why does it seem most people coming here or trying to adopt red pill life seem to think being red pill is about being a complete dick to others.

like I get that you are suppose to put you first, but some people take that too far to the point where it's like bruh...

am I wrong to think there a moral middle ground to stand on for when it's right and wrong, and what's the limit? or am I on point to thinking some people are just reckless as hell with it