM
3

Absolutely love that quote.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:40 PM
1

This type of thinking is arrogance, not confidence. When you are confident in who you are and what you want, that shit becomes white noise.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:23 PM
2

Why not both? Read, lift, and internalize and jump back out there and learn in real life, in real time. Make a bunch of mistakes and learn real lessons. That will help internalize things quicker. There's no rule that says you can't learn as you go.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:21 PM
3

Then go fuck. Who am I to tell you what to do?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:16 PM
2

You appreciate it while you're on your feet. I'd rather live an amazing life and enjoy every second of it MY WAY than spend another minute of it losing myself trying to make someone else happy. I'm glad you got to bang some hot chicks. Your approach will get you laid, but it will NEVER keep them happy, or around. Nor will it make you happy. I guess it boils down to deciding what you want NOW or what you want MOST.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:14 PM
15

I respectfully disagree. He should end things now and quit while he still can. Chicks like this are so tempting because they drill down into your blue pilled past and validate it in an unhealthy way. You start catching feelings because your ego loves it. You start to rationalize reasons for keeping her around (I don’t want to rock the boat/she’s going to hurt herself), and you end up going full Blue Pill before you know it and start missing all the validation she gave you when she withdraws atte…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:38 PM
3

But are they happy? That's the question you should be asking instead of rationalizing your shitty decisions. Better rather die on your feet than live on your knees.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:31 PM
1

Fiber, water, smaller meals eaten at a SLOWER PACE. Google aerophagia.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:06 PM
1

Therapy. You have some toxic shame that you need to deal with. Find it and cut it out like the cancer it is.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:48 PM
2

Great reply
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:01 PM
3

It doesn’t matter what is thrown at you. What matters is what you catch.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:01 PM
2

Coffeeshop? Find one that offers franchises. They usually have the business model in place and provide training. After a few years, you can sell and do your own thing.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:45 PM
1

Google Patrice O'Neal women rating system. Simply the best.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:27 PM
2

There's an excellent tool for that. It's called a hard next. "What they did was not that big of a deal." Hell of a way to rationalize someone breaking a boundary. It's almost as if you're trying to excuse inexcusable behavior.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:24 PM
3

This.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 08:42 PM
3

"I picked a fight with my wife." Stopped reading there. You and your ego have some work to do.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 05:18 PM
9

Because it's not demanded. If my needs aren't met, I go elsewhere to get them met. I don't threaten the person I'm with to start changing to meet my needs or I'm gone. One situation tries to change someone else's behavior. The other situation only focuses on your behavior. Big difference.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:56 PM
1

Rather than look for inconsistencies, I look for areas where I align. Mainly, self improvement and focus on my life’s goals. It’s like a buffet. Take what you want and leave the rest.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:56 PM
1

Wisdom.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:31 PM
42

Money will get them. Money won't keep them.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:16 PM
1

YouTube "Real Men Real Style"
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:27 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:31 PM
3

This is gold.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:35 PM
2

Thanks for clarifying. You still shouldn't get moody about someone's past. Think of it this way: she was only banging him because she hadn't met you yet. Edit: "she promoted herself" bothers me. You do the promoting.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:21 PM
1

Am I the only one who thinks a FWB is another term for plate? Either way, why the fuck do you care?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:16 PM
3

What the fuck did I just read. I'm confused as hell. Answer is no.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:55 PM
7

To me this is the difference between reading and internalizing. You're not a chef, you're just following a recipe and that's why you're not happy.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:53 PM
9

And yet his gay, penis slurping ass made you. Imagine that. He likely married a woman and had you because he was afraid of what people would say about him if he were to be gay in the open back then. So he hid it and married someone to fit in and be miserable sexually and emotionally. It doesn't mean he regretted any of it, but he likely was never 100 percent happy and now he is going to get to that 100. Good for him. Now he's finally coming out and living the life he deserves to live, and his ow…
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:35 PM
8

Your dad would love no less you if you were gay. Give him the same respect, you fucking asshole, and stop trying to have random people on the internet tell you how to feel. He’s your dad, for fuck’s sake.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:27 PM
19

Become a Mormon.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:19 PM
3

I appreciate how you’re cleaning up the place. Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:28 AM
2

Show her how you do it.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:17 AM
1

Therapy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:05 PM
12

It's not even regret. You shouldn't look at it as regret. I was in a nine year marriage with an abusive BPD psycho and I was miserable every day and even more miserable after getting divorce raped. I regret none of it. Otherwise I would never have been to the point where I am today, enjoying the things that I'm enjoying and living a happy life on my terms and accepting the happiness that every human deserves. Some people are able to learn that early in life. Most don't ever learn it at all and w…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:02 AM
5

Because you care more than they do.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:16 AM
2

"You can have excuses or you can have results. You can't have both." Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:09 PM
3

I personally cope by being the best in my field and make myself someone everyone wants to have working with them rather than have some bullshit fear while blaming other people for my own laziness and inadequacy.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:08 PM
1

Absolutely this.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:20 AM
6

Doctor here. Absolutely not. Get it checked out first. A couple weeks off doesn't kill anyone.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:18 AM
20

This reminds me of a time Patrice O'Neal was talking to an orbiter on the phone. He said that guys fuck plates and go out with the woman they really like. Women go out with orbiters and fuck the guy they really like. Same principle here.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:59 PM
2

The only answer you need : Tell a therapist.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:54 PM
1

Every time she starts pushing your buttons, pull your phone out and reread what I wrote.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:40 PM
5

Yes you do. Your ego. Your ego tells you that you can get her to see what she's doing if she just listened to you. Maybe if you yelled louder or repeated yourself enough. The day you internalize that she isn't going to ever see things your way is the day you realize that you don't have to say shit anymore. And then you stop saying shit. And then you move on and be happy.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:19 PM
11

She very much sounds like BPD and NPD. It's classic. There's a great way to fix this and earn her respect. Marry her. Problem solved. You're welcome. Edit: I also found it hilarious that you listed all your fuckups and then still tried to hamster your way into looking for a reason you tolerated all the disrespect. The question isn't whether you can earn her respect back, but whether you respect yourself enough to handle how you let someone treat you. Pussy......FISKY.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:05 PM
3

You've been diatant lately. Are you mad at me?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:53 PM
7

You're looking at it too much from the point of it being a mindgame. Coming to a compromise on logistics isnt a battle of frames. It's logistics. It also seems to me that she isn't telling you she won't go to a bar. She's telling you that she'll go to a bar and won't drink. That's on her. If you want to drink, then drink. That's your frame. You do what YOU want to do in spite of circumstances. Let me just TL;DR it for you: Frame: "I can do Sunday. You don't have to have any drinks, but I'm plann…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:52 PM
1

RemindMe! 2 weeks
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:13 PM
2

Holy fuck that made a lot of sense. Thank you for that reply.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:12 PM
2

A good start would be to lose the next ten arguments verbally. Agree with whatever is being thrown at you. "You're right. I was looking at that girl." "You're right. I didn't text you last night." "You're right. I absolutely did act like a child." "You're right. I am acting different." Never apologize. Just acknowledge. And continue to do what you do. Eventually you'll realize how stupid you've been, and you won't even bother to agree any more. You'll just do.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 04:19 AM
2

First thing I thought.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 07:42 PM
1

Look. I'll answer your question, but my original answer stands - it doesn't really matter. Borderlines tend to have crazy sex to maintain the relationship due to fear of losing it. Bipolar, when manic, have crazy sex to just have it, regardless of who or what. When absolutely manic, they are reckless and uninhibited. When depressed, they feel apathetic and don't wish to have sex, usually. There's significant grades of mania and depression, so your mileage varies. Medicines also play a role. I'm …
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:37 AM
1

Because someone who is trying to waste their time with this bullshit question and all your bullshit responses rather than see the point in trying to make ain't fucking normal, sane women. Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:57 AM
1

With a simple answer: it doesn’t matter. You just want to make your ego feel good or rationalize having sex with someone who’s crazy, when in the end, you’re sticking your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:10 AM
1

Funny how you read it like that. I meant you're fucking crazy, like fucking someone who's crazy. Which, I guess, makes you a glutton for punishment and therefore crazy, too.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:49 PM
1

It doesn't matter. In the end, you're fucking crazy.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:22 PM
10

Well written piece. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:06 PM
1

Go work at Starbucks. Great insurance. Shit coffee. Lots of meeting people.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:44 PM
0

Politics has nothing to do with me being my best self. The only way masculinity should be correlated to politics is when you own your political leanings for whatever YOU want to lean towards, rather than listen to news, or worse yet, let someone convince you how to think. End of story.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:51 PM
1

This is such a light bulb that went off for me. I never once considered this guy's issue a matter of frame. Makes all the sense in the world. I'd gild you if I could.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:07 PM
5

I love this comment.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:57 PM
10

Not necessarily the answer you're looking for, but learn to type. Well.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:39 PM
3

Create a throwaway reddit account and post opinions opposite of what the majority thinks in political subreddits. Don't be a dick, and don't troll, but get the feel of people who don't like what you have to say. Use that time to analyze how you feel, where it comes from. Be mindful of your thoughts. Work through it. Start to politely disagree in life, as well. Eventually you'll notice that nothing in your world will be that different, but you. Work on it.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:02 PM
1

Very well written and very well stated. Thank you for sharing. What books did you find the most helpful?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:58 PM
5

I'm more into shape than size, really.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:36 AM
3

“Fuck motivation. It's a fickle and unreliable little state that isn't worth your time. Better to cultivate discipline than to rely on motivation. Force yourself to do things, to get out of bed, to go the gym, to work harder and smarter; force yourself to do stuff when you don't feel like doing anything. Motivation is fleeting, and it's easy to rely on because it requires no concentrated effort to get. Motivation comes to you, you don't even have to chase after it. Discipline is reliable; motiva…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:38 AM
1

Fuck motivation. Cultivate discipline.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:39 AM
0

Sounds borderline to me. Get out.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:37 PM
2

Lesson learned: Don't waste your time looking for a 10. Spend your time becoming the 10.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 04:41 PM
1

You know what happens if they reject you? Nothing...you can still do ANYTHING you want in the world, still survive This is invaluable advice for people pleasers. Well said.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 04:38 PM
4

Communicate more by saying less.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:31 PM
2

Found this once and saved it. It seems relevant. https://i.imgur.com/b1cawJt.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 04:06 AM
1

This post has the best advice regarding this type of problem.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:52 PM
8

Read on stoicism. Control what you can. Make the gains educational. At this point, diet is all you can do.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:15 AM
2

Don't come home for two days. "I'm sorry. I was running late. You know how it can be..."
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:48 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:50 PM
1

I didn't say be walked over. I said STFU and let your work do the talking. But if you make a shitty first impression, you'll eat shit the rest of your time there. Also, any of those people who work 80+hours a week, extremely hard, and still continue to get walked over deserve it for not recognizing a dead end when they see one. Abundance mentality is not just for women.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:33 PM
1

Find the biggest, meanest, and baddest dude there, and kick his ass. Assert dominance. Oh wait, job. Not prison. In that case, STFU and let your hard work do the talking.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:58 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:47 PM
1

I scrolled this far down to see this?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:22 PM
1

Well said.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:21 PM
1

I'm not judging, I'm just giving my opinion. AA should be a safe place.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:14 PM
6

Don't fuck with anyone's sobriety, especially your own. That's selfish and wrong. You can find girls anywhere else - let AA continue to be a safe place where you, and them, can go to and not have to deal with drama.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 08:24 PM
1

Let me get this right: being generous, the four or five people you went to school with were in the gifted program, but the guy who is actually a doctor and went to med school, sat on interview panels, and trained residents for over ten years is a telling a bald faced lie? Check your sample size, homie, before you extrapolate bogus data based on your small experience of medicine. The world is filled with moron doctors who either got in through connections or pure sweat. I don't claim to be smarte…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:49 PM
8

Went to med school. Like anything else, it is not an issue of intelligence, but one of persistence.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:46 PM
2

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not fucking her you're her girlfriend. I really like this line.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:09 PM
2

Rooting for you. But you don't need it - you got this.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 01:54 AM
1

RemindMe! 2 weeks
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:37 AM
1

My life right here, and it's fucking awesome.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:47 AM
1

When I first started working out, I told my friend how nervous I was. His reply: "Don't worry about anything, man. Nobody's looking at you. They are all looking at themselves." Once I looked around I realized he was right and I work out alone among the regulars to this day.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:04 AM
8

Abundance, man. If you have that, then the headache of this plate isn't worth it. Sometimes in life, what's more important than the offers you take are the offers you say no to.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:31 PM
1

If my cable provider stopped carrying the channels I like, I would get a new cable provider. I don't see how this is any different.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:02 PM
2

This is why I love this sub. Thanks, brother.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:41 PM
4

Every time I post my medical opinion, I get a bunch of criticism by people who disagree with my thoughts (even though I agree with what you're saying). My medical degree speaks for itself, and while I value and respect your opinion and strongly defend your right to yours, I'm also entitled to mine and simply won't get into a pissing match online.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:20 PM
1

It's a process. Eventually you'll find what works for you. Pm me if you have specific questions.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 09:24 PM
5

SSRI drugs are useful in the right situations. Many people just take them and then move on with life instead of using them to get to where they need to go. In other words, take the SSRI, meditate, see a therapist, and fix what caused you to take them in the first place. THEN wean off. There's newer ones with less libido side effects. It's not to be used as a crutch, it's meant to be a bridge to get you where you need to go. Source: Am a doctor.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 07:26 PM
4

You are absolutely correct. I'm aware that it's a woman's world in the world of divorce. I'm suggesting that the husband not kiss the wife's ass and submit to her whims and play out the role of the subordinate in the divorce. My ex wife bossed me around during the mediation and my reply was: "I don't know who you think you're talking to, but it's not your husband." That's the mentality I want op to have. Fight like hell for everything. Give nothing up. Let it be taken, never given.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 09:25 PM
8

This. People always continue being a bitch in the divorce. The marriage may have been on her terms, but make the divorce be on yours. You owe her nothing.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 01:21 PM
7

You should check out MRP. Full of good advice to keep yourself from becoming comfortable, which leads to beta, which leads to the relationship falling apart.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:33 PM
1

Wouldn't mind getting copy of that, if you don't mind. Pm me if that's cool?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:44 PM
3

Hey man. You're a human being. Have compassion like one. If you can and want to, then help. Otherwise, use this as an opportunity to practice compassionately holding frame.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 12:17 PM
9

A career in medicine is never a test of intelligence or skill, but of persistence. Best of luck, homie.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:09 AM
12

As a doctor who married and divorced a BPD woman, this sub saved my life. Glad I could pay it forward. Need med school advice, pm me anytime.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:43 AM
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Homie, This is either the worst experience of your life, or the BEST. It's all in how you look at it. You learned a very valuable life lesson in women, BPD, and HSV. You could have married this bitch, and you would have-trust me, and you would be BEGGING to go back to the time when 15k and 2.5 years was all you were out. Perspective, man. What burns is the fact that she will never, Never, NEVER learn her lessons because she doesn't know she is doing anything wrong. That's like trying to teach a …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:30 AM
2

If you're trying to be productive, you aren't on a vacation. You're on a trip. Don't be on a trip. Be on a vacation. Do absolutely whatever the fuck you want to do. Then come home and do absolutely whatever the fuck you need to do.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:04 PM
3

Reading this post stung of familiarity and shame. Then relief that I'm out of that shitty mindset, in my own frame, and that I wasn't alone. Awesome post.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 04:00 PM
3

Good man, that Frederick Douglass. I find him to be an example of somebody who has done an amazing job and is being recognized more and more, I notice.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:53 PM
1

Serious reply, but it isn't going to validate you, so I'm pretty sure you'll think I'm trolling. "I'm perfectly capable of loving" that's not the issue, here. You certainly are. It's the boundary crossing, manic way BPD people can act when the "love" they are capable of isn't returned that's the issue. It's the expectation of things that gets bundled under the blanket of "love" and the hysterical fear of rejection that gets you stigmatized. Being capable of love is standard issue for a human. Ho…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:38 PM
1

Seconded.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 06:32 PM
8

You are teaching your kids that sitting there and taking abuse is normal. Any sons you have will find a woman to treat then as you've been treated and any daughter with treat her man like your wife treats you. If you don't have the balls to walk for yourself, fucking do it for the kids. Been there, bpd/narcissist wife. Self esteem was shit... ... Until I left.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 01:21 AM
3

This question itself is procrastination. You'd rather ask questions you already know the answers to then to just follow the advice you know you're going to get, which is this: Nothing in life is easy. You have to put in the same work as everybody else just to BE like everybody else, which means you have to do even MORE than that to be BETTER than anybody else. If it were that easy, everyone would be doing it. So fucking get to it.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 12:37 AM
3

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Thanks for making me laugh.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 10:41 PM
1

The only way to learn the lesson is to learn it. I know I did.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:39 PM
2

Next. This sounds like trouble down the road, even worse because you'll see her at the gym, and you don't want that shit in your temple where you train. Just tell her your aren't ready to be exclusive, thank her for her honesty, and agree to be friends. Then ignore and move on. Chances are, your casual attitude about this will make her come back as a plate, but you truly shouldn't give a shit either way. Sometimes in life, it's not about the scenarios you accept, but the ones you turn down.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:19 PM
1

Complete extent. That is the fundamental thing that makes us human. It's the gift of free will. Embrace the fuck out of it and live to your fullest potential.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 06:29 PM
7

Do the happy hour if you want to. If you don't, don't. Realistically, it's about what you want.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:55 PM
100

The best time to find a job is when you have a job. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 02:32 AM
3

This right here is gold
/r/askTRP12/12/16 08:42 PM
2

Not so good! But, she got her one day of me being pissed. Time to smile and move on.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:49 PM
14

I am reading this on my cell phone as I'm waiting for my lawyer to return to my room during my divorce mediation. Thanks for this. Relevant and well timed.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:15 PM
9

Username checks out...
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:28 PM
34

This. A thousand times this.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:22 PM
1

One thing I've learned after being married to a BPD/NPD for eight years: Women like that NEVER change. They simply just become better actors.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:57 PM
2

Did you make that up, or is there further reading on this (the love/respect ladders)?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 10:00 PM
1

It's like the scene from "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom" when the slave kids get freed from the caves and run out into the light covering their eyes from the brightness. Feels good to be out there realizing my worth and making decisions that I want to - rather than what 'we' want to. Do yourself a favor - keep that separation PERMANENT!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:59 PM
1

Read it twice - I believe that it is now time to give it a third go around with the new insight that I feel I have. I feel reborn - but just that - born. I have a lot more growing to do! thank you for the note.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:56 PM
1

Wonderfully stated. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:53 PM
1

Anytime. It's funny - I wish that I could tell everyone that she changed, and that we grew apart, and that she's not the woman I married. However, the reality is this: She's EXACTLY THE SAME, and I'm the only one that did the changing. Looking back, my entire relationship was one giant red flag. The only difference is that nobody else saw it - that's how good she was.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:51 PM
1

Nigga, please.... Up to you, I guess. The way I see that situation, if it's just her being bitchy, I wouldn't give a fuck. But if this is something that offends her deeply, you have to decide if respecting her morals is worth the compromise of not using a word that has whatever meaning people want to attach to it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:27 AM
1

This is a classic bpd/narcissist move. Google 'triangulation,' because it was what kicked off my divorce. The minute I drew a line in the sand, she tried to cross it with everyone I have ever been in contact with - family, friends, co-workers - you name it, she ran with it. It got to the point where I was considering backing down just to keep my sanity. Thankfully, I realized I would rather be a little bit lonely than a whole lot miserable. It took some time to gain my nuts, and I can't stress h…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:21 AM
1

I haven't even given a thought about the double standard that exists, but it is pretty significant and shouldn't be ignored. The "do as I say, not as I do" bullshit that dominates most relationships is the essence of keeping people in a blue pill cage.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:08 AM
1

Fuck yea! Thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:06 AM
2

I'm so glad to hear that. Anything else I can do, PM me. It's karma, as I have been helped by others in so many ways.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:06 AM
2

This is true. It's literally been a day, and I can see it in interactions all around me.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:05 AM
1

With this new pride any disobedience is perceived not as "love" (when women ruled over you) but as an act of defiance to be >punished. This is significant in that it was, literally, how I was perceived by my wife. But the difference here, I believe, is that she did it under the guise of love (while treating it like defiance). In other words, anything I did that didn't fit what she wanted, was perceived as "you don't love me," but was treated as defiance and punished aggressively.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:03 AM
1

Dude, that's awesome. I'm glad you agree with me, and I appreciate the insight. The thing is, I don't have to be right in a general sense, I just have to be right for me. In the end, it's all I give a shit about.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:00 AM
1

I'm glad I'm able to help others as they have helped me.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 11:58 PM
4

I'm pretty sure it's in my upbringing - made way worse by 18 years of blue pill living. My personality and my career all focus on this need. It's pretty strong with me. I don't consider it a flaw - my empathy is an asset. The problem is that I'm like that all the time, even when it hurts me. There's is the first step to reclaiming my sense of self. ... Funny. It's been a year, and I feel like I'm just starting out.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:54 PM
2

There's always more reading to do and more things to explore. You've given meet much to ponder. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:50 PM
3

Thank you very much for that. I can't help but feel like I could never go back. Same feeling I had when I started to internalize things. But a big fear is that I'll backslide. The blue pill comfort of not having to define reality seems tempting when the chips are down, but it's the more difficult path of self discovery that I'm always grateful to be on. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:13 AM
2

Sounds like a good way to gauge progress. Thank you for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:09 AM
4

Agreed. I learned to appreciate the very painful and expensive lesson life has taught me. I'm blessed to be where I am because the bigger the failure, the bigger the growth. Married eight. Together for eighteen.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:06 AM
-2

"Yes. Yes I do."
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:53 PM
2

Grandfather once told me: "The girl you meet in a bar is the girl you will lose in a bar." Meaning, hooking up with someone who is cheating on someone in a drunken ONS is the same girl who will cheat on you in a drunken ONS. Hard next. Actions have consequences, but only if you enforce those consequences.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:52 AM
4

Seconded. Listen to this man and get angry.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/16 06:22 PM
1

This is the only reply you should be reading right now.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:00 PM
2

Relevant user name here.
/r/askMRP31/08/16 01:18 PM
3

The best revenge is to live well.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:22 PM
1

Holy fuck this makes sense.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:30 PM
1

The only way out is through, my friend. The only through is self improvement.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:25 AM
5

This.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:38 AM
2

You don't. You feel safe with yourself. You stop seeking validation from others and you make yourself into someone who can be around anyone you damn well please, and you become the person you deserve to be - one that doesn't tolerate any type of abuse period. How, you ask? Easy equation. Lift + Sidebar + Time = Results. Read "No More Mr Nice Guy." Give everyone the benefit of the doubt but DO NOT TOLERATE INTOLERABLE BEHAVIOR. Best of luck and PM if you need to.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:08 PM
2

Say it all the time and I'll say it again: 1 - There's always someone worth living for. There's nobody worth dying for. Nobody. 2 - The best revenge, always, is to live well.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:07 PM
0

This. This. This. This.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:00 PM
3

This is an update to a post I read frequently to get my head in the game. This one is better. Thank you for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 05:05 PM
2

Best of luck and welcome aboard. Don't lose that energy.
/r/askMRP05/07/16 04:41 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:05 PM
2

AF does whatever the fuck he wants to do. Period.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:58 PM
1

"Thank you" Nothing else. Edit: NO emojis!
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:52 PM
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It's never easy. I can tell you that I had a guy who graduated medical school with me start in his fifties. He decided he hated his career and went to do what he wanted. As far as I'm concerned, there's only one greater hell on earth than waking up every day going to a job you hate - and that's coming home to a woman you hate. Just my $0.02.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:45 AM
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Doctor, here. I've seen worse. I've been worse. Nothing more red pill than doing whatever the fuck you want to be the best you can be, as long as the reasons are yours and you fully know what medicine is all about. Many graduates don't realize what actually goes into a medical career. Just remember one thing: a career in medicine is never a measure of intelligence, but persistence. PM me with any questions.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:09 AM
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Fantastic advice. Keep your head in the game and don't let her rationalization screw you out of anything you deserve. She'll find some way to blame you. Just remember that the marriage may have been on her terms, but the divorce needs to be on yours. Act now, feel bad later (as best you can). Just remember there is no past or future. Only the present. Deal with the present only. Soon you'll realize that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Luck and prayers, bro. Pm me w…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:17 AM
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Remindme!
/r/askTRP10/06/16 07:31 PM
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First off, good advice is good advice. Stop being defensive here just because you aren't hearing what you want to hear. Second, are you serious? You have no problem filling all her holes with your jizz and making her face look like a painter's radio, but you're upset because someone else did it first? That's like refusing to live in a mansion because you weren't the first occupant. Get over yourself: if she met you first, I'm sure you'd be the only guy to treat her like your own personal tube so…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:48 PM
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Amazing reply, amazing advice. Well done, sir.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 01:55 PM
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The internet has taught me to not do business deals with Nigerians. Jokes aside, any business deal involving threats should be rejected. More important than the deals you agree on, are the ones you reject. But if you just want advice about how to handle the situation at hand, rather than the wisdom, then here it is: you maintain frame here the same way you maintain frame with women: abundance mentality. You should have deals lined up and be ready to next any deal that isn't perfect. With that mi…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 08:55 PM
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Dude. Biggest red flag possible. Move on. No explanation from me or anyone needed. You have been warned.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:39 PM
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Cognitive dissonance. Nobody wants to know that what they have been taught, what they believe, and what they have been doing their entire life is 100 percent wrong. Nobody wants to be responsible for their own outcomes, or independence therefrom. Easier to call bullshit. Just like its easier to assign blame than to fix a problem.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 02:44 PM
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http://imgur.com/sLErymR
/r/askTRP21/05/16 09:42 PM
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For me, I do one of two types of cardio: Typically I do low intensity cardio for warm-up or for DOMS (like leg day). 40 minute brisk walk. Nothing too killer. Or I do HIIT on days I'm not lifting. I don't think of it as calorie burning cardio, but rather muscle building cardio. This has worked wonders for me. Read on for more of an idea what I'm talking about: https://www.t-nation.com/training/regular-cardio-will-make-you-fat
/r/askTRP21/05/16 09:39 PM
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Simple solution: Go back to blue pill. You'll never worry about getting one again...
/r/askTRP19/05/16 06:35 AM
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The fallacy that "TRP ruins another marriage" is illustrated, to some degree, in any episode of Intervention where an addict goes to rehab and learns to be self sufficient and seek their own happiness with the help of intense inpatient therapy. The epilogue has, literally, one of two options: The addict relapses and stays in the relationship, or the addict seeks strength and happiness from within and the relationship ends. Nobody will dare claim that this is a failure of psychiatric therapy. It'…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:55 PM
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I feel like this reply deserves more attention than it is getting as a buried comment. The advice here is probably the best advice one could give to any man in s relationship, red pill or not.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 12:32 AM
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Its a shit test. If she really had any interest in the other guy, you wouldn't know about it.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:44 AM
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iPhones log your location if you didn't turn it off. Look up "frequent locations" history. Hope it helps.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 04:29 AM
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Remember, the best revenge is to live well.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:22 PM
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If it sounds crazy, that's because it IS crazy. Easy relationships are just that - EASY. The only thing that should be difficult in your relationships is your relationship with yourself as you struggle to improve. Don't rationalize yourself into a shit life. You made a move to improve your life. Work up from there.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:03 PM
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Literally had my inner monologue change to the voice of Silky Johnson by the fifth word without even realizing what I was reading. Have an upvote.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 05:50 AM
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I'm your garden variety internist. Wouldn't do anything else, ever. Fucking love it and own my own practice. The light at the end of the tunnel is bright, my man. Pm me with any questions you would ever have, and good luck.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:45 AM
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If it were easy, everyone would be doing it.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:34 PM
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Just fucking do it. Learn that life is going to suck and have a plan for when you are stressed. Get in your head that no matter what, when you quit, something will happen that will stress you out. Get into your head that if your best friend died with your dog fifteen minutes after you quit, you deal with that grief in other ways because YOU FUCKING QUIT. Just keep repeating to yourself "I've had my fun. Time to grow up." Tell no one. People love to see you fail. Let them ask you. You'll feel pro…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:20 AM
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One of my favorite Patrice lines is when he is chatting up a girl and she says she doesn't have casual sex. He replies: "well, I don't have casual conversations."
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:14 AM
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Using this.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:44 PM
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Link for the lazy?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 04:47 AM
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Best. Advice. Ever.
/r/askMRP20/12/15 01:23 PM
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I've been lurking and soaking it all up and have been improving slowly. I really appreciate your posts. Trust me - they are read and appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:03 AM
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IM teaching staff, here. Good shit, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 02:19 AM
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Do you know WHY she doesn't talk to you? Because she doesn't need to. End that shit straightaway. Tell her to start applying for student loans, ASAP. Then YOU go radio silent.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 03:03 PM
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Physician, here. Good for you on being a vet at 26! It gets amazing - stick with it and get at me for professional advice towards the business end. I'm taking my 10 year recertification - going to start now.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:07 AM
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I can honestly say that some of the best times of my life were when I was studying for my boards. I am a diamond under pressure. I would go into lockdown mode and was disciplined in every area - diet, time, study, play. I always lost weight and partied hard when I allowed myself to. Nobody fucked with me because I never allowed them to. It is the time that comes to my mind whenever I read a post that starts with: "Used to be alpha." But a few years of practice brings a different pressure that, w…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:00 AM
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This shit right here.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 12:23 AM
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This ain't a negative reply. You wanted a brutally honest opinion - you got one. I'm glad you didn't take it personal, and hopefully down the road you'll retread this and get it.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 06:46 PM
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It sounds like your wife is a master at maintaining her frame, while ignoring your hamster. You could learn a lot from her, Mr FO.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 09:19 AM
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Tyler Durden. I always thought that Kevin Spacey's character in "American Beauty" was unplugging, in a weird way.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 06:16 PM
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Wow. We all needed to hear that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:19 AM
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This.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:11 AM
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It's a bluff. The "I will be embarrassed if we go back to your parents early" gave it away. She still respects your parents, and wants to look good in front of them, she has not checked out of the relationship yet. If she's serious about getting the fuck out, she wouldn't give a shit about what your parents think.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 05:48 AM
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Similar situation here, but long ago. After a few years of that shit, I was seriously doubting myself. It all stopped when someone asked me: "what's she doing being married to you?" I looked him dead in the eye and said with absolute, yet casual, confidence and said: "Yeah, I know. She really married up. But, good for her, she works hard at it." And for the first time I actually believed it. It's all been good from there. Nobody really asks me anymore, and it's because I now spend my days keepin…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 05:33 AM
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