I think I've lost some girls because I follow the "treat her like a child" school and don't entertain their whims and tantrums, so it's always clear to them that I'm just there for a good time and if I don't have it I'll leave and they don't dare pull that shit with me.

That's part of the spinning plates game I guess, but it amazes me how some girls cling to guys they don't respect just because they're hooked on the drama caused by them disrespecting the guy, the guy getting mad, then squashing it and being all lovey dovey. I guess they like the feeling that they can control the guy. Do you ever use any of that as a carrot? Does the Cold Motherfucker tactic only work short term?