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| 1 | Is this the pill to swallow?you see this more and more because of the games. when you try to game you basically saying - "let me be what ever this person wants so i can get whatever i want out of him\her". what you end up being is - not you. if you try to pass "shit tests" on purpose what you're doing in the long run is loosing you're self in the game because you use to say and do what ever will get that shit test over with and not what you really think about doing. but when you pass shit tests it works and people start … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to Help with my Boyfriend's New Apartment is Causing TensionYou ask how to make it SEEM not controlling and pushy. The best way is to not be controlling and pushy | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadYou right there is 2 types of alpha the good and the bad. Just like hitler and jesus you can’t say that jesus was a beta and you can’t deny the alphaness of hitler. Remember - two exact opposites are one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Get in touch with the female inside of youwell, i just shared an idea.. i really believe that most of the lack of action which leads to scarcity is a direct impact of disrespect. think about it next time you'll get high. are you afraid of anyones rejection or just of woman? and then, are you afraid of any woman's rejection or just from a specific type of woman? and then think about what rejection really means? people afraid rejection from their superiors or inferiors. if a simple worker will reject a boss then the boss would probably ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Get in touch with the female inside of youYou have no idea how much incredible and meaningful, and insightful conclusions i have came to realize and understand under this influence. i don't get high to laugh and get all fucked up. when i get high i know what i'm doing and i think philosophically and visualize under this influence. i suggest you to try it. weed and psychedelics are windows to the spiritual world. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Get in touch with the female inside of youthat's what i said. she wants you to be a man. if you saw a girl that has the potential to be a hot and sexy but she tries to act like a dude or maybe doesn't know how to appear sexy but she do has sexy qualities then you would do something like they do when they shit test. you would like to see her in her best won't you? because you can sense that this girl has something about her but in seems that she doesn't aware of it. but if she's a total mess then you would charge her ass to the game righ… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I Want To Have Oneitis and End Up In Nihilism / DepressionWhy would you want to feel oneitis for her? even if you want to love her then love isn't oneitis.. love is empathy and oneitis is codependency. love stems from empathy while codependency stems from lack of empathy. you basically saying that you want to unlove her and turn to an egotistical prick that has a low enough self esteem for him to feel that the girl he's dating has much more value as a human being then him so he feels that he has to please and work for her. this shit is sick. oneitis is… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | creativity checkyes. all of this "he needs to pursue me" shit. while on the inside she craves to fuck him already heh | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | creativity checkno man.. i mean she's going to play it hard to get so how would you distinguish between a shit test and a hard to get shit? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | creativity check=D | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | creativity checkain't that funny? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | A question about PowerTalki meant either you in or you out as an attitude, not as an ultimatum. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Question about The female natureyes but how can somebody state that female and male brains are different if as you stated youeself, there are solipsistic females, and there are solipsistic males.. then the reason to that phenomenon should be not in the structure or "wiring" of the brain, it should be else where.. let's examine what is "wiring"? wiring of the brain it is a biological explanation to how the person thinks. it is a wiring of the thoughts that goes through someone's mind. (how a person thinks and perceives the worl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 09:55 AM |
| 2 | a point about female's sexual strategythe problem is that if you grew up with low self esteem then it is still there. be cautious not to fall into the trap of addiction to the validation they give you because it will fuck you up. if you want to FEEL you're sexy then you have to release past hurting emotionally. getting high SMV won't help with that. go get an NLP trainer and release the shit. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | a point about female's sexual strategyi get you point i just think that people have to take into account the difference between conscious and subconscious mind games | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | a point about female's sexual strategyit really reminds me of idealization and devaluation phases of shallow people. they idealize people who they feel are possess some personality aspect that they would want to possess like strength or confidence and it is like that because those individuals hate themselves because they subconsciously feel weak and they hate it. the more they hate their weak side the more they idolize the opposition to that side which is strength. those individuals are malicious and toxic (narcissistic) and yes whe… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | a point about female's sexual strategyi really think that a female who put out easily in hopes that the male will stay must be stupid or maybe her stupidity stems from her desperation because she doesn't believe that this man will stay with her otherwise but it is pretty clear that if she'll put out easily that no male will stay long hh | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | a point about female's sexual strategyMen want to be treated awesome by a woman that is good enough. Women want to be treated good enough by a guy that is awesome. why females settle for betas then? because this sentence can totally represent a female that settles for a beta and wanting to upgrade just like a man with a good enough woman will possess a desire to have a hot side chick.... | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 03:29 PM |
| 2 | a point about female's sexual strategyyes. that's exactly a reason for the high smv female to mess with the high smv male's head because if she won't do it then he will keep going and going. so my point is that the highest smv male wouldn't always get the sex flawlessly and so easily because a smart female would plan on how to make him stay and not just fuck him | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Pickup Artists are psychopathic.well, you have point but how is that different than what females do? most of the game that i know i learned from females. their outfits aren't peackock? their lies about them being a virgin angels isn't lying? even this LTR shit for sex is a deal basically. you can say that just how pick up artists try to take advantage of woman for sex, woman try to get advantage of men for their LTR goals they too have a goal and this goal is to secure the highest SMV male and make him purpose to her as soon a… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Question about The female naturei fucking afraid of conflicts because of this shit. my anger is huge and im a big dude. so i try to stay away from shit | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Most people here want easy answers for everythingwell, i think that the rules are just half of the truth. it is really illogical to say that every woman will act the same way because it neglects any kind of psychological factors. for example: every human being has the feminine inside him and the masculine, but no one is 100% feminine or masculine, so if those rules do apply to woman then they will have to be 100% feminine. but generaly and especially in the western world it's a mix. second of all - what if she has anxieties? what if she feels … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Why PUA's are bullshitwell, you right. but now let's spill some bitter truth about the bitter truth - you know how i know that somebody isn't an alpha? because alpha like Rollo Tomassi said is someone who just does whatever the fuck he wants, so basically, a true alpha is someone who doesn't judge himself and therefore he just accepts himself unconditionally -> loves himself unconditionally. that is the reason that he can do whatever he wants. so alpha is someone who is just objective. and that is the reason why he i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 07:00 PM |
| -1 | The Way to Strengthen Your Frameyou want me to believe a research instead of my own emotions?.... they can yap about science as long as they want, while research is just an assumption on a greater scale, my emotions are my own reality. i met people who could barely talk and after using NLP they started to live life. i experienced the effects of NLP myself so why do i need some dudes speculations when i SEE a result? you want to convince me of what? that i'm lying? you don't have to belive me... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framewell, how can NLP be a scam if I feel differently after practicing it? if you don't believe me then it's your choice but this is what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 12:09 PM |
| 3 | I approached 5 women and was a complete asshole to them and 5 other women and was "nice" to them, here are my results:well, it's simple logic. but you went to both extremes. what about being in the middle? the problem with extremes is that the one pushes her away and the other one makes her desperate and then you're not attracted. on the other hand, being in the middle is straight hot and cold and she gets addicted for the long run. asshole is for the short run. that's what i experienced anyway.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 06:16 PM |
| 18 | Swimming in Blue: He fucked my oneitis... “multiple times”she is just another human being. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 02:47 PM |
| -4 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framelook, how stupid you could be to think that i am trying to sell something that i have no profit of? how is that even logical? do you think that tael swan signed to rddit to advance her book sales? what the fuck are you talking about? you don't have to buy anything. you can look up the book in google in pdf format if you will find one. the shit that you wrote will make no difference to nobody. you have to understand the background of how emotions work and the book does it really well. that's why … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The Way to Strengthen Your Frameit's probably possible to read the fucking comments where i described the basis of the exercise for three or four different folk just like you which ask me to do it over and over again. and if you doubt it then i don't give a flying fuck. i am not the author of this book. my name is michael not tael swan. i don't get a single penny out of it. i shared it with the guys here to help but it seems like they are too fucking lazy or so low of budget that they can't afford a 10$ book. (damnn..) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 01:06 PM |
| -6 | The Way to Strengthen Your Frameyes, i want to sell this book. i won't tell you shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framei had social anxiety, i used to develop oneitis easily, i used to be afraid of conflicts and i used to feel inferior. after 1 exersise those feelings are just gone. the same girl i had oneitis for, it just disappeared. i just feel much stronger in general. more authentic. more "free". no social anxiety. because all of these are just symptoms of childhood traumas that seek to integrate themselves and the triggers are the red flags. if you experience anger or dependance (another word for oneitis) … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 05:23 PM |
| -8 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framei told you that it's too complicated to explain here because i have to write an entire book for you to understand and you can't even understand a single line of what I'm saying so you're wasting my time. my time worth more than you're fucking 10$ so if you really want to improve then go and buy the damn book or find it on the net for free. i don't give a fuck. my business is to share what i discovered you're business is to choose what to do with it instead of speaking disrespectfully. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 11:12 AM |
| -16 | The Way to Strengthen Your Frameheh.. dumbass motherfucker. stay weak. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | The Way to Strengthen Your Frameif you have unresolved childhood issues and emotional baggage then you will have a hard time achieving things in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 09:09 AM |
| 2 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framethis exercise works with your subconscious mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 09:09 AM |
| 3 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framewhat interest do i have in selling another author's book?.... i share this book because this book explains to the bone how to do this exercise properly. it's not a gym exercise, it's emotional practice and that's why people who want to do it needs to understand how emotions work and how to do this properly for it to really work. i can tell you right now how to do it but it won't tell you much: become aware of how you feel towards situations and when you feel negative emotion close your eyes and … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 09:08 AM |
| 3 | The Way to Strengthen Your Framethose pieces are exactly the reason that i shared this book. because no matter what change you did, the pieces that you talk about are the traumas that need to be treated. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | difference between a shit test and real anger etcok thanks | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 04:17 PM |
| 3 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.this strong personaliy that you mentioned is a clear sign to extremely low self-esteem \ worth - so basically she's controlling and not strong. she is controlling because if she loses control then she feels threatened. she's weak as fuck for all material things that can make her feel worthwhile. those types of girls always get into relationships with beta males because otherwise they feel inferior because they have to have security. betas provide this security because they worship her. when he b… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 09:04 AM |
| 1 | difference between a shit test and real anger etcso basically when she shit tests me then it's an act.. because i have a good intuition to recognize when someone is acting. thats why i am confused because if everything is a shit test then everybody shit tests.. i had a friend (a dude) that i can say that he used to shit test me but it was because he felt inferior so he tried to "get me on his level" this way and we no longer friends. so why couldn't a woman try to do the exact same thing? sometimes bitches feel inferior and they don't like tha… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 06:04 AM |
| 2 | difference between a shit test and real anger etcyes but what if i am a dick? should i keep being a dick to people even if they get distant as a result of it?.. )) | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | how to best respond to triangulation?yea but how can i not care if i do care? )) i know what you're sayin but this analysis is just natural to me and i notice every micro thing people are doing around me and i make conclusions based on that. i know a lot of shit because of that.. and i don't know how to turn it off. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | how to best respond to triangulation?calm down man when i say "her" i mean females in general (any female) not this girl specifically.(i just speak to myself like this in my head) i just know that the behavior are so similar that i know very well that this female enegry is all the same in every one of them. what i'm doing for me? i study in college industrial engineering. i workout for years but recently i stopped partly because of the studies. i read books.. i learn game. i work as a security guard. i go out with friends sometimes… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | how to best respond to triangulation?their manipulative nature is a function of their self esteem. i swear to god that the more she is beautiful the less self esteem she has and the more manipulative she is. low self esteem people are high on manipulation. it's a known fact. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 03:52 PM |
| 0 | how to best respond to triangulation?ok so the real question is why my frame is weakened and how can i make it stronger? if i understand the real picture then that's what i think: if she sees a man with a weakened frame (but not totally) and he seems like a good provider then she WILL be interested in him but she will subconsciously throw shit at him to secure him as a provider or get rid of him if he's too weak. but if he's a good provider AND has a strong frame then she will be just totally submissive and sweet. and she doesn't e… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | how to best respond to triangulation?ok i think i got what you're saying. maybe a better thing to do is to make her feel stupid for doing those things instead of just not showing that i'm not affected. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | how to best respond to triangulation?so what you're suggesting? just to let her throw shit at me and not react? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 02:08 PM |
| 0 | how to best respond to triangulation?do you have something useful to tell me?) | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 12:52 PM |
| -1 | how to best respond to triangulation?hh .. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 12:52 PM |
| -2 | how to best respond to triangulation?are you trying to shit test me on TRP? .. ) i mean that she's too manipulative. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 12:38 PM |
| -1 | [Repost] Why women in relationships deliberately beta-fy their meni always ask myself - and what if she'll turn to be too much insecure to the point that she will start to drop out of the relationship? i had a girlfriend once that for 4 whole months she was my bitch. she was broke but she bought me a gold bracelet worth almost 1000$ but then i ended up fucked up because i got addicted to the sex and then she started to tell me that she feels that i don't really love\ i don't really appreciate her - and she told me straight away that she's too anxious. i know t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | what does she want from me??i know what you mean but i have my issues too and i'm recovering from social anxiety and now i'm better than ever but still i have a hard time to just talk openly because my Ego is at stake. i know that this is just a bullshit ass feeling but it makes it so damn hard.. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | what does she want from me??well, you're right. i thought that a bold move like the kiss will assure her but no. just by ignoring her totally and acting indifferent and jerky works on her. when i make her feel stupid for even trying to say shit then she crumbles. but when does it all stops?? she is gorgeous and my ego is giant. I DO FEEL ANNOYED BY HER when she's bitchy. so basically we stuck. what does it mean to crumble her test?? if she can annoy me then i failed. if i'm ignoring her test she can assume that i'm afraid … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | what does she want from me??she's all about the Ego competition. i feel like she's obsessing. she said it herself how can she see every little thing that i'm doing and analyze it if she's not obssessive??.. but she's a bitch also so i don't even know what she will do if i'll just get to the point my guess is that she'll try to gain power over me. this is an endless game with her because she's a skilled player | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | what does she want from me??hahaha =D | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 10:55 AM |
| 3 | what does she want from me??that's what i do but she just keeps coming back. fucking witch =D it bothers her that i seem indifferent to her and she seeks to get this ego boost out of me. )) | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 10:10 AM |
| 5 | what does she want from me??by mistake i mean that it's like gaming woman at the workplace. she's in my class and now i can't get rid of her. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.why does it matter when i wrote it? it is true. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.seems like you disagree but you aren't stating the reason.. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 01:02 PM |
| 2 | feminine global shit test.oh now i understand. so they need game even more than us. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.you ignored half of the shit that i said. second of all if we"ll start to examine who lived first where then the whole fucking world should be changed. i'll say it once again there is no palestinians as far as history goes, there are all kind of refugees from all of you arab countries that called themselvs like this AFTER the creation of israel. before that non of you mother fuckers even thought about creating a state because you were busy fucking sheep. and when you saw the jews doing something… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.i do support israel i live here but i know that the situation is whack. you still looking at it one sided view. no body invaded your coundry (you're lebanese not even from palestine) when israel established you had your chance (and you still do) to have a state next to us but all of your arab countries started a war that they lost and now you claim that somebody invaded somewhere? no body invaded no where we have been given this state by right and law and jews have their history at this land eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.brainwashed by the media? even our media brainwashing us against us =D look, i am actually kind of neutral is all of this. i know that in war, both sides are doing their dirt. if you'll claim that palestinians are totally innocent then you just wrong.. that's why i want to stay away from politics and i don't even watch the news because the media is lying about something for sure. i just know that every side thinks he's an angel. in my view, both are wrong and right depends on how you look at it.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.look man this is not the place ok? stop acting like a little child. you see only what YOUR goverment lets you see. what tf did you thought that living is lebanon you will hear good stories about israel? do your research objectively and not just what YOUR people telling you. come to israel and see how people over here treat you with respect. arabs here live among us and they live even better than me. they have privliges that i don't have. the only reason you suffer it is because iran wants israel… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.damn if muslims need the red pill then shit is really bad.. look i'm not really in to politics but as far as i know we are not the one's that declined peace offers so... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.the problem is that she can discard you or try to mess with you until she wins.. i had that happen to me. a chick called me to her house herself and then 90th minute she flakes and i knew she will do it because she craves power. fucking narcissistic bitch. i had already fucked her once but she always does shit on purpose. she said once that she likes shy guys. this is where i knew that she's a Ego driven witch but my game with her was very sucessful so i fucked her. but then she tried all the po… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.i sure she was aroused because i felt it in her voice. i told her that i'll do that ever the fuck i want so it kind of adds up with the "theory" and her response)) she started to fall back but the way she said it.. i hate it.. this "i deserve something" attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.the thing is that when you were raised this way this perception is deeply wired in you. but it is possible to change it of course | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | feminine global shit test.if you dealing with a cool woman then is all good but if you're dealing with a bitch you need to shake her ass n brake her ass - 2pac. =D | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 11:01 AM |
| 2 | feminine global shit test.if being objective is your neutral state then value it because i have to work very hard to change this. i came a long way and it gets better and better but the amount of time i invested in this change is unbelievable. appreciate this because you have your freedom ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 11:00 AM |
| 2 | feminine global shit test.i agree with you totaly, but in order to be this chad you have to eliminate self criticism because if you grew up in a household when you always been criticised by your parents then you tend to always feel that if something bad happens it is your fault so put yourself in a position of a guy like this and shit test him =D if she's bitching then he feels wrong and then he feels that he has to do the right thing and it is very hard to control that because the reactiong is triggered by the beliefs t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 10:53 AM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.this is real. that's why i say that shit tests are like politics when they want to fuck they want you strong but sometimes they want you weaker. just pay attention to who the "princesses" date long term? she always seems like she's the important one of the two so how it adds up with the whole gaming shit? it doesn't. because if she's looking for an LDR then she wants you simple and comforting (good enough) because she wants to feel secure. and it seems to me like they don't even care who the fuc… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 10:41 AM |
| 3 | feminine global shit test.i'll add that to my "defense agains manipulations" list =D i had this girl just a couple of days before that i tried to flirt with and she tried to shame me for it, then when she saw this doesn't work because i was assertive and told her that she's tripping, so she backed down, but then she said that "i don't like to admit that i am wrong and i don't like when people talk to me like you do" so i guess this is scolding. i just stopped responding to her but i guess that if i would proceed then she… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | feminine global shit test.there is a big difference between constructive criticism and self criticism. if you criticise your self then you feel negative and down on yourself, but if you analyze what you did that didn't lead to the results you wanted to make it better next time is a whole another story. the difference is huge. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 10:16 AM |
| 15 | feminine global shit test.to grow a set of balls is more complicated then you think for someone who suffer from ineffective thinking.. there is much work to be done to grow those balls. i know from experience but the progress worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 01:30 PM |
| 24 | feminine global shit test.yes but think about it, the need for approval is the need to feel that you are "ok" that you are not "wrong" and how can you feel that you're not okay\ wrong - if you aren't criticising? you have to criticise in order to feel "wrong" and THEN you seek out approval in the hopes that you'll feel ok. by the way, learning game can be a fatal mistake when you high on self criticism because now you have all of those rules that you need to follow and if you'll fail then you will again criticise yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeYou know why i respect gay men? They just don’t give a fuck.. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 05:23 AM |
| -4 | Needy Texting Instantly Destroys Attraction (Image Example)You know what man? Maybe you sister is just too judgmental? I mean, fuck micromanaging every thing we say to them. Fuck that.. seeking their approval like their pussy is gold made. Too much emojis? Damn i had complains that i’m too cold.. so when you’re cold it’s bad and when you warm it’s bad. Fuck this shit! Any girl has some kind of judgmental map in her head through which she filter guys and it differs according to her level of judging. You can never really know what to do exactly. I don’t m… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:56 AM |
| 1 | How to Become Outcome Independent?general anxiety it is a symptom of the low self worth issues. it's not so easy man.. i deal with it too and i'm much better now but i went a long fucking way.. the thing is, that you can come to terms with your logical thinking about shit. it means that you can change the way you percieve things - people do this by CBT therapy. but once you got your shit together with CBT you still possess all of the emotional triggers from you past thinking. it is called "emotional learning" so even if you cang… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to Become Outcome Independent?you have low self worth issues. so every thing that triggers in you this feeling of worthlessness is scary for you. you can brake down every situation and in the end you will end up with the real reson and this reason is "because i'll feel like a worthless piece of shit\ humiliated\ ain't shit\ etc. because - what the fuck else can happen? =) go to therapy. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckJust give the damn ring to froddo for redemption man.. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckSo maybe your friend was a piece of shit because he knew it was so important to you and still (i guess) tried to steal it (again, i guess) ? People at medieval times were killed for those type of things every day.. Basically it wasn’t about “just a ring” it was about the meaning behind it. It makes everything much understandable. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckWhy was the ring so important to you? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckWhat did you do? If it is not a secret? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A Fuckwell you aren't a piece of shit because your judgment is not objective. you regret only because you believe that you did something wrong but what if you wrong about you being wrong? ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 02:45 PM |
| 3 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckIt depends on what kind of therapy you went to.. if you went to CBT then it (maybe) helping a person to see the world in a more effective way that stops self sabotage, but what about all of the traumas that the same person went through due to his old ways of thinking? Guess what - they are still trapped in the emotional body TRP is also a kind of CBT for better chances with woman but it can’t heal your emotional baggage. You’re not supposed to feel like shit in case a chick turned you down in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 10:56 AM |
| 5 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckYour mother just passed on to you her feelings of low self worth. You don’t have to battle your emotions because it IS the shit that she passed on to you that makes your emotions go wild. You need to go to therapy and heal this thing instead of playing with your mind. I went to therapy and it helped. You have to release those trapped emotions (traumas) from early childhood. And even if the therapy costs fucking 1 G per hour then do that because you aren’t using your full potential until you get … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 06:15 AM |
| 1 | how to handle shit testing from a bitch that i don't even want?if i have past childhood trauma that triggers anger in me when someone tries to do something that is similar to belittlement and i just can't handle but to feel anger and be reactive. it means that i have failed the shit test because I'm overreacting? what do you mean by frame? because as i see it, if i show emotional frustration then i'm already failed.. am i correct? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | how to handle shit testing from a bitch that i don't even want?yea but it is important to understand the difference between a shit test and frustration because a shit test means that she feels above me and tries to check if i am meeting her standards (as i understand it) meanwhile frustration means that she feels below me and tries to provoke me to make me want her. in both cases she will act in similar ways that can be interpreted as a shit test. i want to know the difference. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Does Attention Seeking Behavior is a beta trait?I did meditation for two days now and the neediness is gone. i just feel powerful as fuck. besides that, the awareness itself alone kind of helps to drop the attention whoring. now it feels like a childish thing to do. but i still remain awesome in my eyes. my conflict is not that i'm acting i am what i am it's just that i want people to react positivly - that desire evokes neediness. i guess i'll have to keep unlearning that behavior | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Does Attention Seeking Behavior is a beta trait?so how can i stop this? i do know that this is a problem that i have but what can i do about it? it seems to be emotional. its just there.. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Does Attention Seeking Behavior is a beta trait?yea it definitely makes me needy.. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 11:26 AM |
| 2 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately.it happens.. because when you overwhelmed by her pussy power you aren't thinking rationally.. has to keep it in mind constantly | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 05:21 AM |
| 13 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately.if she's doing it then you started to fuck up way back. ask youself what is more important her or your self respect? no matter what i feel towards a woman if she wants to go out with another dude like that 1 on 1 she fucking out. she's done. she no longer has a pussy she has a dick in my eyes. if she was some kind of a fuck buddy then i'll give a flying fuck but a girlfriend? NE FUCKING VER. you know what you need to do bro? you need to fucking dump the bitch without even explaining to her. just… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me?maybe i didn't explain myself good enough.. i do not mean that she's the one or something. i meant that it is strange to me that i find bad woman more attractive for fucking. and the good ones that are an LTR material as not so arousing. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Should you treat women like shit?I believe that treating her like shit is going to the extreme. when you train yourself to be a jerk then often times you do it with all the people in your life and it can destruct your relationships with people you care about. you should always be easy going and fun guy to be around. the only thing that you do need to embrace from the jerk is the boundaries. woman are attracted to jerks because they don't take shit form them. that's it. they aren't a pushover. raise the standards of your self re… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?you know you're right but on the other side, it depends on what your looking for. before i had this chick i seduced two chicks in a row and it was easy and fast but with this chick it always was a challenge and you know how great i felt when i finally got what i wanted from her? damn. till the minute i put my dick in her i wasen't sure it will happen because of all the bullshit she was doing. very unpredictable bitch. thats why i enjoyed it so much )) | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?yea I wouldn't be surprised at all. in fact, i would be surprised if she isn't spinning plates.... | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?=D | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?she's not made me her bitch.. i played her just like she played me. and i dug her pussy it's what i wanted so.... you're right about the time spending in my mind thou ) | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?no man i saw the video of the proposal on facebook. it was all real as hell )) | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Is she testing or she's just crazy?I suspected many things about her.. she said she had molested as a child and her family is a mess and she did DBT and that's a therapy for BDP's so that's my conclusion.. she always does all kinds of therapies. her behavior is aligned with BDP's.. but you know how they are. sexy as hell. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 01:42 PM |
| 5 | When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down.mann those things will happen.. i lost 2 close friends since i began my process. some friends can't tolerate you're success. some friends are your friends BECAUSE you're a beta. so actually you start to discover who is who WHEN you climbing up. and i personally say fuck that because if those people were friends with me just because i was weak and easily manipulated then what kind of a relationship we had in the first fucking place? now i understand why pac said "fuck friends" because the closest… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 01:05 PM |
| 1 | When being nice guy is effective to get laiddid you? hh | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | When being a nice guy is effective.a nice guy is a term used to describe a male that being nice to a chick BECAUSE he seeks her approval, and one that afraid of rejection, but if you're doing it to draw her in, and you give a flying fuck if she rejects you then it's going to work. this is the strategy that psychopaths use to make his pray addicted to his affection. (love bombing) when love bombing comes from a high-value man then the feeling she gets is something she do wants to feel but when it comes from a low-value man that do… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 02:48 PM |
| 0 | When being a nice guy is effective.you can play the validation game if you have the ability to validate someone.. someone with a low SMV can't do that.. but the principle is true and it worked for me. if a fat and ugly chick will be nice to you then you will feel the need to get away but if a hot chick is nice to you then you feel flattered. what's wrong with that ? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | When being nice guy is effective to get laidThe difference is in the amount of self-esteem one has. that's the point. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 02:10 PM |
| -1 | When being a nice guy is effective.I invite you to explain why you think it is garbage, instead of acting as someone who is so afraid to think something fresh that he feels the need to attack the content. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:50 PM |
| 0 | When being nice guy is effective to get laidWhy? Usually, they are hot, and they are a good fuck because they want to be the best to make an impression on themselves. anyway, it's called a game for a reason, so i play. ) | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 01:24 PM |
| 0 | When being nice guy is effective to get laidIf you have nothing useful to say then stick those fingers that typed this useless negative comment up your ass, wanna be tough guy. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How females select sexual partners: the biological evidence behind The Red Pilli think that this alpha beta shit is useless.. it makes it seem like you have to be someone else when in reality the difference is in the amount of self-esteem each one has. Self-esteem you can genuinely improve and in most cases, it's not so hard. but trying to act alpha when you perceive yourself as a beta is unchangeable and gets people stuck in a loop of pretending to be someone else and eventually they become even more beta. because woman has a very accurate intuition to sense pretenders (t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Keep getting called negative by many peoplethey mean that you judge. which makes you come across as having a negative awkward vibe. work on this and instead of judging just observe. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What’s in her mind?how good her pussy possibly can be that you choosing to be her toy? get your shit together and ignore this selfish piece of cunt | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How to develop real confidence rather than episodes of ego-boost?you need to know yourself. Self-reflection. you need to go through many different situations and be aware of your feelings and then investigate why did you felt this particular way in this particular situation. when you will do this you will start to understand yourself better (connecting to yourself on a deep level) your self-esteem will go higher because you feel empathy for the ones you connect with including yourself, and courage to do more stuff and confidence is a function of how many time… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | the game is much simpler than you think.I think that a nonchalant agreement with giving a fuck about it behavior will make your chances better. but nothing is guaranteed. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 08:50 PM |
| 2 | the game is much simpler than you think.Actually, i do smoke some week here and there but this is not the solution. I did a couple of therapies to overcome my self-esteem issues. (NLP & CBT) the NLP helped but it targets things like emotional baggage from the past. it helps only partly CBT helps with the way you perceive the world. it helped A LOT. I also started to do meditation in the past month, and I started to investigate any fear that I feel, to understand the root of it. its kind of hard to explain exactly what did helped but o… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 08:47 PM |
| 0 | the game is much simpler than you think.it shrinks like that automatically... | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 02:05 PM |
| 2 | the game is much simpler than you think.it's happening to me right now. i can clearly see that this chick is fake as fuck. she got this weird idea that she wants a relationship with me but i can sense that she doesn't even like me so much even thou we fucked. she always faking a nice persona but i can sense that she is very judgy and flips from inside from time to time. i like the sex she is hot and has a good pussy but she's kind of awkward and creepy. i try to be humble and give her a chance but she is clearly afraid of showing her … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 02:02 PM |
| 8 | the game is much simpler than you think.okay, i have added a question at the end) | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | today i realized something about fear of rejection and Egoif you were living in the desert all by yourself (theoretically) would you still knew that you need to find a woman to breed with? and why there are people out there that are "naturals" and don't put so much value on rejection? are they mutants? what is the difference between us? all of the difference is in the thought processes. change your thoughts and you'll change your emotions. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 10:12 AM |
| 2 | today i realized something about fear of rejection and Egowhen i explain it to you on this forum then it is logic. but coming to those conclusions by yourself will hardwire them in the sub conscious mind. your sub conscious mind it is basically your perception of the world. when you were a little child you weren't afraid of rejection and you were not concerned about validation. at the end of the day, it's all about your perception. it's just that in many cases it is very hard to be aware of your actual beliefs about the world. it is a hard work to mast… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 12:02 AM |
| 3 | today i realized something about fear of rejection and Egoi think that the game teaches a way around the real issue. the real issue is self esteem. instead of fighting the real issue, game used in many cases as a buffer to conceal it. i am activly working on my self esteem and as i get better i am realizing that i care less and less about this shit and girls respond much better and i'm not even playing. i think that once a person is at a good healthy level of self esteem he doesn't give a damn anymore and just goes for what ever makes him feel good. i … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Why you should approach that girl. how to get rid of approach anxiety.the problem is that you STILL didn't understood what is the reason of your anxiety and why you shifted attitude when she responded. your misunderstanding actualizes itself in the fact that you basically have a low self-esteem (and you know it) that's why you feel dependent and you wanted her so much because if this perfect girl would want you then you would want you more than without her wanting you. but the problem is that this means that you dependant on her validation so, of course, you were … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/17 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Over the last 4 months, I talked to about 120 women. Here are my observations and advice on how to (mostly) overcome approach anxiety.you stuck on kino because you imagining some incident that could accure if shit will go wrong. ask yourself what is this exact thing that you afraid her to do in case she'll react negativly? then dig deeper and find out what exactly does it means about you if she'll react this way? proceed like this until you'll find a belief, something along the lines of "guys who gets rejected harshly are phatetic" if you'll thing that something is bad enough in YOUR eyes then you would absolutly resist of app… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/17 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I think the purpose of life is to giveif people would have compassion and love for themselves then they won't even need all of those rules. when compassion and self-love exist then you always coming from a position of power and abundance. so there's no need for theories and rules. most if not all the desires to bed woman stems from validation seeking so how does that reflect abundance?.. if people will realize that the only reason they even want to bed many women is validation seeking then this desire will lose its power | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADtry to criticize her personality harshly next time and see how she blows up ;) I personally think that no matter how hot she is, NPD's pussy doesn't worth it. NPD's date only people as long as they can be tools to them. so if she kept coming back it was either because you did something for her or for the validation. to play. to get her way. if you refuse to be a tool to an NPD then you have 0 value to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADheh NPD's have no self esteem at all =) look there is no such thing as NPD in reality, it's just a name. what NPD really is - someone who hates himself so deeply that he has to create a false sense of identity (false Ego) which is perfect in his own mind. because an NPD lives in a world where he is perfect, he is selfish as fuck. thats why she does bullshit because she literally can't respect your boundaries. she all ways thinks that she is more important than you. the only reason why she came b… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 04:01 PM |
| 23 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADi work with a girl and i noticed that when i come to work at a serious mood or if i feel evil then she starts to speak quietly and nicely and being shy etc. when i come to work with a happy extroverted mood then i can expect her to even say something insulting to me. and i have a friend (a guy) that sometimes for some reason i feel awkward towards him. its difficult to explain emotion but i feel kind of hate towards him when he exhibits some specific behaviors. and now i will explain why this ph… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 08:25 AM |
| 9 | How people treat you is a direct reflection of who they are...Alpha = individual that loves himself unconditionally\ doesn't judge himself for anything. (this is the source of his power) the opposite of judgment = acceptance. you can practice it by being awear of your thoughts through the day and when you judging stop yourself and think about the reason you judged. example: you see a guy acting weak. positive judgment = well' he's a good guy, I hope he will get stronger in the future. neutral judgment (observation) = acting weak, it's ineffective for game … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 10:19 AM |
| 1 | How people treat you is a direct reflection of who they are...your not right or wrong about it, if it works for you then it's the right thing FOR YOU. but you have to understand that the more complex your judgmental system will be the more negative emotions you will be able to experience and the more you will fill fear to think about yourself the things you hate about others. let's say you have no respect for pussies. and then you find yourself in a situation where you experience fear and this fear is bigger than you that specific day, and you surrender to… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 05:04 AM |
| 3 | How people treat you is a direct reflection of who they are...to practice acceptance you need to change your focus from judging to observing. why in the rational male rollo refers to the real alpha as someone with an "almost childish" world view? because he is either a psychopath (psychopaths can't differ good from bad = no judgment) or they are very social unconditioned = no judgment. so people who say that alphas are villains that is only partly true because alphas are people that are either complete villains like narcisists\ psychopaths either they are … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 04:33 AM |
| 46 | How people treat you is a direct reflection of who they are...people have masks only when they are judgemental. Everybody is judgmental to some degree but the less a person is judgemental the less they need a mask to wear. people wearing masks to conceal the traits they don't love in themselves\ to appear the opposite of the traits they are judging. but many times other people have the same traits that they do. so that's why when you find yourself judging others you basically judging them for something you hate about yourself. so if you'll stop being so ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of irrational guiltwhat about you? do you fuck other girls as well? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of irrational guiltdo you really know she's fucking other guys or you ASSUME she's fucking other guys? are you exclusive? because if not then i don't see a problem if she is. i don't think that a depressive girl has such a sex drive that she's fucking with a bunch of dudes.. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | learn everything you can about manipulationsi read the info from Quora in the comments section. actual psychopaths answered to how they manipulate people. also i googled it there's a lot of info about manipulation out there | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | learn everything you can about manipulationsif it's working for you then that's great. but I find it extremely pleasing to have the intuition knowing what is going on deep inside an interaction. I think that if you want to really lead conversations good then you need to understand what is being communicated rather than just whats being said. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | learn everything you can about manipulationsthat's true. I think that manipulation and persuasion have the same meaning it's just that when using the term manipulation it feels immoral. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | the love bombing phrasemaybe love bombing is effective when executed by a woman. now when i think about it, love bombing is the favorite method of a female to make a guy fall in love for her. i had females do this to me, and i have a friend that falls for this everytime even thou he knows what she's doing. but when a guy does this then its less effective because hot females gets love bombed by many guys so they kind of used to this and they feel that this is a weak behavior. another point - psychopaths have the strong… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | the love bombing phraseso basically if i exhibit strong behavior (have a strong frame) and i'm a good looking dude then i can love bomb her as long as i want. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 08:06 PM |
| 3 | I've been told I'm over confident and too cocky by two girls, I was fucking one of themi think that for some of them it hurts their ego so they feel threatened. especially if this girl deals with more "normal" dudes. but i know for fact that there are girls out there that even if they do find it attractive their ego isn't. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | does being arrogant is good for game?you know, your comment made me think that maybe my problem is rudeness because I know that I have no manners at all. maybe they perceive it as arrogance.. because I do not go around complimenting myself but I do curse a lot and can be nasty. mix it with a good looking buff guy and you can see why they feel uncomfortable sometimes. maybe i need to work on my "class" =)) | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 07:07 PM |
| 11 | I've been told I'm over confident and too cocky by two girls, I was fucking one of themi am good looking and using cocky and funny but I noticed that girls shit test like crazy. they do want to bring you down heavy. but to be honest, it won't work anytime... there are 2 types of girls, those who will love that and be receptive, and those who will keep shit testing and resist until the end. they have an ego war against you. i went through this with a girl on Thursday. I teased the shit out of her and escalated boldly, she shit tested me but I remained frame, I saw her eyes burning … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 09:34 AM |
| 3 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assi don't think that this girl even realizes whats going on herself. most people live in a blue pill reality, a woman is a blue pill too because they just doing them without realizing all of what we know. maybe you can share some wisdom without mentioning TRP in a mix of a conversation about relations. my point is that they don't think about this self-awareness thing because they are not aware themselves so be careful not to judge because this leads to woman hatred. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 08:25 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with subtle disrespectme personally, I would go to her and just say "I want my seat back" and stare her deep in her eyes (i found that many women lose concentration when I do this so she probably won't have some smart ass answer to try to turn shit around) that's it. and by the way, you would be sooo surprized how much of an asshole you can allow yourself to be if you remain positive vibe. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 07:40 AM |
| 1 | why do you guys want to be good at game?correct me if I'm wrong but the way I understand frame, if I am nerveous\ anxious\ etc then I'm already entering her frame. so what you're saying is basically that if I'll have the balls to screw up then I still holding frame? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | why do you guys want to be good at game?good point. but do you feel flattered to think about yourself as a womanizer? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 02:17 PM |
| 2 | why do you guys want to be good at game?my problem is that i take too little action. i have balls to do many crazy stuff but when it comes to woman i have some kind of conflict that i trying to solve. i am not a total loser i had m own successes, but i do struggle with taking action many times. my assumption is that i have my ego attached to the result, i don't know how to detach it. its emotional not logical. did you experienced what i talk about? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | about verbal gamewell, English is far from being my first language. you understood the point that's what matters ;) | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | about verbal gamewhat do you mean by "hurt to read"? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:20 PM |
| -1 | about verbal gameare you mad?.. tf is wrong with you man? i just asked a damn question )) | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | how to break familiarity without making it a big deal?well, i feel what you'r saying but still.. if she were some girl i do want something to happen with her then what is the effective thing to say? i bet that letting a girl talk to you like you her "bro" is not seductive in any way.. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | what is the best response to a woman's "bitch mode"i think a response like that would spark fire, a bitch will never admit she was a bitch.. i don't want to waste my time on some emotional bitch.. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 07:14 AM |
| 1 | what is the best response to a woman's "bitch mode"=D | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | what is the best response to a woman's "bitch mode"yea but sometimes they do it without me even trying to pick them up or something. just commenting some joke on some shit she posted for example, or another time was when i asked some chick from my class something about an exam i really meant business but she shit tested WTF hh you mean when they do that they assume i try to hit on them? =)) stupid whores | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | why am i still having trouble with woman?i don't know man.. i saw that i have those "alpha budhha moments" and i just act as whatsever and those as moments when i get the best responses. but they barely happening and when they do some fear of something that can go wrong "later on" fucks this up for me. so i have to disagree on acting like someone else.. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | why am i still having trouble with woman?i read on this forum that the same shit happens to hot babes.. they have a fucked up self esteem.. but i don't even know if i do have a low self esteem or not. im not cursing my self in my mind and i feel pretty good about myself generally its just the rejection thing. i always do have excuses come up in my mind to "why i shouldn't do it" and then i read the rationa male and found the term buffers. now i have no excuses because i know that any fucking excuse is just a thought manifested out of f… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | why am i still having trouble with woman?yea but, its hard to explain.. logically i don't giva much fuck about chicks saying no to me. when i get rejected it barely hurts. but i have a really hard time to start acting. i have a feeling that other guys don't fear rejection as i do.. in my case its like "i can't afford rejection" its a very uneffective mindset but its emotionally based i can't control it. thats why i thought about seeing a therapist. i had social anxiety a couple of months ago but now i'm getting over it slowly. i just f… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 02:54 PM |
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