Does anyone else have a tough time believing the 30 year old rockstar or "high SMV" guy archetype on TRP?

Luis_McLovin · 2017-01-05T23:37:26+00:00

this post reeks of beta and bluepill

your reality is whatever the fuck you make it to be

vandaalen · 2017-01-05T22:41:41+00:00

I am 40 and I 've never come anywhere close to fucking so many women as I do now.

In the last four weeks alone I had a sex with 12 different women and I could have plated all of them. I currently have three plates and three more prospects running. I could easily ltr at least two of the plates. They all know I am fucking other women.

I am now in a position I have never been before. I actually reject women for various reasons, plates become sad if I tell them that I don't have time for it and for the first time in my life I recognize that women really do want me and that they love me for what I am.

Not a rock star though. :(

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-06T02:33:39+00:00

Before someone brings up how college girls go for older guys, I call bullshit.

What you have to understand is that there are 3 types of young women:

A. Girls who think dating a man who is more than 3-4 years older than her is "totally grody" or whatever the kids say these days.

B. Girls who are open to older men, but who prefer men their own age.

C. Girls who actively prefer an older lover.

Older guys who bang young women don't bother with Group A at all, and after that, it's a question of sifting out the Group B girls. Once you've done that, it's "tally-ho!"

This is why I say guys need to "think horizontally, not vertically". If a woman isn't into you, it's not up to you to "convince" her. You're just wasting your time. An older guy who succeeds with younger women is a guy who has learned to "see the matrix."

I get the idea that your 30s are supposed to be a lonely hell compared to your 20s.

If so, then you're doing it wrong.

The way TRP paints your 30s is that it is your time to have fun and even make up for lost time if you missed out on the hookup culture and debauchery....

If you're "keeping score" and worried about making up for your FOMO when you were younger, then you're going to have a rough time.

Also, a lot of guys see results that other guys get, without seeing the work that went into it. So when someone tells an athlete or a musician, "Oh, it's easy for you" they don't see the hours of training and practice that went into it.

sihitu123 · 2017-01-05T22:48:04+00:00

As much as I like trp's wisdom, it's very surreal coming from eastern eu country from a small city. Then again US might have a hookup culture like no other.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-05T23:23:34+00:00

No. I'm friends with a guy who's 37 he was in the army for 12 or so years I think maybe more. From 2010-2014 he went to college joined a frat and fucked 18-21 year olds regularly. He's a driver for ups now so it ain't the money.

oldredder · 2017-01-06T06:23:49+00:00

no. To me this is normal (30's more status, more sex, more SMV than 20's) so I believe it as I see it constantly

slothsenpai · 2017-01-05T22:35:43+00:00

I'm 27 and so wondering the same thing as OP. When you're 20, you can get away with being broke, jobless, not having a car or your own place etc as long as you have the body, muscles and youthful/cocky vibe though once you hit 30s, are you more pressured to have your life together and everything.

Hot older women often prefer the young studs, which reminds them off their youthful prime and young girls will expect you to have money and treat them and shit. Dunno if I'm over thinking it but that's just how I imagine it at least with some 30 year old I'd seen (maybe they were just always beta to begin with anyways).

blackedoutfast · 2017-01-06T00:27:11+00:00

if you're just an average frustrated chump who grows up in a rinky-dink small town then goes off to a big state school from 18-22 then moves back to your rinky-dink boring small town and live there until you die, then yeah college is probably the best years of your life.

if you go to college and have fun, then you graduate, start working, enter a LTR and after a couple of decide to marry your girlfriend and start having kids, then yeah your 30s will probably be lame.

if you're a big fuckin nerd with no social skills and you don't know how to have fun or make friends or do well with girls and your life is an endless cycle of going to work then going home and watching tv and occasionally playing videya games with your equally lame buddies, yeah your 30s will suck.

but if you even moderately have your shit together, you have ok social skills, and live in a decent area with lots of other youngish, singleish people who have their shit together, then your 30s can be fucking amazing.

and i don't know where you're getting your info about hot college girls not being interested in older guys, but it's very incorrect. it's actually easier to hookup with college girls than the older ones who are getting closer to the wall. college chicks are used to being around thirsty poor college guys with zero game. once you get out in the real world all you need is a job, a car, your own place, and don't be completely retarded and college chicks will see you as a successful, experienced, rich cool older guy.

Pelikahn · 2017-01-06T15:07:38+00:00

No, I have an issue with girls that are too young trying to get on my dick though. I'll get hit on by teenage girls when I'm out and about more than any other age group.

That's why I befriend college age males and go party with them and hook up with girls that they invite to the parties.

epistemic_humility · 2017-01-07T05:07:10+00:00

Yeah. I think Chad isn't near as into self improvement and such as trp. Years of trp make something much better or at least different than what Chad would amount to after thirty years.

I don't think it's over hyped. You must be in a weird area. I'm just a few years off and getting close. I can't imagine how ill be at it all in another five years or so.

Title	Does anyone else have a tough time believing the 30 year old rockstar or "high SMV" guy archetype on TRP?
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Date	January 5, 2017 10:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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