I do try to keep texting to a minimum (rarely initiate) and I have noticed that most of the strongest shit tests come over text.

In person my ltr is nice and submissive (mostly) but she becomes very bold with her phone. It's annoying really but realizing what she is doing wins half the battle.

From my point of view, texting shit tests puts us at an even greater disadvantage with little to gain by passing.

i cannot account for tone, context and body language. I'm fighting with one eye closed really.

How would you handle them over text? i have ignored a few, challenged others and amplified some. I'm also convinced that the longer the pointless conversations go on, the more i fall into her frame.