I know it's all about tradeoffs. When I'm single spinning plates, my life is usually more fun. I go out more and constantly have activities lined up with guy and girl friends. There are a lot more ups and downs, but there is a lot more excitement. This is kind of my comfort zone and how ive lived my life the past few years.

How do you guys deal with the lack of excitement in a LTR? The stability factor and being with a quality woman i share a genuine connection with is nice. I also realized I've made the mistake of sleeping with nearly every girl I'm friends with and feel wrong hanging out with them being in a LTR. Guy friends want to go out less since most are now with kids/their own LTRs. Any advice or can relate to this struggle?