Do I have an issue with porn/jerking off?

self-medicate · 2018-11-21T18:32:43+00:00

At what point does it become unhealthy?

This is a question that needs to be answered on an individual basis. You're the only one that can determine this. My recommendation is to go without it for a time period and see if you notice any quality of life changes. If you don't feel better, chances are you were fine. If you do feel better, chances are it was unhealthy.

Also, if you find it difficult to stop, it's indicative of a dependency you have on porn (which is unhealthy).

Killmepls2018 · 2018-11-21T19:19:06+00:00

You are a fucking MEN. You want fo FUCK to reproduce. Stop masturbating and your desire to go out and fuck will be muuch higher. You will take more risk of rejection to bust a nut but this will give you more experience and a higher chance of success. I am currently in the post-breakup phase and i quit masturbating since then. Its just night and day. I feel a bigger urge to improve my smv.

indigenoushorizons · 2018-11-21T22:04:30+00:00

people like to think porn/jerking off isn't a big deal, simply because it's easier that way.

Not only is it easier that way, but it also makes them feel more secure about their actions- i.e makes them feel better about themselves.

in short, people like to be told good things about their bad habits.

people are going to be like, "ahh it's subjective", or parrot some other random bullshit reason as to why they have lack the self-control.

so now that you have my general stance,

it's always unhealthy. Why?

body uses energy to create and release it.

chemicals in your body actually change when you release (not in a good way).

that is your life force, essentially the only thing that can create another you- and you just blew into a tissue.

Consider 2 bulls: 1 castrated bull and 1 uncastrated bull

2 physically strong bulls.

2 very big bulls.

2 intimidating bulls.

basically these 2 bulls are pretty much physically, the same.

the difference? the mindset.

the uncastrated bull remains wild and uncontrollable

the castrated bull turns docile and obedient

Everytime you jerk off, you are castrating yourself. remember that each nut

As for porn, there's a shit ton of information on why that's bad already out there-- so I won't touch on it.

Just remember this. you are watching the girl you want to fuck, get fucked by another dude. AND, you are enjoying it. This, makes you a literal cuck.

Happy holidays

DropDeadTyrant · 2018-11-21T19:05:46+00:00

I'm not happy with my life at all. i dont jerk off because I'm horny. To be frank, I've only really been horny about three times this whole year. I jerk off when shit isn't going right in my life. I get angry and do it like 3 to 8 times. So, if that sounds like you, I'd say it's unhealthy.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-11-21T18:57:24+00:00

Are you approaching women? Are your lifts going up? Are you happy with your life? If your answer to all three is "yes" then keep doing what you are doing.

Title	Do I have an issue with porn/jerking off?
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Date	November 21, 2018 6:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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