Been seeing this girl for 4 months everything is going great. She is really submissive and super hot, I’m 5’6 and shes 5’8. Last time we went out she was wearing heels and was about 5’10, walking around with her and seeing everyone look at us felt amazing lol. Don’t really know how this is relevant but whatever. She is currently on break from school and I have seen her about 3 weekends in a row, we had sex every single time multiple times. This past Saturday I fucked her ass (something she’s never done) this made her cum and the seats of my car were soaking afterwards. During this time when we were fucking she said she loved me, I probably shot myself in the foot by saying I love her back. Last week she also bought me a nice Christmas gift (I didn’t get her anything), so it would seem that she is emotionally invested. This past monday she texted me asking when I was free so she could make plans for us, the context for this is that on our last date I was joking with her by saying so when are you gonna invite me out? I said it in a jokingly sarcastic manner but she responded by saying whenever you’re free cuz you’re always so busy. After she sends me that text on Monday, I respond 4 hours later saying “maybe Saturday”. It’s now almost Friday and she still hasn’t responded.
Before everyone starts yelling oneitis, I am currently not in the best situation to create options for myself. I work sometimes 7 days a week with shitty hours, lift 5 times a week, train mma between 1-3 times a week (3 when I have time). It’s hard for me to find time to actually go out and game. I also have an extremely limited social circle here, which I think is one of the biggest factors to success with women.
I planned to go out with one of my friends who’s visiting this Saturday (nothing confirmed yet). So if this girl does end up texting me to do something Saturday, would the best option be to say ive got plans already? Should I (try) to forget about this girl? I know not to double text. Any insights on what happened in this situation would be appreciated (obviously know a womens mind is a mystery). I honestly just don’t know what to do and it fucken sucks cuz I like this girl but those rp truths sting like a mother fucker; awalt, shes not yours its just your turn, not texting means low interest, etc. I guess this has just shown that I’m still bp at the core.