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This
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:25 PM
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she can flip the switch the next morning 100%
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:38 PM
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Meditation (not a religious experience. Used to teach you how to control your thoughts and focus when needed. It's tactical. ) Study of Stoicism (Marcus Aurelius is generally agreed to be a good fit for RP reading) Mixed Martial Arts The Wim Hof Breathing Method (combined with meditation, will teach you how to quickly get your mind balanced and peak performance) Advance your financial knowledge (money management)
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:35 PM
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Yep. Any of my past LTRs knew how to handle this blue pill projection. "Hahahaha. Exactly" would have never come out of their mouths. That's why I believe this is a frame issue.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:52 PM
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I woke up ashamed My point being, a few weeks of poor decisions could be a complete turnoff to a potential partner. Men and women are different. Sidebar 101. Your few bad weeks of poor decisions resulting in a higher notch count for yourself IS NOT a turn off to women. A woman doing the same thing, would be a turnoff for a RP man when considering a woman for an LTR.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:43 PM
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Agreed, he should have AA. But I'd recommend hitting back playfully at the woman as well. "Buying plane tickets now. But your going with her. Get rid of 2 birds with 1 stone" They'd laugh, but hamster for both women would be spinning on what that means.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:32 PM
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so why bring up me and my girlfriend like that for no reason? You're question is "why did she do that?". Co-worker did it because it's 2021 and it's common place to project Men as a burden in a joking manner. Watch almost any Major movie or show with a steady relationship and you'll see a joke like that made. It's a blue pill culture joke. I'd be more worried about why your gf responded the way she did. It sounds like the interaction was not inline with the frame you set. Correct?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:25 PM
2

This. With other plates spinning OP wouldn't notice or care about delayed response.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:22 AM
1

Answering her with a lie isn't a deflection. You "explained" to her what is was or wasn't. A deflection would have been been pressure flipping back to her. "OK miss nosy. No grown up table for you". Amused mastery. Keep it light and pressure flip back on her. But this is all basic sidebar info.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 05:07 AM
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Dare NOT deer. Sidebar
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:19 AM
1

If you want a son, I'd consider the surrogate route. Biologically he would be yours, woman egg donor and a surrogate woman to birth him. It's more common than people realize and getting less and less expensive. And cheaper than a wife/divorce rape & 18 years of slavery/child support.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:47 PM
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Roght now is the easiest time in history for men to get NSA women as ons & plates. Worst time in history to find a woman to "share what you're building". Don't see that changing anytime soon. Enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:20 PM
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Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness. She is with you because you can hold frame. She "appreciates your uniqueness" in that way. Hold frame. No Valentines Day. The law applies to "public" interaction only.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 12:35 AM
1

Just do the trademark smirk and change topic. This
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:58 PM
2

I got better numbers and better women in my 30s than my twenties. 40s now and smv is still high. Men don't have a wall.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:19 PM
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What is your favorite movie quote? https://youtu.be/9gWtrnb4KjU
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:53 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:55 PM
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Mine as well. Would have waited until I got a "hey you" text from her down the line. Takes them a week or two, usually. I've had no luck with following up. YMMV
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:53 PM
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Been through this, here's what you do Spend the extra costs to get a good lawyer. Get a custody agreement locked down. Insist on all communication and scheduling go through a court appointed app (such as talkingparents), that way she has no say in changing shit on you. You know exactly when you see your Son. You can take transcripts to court if she messes around with your time. Have zero contact with her outside of the court appointed messaging app. Spend your energy on the time you have with yo…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:30 PM
2

There is so much more wrong with this situation. Ghosting her is the least of your worries. COVID OR no COVID, texting is for logistics. The blue pill list is too long on this one. Ghost her and spend the time you saved on reading the sidebar again. Then read it again.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:59 PM
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Our bad, we didn't know it was a girl you liked. Shit, pay for the surgery to remove the wart go get her a ring.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:31 PM
5

You say subtle signals, but I'd say she's in a job where she gets paid to smile and be nice to people.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:28 PM
1

Damn, she drops a 70 n count on you. Damn. Guy is rightfully thinking it's actually 3 digits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 09:25 PM
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it’s disrespectful for a partner to have shit like that laying around That shit is never an accident or coincidence. On some level she wanted you to find it. It's a shit test. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:07 PM
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This
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:04 PM
9

If only we had a sidebar for that. What's your question?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:03 PM
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Classic. Red pill in movies before it was even called red pill.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:01 PM
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Dating younger women, your experiences? https://youtu.be/9gWtrnb4KjU
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:49 PM
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That's disrespect. I'd shut that shit down quick.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:43 PM
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Unless she's screaming that name in bed (her ex) then I wouldn't give a shit. She's a plate. Use her until she drops. LTR would be different story.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:16 PM
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As long as she confirms and shows up in-person, it's fine.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:12 PM
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No. Your advice doesn't belong here. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:44 AM
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I legitimately started to give a damn about what the girl was interested in, studying her photos, hobbies, etc. Stop. Sidebar. Nothing has changed. Texting for logistics.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:10 AM
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She says "id do literally anything you'd ask me to" Best response is "prove it". Pressure flip to her and then she's chasing you again.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:06 AM
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Plates drop, they break. Hence the name. For a plate, you showed extraordinary courtesy by even calling her. You owe nothing.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:07 PM
9

Question for elder red pillers, how do you become stoic and not look back? Experience & Pain
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:38 AM
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The truth is most of us will and only like 5% will stay red pill. Source
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:48 PM
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Never happens other than in the movies. 99.9% of people will get embarrassed and just comply.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:45 PM
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Don't let the little disrespects slide. It all adds up. Say something and then let it go. "Bro, up that's my seat" "No Bro, back of the line" "Kinda weird you're up on me Bro. Back up" Not going to jail fighting over the small stuff but I'm damn well going to address the slight.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:23 AM
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"Marcus Aurelius, Meditations" "Sun Tzu, Art of War" anything by "Machiavelli" Sidebar
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:07 PM
2

I'll pass
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:45 PM
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2 months? She checked out It takes time for her divorce lawyers to put together a case, collect Financials, etc,. Plus they have to be discreet and make sure you don't get tipped off.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:17 PM
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The power is real. Just temporary. It puts you in a mindset where it's easier to "see the matrix". Then you fall out of the mindset again shortly after. Act on the power of that mindset and it will eventually stop being temporary or "false". Knowledge + Action = Power
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:47 PM
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It went wrong from the beginning ... "i asked my gf" You showed needy behavior asking her in the first place. Now you're in your feelings because she responded negatively to you wanting beard validation. Lesson learned. Don't be needy or pining for validation.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah this isn't mgtow anymore either, it's an abomination. Isn't the right place for me, I'll dip out.
/r/MGTOW203/04/20 03:21 AM
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Take this weak bullshit somewhere else. Plenty of subs where you can make excuses. This sub is for mgtow. Man up, it will change your life and you'll never look back.
/r/MGTOW203/04/20 02:53 AM
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Still not reading. Man up and contribute to his original question or stay out of it. Btw this is MGTOW so "man up" & masculinity are cheered here.
/r/MGTOW203/04/20 02:05 AM
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Your answer is on the cusp of "man up". He does have to compete. But not against other men. OP asked specifically how to be better with women. His entire post was about women. Did you even read it or did you just jump to being a hero and deciding what problems to solve for him? So yes, he DOES have to compete with other men in order to fix his problems with other women. Man up and read.
/r/MGTOW203/04/20 01:55 AM
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Exactly. Stick to TRP and Alpha.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:39 PM
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I came here to agree with whoever was going to say this
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:38 PM
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The only thing sadder than the actual petition is to be worried about the petition.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 11:37 PM
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There's a purple pill sub. Go ask them.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:34 PM
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I prefer to do it on something more useful to me and in which I will actually be able to succeed. If you keep doing what you've always done then you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. Succeed in what? You wanted to know how to be better with women. Competing in something that will hurt you will make you stronger, will make you better with women. Regardless if you "win" in the sport. It's the competing and pain that matters. Spoiler alert: women and relationships are a battlefield / compe…
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 11:33 PM
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it isn't the same as everyone else. Nah, we all fight and compete injured and broken. You're not different or special in that regard. Every activity you're willing to do has zero competition to it. That's no way to live, as you are finding out. Why are you afraid to compete? Answer that for yourself and shit gets better.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 11:09 PM
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Emotional = excuses. High impact sports hurt everyone, that's the point.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 10:47 PM
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Less emotions. More stone cold killer. You're too romantic and emotional about it. Fastest way to achieve what you're looking for is "fight club". Get into MMA or some other martial art. Go 5x a week. That will harden you up quick.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 10:37 PM
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We're they awake?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:23 PM
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it makes you look like you got your shit together. Or you actually do have your shit together. Just not for the sake of women.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:16 PM
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It’s hard to keep away from the house due to lockdown I assume this means you two live together? If so, did you plan to marry in the next 6 months? (See no cohabitation rule) TRP isn't made to retroactively fix blue pill life altering decisions (such as cohabitation). Your question would be best asked to the guys over at married TRP sub.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 09:25 PM
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👆 this. Stay friends. He'll need an on-ramp back into TRP once she scrambles his egg and drops him.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:03 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:56 PM
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“Ha ha asshole!” This. The goal of every "serious talk" you have with a woman should be to get her to "haha you're an asshole" while giving you "fuck me" eyes.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:54 PM
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I doubt it. The older a woman gets the more shit she will throw at you to try and shame or trick you into an LTR. She is fools gold, brother. Shiny but no value. I'd move on and stay away.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:28 PM
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"Naturals" don't exist. Women are born. Men are made.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:25 PM
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Doesn't matter and is counter productive. Be outcome independent. You can't control or predict your environment or what will happen. Mastery of yourself and how you respond is the only control a TRP man cares about.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:23 PM
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LTR has never liked sexting much. Tried a few times, but she's unresponsive, and only wants it 1/10 of the times I do. She has no dread of you leaving. While you're struggling with cheating on her, trust me when I say she IS cheating on you and she gives zero fucks about it. Deep down she expects you to cheat and doesn't care. Very high SMV men have LTRs and plates that are bending over backward to make him happy and keep him engaged during this quarantine. If your girl is not working to keep yo…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:17 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:05 PM
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Amused Mastery is more effective. When a girl in your group is acting up, playfully put her down... "Ok, who brought their kid sister?" "Someone needs a timeout."
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:51 PM
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See 'Alpha Widow'. See 'Wall'. She's about to fall off a cliff, why would you want to join her?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:28 AM
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Working really hard and "putting your mind to it" to get a girl you really want. We have a name for that in TRP.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:05 PM
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You're asking about "sexual moves", which I believe are useless. All women are different. What one woman loves, another hates. The real question is, how can she please you? What do you want her doing to / for you? We don't care what plates want/like. Because we know deep down her greatest desire is to please a high value man. Pleasing an Alpha > Beta pleasing her She will gladly go without orgasms for an Alpha.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:15 AM
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Made me laugh but at the same time there's some truth to it. They want to be manhandled.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:08 AM
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"It should worry you if I don't. No promises. (Logistics)"
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:17 AM
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She's just a human being. Talk to her. See if she's interesting, be curious.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:00 PM
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The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies: For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own. In a LTR, the strategy for a man is to have a faithful and loyal woman. The strategy for a woman is to get both commitment and "explore" her sexuality. To have an open relationship you must abandon your strategy to allow her to "have it all". Also: open relationship is where it begins, not ends. And she is driving the boat.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:42 PM
1

You'd have to ask Disney. They invented it.
/r/MGTOW230/03/20 08:19 PM
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You did. Good advice.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:34 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:53 AM
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girlfriend lied about many things No. You already know and admitted she's a liar. We're not here to play "what if" and pretend. You have your answer.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:24 AM
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"Trickle truth" isn't a term he just made up. You are not the first to be told "it was just a kiss". AWALT. She fucked him. She wasn't a virgin.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:18 AM
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Believe what you want.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:38 AM
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Zoom in on her tits. Nothing else in the pic but tits. Repeat until she stops asking.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:13 AM
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Get a mission. Make it your priority.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:10 AM
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Agreed. Progress always has a cost.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:40 AM
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Moderation. Stay hungry. Think of it like alcohol. If you're getting drunk every day, multiple times per day then you've got some shit to straighten out. When you absolutely have to, then do it. But it shouldn't be a fucking hobby.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:38 AM
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No one is born Alpha. Women are born, Men are made. Surround yourself with RP and like minded men and the friendships won't strain. Sounds like you shed some BP friends, that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:32 AM
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I'm trying to just rationalize this like a normal human who actually cares about other people for once... Is this not a blue pill goal? As RP we are not "normal humans who actually care"? Your post flip flopped from RP to BP all the way through. Hence, trying to achieve BP goals with RP logic. Btw: I'd argue that a man holding RP frame in a relationship IS the most caring thing he can do, for both himself and her.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:28 AM
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Look up Rational Male Sexual Market Value chart. Women will never admit it but its accurate. Men in their 40s and 50s are pulling the same 20s girls everyone else is.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:19 AM
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My boys are all TRP so we know the deal. Whenever someone oversteps and tries to Alpha we all "call bullshit" to keep it all in check. Other than that we stay laid back and can laugh at ourselves and each other.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:11 AM
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This is the equivalent of a woman asking other women "Men are dogs. All they want is pussy. Why?"
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:57 AM
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Covid-19 will trigger the economic downturn. The downturn will be faster and more brutal than expected. Feminism will not survive that. Women will have other shit on their mind than feminism. Women always run to men when shit really goes bad.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 01:51 AM
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If it’s stupid, but it works, it ain’t stupid. Cannot agree more. If you truly own it, you can get away with the dumbest shit and still get laid.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:48 AM
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You passed. If you want input, next time I'd go more playful and less ultimatum. "No plans other than being in the moment... and possibly rob you. Where do you store your valuables?" Really anything but answer her directly. Which you handled well.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:47 AM
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Although I appreciate this sub and mens rights in general. I truly believe Covid19 and the resulting economic decline will be the tipping point for feminism falling off the cliff. It's had a good run but it can only exist in thriving economic times and times of peace. Women will be the ones to reject feminism and they will do it quickly when the shit hits the fan. Enjoy watching the decline as the power balances itself.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 01:37 AM
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I told her about the girls I have in my area. Sidebar. And don't tell us you read it. You NEVER tell or explain to a woman you have other girls. That's the best way to signal you're a Beta who has no women. Show, dont tell. This is all in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:03 AM
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She even mentions that I mention multiple bitches. You mentioned to her that you had multiple bitches? Never tell, show. She could smell the Beta from another state. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:55 AM
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You're still not getting it. If you can't get laid by the millions of women within driving distance of you, then why the fuck would a woman get on a plane for you?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:52 AM
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Then be a victim. It's your life.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:48 AM
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Before all of this COVID shit I was about to fly out there this March for a week (and we were obvious gonna fuck, we even spoke on it). I have never once found a woman that I wanted to fuck bad enough to get me on a plane to fuck her. Can you not see how she would be turned off by that Beta shit? Promise yourself you will never get on a plane for the sole purpose of pussy. Do it now.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:43 AM
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You are giving them too much credit and too much power. You have mo clue why they reject you and shouldn't care why. Even the most Alpha of all men gets rejected a lot. Rejection is part of the game. But the good news is there are always more women. ABUNDANCE mentality. Women are not the Goddess all knowing creatures you have made them in your head. The more you approach the more evident this will become. Keep shooting.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:38 AM
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“you’re a pussy with onities bitch!” Read the fucking the sidebar!!” “go lift!!” “Spin more plates faggot!!” Why do you think we say that? Because we are trying to break you out of your blue pill fucking prison and WAKE YOUR ASS UP. You just shat a blue pill novel post full of beta tells and then try to tell us you're AF. No. Count how many times you DEER in your post. If you want sugar coating to make you feel better about using RP to achieve BP goals then you're in the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:32 AM
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Women expect a lot of experience at my age We don't care what women want or expect. And their actions show deep down they love us for it. Swallow that pill and you're home free. Virgin or not.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:10 AM
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Single Moms Approved Uses: ONS, FWB, Plate Disapproved: LTR, Cohabitate, Marriage Edit and note: you find it somehow attractive that she took a Chad load, waited 9 months and popped out mini Chad? If so, check your wanting. That's cuckold territory.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:46 PM
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AA would be difficult. Response could be something like "I might have to take you up on that." It ignores her question and assumes you know she's asking to meetup again. Never play it straight.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:30 PM
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I'm not sure if anything I'm doing is something to share with somebody else or that somebody else would want to be a part of. And my point remains. Women will want to be a part of it because you like it. You could change hobbies or jobs and then she'd like that. She doesn't care what's in your frame. Only that your frame is STRONG.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:36 PM
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No one on the planet earth enjoys sucking a dick. She enjoys pleasing an Alpha, not the act itself.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:28 PM
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A was really upset with me, and asked me what I was doing on that forum. I told her it's just a self-improvement subreddit that teaches to work out and be a man, the rest is just banter for shits and giggles. I set her off with the wrong words/phrasing though and we got in the most heated argument of my life. This is where you went BETA. We don't explain ourselves. It was a test of your frame. An appropriate response "Oh babe, don't worry. I'd never use that shit on you. It just helps me keep my…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:24 PM
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All women will get DMs and interest from guys. When in an LTR your frame should be strong enough that she dismissed them quickly. Your girl is exchanging numbers with a guy who calls her "Babe". Your frame is weak, especially since you are making excuses for her shitty behavior. Don't see how this isn't a clear demote.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:17 PM
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So what kind of things do you do to create a life that is exciting and interesting that a woman would put in the effort to want to be a part of? Women don't care and neither should you. Do what you want because you enjoy it, not because a woman might find it interesting. Women are like water, they take the shape of the container you pour them in. It doesn't matter what you choose to do with your life. If you have a strong frame, high value and are properly RP then she will quickly learn to LOVE …
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:03 PM
0

Headspace App is guided meditation. It has specific categories you can choose from. The SOS category sessions would work well when cravings hit.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:58 PM
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Was thinking the same thing. You want to smash single Mom as a FWB, that's fine. But don't make them the center of your career and rely on them to help you create a win-win.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:39 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:37 PM
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Men and Women are not the same. If you give a woman an inch, she will take a mile. Men (in whole) are not like that. Once we get to a win-win scenario, we try to maintain it. Women will always try to turn a win-win scenario into a win-lose (favoring themselves).
/r/MensRights29/03/20 07:58 PM
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Agreed. Also a form of self mastery.
/r/MGTOW229/03/20 07:20 PM
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This Pandemic uncertainty and the resulting economic implications (which may be very bad) will benefit a Jack of all trades. Master of one works well in a thriving economy in an industry that is antifragile (essential). We are due an economic downturn and it appears Covid has started it off. The next decade will benefit those who have diversity of skills and a "grind" mindset.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:14 PM
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The longer this Pandemic goes on, the more batshit crazy all women will get. As men we are used to going long periods of time with little validation or physical contact. Women are not! They are going through major withdrawals. This has never happened before and is something they couldn't prepare for.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:41 PM
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Cringe remembering some of the grenades I threw myself on for my boys. "Shit, can we get it darker in here?"
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:36 PM
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No. Also 2nd date should have included some talk / wit / insinuation of sex on your part. A simple and playful "You keep looking at me like that, I hope you don't think you're getting lucky after this. I'm not that kind of guy....unless you wine and dine me." Wink and nudge her with your elbow. Anything to associate you with sex in her mind.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:27 PM
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Rewarded slowly and intermittently.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:10 PM
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Zen, focus, energized, charismatic, know the right thing to do and say without giving any thought, it attracts women. Once you see results, you'll likely never go back.
/r/MGTOW229/03/20 06:03 PM
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You acted correctly. Amused Mastery. I'd keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:52 PM
2

Perspective. You're viewing your situation through your Moms perspective. Which she has projected on you. (You mentioned her multiple times). TRP demands we seek validation in ourselves, not from women. Including Mom. Start viewing your self worth through you own eyes and you'll see the world of opportunities. Your Mom will be disappointed but you won't care because you spend your days doing shit you want to do. Being the man you want to be. Once you've done that, it will be easy to decide the n…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:49 PM
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The girl I'm dating let it slip She didn't apologize, she "let it slip". She had no fear of losing you. No contrition, no respect for you or your frame. Next immediately. Work on your frame. Your girl should be scared shitless of losing you.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:15 AM
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“what do women get?” "The couch if she takes away my man cave" and smile at her.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 02:53 AM
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Amen
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:28 AM
16

Agreed. Once the quarantine is lifted there will be a lot of horny and attention starved women. Famine now, feast later.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:22 AM
30

Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:02 AM
4

This. Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:44 AM
1

"All I offer is the truth... nothing more". I don't usually like to quote the Matrix movie but in this case, I believe it applies. There is no pep talk. The Red Pill is hard to swallow and it's not rainbow and unicorns on the other side. Truth and freedom is all it gives.
/r/MGTOW229/03/20 12:21 AM
8

Subtle jab. Passive aggressive but effective. You got the message.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:51 PM
15

Be honest. Be direct. We're men. "Bro, you need anything. Fucking anything. Text me, call me. No clue how to help you but I'll do whatever I can. Even if it's just get a beer to have some normalcy." Then do what you can, when you can.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:30 PM
8

She said she's not into that much and doing it only to pleasure me. I told her to stop faking it if she's not into it. The only response to her should have been "good girl. Send more." if you really wanted the sexting. Reward her for doing what you like despite what she wants to do. In regards to #1 and #2, we are all in the same boat. Anyone who gives an answer will just be pulling it out of their ass. Sidebar doesn't cover this. So far consensus is to build SMV, who the fuck knows where this i…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:25 PM
1

Glad it helped
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:47 PM
10

You hurt her ego (denying sex). Hurt her comfort (rough sex). You lost frame (vehemently apologized). She is in a shitstorm of emotions (rightfully so). Be a stoic fucking rock and let her emotions bash against you until the storm passes. (See sidebar storm/rock)
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:24 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:21 PM
1

Lookup divorce rape. Even if you have kids, once she divorces you she gets your money and the kids. Latest study I read said only 10% of Fathers get to spend any real time with their kids after a divorce. The current legal, societal and cultural realities make it a very bad gamble for a man to have a child. Which is why the birth rate and marriage rate in the US is plummeting.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:38 PM
3

No.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:28 PM
4

If she doesn't give an alternative "make up" date then it's a shit test. In this case, I'd be fine with what she wrote.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:41 PM
3

In the end, though, i feel like i may end up alone. This is another blue pill lie they make men believe. The old lonely man who couldn't get a wife myth. High value men never go out of style at any age. Women end up alone, not men. The only difference is instead of risking everything in a marriage to 1 woman. You will spend a lifetime with lots of women. At 60 you will still be pulling quality women (truth), at 60 a woman will be sitting with her cats. Don't believe the lie, Brother. Stay free.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:37 PM
1

Appreciate that.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:29 PM
14

Say to him jokingly: "Something wrong with your legs?" Don't wait for the guy to respond. Then tell your girl in light manner to go do something else for you. If she pauses or doesn't immediately go do what you ask, or worse does what he asked, then you have to next her immediately.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:22 PM
7

Men love playing the game. Women love gaming the players.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:16 PM
4

I understand but anger is their objective. If Men are angry / off tilt then we aren't thinking logically/strategically. Feminism doesn't fear angry men. They fear logical men in organized groups.
/r/MensRights28/03/20 07:11 PM
47

It definitely gets easier once you accept that women live and speak in a backwards clown world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 02:42 AM
1

Shhhhh the adults are talking.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:02 AM
3

"Slow down speed racer. You have to buy dinner and expensive shit first"
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:52 AM
1

You answer the question that should have been asked, do you not?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:49 AM
2

Mission (building value body & mind) > what women want.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:42 AM
4

Absolutely. No need to get butt hurt. Just like your girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:36 AM
3

I'll follow your girls lead and pass on the roleplay too.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:29 AM
249

Used online dating for a short period of time for hookups and ons. Was very clear that's what I was looking for. By far the majority of hookups were from women who had a bio that said she was done with hookups. It's an addiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 12:27 AM
8

Lift weights, learn to fight/subdue an attacker and you'll never have to. A full grown man can easily subdue and catch/deflect the punch of a woman. Pin her until she calms down.
/r/MGTOW228/03/20 12:00 AM
26

Don't. Use this time to increase your value instead.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:55 PM
2

If I had to do it... doggy.
/r/MensRights27/03/20 11:53 PM
4

You already established frame by not insisting she block her ex. Can't get mad or punish her now.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:50 PM
17

You described to us her actions. Then her words. You choose which to follow.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:46 PM
3

"Wait... what?" "Exactly"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:25 PM
24

All men enjoy the blue pill. It's the withdrawal that sucks. If you went back 50 or 60 years ago in America, you could have both a red pill mindset and achieve bluepill goals. Religion, society and community held women in check to allow real lasting relationships to be possible. We no longer have that. That why TRP demands men replace "a wife" with a mission. Your mission is the new blue pill, it's what you sacrifice for. Not women. Once you find your mission the numbness goes away.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:32 PM
8

Amused mastery. "Damn you're adorable when you're jealous" with a smile. Tease her about it.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:20 PM
0

Not to me. But it does for you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:46 AM
0

Yes, I do have slight oneitis You sure only slight? That's a long 11 paragraph post for just a plate.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:36 AM
3

You lost the frame battle. She’s no longer attracted. This.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:40 AM
36

Control.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:05 PM
22

I have a feminine core Who says? You're using that as an excuse to not do hard work. We've all been lied to as men from birth.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:15 PM
18

She got you. I know you can't see it yet. We've all been there. Stop contacting her Sidebar
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:05 PM
3

👆 This.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:52 PM
2

Giving her the power to see him when she finally feels like it? For a tinder plate he hasn't fucked?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:48 PM
3

Men communicate to share data / information. Women communicate to trigger emotions (yours and hers). Never believe anything a woman tells you about yourself. No matter what, no matter who.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:07 AM
3

These types may even be worse than early CC riders in that they'll lock a guy down and then when 30 hits she gets a sudden case of FOMO. Then she'll jump on the CC, either behind his back or after she dumps him. By that time there may be a marriage and kids in place, etc, Too many nightmare stories from men who have been divorced rape and their wives excuse was she got married too young and wasn't able to "find herself".
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:59 AM
1

She may be looking to get side dick (you) while keeping her cuck bf. If you think you have a real shot to smash then find a way to go around him. She reached out for a reason, and it wasn't to be polite. I say she's still in-game.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:50 AM
1

It's only submissive if you're doing it for her. This.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:28 AM
-7

My point remains. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:18 AM
14

Let it be known that some girls just flat out do not like giving head. No. How do we still have TRP guys falling for girls saying "I'm not that kind of girl."? She will break through a brick wall and sucker punch her best friend to suck Alpha Chad off.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:02 AM
28

Hand on her head, downward pressure. Do you want to send her an evite or something? She can't be submissive unless you act dominant. Take her.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:19 AM
2

My bad for giving time to this. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:50 PM
1

The answer is... you shouldn't care why she put on a bitch face. It should have entered your mind and left just as quickly.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:37 PM
3

You're missing the point of someone who is trying to help you. You made a post, asked for help and refuse the help. ABUNDANCE mentality and a personal mission. If you had them then you would have never posted your question in the first place.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:21 PM
1

👆This. Also, the exception proves the rule.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:13 PM
0

Context of your clear set frame and boundaries are what's important. Every guy is different in his frame. Is this something she knew you'd not like? Something she knew she should have gotten permission? If so, then it's an atomic shittest and you push the fuck back or next. If not, let it go.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:31 PM
4

After the 5th date she texted her friends that she really thinks "you're the one". "He is a gentleman and so old fashioned, he hasn't even tried to kiss me yet. He respects me so much!" Swoon. Trainwreck is coming my friend. Enjoy it while it lasts but don't be surprised when she thinks it's something more and it all blows up with you as the bad guy.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:18 PM
3

And a man who knows how take care of himself, why does he need a woman again? Great, teach your son to be his own man but don't be surprised whe he doesn't get married, doesn't give you the grandbabies you so desperately want. Shit, I hope she succeeds in making him into that man (for his sake).
/r/MensRights23/03/20 05:06 PM
7

Likely not worth saving at this point. Not necessarily your fault. All women reach their breaking point. If you want to save the relationship....Female drama, theatrics and shame tactics get ZERO attention. You don't argue, you don't reason, you don't pacify. You go silent, go dark, zero contact. Wait until her texts move from rage to "I'm sorry" and then wait a week to 10 days and hit her up for a smash session. No talking, no discussing your relationship. She comes and services you and then le…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:00 PM
11

B. Is sold to Men so Men will continue to provide A. B. Was always propaganda. The real goal was always A. Sad but true.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 10:23 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:14 PM
2

Business, car and house doesn't make you Alpha. Sidebar. Watch Fight Club for good measure. You are not your fucking khakis!
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:39 PM
14

You're using man logic and projecting it on women. Women Feels Logic: Alpha sex with no orgasm is 1000x better than beta sex with orgasm. She gets pleasure from bringing the Alpha pleasure.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:24 PM
3

"Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you." Own it.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 07:55 PM
26

Women draw you a treasure map to their "hidden fortune". They draw a BIG X where the treasure is at. You go off happily running and digging to find the treasure. The Alpha takes off his shirt stands in front of her and draws a BIG X across his chest. He's the prize. The map is for fools to waste their time.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:36 AM
2

My concern (for you) would be that you'd be successful in breaking her addiction to her Dad. Because at her age it won't disappear, it will just be redirected. Guess at who? Are you ready for that? Do you even want that?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:23 AM
1

Absolutely! I hear you, Brother. Glad it helped.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:16 PM
8

If they say they've been with x amount of men, they've actually been with x3. If they say, "we just made out", ....
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:57 AM
46

Hats off to you. This is the exact focus and mission first thinking that every TRP man should be striving for. I've experienced what you're describing. It comes it ebbs and flows for me. And yes, you're right, it's because of you focus and determination that you've trained your mind and body to bend to your will- not the will or temptation of a hot girl, porn, etc,. I now enjoy when I get in that zone because I am literally daring / taunting life to put a girl in my path that gets my attention. …
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:19 AM
3

Nah I got it Brother, when do you think she'll figure it out? We've got her spinning right now, commenting and defending everything. Best to just let her wear herself out at this point. Let's watch and see how long she goes for...
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:41 AM
4

Lovely...
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:34 AM
3

You're right we should end things at this point, based on this last post you're running out of steam. Don't want you to stroke out or something. I understand it's frustrating to debate someone who sees through your words. :/ Overall you did well, a bit predictable, was hoping to be stumped but again overall it was enjoyable. I feel energized. Go get some rest and have an amazing day.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:25 AM
3

Hey Brother, she didn't come here to debate. She came to shake you, to rile you up, to get under your skin. Once you see that it becomes much easier to not take people who do this seriously and it even becomes fun to see them frantically looking for some button or trigger to push hoping you'll get upset and respond as you did. You did nothing wrong other than assume she was here to actually debate and resolve anything. She didn't. I wish her peace in her life so she no longer feels this need to …
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:22 AM
4

Will you be releasing a book listing out exactly what is a duty and what isn't? I don't remember ever seeing it in the marriages contract or taught in schools. But thank God you're here, the powerful gatekeeper of marital duties. Well done in this last post btw. You didn't go for a negative personal attack. See this is when we can start having nice things. Keep this up, kudos.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:17 AM
4

Awwww triggered? Reflection of your character not mine 😉
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:09 AM
3

It's fact buddy. And there it is fellas. She just admitted that everything men do in a marriage is a duty, while women have no duties. Go ahead and ask your wives or girlfriends tonight I'd they agree with this lovely person and her "fact". Thank you for the insult. It is a true reflection of your character not mine. Again, this is why we can't have nice things.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:07 AM
5

Winner, winner she chose to go with both! A confusing non logical statement of her own opinion, no fact. Making her the gatekeeper of what is or isn't a duty (hint everything men do is a duty, women have none) and then finished it off with a backhanded inference insult that I want husbands to rape their wives. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/MensRights19/03/20 11:54 PM
5

Why is it just about the woman? Let's consider both Men and Women as equals. You agree that men and women shouldn't have to do anything they don't want to do? (For those watching at home, this is where she'll dodge answering the logic she knows is 100% valid and instead choose to go negative in a personal attack or come back with a confusing question, formed in a statement with multiple negative contradictions in the hope everyone will be confused and forget she didn't actually answer the questi…
/r/MensRights19/03/20 11:50 PM
3

What a world that would be if EVERYONE no longer did anything they didn't feel like doing. Don't want to go to work. Don't want to go to the kids recital. Don't want to work overtime to pay for kids braces. Mommy doesn't want to be team Mom today for you sweetie. Daddy doesn't want to help you with your math homework. I don't want to have sex with you. I don't want to ever have to see my mother in law, ever again. Fuck it, let's all just stop doing anything we don't want to do. Men and women bot…
/r/MensRights19/03/20 11:40 PM
1

Seek real, non family, legal advice from a professional. There's nothing more we can help with here. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:25 PM
2

You need to seek out real legal advise. Best thing you can do right now is to realize how big if a deal this is and that your life will be changing dramatically. Start taking this seriously if you value your future. Seek real legal advise.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:18 PM
2

I'd you live in the USA it doesn't matter what you say to her, what she says, what you agree to. Once she takes you to family court, which she will, none of that matters. Best you can do is ask the court for a paternity test and pray it's not yours. Also DO NOT sign the birth certificate!! If you sign the birth certificate it doesn't matter if the baby is yours biologically. You're on the hook for 18 years of child support. Re-read the sidebar and while you're doing that consider why she bbn is …
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:01 PM
9

Yeah because baby mamas typically allow you to keep them around as "emergency pussy". This guy has no clue what's about to hit him.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:38 PM
6

"You'll think of something. See you at 7"
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:33 PM
3

To each his own. Feel free to try and hold women responsible in our current society. It may work for a short time with select women but sooner or later they will burn you and not care. Maybe you'll have better luck than the masses of men who have already tried and paid the price.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 08:21 PM
2

If she's pregnant with your baby and she's keeping the baby then please be prepared for all those "favors" she does for you and taking care of you to abruptly STOP. Also disregard anything she says about you not helping or not burdening you. That will all change when the baby comes. She will get half of whatever you make for the next 18 years. I'm sorry, Brother. You're in for a rough ride.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:14 PM
1

50+ years ago marriage was a good bet for men. It favored men. Women don't act the same as they did back then, the environment was setup in a way that women would never act the way they do now. Women changed because our society, environment changed. They adapt to their environment. I agree with you that women's behavior is the problem, but behavior can change in the right environment. But until the laws and society changes neither will women.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 08:10 PM
1

Agreed with another comment, this is not the best sub for this discussion. However, women and not good or bad. They are incredibly adaptable to their environment. The current environment is not beneficial to men in a marriage contract. If the environment (laws, society, social norms) changed to favor men then YES women would adapt and adopt that lifestyle. Women aren't the problem. Our society currently is setup as a bad bet for men. Which is why MGTOW, for now. Things can change.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 07:33 PM
1

It's called tough love but it only works if you respect the person. Sounds like you don't. Stay away from him but don't avoid tough love, find someone you respect to teach you. Mixed martial arts, combat sports are a great place to find this. Find a trainer / coach you like and then let him break you down and build you up. Train hard and in a year you'll be able to shut that shit down with your uncle real quick.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:49 PM
1

I'm 7 years past it now. It's the hardest thing you'll ever do but you come out the other side as an absolute beast. Stay strong, Brother.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 05:39 PM
1

My plates are typically 10 to 15 years younger. No LTR, no cohabitating and no marriage for me.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:38 AM
1

Damn, I wish. I was 35 and it took a divorce rape. So you can say my red pill was administered rectally. At least I'm getting it to my Son early, he's 14.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 04:35 AM
1

Age difference between what?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:29 AM
1

Bro, this is a repost with a different title. You ask the same question twice to the same sub in less than an hour. You have two posts full of comments with other guys telling you it's Beta. Just because you didn't like the answer the first time you posted it doesn't mean you post it again for a second opinion. We have lives, most guys on here are trying to actually fucking help you. Our time is valuable. Post once, get the advice and move on. Not cool, Bro.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:50 PM
41

Money and attention/validation. Women can live without money (briefly). A woman who isn't getting attention/validation will go insane. They can't live without it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 09:44 PM
22

Yep. 👆 This guy gets it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 09:10 PM
52

Yep, this is still an attention grab. She misses the spotlight. She's fine with getting it now as a victim of mean men who call her names.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 09:04 PM
95

She still craves the attention and validation. She didn't learn her lesson or see the bigger picture. If she had then she would have done exactly what someone else here commented. Start a new life, change your look, change your name. People do it every day. 99.9% of people would have no clue who she was. She chose to swap out the attention and validation of being a porn star for the attention and validation of being a victim. Cries on cue
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 09:03 PM
3

They always have a boyfriend, real or imaginary.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:33 PM
2

Came on here to write this. That's the only correct response.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:09 PM
1

"Hi, how are you? I'm (blackbird)." Start approaching or you'll never know.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:04 PM
1

No
/r/MensRights18/03/20 07:43 AM
4

You can make the comment, it's your life. But it's reactionary, emotional and mate guarding. Beta mindset.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:24 AM
1

Give it time
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:20 AM
3

Ignore. We don't mate guard here.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:42 AM
2

Nah bro, I'm good, I prefer to use condoms.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:02 AM
1

Not much thought or discussion has ever been put into distinguishing the two. As a side note, it would helpful if we were to gather all the information we do have and put it all in one place to direct people to.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:26 AM
3

This
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:19 AM
1

And I never would expect that from a woman. Take away divorce rape, guarantee 50/50 custody and no cash/prizes in a divorce. If that happened the playing field would be leveled and I'd consider marrying despite knowing her true nature.
/r/MensRights18/03/20 01:42 AM
4

👆 This man gets it
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:39 AM
14

Any advice any one gives you will be pulled straight out of their ass. We're all in the same boat right now. There's no section in the sidebar for Pandemic Game. Best we can do is everyone try shit out, share field reports and by end of the year we can figure out what worked and what didn't. Then add a Pandemic section to sidebar. Who the fuck knows at this point?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:25 AM
2

If she's a plate and really feel like smashing then just do it. She's disposable, ie,. a plate. The dread is already there because she has no commitment from you.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:10 AM
1

I couldn't imagine taking this kind of risk in the current #metoo climate and "rape culture". I get it and understand why you want to do it. Once upon a time this was even a fun kink people could consensually engage in. Now it would be so easy to find yourself arrested with rape charges and your life ruined. One sub has a bad experience, consensual or not, and you're in a shit storm. "Yes, I agreed to do it but I was under duress." That's all it would take. Recently saw a situation where a wife …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:59 AM
1

Great, go smash.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:49 AM
3

Agreed on the above and stoicism. You can balance that out, I'd read anything by Dale Carnegie. His work on how to build your social value and circle is timeless.
/r/MGTOW218/03/20 12:47 AM
1

Agreed. Thought the banter was good, surprised you went in so quickly for the #.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:42 AM
6

Come on, Bro. TRP is about more than just women. Sometimes there are legitimate questions that warrant our time which is why we all help each other out. But as a man of value you should be making and taking responsibility for the majority of your actions. Are you really asking us to make an judgement / morality call on whether it's ok for you to smash tonight due to you MIGHT having a fever?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:24 AM
-1

This
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:12 AM
6

Abs are made in the kitchen.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:06 AM
23

When she's done right by you but not sure how to handle it, my go to reward is always "Good girl" It's like catnip to them.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:56 PM
11

This is actually a subtle insult to women. They are saying women only have enough value ($15) to buy a cheating liar. If she wants a better man then she has to have more value. I like it.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 11:50 PM
3

Yes, she should soft next you.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:26 PM
1

What?? I don't see how that video is relevant to MGTOW or this sub. It's a boring video of a man paying for groceries for his family. If you're married and have a family it's not sad that you provide for your family as a man. Feeding your family is not a waste of money. Divorce rape is sad. Divorce rape is why you avoid marriage and kids. If tomorrow the laws changed to guaranteed 50/50 custody split and no alimony / no child support then I'd be pro-marriage.
/r/MGTOW217/03/20 11:19 PM
3

If you do decide to re-engage, ignore her response. Ignore that you ever even asked for the number. Change topics. Banter a little bit back and forth and then ask her again. Pressure is on her at that point. If she still says no then block and move on.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:06 PM
2

Sounds perfect, if you start doubting yourself see the 16 commandments (sidebar). Sounds like you're implementing most of them. In regards to giving her comfort, adhere to the 2/3rds rule. For every 3 things she does for you or says to you. Give her 2. The longer a LTR goes on the more comfort you'll need to provide. As long as you give her less than she gives you then you'll still be in your frame. But wait awhile (week or so), dont start validating her because she complained about it. You don'…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:51 PM
1

Momma birds kick their babies out of the nest (literally) when they are old enough to fly. They either learn to fly on the way down or they hit the ground and die. Nature is a bitch. Hopefully she lit a fire in you to move the fuck out. That might have been her intention, maybe not. Either way she did you a favor. Move out, live your life. Now.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:41 PM
4

Read Dale Carnegie, "How to make friends and influence people". His approach is timeless, works in social, business and relationships. You won't be able to get through to everyone but his methods gets you through the ice with most.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:35 PM
1

Read Mark Manson, The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck. It applies and will help.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:31 PM
2

Nah, they don't refuse to be good. They just have no incentive to be good or loyal or faithful. Can't really blame a lion for being a hunter. Can't blame a woman for maximizing her leverage. We can vote with our wallets and our time. Give them neither.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 09:55 PM
1

Look up "sexual transmutation". That anger is fuel and you can direct it into anything you choose. In TRP we typically recommend & preach using the anger to lift. Major gains can come in a short period of time in this state. More so than usual. That anger is an opportunity, use it.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:44 PM
2

Was he? Impossible to tell in text form. If so, I would have expected to see /s or some other indicator or sarcasm. Either way, my statement applies.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 09:34 PM
12

That's where we all typically end up eventually. Unless major changes are made to the social & legal structure of marriage, it's a bad contract for men.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 09:30 PM
1

Sidebar. See Sixteen Commandments of Poon. #5 V: Adhere to the golden ratio. Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:27 PM
10

And she'll still divorce rape you.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:09 PM
15

Attractive Women: Beautiful & Submissive Attractive Men: Cocky/Confident & Funny Having good lucks as a man is just a way for her to quickly preselect you as a confident man. She's not actually attracted to your looks, she's attracted to the confidence that attractive men usually have. You can be the hottest man on the planet but if your confidence is low, she dries up.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:59 PM
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This is very common in LTR and marriage. Anthol Kay (read his works, especially MAP) talks about this. It's not just you. Even if married women who don't express this outwardly, like still think it to themselves. I don't believe it's necessarily "because feminism". Women have always felt this way about men, feminism simply gives them the platform and support to openly express it. There is no sympathy for men in marriage.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 08:54 PM
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You're getting negative feedback reinforcement from your previous way of life and the people in it. Friends and family, etc,. You're probably making a lot more progress than you think. Old friends, family and social circles will be very slow to reinforce your new mindset. If you can make new friends or interact with new people with your new TRP mindset you'd see they'd just accept that as being you. Grind. Lift. Look for the small positive signs and get confidence from that. No one said it would…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:46 PM
3

I asked this girl- effectively my ontetis- to have brunch with me That was the only sentence we needed to read. You already know the answer. Next. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:41 PM
2

You're living with your LTR which is essentially married TRP. Not a lot of good options, usual advice rarely applies here. Look up Married Mans Sex life and MAP from Anthol Kay.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:38 PM
2

I think we've all gone through that phase with women. Try not to take them so seriously. Eventually you'll get to a point of amused mastery that you'll find their bravado and confidence as "adorable". Amused mastery shuts that down really quickly on their end and they fall into your frame. It's enjoyable for both of you at that point. But if it bothers you right now then next them. No need to disrupt your mission and mental well being.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:15 PM
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Beta: I helped someone in need. I got a lot of special attention on social media. I wonder if chicks like this? How will this make me look? Am I beta? Alpha? A little of both? I'll ask reddit. Alpha: I saw a need. I fixed it.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:02 PM
13

They all want to eventually make you a Beta provider. Awalt. Sounds like she's a plate. Treat her like one until she breaks.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:28 AM
1

We could debate the different alpha archetypes at length, it's a spectrum and a discussion for another time. In the context of your initial points, women will choose the top providers with highest SMV. Things are actually going to get even worse for beta bux.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:43 AM
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They've been told they're strong, independent women for years / decades. It will take more than 2 months to abandon that. We'll see a lot of strong women's pride initially these first couple months. "See we don't need a man even in a collapse". If this leads to a bigger collapse (end of the year) then yes women will be looking to be bailed out. However, you'll likely see women sharing HVM and men of wealth. There is almost non social stigma against it at this point. They would rather all share t…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:30 AM
9

What you're describing is not a "nice girl", she's "submissive".
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:54 AM
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I'll keep that in mind, Captain. Be cautious on who you help during this crisis. There will be more scams than actually people in need. Use equal parts your brain and heart. Balls got nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 12:45 AM
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Whenever a man or woman begins their statement with "man up", "sack up", "have some balls" - I can't take them seriously. I would recommend all men to stay on their mission, keep grinding day in and day out like you've been doing. Don't allow anyone or anything (cov19) deter you from your path. Be vigilant and cautious during these times as there will be a large number of "professional vicitims" looking to shame / guilt you into taking on their responsibilities. Let nothing deter you from your m…
/r/MensRights16/03/20 11:39 PM
9

👆 this
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:00 PM
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You don't. Anything you say will be a single drop of water in an ocean of influence that says the opposite. Pick and choose your battles. Your energy and time are important.
/r/MensRights16/03/20 09:13 PM
8

You should pass on her at any age. Actually, I take it back. If i make it to 107, I'll wife her up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 07:48 PM
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Thought the same thing but her Instagram pics match up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 06:29 PM
24

"Because I'm not into guys"
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:13 PM
3

Sounds legit. On a side note, I've got some ocean front property in Arizona for sale. Let's talk.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:45 PM
3

Unconditional love doesn't flow that way. The only unconditional love that exists is from parents to their children. That's it. She set the parameters of what she expects, your unconditional love. Unfortunately, you're going to have to be the adult here and decline a relationship you know to have impossible expectations. Sadly, she has a toxic entitled mindset. It sucks to have to "next" your own Mom but in the long run it will make you stronger.
/r/MGTOW215/03/20 11:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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