I already heard from girls many times that I'm arrogant. and I noticed that it makes some girls react negatively. first of all, it makes them shit test a lot. second of all one of them told me that arrogance is a sign of insecurity. she said that after I was being "cocky and funny". so, does being cocky and funny really is a good move if some people perceive it to be an attempt at impressing? and why do some girls do not see anything wrong with arrogance?