One of my more recent plates HB8.5 i've been fucking over the past month or so is on a 2 night 'girl party trip' in a another city. she brought the trip up in small talk after last few times she came over and I made sure to show no signs of mate guarding and seemed completely uninterested by her little trip. The night before, she came and saw me and I gave her the fucking of a lifetime, sensual, caveman, tease, you name it and she could barely walk out.
Now last night around 03.00, she sent me a snapchat msg saying '
' you've set my standard way too high..'' and then like a vampire bitmoji saying 'I vant you'
so here is how I fucked up, I saw the msg, and the only way I could read into it was she was hinting at me she was going to fuck other guys but decided not to because of me or something? not really thinking more about it I sent,
Lol..
thats good
and then put the phone away and went to sleep, now when i woke up she had sent me
... lol.. ? seriously
I've decided to go ghost for a while and stop thinking about it since I see no possible situation for reframe-ing. how ever, did I just misread into the subtext? what would have been the right approach in that situation?
edit
So after reading comments I have to agree, I probably overreacted. Something I like to do to her to tease her when we are hanging out is feigning going in for a kiss but actually pulling her nose up like a piggy and laughing, I never let her do it to me as she always resists like hell when I am doing it to her, and slowly I am training her to just submit to me and let me do it.. So I waited until evening and sent her a photo of me where I am pulling my nose up like that.. after about two hours she replied with a video of her doing the same thing with a beer bottle.. I then replied.
That is a big step.. I am very proud of you ;)
and she instantly replied:
with a bitmoji where she is exhausted.. at my feet and wrote: ...thank you!! it was incredibly difficult ... :'(
I feel like there was a small drop of frame there.. but giving her the right opportunity she jumped right back in.
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