So about twenty days ago I banged this girl. The days after we are travelling so we don't see each other, but she texts me a lot and I keep it mostly sexual, we both really want to fuck again.
We get back and we meet at uni at the break, go to the parking lot where we makeout and I finger her a bit, llike horny teenagers. We planned on meeting again after a house party at my place last saturday.
She actually texts me to meet some days before in the morning (!) but I postpone because gym, so at the end we go home together last friday night. We go to her place, we fuck for two hours, we go to bed exhausted at 5am. So far so good.
The morning it all goes to shit. I want to have sex again, but she said she doesn't feel well, she basically jerks me off while I finger her and we both go back to sleep for a bit. Then at like 9am she gets up and suddenly opens the curtains, light gets in and I ask "wtf you woke me up, why?". She goes "yeah I know, I need to work".
Keep in mind we were still in the break before terms so she had just minor assignments to do, she had all weekend anyway. So the fact we didn't have sex again (when we had agreed to have sex all day long), plus the fact she woke me up kinda early and in a rude way pissed me off. Honestly I felt really unwanted, so I got up and left without saying a word. She goes "Why are you angry?", I say "I'm not" and I leave.
Later that day she texts me something random and I ignore her. Then she texts me asking if I even want her come to my house party that night. I reply that yes, I want everybody to come. She cancels, I reply "ok" and that's it. Yesterday (sunday), radio silence on both sides.
So my question is, did I overreact? My flatmates think I have ridicolous standards, but then again one is a slut and the other is a pussy-whipped beta. It's also important to consider that I'm in a really challenging programme so releasing some stress with sex wouldn't be bad. Before her I had a four months dry spell since I don't have much free time at all. I was thinking of keeping the radio silence for like three days, then initiate again like nothing happened and keep it strictly to sex. Want to hear your opinion on all this.
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