Do you call LTR when she’s distant ?

comcain · 2020-06-05T18:54:54+00:00

We're seeing a lot of this here on TRP with the lockdown. People in LTR's are finding out that too much time together is a recipe to hate each other. In short, they're finding out what marriage is often like.

As for whether or not to call when she's distant, she's got control right now. Be more distant. Be busy. Next time she calls, let her leave a message. Text her and say you're busy, no explanation. She'll immediately start hamstering why you're suddenly busy. Start working out like you're preparing to enter the plate spinning marketplace again. Get a haircut. All these things are in the sidebar under "dread game".

She may already be gone and it's hopeless. Women tend to fume awhile, light switch you off, then suddenly leave. I think she's fuming.

DON'T pick up the phone and ask her what's wrong.

Cheers

Snowboard18 · 2020-06-05T19:07:22+00:00

When she pulls away, you pull away harder.

MysticalMike1990 · 2020-06-05T18:50:15+00:00

just go find something to do to keep yourself busy, if you've gotten yourself into a long-term relationship with a responsible adult and they themselves are busy, they might just be wrapping some shit up before they get the time to talk to you. if y'all are on some petty shit, good luck, you can usually see that storm a brewin' before you sail into it.

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-06-05T18:50:44+00:00

When they pull away, it is best to pull away as well and let them come back to you. If you start trying to reel her in then it is only going to make her leave more.

It's rough, go do something interesting/high value to take your mind off it. Like hiking or some shit.

iNeedACig · 2020-06-05T19:17:23+00:00

u match what shes doing

Title	Do you call LTR when she’s distant ?
Author	j-19851
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	June 5, 2020 6:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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